toluxa1: Greaaaat Nairalanders! Abeg, I just won. . . . alright, lemme say this right I want to know your most annoying Nairalander here. Someone who pisses you off the most and for what reason. For me its 190. Not like we have both gone into any sought of crash or argumentss, or fight, but he can just be soooo pathetic most especally in his response to posts. He is mostly about the first three people to comment on every new thread, (wonder if he has a job) and most of all he just says crap! Even on serious topical issues, his comments don't help a bit, always (to me) not making any sense at all. His customary use of red text color isnt such a bad idea, just he now makes me to skip every red colored reply I see on a thread without even first bothering to check if its Him or not.
So lets know, who is your most annoying Nairalander.
Orikinla: I have seen many ignorant people assume that girls like bad guys. But the truth is only bad girls go gaga over bad guys out of immaturity and insecurity.
Many of the girls who pretend to be good girls are bad. Just tempt them first.
And many of the so called nice guys turn to bad guys sooner or later.
Now let me ask you.
Would you be dumb to let her use you to spite her boyfriend?
A young woman who is in her late 20s is in a steady relationship with a nice guy she introduced to you. But behind him, she has been doing her best to tempt you to date her. And often disrespects her boyfriend in your presence and her foolish attitude to impress you that she could dump him anytime. But you refuse to play her game. Then she meets a prettier and sexier girl with you and gets irritated and stops greeting you. You simply ignore her and later she tries to continue to lure you into a relationship. Would you go ahead and slam her or totally ignore her, because you don’t want her to use you to cheat on her boyfriend? Many girls and ladies are like this particular girl.
I have seen them even deny their boyfriends when meeting other guys, but later return to be banged severely by their guys after flirting or cheating.
A Lagos big girl in Ikoyi had a regular guy who did his best for her, but she went after another guy who just banged her and later dumped her. She began a whispering campaign to make him regret his action, but when it failed she hurriedly returned to the regular guy and agreed to marry him. One very pretty Nigerian babe told me she always cheated on her boyfriend whenever they quarreled. They have agreed to marry, but I felt bad when I discovered that he is even my kinsman.
As much as I want our guys to respect and be faithful to our girls, but sometimes I don’t blame our guys for taking advantage of them, because majority of our girls behave like confused sheep that they do not know where to graze. Many of them say they are in search of greener pastures, but in most cases they end up eating rotten grass.
evil guys are attracted to innnocent sweet girls ,who get screwed over by jerks and turn into mean girls
Kgdavid: self explanatory, im a little busy now so excuse the hasty and probably ill composed writing.
1. mood swings, very annoying and irritating, 2. menstruation and pregnancy, very nasty stuff! 3. the desire to dominate and have their way always 4. always expecting a man to perform the function of a bank 5. crying!!!! 6. why women feel the need to be Unclad around their friends 7. being rude to guys who ask em out, we guys have no choice but to try, we're taking a risk here at least be nice when you say no 8. why are men expected to face grave danger ahead of women? are our lives worth less than theirs? 9. female bosses 10. gossiping!!
the only reason why we are rude is because guys call us cheap if we give our number to them right away.
Dondav: Hey nairalanders, my girl whom i thought loved me because i'm handsome said that i am not handsome at all, but she loves me that way! Now, that pops d question: How must you look to be handsome? Cos i thought i was. Must i look like @sexkillz or @190 ?
lefulefu: I have an arab friend who is saudi and he wants a nigerian girl as a date who could possibly end up as his third wife if she"s nice and romantic.He"s very rich and works in one of these big multi million dollar oil companies in saudi arabia.he"s currently having a vacaction in the uk and he wants an african girl and prefarably a nigerian girl as a date.Such a girl must be very light skinned with a figure 8 and she must not be too fat.she also must have a good command of the english language.if u are interested u can contact me and i assure u that you wont be disappointed
A arab man will NEVER marry a black person no matter how light.
