It's a normal thing for a girl to believe that once she's attractive or by enhancing her looks with enough make-up, nice dress, correct hair style, lovely shoes or designer hand bags she's good enough for any man. Good enough to be seen as a wifey material. For where! If na so, then all the beautiful single girls you see everyday, wont be walking up and down single and desperately looking for husband or eager to get married. Many of them are still single because of their bad character. For every man wants a good woman for a wife. Guys can date fine fine girls, but wont marry any girl that lack good character. that's why most times, whenever a man wants to settle down, he looks for a good girl to marry, despite the fact that he might have some girlfriends. But he may not want to marry any of his girlfriends but would rather go elsewhere and look for a good girl to marry. this is normal with most men. they date and 'chop' enough fine girls but when settling down, they start looking for good girls to marry. Cos to them, it's not beauty but character that defines a woman. Beauty do fade with time, but character is permanent. this most ladies funny enough dont realize. they spend so much on their looks, forgetting to work on their character or develop good attitude. which is what most men look out for when looking for a wife. So my dear, if you know your character is not good. please try and work on it. all these make-up, lipstick or expensive perfume and designer clothes and shoes wont guarantee you a husband. It would attract men quite alright and they would glady 'eat' from you, only to dump you later when looking for a woman to marry. A boyfriend/lover or sugar daddy is not the same thing as a husband/suitor. And dont mind those single girls that keep saying they have enough men on their case (as in toasters or suitors). They are only forming just to defend their single status...Chikena!