NgHotGirls:
RIP Op. May your gentle soul rest in peace

Beloved3:


The ex-wife (debrief) confirmed his story is real. She was a very popular nairalander and many people knew her story back then.

Klass99:


I remember Debrief and her story like it was yesterday. Her situation was my first exposure to domestic violence in marriages.

I recall reading this thread too when it was first created. Now, I wonder where all the players in this matter are today. Did the OP make it? If yes, how is he living his life today? Did he eventually die? So many questions......

Debrief's story has always stayed with me, I wish she would pop in to just say hello and provide a brief update. Why did you deactivate? Your story was a heart breaking one but also helpful in teaching me valuable life lessons.

@ Debrief, please holla if you're still on these streets and let me know how you're doing. Expect questions about your ex too if you ever show face

Klass99:


An eye opener to what?

She may have deactivated because some people started using her story to troll and abuse her.

I hope he made it and got a second chance to amend his ways, though.

Klass99:


Abeg ehn, it is not that after reading my posts you'll start trolling me and insisting I am a feminist or one in the making like you did with another user to the point of opening a peace and reconciliation thread after you people's e-fight.

Klass99:


Abeg ehn, it is not that after reading my posts you'll start trolling me and insisting I am a feminist or one in the making like you did with another user to the point of opening a peace and reconciliation thread after you people's e-fight.

Lmao. So you know and followed.

Klass99:


Lol, I didn't follow him o! In fact we are not following each other just quoting and stumbling on each other's posts.

But I checked his Nairaland history to get a feel of him and know what he's like, when I discovered his peace keeping mission

You know nairaland people nah, all it takes to be labeled a feminist is a difference of opinion and a mind of your own.

Ishilove:
Who resurrected this old thread?

Mediator Beloved, Mummy. Na hin I just dey hail now.

Magnoliaa:


Mediator Beloved, Mummy. Na hin I just dey hail now.

lilvicky68:
Hmmm.. story never end.. abi na to help the OP complete am?

My ex wife who even though just recently had a baby is my primary care giver, her kind hearted husband allowed her move me into their guest house, My mum is also her with us, these two women i treated like trash are now the ones here with me.

pocohantas:


Nothing surprising and new in this storyline. When men are young and with some money, they think they are gods. That is when they will be locking their wives out of the house at night.

They forget that water wey hot go cold. Keep up with that lifestyle and you will definitely get sick. Not forgetting that you guys are most times older. When they now fall sick, they immediately come back to the VIRTUOUS WIFE. It would be her job to cook vegetable soup and nurse them back to good health. All the girls they practiced “men are polygamous with”, would be long gone.

Na why when I see some women wey leave their husband go stay with their pikin, I no dey too put mouth. If he didn’t sacrifice his youth for you, I wonder why you should be saddled with him when he is old.

cassyrooy:
Kaptain be calming down now, biko.

We all make mistakes, sometimes the mistakes are too enormous to cancel out whatever good we might have to offer those who love us.

pocohantas:


Doesn’t take anything off my post.

cassyrooy:
Ait Kaptain.

pocohantas:


Nah. Proud member of Team-submissive- women. You are the captain…

Beloved3:



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