Mrs.Chima:


Criteria includes and excludes roles and values.

What was your question?

queensmith: lol- i keep having to remind people, that not all men are like the billygoat husbands of Nigeria!

Mrs.Chima:
Queensmith

When talking to traditional men....you have to talk with your dick in order for them to understand your message. Sad but it is true.

Ileke-IdI:


Who said I can't cook? Like queensmith said, I can and do cook when i want to. I don't eat much, so I have no reason to cook much. As of this point, I have someone who cooks for me and who I cook for, I don't have to slave int he kitchen like some village Nigerian wife.

Can you cook? It's very distasteful of a man to grow up in a household full of women yet still lacks the basic kitchen knowledge.

sexkillz:

CAMEROONPRIDE: can you marry a man who can't please you in bed? lets say you are single /young/beautiful lady full of life and you meet two guys both are nerd in bed will you marry one of them or you will skip looking for another man?

CAMEROONPRIDE: how about the kids?

queensmith: lol- i keep having to remind people, that not all men are like the billygoat husbands of Nigeria!

Ileke-IdI:


Not 'bout on paper, can you cook in the kitchen? Does it look like food when you're done? Does it taste like food?

shymex:

How do you think I've survive the last 5 years living by myself?

I get busy in the kitchen... I just made some pasta, and beef soup.

CAMEROONPRIDE: how about the kids?

queensmith:

LOL loser!

shymex:

How do you think I've survive the last 5 years living by myself?

I get busy in the kitchen... I just made some pasta, and beef soup.

Mrs.Chima:


If I love him, yes I would and I answered your question when I stated that my husband isn't good at many things but I still married him.

It wasn't what you wanted to hear...but that's my final answer!

Ileke-IdI:


Aww ......

shymex:

You sound like you're married..

Don you think you're too young for marriage now?

queensmith:

what happened to the kids? Every body is going to have his/her role in the house. Nobody is slaving for anybody, once my kids are old enough to stand they are doing their own bit.

joeydozzy: who in thus century still takes cooking as a criteria for marriage ? last time I checked ,marriage is for companionship. like I said before, arranged marriage is still legal

Mrs.Chima:


If I love him, yes I would and I answered your question when I stated that my husband isn't good at many things but I still married him.

It wasn't what you wanted to hear...but that's my final answer!

queensmith:

what happened to the kids? Every body is going to have his/her role in the house. Nobody is slaving for anybody, once my kids are old enough to stand they are doing their own bit.

Ileke-IdI:


I'm the oldest woman on this thread.

TBH, there is no specific age for marriage, the number is subjective.

queensmith:

she asked a good question, now can or should a woman get married to a dude that is bad in bed.

My answer is, god will not allow me to see bad thing,he can be bad at life but he shouldnt be bad in bed. That wouldnt be good at all at all.

shymex:

Didn't you say you were 22, or 23?

Stop lying about your age, I'll dig out your comments two years ago where you said you were 21 - and talked about the first time you were allowed to get into a club.

Ileke-IdI:


Stalker!! Shymmex wasn't even online then. Who are you ppl for real?

Anywaz, that age was a joke. I've never been to a club o, abeg. add 25 to 21-23

CAMEROONPRIDE: you said your husband are going to look each other until the hungriest go find what to cook....i'm wondering about what the kids will do ......? will ask to 2yo boy to cook?

shymex: @Cameroonpride

Sorry for derailing your thread, but I still don't like your country..

You guys need to return the three nations' cup you stole from us..

If not for makanaki, eto, mboma, roger mila, and marc vivian foe - your country would've been the country I hate the most in the world.

queensmith:

of course not, whoever is in the mood to cook will cook, I don't actually like cooking so eventually my man will get used to it. esp the picky eating type that doesn't eat african food or spicy food or wot not wot not, its difficult adjusting to these oyibo dietary requirements.

Everything that needs doing in the house is going to be done by the both of us, i'm not taking up any duties on the mere fact that im a woman.