he just wants a slave, i think it`s forbidden to marry a black in saudi arabia, she will probably be a cucubine
avoid this guy at all cost don`t even look back ,he is bad news
block him too ,he will hurt you and bring you hell, you must understand i was once in your situtation, the only thing is i was new to this boy meets girl world, i didn`t knw boys had a big sex drive, i always thought it was just rapist , plus i didn`t believe i was attractive enough to sleep with at that moment since i was in sweats, so i allowed him in my room. we even did the samething as you guys did ,but i gave him a bj,because he pressured me.
and now i regret it, i am also in hiding.
so i say leave this boy he will rape you,since u didn`t give it up to him. He will probably be the death of you if u are not lucky.
but please both of us are lucky you and me, God gave us both the chance to run ,before these creeps do anymore harm to us.
deniyor: ^ Please tell them. It's getting sickening to hear guys whine and whine about their women not showing love, talking about other dudes, begging their ladies for love. So pathetic.
EuroMeko: I take issue with a few points you raised and I will address them one by one.
Let's start with this, at a mere 19 years age the last thing on your mind should be marriage, IMHO. Do you have a career established or a business? How are you going to hold your own in the families financial growth? These are serious and not off the cuff questions.
(1) A wild generalization though you did not use the work ALL. As a Nigerian Male, not claiming to speak for ALL Nigerian males, but I prefer someone in my age group that looks much longer for her age. So a 35 year old Woman that has taken care of her body and looks like a 19 year old is the ideal mate for me. I think you might be confusing youthfulness with calendar age. This is not unique to Nigerian Men by the way.
(2) A Man is only as faithful as his options. Not all 18 year olds a naive, I've met some highly intellectual 18 year olds and some dumb as a rock 40 year olds.
(3) Yes we do. It's not illegal. I take offense at the last sentence though. So you are basically changing your position as long as you get some monetary benefit/value out of it? You're trading your ideals for money. So a Man is a manwhore if he dates someone 10 years younger but you're Miss Princess if you date a 29 year old as long as he's paying your school fees. Okay I get it.
(4) Not sure about that. But I will tell you this, you need to expand your dating circle.
(5) Well maybe they're trying to get their voices heard above the okadas and maruwas lol
Listen, My 1st Ex Wife is an American, my 2nd Ex Wife is a Briton, there is nothing holding you down to only marry your race. Go forth, Girl, date internationally, enjoy your youth.
Stop thinking about marriage until you're in your early 30's.
i understand and okay.
BOUT THE Value and ideal thing, ppl will change for money.
alosiby92: so true, I feel the same way, not so much about nairaland but more about Nigerian men. I have also learnt that: 1) Nairaland is not a dating site, but some people claim it is and try use it to hook up otherwise. 2) It may just be me but Nigerian men seem to be vulgar with language and expect too much from their female counterparts, when they are not talking about nyashing and the likes. 3) there are some sound minded guys but not the ones that comment too frequently on forums 4) fact: white guys do tend to be better looking and more romantic than your average 9ja brother.I'm tempted to start looking beyond the borders 5) yes, they do yell alot. 6) whats with the agbaya age difference? why must u be soooooooo many years older than me? 7) they epect perfect looking babes with flat tummies but are FAR from the description in general. I'm fully nigerian, but brought up elsewhere so the above are my sentiments and have somewhat put me off nigerian men for now.
Now i am more obsessed more than ever with marriage ever since i came to this site,but at the same time i am thinking of marrying a non nigerians now.
1.Nigerian men love 15-16 year olds
2.Nigerians man will dump you for a naive 18 year old
3. they expect you to be ten years younger then them( like eww i am 19 now, i don`t think i would want to date a 29-31 year old, he wouldn`t want to have any fun)unless he pays my school fees for me,and buys me anything i want.
4.you must submit to them even before your own babies.
