I'm a 28 yr old grad, yet to be employed and searching for a girlfriend. not as if I'm bad looking or ugly, the problem is every girl I try to date always believe I'm a playboy, when in fact I haven't had a date since 2005 when I graduated. They tell me a guy like me should not be saying I don't have a babe, cos they believe am to cute to say that. but i have been searching for a real serious babe I could settle down with as soon as I take up employment. Pls help, my life is passing me by.

Heh. Why do you need to settle down once you get good employment?

hey! u dont get it? have the job then u'll get the girl that is ready to settle down with u. no job no serious babe, ok?

Life is not passing you by, you are the one passing life by!

If the girls you are meeting see you as play boy, that is their problem. If you are worth your look, then the right one will come when you are ready.

It is obvious they are not rejecting you due to your look or player like posture. They have made another observation that you probably don't consider as important. Even from the little you wrote, I could pick out 3 reasons why they are reluctant to date you.

In a land where thousands of ladies are quietly dying of loneliness, isn't it strange that a supposed mr perfect is singing rejection? Any rational mind know something is wrong. Check yourself.

hmmmmmmmmmmmmm i will say keep searching n prove u not actually a playa

Life is not passing you by, you are the one passing life by!

If the girls you are meeting see you as play boy, that is their problem. If you are worth your look, then the right one will come when you are ready.

It is obvious they are not rejecting you due to your look or player like posture. They have made another observation that you probably don't consider as important. Even from the little you wrote, I could pick out 3 reasons why they are reluctant to date you.

In a land where thousands of ladies are quietly dying of loneliness, isn't it strange that a supposed mr perfect is singing rejection? Any rational mind know something is wrong. Check yourself.

Check back your life style maybe some girls in school know you to be a player, just search yourself maybe u ve by mistake play on one person God is paying you back lol,
By the way don't lose Ur faith keep on trying, Personally i will put u in my prayers and in the road of searching may u not fall into the wrong hand,

Check back your life style maybe some girls in school know you to be a player, just search yourself maybe u ve by mistake play on one person God is paying you back lol,
By the way don't lose Ur faith keep on trying, Personally i will put u in my prayers and in the road of searching may u not fall into the wrong hand,

use ur strenght to find a good job, in good time u will find someone nice enuff to settle down with. probably the girls u ve been approaching are not the ones for u

no worry!

chase money first,

woman go chase u later.

trust me if u were loaded, they won't a hoot if u were a playa. get a job first and then clean up and see if they dont fall over themselves to have u.

@2dye4, true talk.

I will advice you to get a job first and see if you wont get a girlfriend. Presently, your prospects might not be too appealing to the honeyz, so dont put the cart before the horse.

get yourself a job and a life.others would authomatically fall in

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