1. Do you believe in the law of attraction?
2. Does it play any role in attracting one's partner.
3. Do we really attract what we desire?
4. Do we have ourselves to blame if things go wrong in our r/ship since we are subject to the immutable law of attraction?
Let's elucidiate, discuss, enlighten ourselves.

Perhaps when r/ship fails, we need to realise that it's not due to the fault of either party. But they were attracted to each other so that they might learn and grow.

I tend to attract guys who're very similar to me, personality-wise. It has always been like that for me, so I do believe in it when it comes to attracting men. And it's not like I actively seek out men similar to me, it just happens. In terms of friendships, it's the same way. My best friendships have been with like-minded folks. My closest friend in high school was an extremely shy and introverted Polish girl. I was [and I am] shy and introverted [two side-by-side traits I would not wish on anyone], so we jived pretty well. In the 12th grade we found out we had the exact personality type on a class trip. We had to take a test and there were three of us in the class with the type: her and I, and another female student. Our birthdays are also a day apart, so it wasn't a surprise that we were alike. I thought I was the shyest person in the universe, until I met her. She was a lot more shy than I. You would think being 5'9 and absolutely stunning would make her confident, but she was a case. I remember we had to do a presentation for my Biology class and she didn't do hers because she feared public speaking. She actually didn't even come to class that day; her and our guy friend ...who was also shy, lol. I summoned the courage the do mine, which's another story in itself. But with the LOA, believing isn't enough. A lot of times you do have to act on it, especially when it comes to personal goals.

OP, have you read or watched "The Secret" by any chance?

Attraction is 4 all(plant,animal.whateva).
Wen u cant atrract wat u want;den ur nt worth living.

Princeparix: Attraction is 4 all(plant,animal.whateva).
Wen u cant atrract wat u want;den ur nt worth living.

am not dat much interested in the LAWS OF ATTRACTION but THE MODE OF ATTRACTION

Yield: I tend to attract guys who're very similar to me, personality-wise. It has always been like that for me, so I do believe in it when it comes to attracting men. And it's not like I actively seek out men similar to me, it just happens. In terms of friendships, it's the same way. My best friendships have been with like-minded folks. My closest friend in high school was an extremely shy and introverted Polish girl. I was [and I am] shy and introverted [two side-by-side traits I would not wish on anyone], so we jived pretty well. In the 12th grade we found out we had the exact personality type on a class trip. We had to take a test and there were three of us in the class with the type: her and I, and another female student. Our birthdays are also a day apart, so it wasn't a surprise that we were alike. I thought I was the shyest person in the universe, until I met her. She was a lot more shy than I. You would think being 5'9 and absolutely stunning would make her confident, but she was a case. I remember we had to do a presentation for my Biology class and she didn't do hers because she feared public speaking. She actually didn't even come to class that day; her and our guy friend ...who was also shy, lol. I summoned the courage the do mine, which's another story in itself. But with the LOA, believing isn't enough. A lot of times you do have to act on it, especially when it comes to personal goals.

OP, have you read or watched "The Secret" by any chance?

Yes, watched the movies, read the book.

Sometimes, law of attraction can work by attracting to us what is complimentary, which seems like opposite to us.
For instance, unlike poles attract. Thus, making a single pole, that is one sided become complete by having two sides.