My gal has changed her number twice...cox dos I.d.i.o.t wouldn't stop calling her nd it sting like honeybee

i dont think its necessary once there is love, understanding,and most importantly 'complete openness' about d past, i mean d past ex...s,
from both parties.

Sisi_Kill:

Whoa! Dude, only number? What about the email address??

You know what. . .one can't be too careful these days, so how allow me to suggest the following

Change number, change email, change twitter, change facebook, change linkdin, change BB Pin, Change whatsapp, change Hoookt, Move out of the country, change name (not hers but yours. . .since people can still find her if they know she is married to you), Change her face. . .like I said earlier, one can't be too careful, so changing her face eliminates her being recognized by ex suitors.

Oh, oh, while we are at it. . .Change her voice too. You know them stalkers with their "Oh baby, I will recognize your voice anywhere". . .Sick bast[i]a[/i]rds

Crapity Crap!! I just thought of something. . .what about the new people she meets once you get rid of all traces of her past? Some of them could be potential suitors/stalkers oh!! That's it. . .y'all should just pack your bags and move to a cave in the remotest city at the ends of the earth.

Ah! Now you can relax and have a Happy Married Life with your wife!!!!!!

sisi, u have just said my mind and even more. Pls, tell them. I always love ur comments. U have a unique way of expression.

it does'nt matter, it's depend on how truthful that woman is, even if her husband change her number, he can't change her ex-ones.

Its a nice idea but what about the men?

Why should women have to change their phone numbers after marriage ? What about the men ?

I think yes, she should

The thing no get mita na

U get mouth.. LOL

Why should she? All she has to do is not pick the phone call of her suitors.

Well as for me my wife will not change her no or no's after our marriage bt i will give her a condition on how she will be answering calls bco's i hate mess.

I think it all depends on the ur previous lifestyle. If u were once an xtremely outgoing person with diff types of friends most of which are accustomed to a care free or shouty kind of lifestyle, u may need to change some of those friends which ultimately man you may need to change ur phone no. But if you've always had friends that live a moderate lifestyle then u need not change ur phone no. The truth is marriage involves a change of lifestyle. For u to have a lasting marriage u must surround urself with well cultured people who have ur best interest in heart  who believe in the institution of marriage itself. unless u are in for a battle because all those people will do is to destroy your marriage.

Changing or not changing is not the answer. It is the person in the woman, if she changes the number and she still cutting shows, will you know? It is the person her.
However, communication between husbands and wives is very important as well as understanding.

[quote author=Sisi_Kill]

Whoa! Dude, only number? What about the email address??

You know what. . .one can't be too careful these days, so how allow me to suggest the following

Change number, change email, change twitter, change facebook, change linkdin, change BB Pin, Change whatsapp, change Hoookt, Move out of the country, change name (not hers but yours. . .since people can still find her if they know she is married to you), Change her face. . .like I said earlier, one can't be too careful, so changing her face eliminates her being recognized by ex suitors.

Oh, oh, while we are at it. . .Change her voice too. You know them stalkers with their "Oh baby, I will recognize your voice anywhere". . .Sick bast[i]a[/i]rds

Crapity Crap!! I just thought of something. . .what about the new people she meets once you get rid of all traces of her past? Some of them could be potential suitors/stalkers oh!! That's it. . .y'all should just pack your bags and move to a cave in the remotest city at the ends of the earth.

Ah! Now you can relax and have a Happy Married Life with your wife!!!!!! [/quote i luv your thought sha!!! but the ugly truth is that no man wants to become a hypertensive patient becos he is married and trust me the moment you loose your hubby's trust it's just a matter of time and unfortunately in our society the women always bear the brunt of failed marriages and the most stupid of the men folk will get a clean bill of health when the obvious happens...so my dear do whatever you think will make your marriage to work for the sake of humanity.

greatgod2012: i dont think its necessary once there is love, understanding,and most importantly 'complete openness' about d past, i mean d past ex...s,
from both parties.

Don't underestimate the craftiness of a women. They're as cunning as tortoise.

Dosoq: guy,if u insists she changes her no,its applicable 2 u too,cos u also av stalkers n toasters b4 u married.............d bedrock of marriage stil remains luv n trust,if she stil wan 2 cheat on u wit ur new change of numba,she wil,so wise up,n learn 2 trust

A Business line cant be changed oo

To be sincere and candid, I don't think ther's any reason why a woman should change her phone line because her husband wants her to desist from receiving ex co-suitors calls, for real, changing her mobile line doesn't change her attitudes or behaviours, if you notice your spouse to be is not worth your trust, it's better you don't go into marriage with her. And even in a long shot, changing her mobile line won't stop her from sleeping around...what if she's the one making the calls on them?

