My ex sent me a message dat he will be celebratin his birthday with me dat i shuldn't turn him down and dat d venue will only be available if i tell him i will cum 2 d party. Should i tell him no or should i just go 2 d party. pls i need ur sincere advise

Base ur acceptance on how he became an EX!

Sijo01: Base ur acceptance on how he became an EX!

Exactly!

Sijo01: Base ur acceptance on how he became an EX!

i dnt understand

Cute bliss: i dnt understand

Why is he your ex? If he was a bastard, no need to go. If he was an ok guy then go.

Sijo01: Base ur acceptance on how he became an EX!

Gbam

Lord_Reed:

Why is he your ex? If he was a bastard, no need to go. If he was an ok guy then go.

in addition, did d relationship ends on a mutual agreement?......was it ur fault?....... was it his fault?.....ar u guys still friends?

two things are involve, he either want to show u his current girl or reconcile with u

Sijo01:

in addition, did d relationship ends on a mutual agreement?......was it ur fault?....... was it his fault?.....ar u guys still friends?

He was dating his ex i later found out wat he was doin i broke up wit him, but he kept callin me i warned him 2 stop callin me he did dat but swore dat i wil kip seein his text msgs until ystaday he sent me a text tellin me abt his bday

Doesn't sound good IMO...Ds guy has a thing for going back to his exes Honestly, think u shd leave him where he best belongs - ur past

Gloriagee: Doesn't sound good IMO...Ds guy has a thing for going back to his exes Honestly, think u shd leave him where he best belongs - ur past

gbam

op,
u sound like u still have some feelings for him.
are yu ready for the after-effect of the birthday celebration with u?....emotions could run

if u re ready, den i wish u well

Sijo01: Base ur acceptance on how he became an EX!

#Gbam well said

Konnektions146: op,
u sound like u still have some feelings for him.
are yu ready for the after-effect of the birthday celebration with u?....emotions could run

if u re ready, den i wish u well

i dnt have anytin 4 him again NB:am engagd. i was tinkin if i should go 2 d bday den i'll go with my fiance and 2 of my frnds

Cute bliss: i dnt have anytin 4 him again NB:am engagd. i was tinkin if i should go 2 d bday den i'll go with my fiance and 2 of my frnds

A good idea.

Cute bliss: i dnt have anytin 4 him again NB:am engagd. i was tinkin if i should go 2 d bday den i'll go with my fiance and 2 of my frnds

So what are u trying to acheive by going?

Ask ur fiance to make the descicion. ......shekina

Cute bliss: i dnt have anytin 4 him again NB:am engagd. i was tinkin if i should go 2 d bday den i'll go with my fiance and 2 of my frnds

If u say he's been texting u since y'all broke up and you are engaged, u have no business going for any party, What's wrong with u? Have some respect for you current partner

you are too young to bee in a relationship trust me. advice:quit those relationships and give yourself time to grow up. i doubt you can really handle a relationship in its true sense.

duality: you are too young to bee in a relationship trust me. advice:quit those relationships and give yourself time to grow up. i doubt you can really handle a relationship in its true sense.

if u dnt have anytin 2 say y dnt u jst shut up & pass

Dnt go. Period.

duality: you are too young to bee in a relationship trust me. advice:quit those relationships and give yourself time to grow up. i doubt you can really handle a relationship in its true sense.

hw did u come to a conclusion that she's too young.....do u know her in person

Sijo01:

hw did u come to a conclusion that she's too young.....do u know her in person

her thought pattern shows she is a minor. And its risky for her to be in a relationship when she can't make rational decisions. she'd easily get choked. ppl like that can have up to 10 relationships in two years. she knws I've just told her the truth which is rare on nairaland.

seriouslY gurL u dnt wana go 2 dat party. Did u tell ur fiance who he rily is 2 u? Except u wana tel me u stl gat feelns 4 him. Hw can u b kipn in touch wt ur ex wen u r engagd? Pls dnt creat trouble 4 urslf were there is non.

Cute bliss: if u dnt have anytin 2 say y dnt u jst shut up & pass

mimi cute bliss, buy the truth and sell it not.

duality:

her thought pattern shows she is a minor. And its risky for her to be in a relationship when she can't make rational decisions. she'd easily get choked. ppl like that can have up to 10 relationships in two years. she knws I've just told her the truth which is rare on nairaland.

This wins the award for the dumbest post of the day

Nawah o! Wat hv happend 2 sincere advc on nl?.
@poster_jst inform him dat ur abt ur current status,n dat ur coming wit ur bf,..dn u can go as a frnd excpt if u dnt like hs friendshp,cut him off dn

If u r engaged u shouldn't think of attending ur ex BD party except ur fiancé is aware and approve of it but I doubt if any man who is planning to marry u will allow u to go such party knowing what could happen. Na lie?

Tnx 2 evribdy 4 d advice i do appreciate

duality:

mimi cute bliss, buy the truth and sell it not.

u knw me 4rm sumwia?

Beync: If u r engaged u shouldn't think of attending ur ex BD party except ur fiancé is aware and approve of it but I doubt if any man who is planning to marry u will allow u to go such party knowing what could happen. Na lie?

na true jor i dnt have anytin 4 d guy again jst dt i dnt like disapointin pple, i told my fiance abt d guy he said we will attend d party if he's chanced dt day.

duality:

her thought pattern shows she is a minor. And its risky for her to be in a relationship when she can't make rational decisions. she'd easily get choked. ppl like that can have up to 10 relationships in two years. she knws I've just told her the truth which is rare on nairaland.

And wat ar u.......a psychologist

Cute bliss: na true jor i dnt have anytin 4 d guy again jst dt i dnt like disapointin pple, i told my fiance abt d guy[b] he said we will attend d party if he's chanced dt day.[/b]

peradventure he's nt chanced, sit ur bum bum @home!