Guys is it wrong to have a girl friend that is older than urself cos i have 1 that i so much love but she is not aware.pls nairalanders i need ur advice should i continue with the relationship.

pls i need a sensible reply

@poster,

Personally, i believe age is nothing but a mumber when it comes to relationship. Why dont you confess your love to the lady first and see how it goes.

If you truly care for her and the feeling is mutual, i see no barrier in having a relationship with her. Being the younger person doesnt make you less a man except you feels that way within yourself.

So, go ahead and make your intentions known to her. Best of Luck pal.

Baby Boy,it aint a sin.

cheers

@ poster its no sin and the truth of the matter is that if shes really the matured type she wud keep the relationship one good thing abt it is that they are so very very good i must tell u that the truth is that i have done it and i must tell u that it was the best relationship i ever had cos they know wen u are down and know wat to say wen u need this or that
But this yunger ones like yunger sisi them nag too much so 4 me i see no problem with that

i prefer older women, so brother, pump up ur chest, head high, get ur shit together and burst a move.

continue jo

This is the age of sugar-mommies in Nigeria so carry on!

U've done nothing wrong.

just let her in on it sometime ok, cheers

fire down! U're on the right track

I don't see anything wrong with it but i thiink it is better u let her know ur real age early enough.If she is comfortable with it,no prob but if not, i think u should let her go in peace.
Cheers n goodluck

i don't see it as an issue, after all posh is older than david. and they are married. if you can deal well with it, ride on.
not all men have the courage to do it because their so called ego won't allow them.

every body is saying noting wrong, but the question is
how far is ur age differences?
what is her body structure?
did u love her for marriage or just for friendship?

why do i ask these questions? maybe many peo here understand it as friendship and they are saying go, if its only for friendship yes go ahead but if it is for marriage make sure, the love that is existing btw is the one that can not fade, love not lust. if it is lust by the time u married her and she begging to get old, u will turn around and see young girls and be tented to cheat on her wahala don come.
but if it is hit and run no problem at all.
but for marriage real love can proof that event if she is 50yrs & u are 20yrs u can still love and care.
Gud luck

my dear, just go on. does it matter? go on. ride on. move on

Thank u all for ur advice i appreciate ur concern.

but wait a minute

@almond & Gwazah is just a 1 year difference oooooooooooo