Its not necessary.

if she wish to change it . .

Yo!

Aint no rules fit for every single couple. Some people have trust issues yeah! deal with it! Does that mean they should not get married? Hell no! It all depends on the couple, we are a sum total of our past experiences and like it or not all men cannot be "goody two I cannot get jealous because I am too sure my wife would be able to place these toasters where they belong". So if you met her and you think changing her number would give you rest of mind then fine go ahead do it not that it would make any difference sha , a monkey would be a monkey either in a zoo or in Buckingham palace, if she would play you she would.

To avoid stories that cause subsidy protest biko understand your partner and do what would make your home stay together.

*sees cabal approaching



Peace out!

A woman should just have face change via surgery once she marries to please insecured men. That's your perfect solution @ OP.
Btw, men don't have ex's ? Immunity clause covers them?

Any man that want his wife to do that should lead by example, by changing his!

Honeycity: a responsible married woman should know that it total gross to entertain calls from her ex(s)or toasters unless shes sick and tired of her marriage.

. Where is this one comin 4rm?

Sisi_Kill:

Whoa! Dude, only number? What about the email address??

You know what. . .one can't be too careful these days, so how allow me to suggest the following

Change number, change email, change twitter, change facebook, change linkdin, change BB Pin, Change whatsapp, change Hoookt, Move out of the country, change name (not hers but yours. . .since people can still find her if they know she is married to you), Change her face. . .like I said earlier, one can't be too careful, so changing her face eliminates her being recognized by ex suitors.

Oh, oh, while we are at it. . .Change her voice too. You know them stalkers with their "Oh baby, I will recognize your voice anywhere". . .Sick bast[i]a[/i]rds

Crapity Crap!! I just thought of something. . .what about the new people she meets once you get rid of all traces of her past? Some of them could be potential suitors/stalkers oh!! That's it. . .y'all should just pack your bags and move to a cave in the remotest city at the ends of the earth.

Ah! Now you can relax and have a Happy Married Life with your wife!!!!!!

guy u are d bomb!

More suggestions: she shld not work, make sure she is at home 24/7. Attach an eunuch to monitor her movement. She shld tie wrapper, n always wear a mask to stop admirers.
Clowns!

It depend on the woman as some are highly committed to their union where they void any distractor but to avoid total temptation,better change her number.

Changing the phone number has nothing to do with fidelity.IF she decides to be unfaithful,changing her nos cant stop it...She can always get the nos again,and save it wit a new name! What about d nos she had memorized? JUST MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON AND REST.

Harbioollah: Am Just getting Curious about this.
Women,when they are still spinsters must have given their numbers out to some intending suitors or stalkers at that time.
I have seen a lot of broken homes all because the woman receives calls from some men and Ex-boyfriends who the husband seems not to be familiar with.
There is also this issue of longtime stalkers who may continually call,quite ignorantly,that the lady in question is married..
There is this case of my newly married neigbour. Accusations of infidelity was alleged by the husband after 3weeks because the wife started receiving love sms from a former toaster who never knew of her new marital status..
Now my question is: Should Women Change their Phone Numbers After Marriage?

if u r opportuned/priviledge 2 marry miss world wont u ask her 2 change line? d fact is we r married and nothin of such shld hapn. d best she can do is 2 get a new line n send txt with her new line 2 all her reasonable frnd.else i go para.

If there is any need for change of number due to past relationships or stalkers the woman would know and should even be the one to suggest changing her number to save her marriage. Otherwise there is no need to change number. If a woman is a wore and u buy her a new sim card today she'l still connect with her customers, the same with the man, a man who is a flirt is a flirt whether with new sim or not.

Why would anyone marry a LovePeddler in the first place??

Can't change my number for anyone or else I personally feel that I have to. The husband has to be secure and once there's trust then there shouldn't be a problem. Bottomline is marry a secure and trusting man.

Changing d women's phone no after marriage isn't d solution b/c a woman could get meaningful contact & if she changes no d business might be affected,d solution is that a married woman should know that she's no longsr a spinster and thus warn off both d exboyfriends & d intending toasters after all what is good for d goose is also good for d gander.

Since most of you ladies live terrible lives of lies and deceit when single. I highly recommend the change of number.

@OP, Am not sure u considered courtship b4 marriage. Those teething problems would av been identified during courtship. A man would av known all d ex dat kol during dis period. Besides, d gal would av told dem in clear terms dat she is into something serious. She doesnt need their kols anymore men. Bottomline is, know ur spouse b4 marriage.