hegokillme: [s]Well i have not made a thread in a long time,and a few weeks ago i was having a conversation with my friend who told me it is not good to date a guy who is broke.I for one agree with them.Anyways i would give you the reason why that my friends gave me.

when looking for a mate a women must look for love, security,and stability.Believe it or not you do need money in order to survive.Dating a broke man will bring you many baggage and will hold you back.Sooner or later you will be the women who is doing all the work, because he would not be a man ,and would want you to support him and take care of him just like his mother.You are the girlfriend not his mother, his job is too "impress" you and to show u he will be a good provider for your future family. while our job as women is to show we are good nurturers.
Money is not everything but it does help aid love.Ladies, he will never buy you anything to show you how special you are to him,because he is broke.

Broke men can't help but mooch off women and Be irresponsible with his money and your money.A real man would focus on fixing himself emotionally and financially before even thinking of dating,or looking for a wife to be.Also since they are having serious financial issues they wouldn't be as confident and would probably be insecure and more possessive towards you.

At the end of the day u will not benefit anything from him but a good lesson of why you should not date a broke guy.

I am open for opinions ,but i made my argument and i agree with it.

Be happy to tell me what benefits a lady gets from dating a broke guy.

and by dating i mean from the STARTing when u just met and the guy is struggling and broke, would you date him?[/s]

hegokillme: Well i have not made a thread in a long time,and a few weeks ago i was having a conversation with my friend who told me it is not good to date a guy who is broke.I for one agree with them.Anyways i would give you the reason why that my friends gave me.

when looking for a mate a women must look for love, security,and stability.Believe it or not you do need money in order to survive.Dating a broke man will bring you many baggage and will hold you back.Sooner or later you will be the women who is doing all the work, because he would not be a man ,and would want you to support him and take care of him just like his mother.You are the girlfriend not his mother, his job is too "impress" you and to show u he will be a good provider for your future family. while our job as women is to show we are good nurturers.
Money is not everything but it does help aid love.Ladies, he will never buy you anything to show you how special you are to him,because he is broke.

Broke men can't help but mooch off women and Be irresponsible with his money and your money.A real man would focus on fixing himself emotionally and financially before even thinking of dating,or looking for a wife to be.Also since they are having serious financial issues they wouldn't be as confident and would probably be insecure and more possessive towards you.

At the end of the day u will not benefit anything from him but a good lesson of why you should not date a broke guy.

I am open for opinions ,but i made my argument and i agree with it.

Be happy to tell me what benefits a lady gets from dating a broke guy.

and by dating i mean from the STARTing when u just met and the guy is struggling and broke, would you date him?

first_lady: @poster, u are on d right track.
most of our guz are very lazy and stupid. Alwaz talking about the future which never comes.
As for me, i cant spend my "kobo" ON any guy, i dont even ask him to give me money cos am SELF MADE
So, I cant waste my time with a broke guy

sexkillz:
Blah blah discombobulated blah!. . . But you would expect a man to date a beautiful broke lady, right?
You would also expect a man to date you in your pathetic state of broke arsedness?


Unadulterated Nonsense!

Yield: I wouldn't turn a guy down just because he doesn't have money. BUT, whether I would give someone (in a situation like this) a chance would depend on what he's doing to help himself. If he's ambitious and trying to make things better for himself, even if he has to start from a job beneath his skill level until he finds a better one - just to make ends meet for himself, I would respect that and would give him a chance. How could I turn down someone who is at least trying? He may not have much today, but tomorrow's still yet to come. On the other hand, if he just wants to sit idle or thinks he's too proud to work any job that comes his way, then No. I would admire someone who doesn't let his circumstances get the best of him, hasn't lost his determination to go after his goals and is [i]trying [/i]to make things better.

krnl:

You obviously haven't heard about this creature called WOMEN

betterbest:

I love you.....your brain is working

bonnez: (Reads post a̶̲̥̅̊
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A word is enough for the wise.

horny4u: A broke man with a map= yes
A working man with no map= no

Working as a KFC food server as a means to pay for medical school or professional exams can make a man broke but he has a map...He is going somewhere.

Working as a KFC food server for more than 5 years , no school, no nothing nothing is a poor man in the making and a big NO NO!

michelin89: Broke = Complaints!

and i don't like complaints!

horny4u: A broke man with a map= yes
A working man with no map= no

Working as a KFC food server as a means to pay for medical school or professional exams can make a man broke but he has a map...He is going somewhere.

Working as a KFC food server for more than 5 years , no school, no nothing nothing is a poor man in the making and a big NO NO!

Nadoson: Wot of if u rily luv him(mr A) wit all ur heart & reject him 4 anoda man(mr B) u tink dat is beta of him finacialy 2day & 2moro he(mr A) bcoms RICH, & d man(mr B) bcom bankdrupt, wud u lik 2 go bak 2 (mr A) 2 apologiz cos he is no longa broke?

Mynd_44: ^^
That is the most confusing post I have seen on NL

No disrespect,but the logic behind the post is similar to "if A has N5 and takes out N2, how much does A have left??

horny4u: A broke man with a map= yes
A working man with no map= no

Working as a KFC food server as a means to pay for medical school or professional exams can make a man broke but he has a map...He is going somewhere.

Working as a KFC food server for more than 5 years , no school, no nothing nothing is a poor man in the making and a big NO NO!

Skii:



No disrespect,but the logic behind the post is similar to "if A has N5 and takes out N2, how much does A have left??