There is this girl that we have known each other for a long time. We became close friends, but not a dating relationship. Although when she was in secondary school I coached her to pass her WAEC and JAMB. When she also got admission into poly, I do help her in some of her assignments and also assisted her when she was writing her project. I did all these with a free mind b'cos I did not love her and I don't want to b in any relationship wit her. When she got a banking job, she started asking me for my plans about settling down but I do change d topic. She has been coming to my house all this while. She will say that she just come to rest and she will nt want to live if I did nt say "I am going out". Of a recent, she started iniating some foul plays which can lead to romance but I do ignore her. Now, yesterday she came, and relaxed for some times. We were discussing and she wanted to touch my cheek but I pushed her and she started saying my head, my head and so on. So I moved closer to carry her on the rug and to say am sorry but she grabbed my head and kissing and romancing started. After the scene, she xpected me to say I love her and probably propose to her but I did nt do any of these b'cos I don't love her and I want to b faithful to my God and my fiancèe. I want to tell her that I don't love her and I don't want to date her without causing her any injury. Please, hnw do I say this?

the way wrote it here.....kukuma call her, sit her down and tell her you are engaged.Don't keep quiet.I believe she will understand.


Gud luck

HOTCASSY: the way wrote it here.....kukuma call her, sit her down and tell her you are engaged.Don't keep quiet.I believe she will understand.


Gud luck

Thanks

I used to think things like these only happen in movies.Put your feet on the floor and be as firm as possible in letting her know you are not interested.If she fails to catch that,then avoid her by all means,that will get the job done.

Am speechless

anelkachev: I used to think things like these only happen in movies.Put your feet on the floor and be as firm as possible in letting her know you are not interested.If she fails to catch that,then avoid her by all means,that will get the job done.

Thanks for d advice

Please ooo, I need more words of advice from fellow members.

Spray pepper spray when next she comes to your house.

seedord247: Spray pepper spray when next she comes to your house.

Seeeedord! That hurT

seedord247: Spray pepper spray when next she comes to your house.

This is not a good advice, It sucks.

HOTCASSY: the way wrote it here.....kukuma call her, sit her down and tell her you are engaged.Don't keep quiet.I believe she will understand.


Gud luck

SMDH

You don't need any advice, what you need is the will to act, and no one can give it to you but you.

Funny you only talked about your fiancées part in the last few lines.

And what scene occurred after the kissing, Se.x? If it's what I'm thinking, then you messed up real bad.

Now the deed's been done, just tell her you're already involved with someone else and can't have a relationship with her.

Except ofcourse there's something you're not telling us.

U na badt guy.

Timijo: There is this girl that we have known each other for a long time. We became close friends, but not a dating relationship. Although when she was in secondary school I coached her to pass her WAEC and JAMB. When she also got admission into poly, I do help her in some of her assignments and also assisted her when she was writing her project. I did all these with a free mind b'cos I did not love her and I don't want to b in any relationship wit her. When she got a banking job, she started asking me for my plans about settling down but I do change d topic. She has been coming to my house all this while. She will say that she just come to rest and she will nt want to live if I did nt say "I am going out". Of a recent, she started iniating some foul plays which can lead to romance but I do ignore her. Now, yesterday she came, and relaxed for some times. We were discussing and she wanted to touch my cheek but I pushed her and she started saying my head, my head and so on. So I moved closer to carry her on the rug and to say am sorry but she grabbed my head and kissing and romancing started. After the scene, she xpected me to say I love her and probably propose to her but I did nt do any of these b'cos I don't love her and I want to b faithful to my God and my fiancèe. I want to tell her that I don't love her and I don't want to date her without causing her any injury. Please, hnw do I say this?

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Short and simple.. GUY, YOU'RE A GAY!!!!!!!! Go and confirm.

Amya: Funny you only talked about your fiancées part in the last few lines.

And what scene occurred after the kissing, Se.x? If it's what I'm thinking, then you messed up real bad.

Now the deed's been done, just tell her you're already involved with someone else and can't have a relationship with her.

Except ofcourse there's something you're not telling us.

No, there was no sex invole after the romance because I don't want to cheat on my fiancèe. She has cald to day but I refused to pick her cal..

D-Explorer:


Short and simple.. GUY, YOU'RE A GAY!!!!!!!! Go and confirm.

Y did u say wat u dont knw? God forbid! I am nt a gay and I cn never b. I am just a discipline individual who dislyk cheating and messing around.

Csami: U na badt guy.

It is nt wat u think

Op

U must be a jew man don't u know dat opportunity like dis dat come alwayz

Ok give me her fone nos let me finish d package 4 u

If 20 of you exist in a small town, girls for die of hunger.

Timijo: It is nt wat u think

oya make me think otherwise.

When she kissed you, did you kiss her back? Dude you have already cheated on your fiance. What you should have done is to tell her before she started the kissing thing. Its not too late to do so now too

ITbomb: If 20 of you exist in a small town, girls for die of hunger.

U funny o

M M M: Op

U must be a jew man don't u know dat opportunity like dis dat come alwayz

Ok give me her fone nos let me finish d package 4 u

Oya take am 080555666 u can complete it

I have taken the step that broke the camel's back. Thank God, am free from the web at last.

Mynd_44: When she kissed you, did you kiss her back? Dude you have already cheated on your fiance. What you should have done is to tell her before she started the kissing thing. Its not too late to do so now too

Agree. But, it must not b repeated again.

I don't need a soothsayer to know ur story is cooked. A Very fake one.

Don't worry your head just Send her 2 me Madingo would do all d talking

Closing tym

so, did you sort yourself out?

not sure you're ready to marry though.

HOTCASSY: the way wrote it here.....kukuma call her, sit her down and tell her you are engaged.Don't keep quiet.I believe she will understand.


Gud luck

I laff.... U been friends with a girl from jamb till working time aπϑ she didn't know ur engaged? Abegii

u shld av laid it straight from day one.y wait till now b4 letting her know