Sagamite:

Whoo! Really?

Okay, so women are doing them a favour by being an arsse to them?

12. Break up with a guy (normally a long-term one), because you are not sure or you want the freedom to explore more, but you try and keep him as a friend FWB just in case you need to go back to him.

kandiikane: The thing is, even if you tell majority of men you're not interested and want to be friends or nyashing buddy before a date or something, they will still be behind you. In fact, this makes it worst because they'll take it as a challenge and what man doesn't like a challenge.

Sagamite:

Whoo! Really?

Okay, so women are doing them a favour by being an arsse to them?

Sagamite:

Stop playing the naive card.

I guess based on the naive card it is also good for a man not to jump ahead of himself since she has not shown her intentions. Bone her and before she wakes up, you are out the door and a text message later is a good time to let her know you don't want any strings attached, you just want a booty call. It will most likely be the first and last with the person as most girls don't like giving it up if there is no commitment in it for them.

Cutejay: My lord Guilty as charged of offense 1,3,6,7,9 of the above offenses sub-section(all) ......

Sagamite: Is there any woman that can claim she has never done any one of the above?

Sagamite: 1. Given your correct number/contact details out to a guy but refused to pick up the guy’s call or reply to messages.

2. Given a wrong number/contact details out to a guy.

3. Rude to a guy that approached you simply because you don’t fancy him, not because he did something wrong.

4. Rude to a guy that approached you simply because you wanted to use him to show off/shine in public, not because he did something wrong.

5. Ended a relationship with a guy by starting and/or consistently starting a fight to get him to break up with you or so you can break up with him by saying it is not working out.

6. Cheated on a guy.

7. Gone on a date with a guy (for which he is paying) despite the fact you know you are unlikely to date him, just to have a free day out and get out of the house to be pampered.

8. Lead a guy on despite not being interested just to boost your ego or test your worth in the market.

9. Cancelled a date on a guy at short notice without giving, or even having, a reasonable explanation to [give] him.

10. Already started taking applications (give your number out to guys you like) or lined up another suitor before breaking up with a guy.

11. Harass a guy that you want a type of relationship where you “tell each other everything and where there are no secrets” but yet you have secrets you refuse to share and hide from him after that agreement is made.

12. Break up with a guy (normally a long-term one), because you are not sure or you want the freedom to explore more, but you try and keep him as a friend just in case you need to go back to him.

Is there any woman that can claim she has never done any one of the above?

kandiikane:

Yes, really.

An azz? As in? I always tell guys when I'm not interested beforehand but if they still say let's go dinner after, that's their business.

Tgirl4real:

U are just being an agbaya.

firestar:

O ye of little faith.

Sagamite:

As long as you tell them straight and unambigiuosly that "hey, I don't fancy you and I doubt I will ever fancy you", if they still insist, then that is their problem, not your problem.

But you have to make it as clear as possible.

Tgirl4real:


Hey! That's being extremely blunt. If u are going that path, means u gonna be bruising some egos. Hmmm... For naija?

Early stages, I used to be dat blunt. I mean, I don't dig u, why give me a gift or ask to take me out and I was labeled wicked. Lol

After a while, I applied diplomacy. But when u wanna to a turn, I go very blunt.

Tgirl4real:
If na u now Saga, I won't jhesitate to tell u straight off.

Sagamite:

Well you should be blunt to a person you have already told 'No" but still insist on taking you out and you want to accpet the invite.

If you can't be that blunt, then don't accept the invite.

Then you will spend the next 2 years beating yourself up that "Oh, what have I done! What have I done! How could I be so stewpid to turn the finest man alive down!"

Sagamite:


Faith in what?

firestar:

You'd figure it out Sagamz.Like you always do.

Tgirl4real: Why dis comment now Mannylex? U will make Sagamite go on another round of naija-girl bashing.

Agrika: All except no.6

Sagamite:

This one beats me o, as many women are freely confessing that they are guilty of the things listed.

So, abeg, what faith?

I have a PhD in Womantology, I am rarely wrong on the way they behave.

firestar:

Ok, I'll help ya on this one: There's always an exception to every rule. Including this one.
The real problem is such oddities are just as rare.

Mannylex:

But what the guy said is true na. Sagamite is good at steering contoversy with his topics, but at the same time, his topics also steer's a whole lot of wisdom, realities, and makes a whole lot of sense. Except for the "person" lol

Sagamite:

Well I never even made an accusation, I asked a question that is directed individually, so I cannot be accused of generalisation.

That said, it would be virtually impossible to find a woman that has not done at least one of them. It is all about how fun power is and how it can be used when it falls in naturally selfish hands.

Tgirl4real:

I haven't done any. Shoot me.

Agrika: @ saga cos thats not how i roll

Sagamite:

You? You have done 1 to 24.

That is double what is there!

Evil woman.