5. they yell a lot.
seeing this all i have to say is thank god i am only half Nigerian.Also that nigerian men are not the only men in the world.
tenderheart!!!: I've been a member of ds forum 4 a very long tym, m mur of a reader dan a poster nd d romance section is my favourite,
As regards d topic I chose, It's my personal xperience nd it happened to a friend also, I cnt start blowing my trumpet but seriously I'm a ghud guy, cute nd brainy, I recently turned 20 nd feel in love 4 d very 1st tym wt a girl I really luv, I loved evrytin about her, U know when U always wanna make sum1 happy, U dnt disturb her, U dnt stalk her around, U buy her gift, neva evn asked her 4 a kiss let alone thinking of 4nicating wt her, U sees her as your younger sis nd U're hoping things works out btw U both, U're luking so deep in2 d future, U hide nuffin 4rm her, nt evn your fb account details, U both av d same mind set nd she claims to love U also, U see lyk 1ns or 2ce in 2 weeks evn tho U're in d same college, as a gud guy, all U want 4rm her is real love nd companionship, U dnt flirt around wt oda girls cos U really do luv nd respect her but then She always make U feel insecure About 5 months or so in2 d relationship, she wakes up one day nd tells U she afraid what U both are doing is not fornication but could mean immorality nd dt Shez heaven conscious nd dt U shld pls, just b normal friends, wat nonsense!!! Ds is a person who knows U too well, sum1 who hasn't asked U 4 evn a kiss or a hug, so, where does d immorality come in Now my heart is broken 4 d 1st tym nd as it is now, I'm soooo afraid to ask any oda gel out, I feel so lonely nd cheated( a guy nd not a girl) isn't dt strange What do I do nairalanders, m trying hard to 4get her, deleted all her pictures, msges, deleted her 4rm my fb list nd avnt talked to her in lyk 2 weeks now but @ tyms, contrary to my wish tho, I still go to check ha fb profile, it's really hurting to know dt, she really doesn't care about me, I think I dnt deserve such treatment, not a guy like me, ffin 4rm her, nt evn your fb account details, U both av d same mind set nd she claims to love U also, U see lyk 1ns or 2ce in 2 weeks evn tho U're in d same college, as a gud guy, all U want 4rm her is real love nd companionship, U dnt flirt around wt oda girls cos U really do luv nd respect her but then She always make U feel insecure About 5 months or so in2 d relationship, she wakes up one day nd tells U she afraid what U both are doing is not fornication but could mean immorality nd dt Shez heaven conscious nd dt U shld pls, just b normal friends, wat nonsense!!! Ds is a person who knows U too well, sum1 who hasn't asked U 4 evn a kiss or a hug, so, where does d immorality come in Now my heart is broken 4 d 1st tym nd as it is now, I'm soooo afraid to ask any oda gel out, I feel so lonely nd cheated( a guy nd not a girl) isn't dt strange What do I do nairalanders, m trying hard to 4get her, deleted all her pictures, msges, deleted her 4rm my fb list nd avnt talked to her in lyk 2 weeks now but @ tyms, contrary to my wish tho, I still go to check ha fb profile, it's really hurting to know dt, she really doesn't care about me, I think I dnt deserve such treatment, not a guy like me,
omg lets have a group hug, i was the same way too but i dumped him. but i went on his facebook everyday
Goldieluks: I know the fool would mention my name, take time to watch the video and see whta your Edo and Benin brothers, are doing to your Benin sister,over there in Italy.
Nairaland General › Re: Most Annoying Nairalander And Why? by 9jafetish(f): 3:15am On Aug 16, 2011
I want to know your most annoying Nairalander here. Someone who pisses you off the most and for what reason. For me its 190. Not like we have both gone into any sought of crash or argumentss, or fight, but he can just be soooo pathetic most especally in his response to posts. He is mostly about the first three people to comment on every new thread, (wonder if he has a job) and most of all he just says crap! 
Even on serious topical issues, his comments don't help a bit, always (to me) not making any sense at all. His customary use of 
