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oh my nigerian men, i advice you to run as far away from him as you can. all he wants is sex from you,he wants a sex body

[quote author=Mynd_44 link=topic=727283.msg8865533#msg8865533 date=1312595206]^^^
your words. But they are true[/quote]lol you seem to be very hurt by this thread,

i guess your the ugly one of your crew

[quote author=Natasha,, link=topic=727283.msg8863926#msg8863926 date=1312573491]jeez how can you just say the word ugly comfortably for a close friend? you say you're being sincere really? all I know is every girl has a man good looking guys most times don't even end up with pretty girls and vice versa, it has nothing to do with ugliness or not good looking my sis has a girl friend who is very pretty has nice body and all that but guys never ever turn her way i mean never so you see its not about ugliness or what ever , She should be patient there are guys who are ready to fight for her, she hasn't met them yet, don't ever go to her and tell her she's ugly cos you're not better your self and I know for sure that there are people who don't look as good as she does and they still have boyfriends. [/quote]i understand and i never call her ugly to her face, i always say she's pretty

Tsun:
I won't be surprise if your so called "ugly friend" gets married before you.
RUBBISH !! this is no topic at all.

I wish her the best.

i will be very happy for her if she does. i will not be worried anymore
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SAFO:
Not horrible just being real.

Stop acting like there are no ugly people in the world LOL

i know these ppl are so fake, trying to act like the good ones.if they saw my frd they would of felt the same way i did.

Nayah:
Safo the point is as a friend normally saying this kind of thing is quite rare, isn't it? could you tell a real friend he or she's ugly? try to understand we all know that they are some average people but come on your friend how come you emphasize on "she's too ugly"?

that's because most people are pretty and decent looking, my frd isn't

claremont:
I strongly believe that may be the case!
The onus rests on the OP to post pictures of herself and her friend on here, so we can make an objective assessment of the degree of ugliness. As it stands now, the OP seems to be economical with the truth!

lol i wouldn't dare post my frds pic , she's nigerian tooo, she probably has an account on here

kaposky:
Tell her to dress neat and smartly always.

She should build her character and develop her potentials. She should be excited about her person always

and learn to interact with people in a good command of English not  '' i come i go,dey come say kind''

Use a  good perfume or body spray with roll on every time.

She should look out for the needs of other people that come to her and meet the needs.

Apply neomedrol or any of those stuffs to clear her facial disorders and maintain good hygiene.

I bet you,responsible guys that she never thought will say hello will come fast.

men are easily attracted to some of these things i shared with good character and behaviour in ladies other than their uglyness,though not in all cases.

but share the tips i stated here to her and she will come to you to say thank you,they are all around me now.

cheers

thank you very much i will tell her. i will make she goes shopping with me

toba:
DK u couldn't have said in better. There's something strange about the OP.

She started a thread not long ago that her ex boy friend put juju on her and therefore she cant get another man

All of a sudden and few days later, she said her boy friend was choking her each time the dude demands for sucking.

Now she came up with the idea that a friend is ugly bla bla bla.

Wtf does she want us to believe about Her?

SMDH

toba you creepy stalker, those are threads about my boy problems and i only said my bf put juju on me ,is because i was terrified and in panic. also that sexual life is for another thread.



don't be jealous because my life is more interesting than yours.


today i just wanted to be nice and help my frd i wasn't trying to be mean

Orikinla:
I hissed at many of the ignorant replies.

Majority of black people have flat noses with flared nostrils and that is why the white people called them monkeys and apes.

Only silly and ignorant people use white Caucasian standards of beauty to judge Blacks, Asians or Indians.

Lest we forget, it takes more than a pretty face to judge beauty.

This black inferiority complex drove the late Michael Jackson and many other blacks to use plastic or cosmetic surgery to make their faces Caucasian.

Hello Poster, if your so called ugly friend has a sexy figure that would be enough for her.

i didn't say flat i said super flat , most blacks have button nose , not gorilla noses you racist and everyone has flared nostrils, just hers is huge a flie can flie in there. not many ppl have tht.

omg all of you are being mean , i was just trying to help my close frd, i am a good frd if i didn't care about her i wouldn't of made this thread.plus all of you hypocrits have to see her to know what i am saying , most of you will probably throw up, or start having night mares because of it. it just a face you have to get use too.

oh yeah and if she finds her man to be i will be very happy for her.

and to all the ppl tht gave me advice thank you so much for understanding, at least you guys are honest

I am in no means a cruel person it' just that i just happen to be an honest person.The first time i met my friend i thougt she was the most hideous girl in the world, i use to hang around her to make myself feel better ,but then i got use to her and started to really like her personality.The thing is now we both have grown up and we are both looking for husbands to be and boyfriends for fun, already i have found four for myself ,my other girlfriends find it easy to find lovers and guy friends too.

While this is happening my not so good looking friend is wondering why she never gets any guys, i want to tell her it's because she has a lot of acne on her face and she has big flared nostrils, super flat nose, and she kinda looks like a guy.

but the thing is i don't have the courage to tell her that, so i lie to her and tell her that guys are scared of her because she's so pretty,maybe you should smile more so they can approach you.
i wish i could show you guys photos, so that you know i am not being a mean person i am just being honest,at the same time i don't want her to know i was talking about her so i can't, even my church going parents implied she was very ugly.


Anyways let me get to the point she constantly asks me to hook her up with a guy,but she's too ugly, so what can i say or do so she can find her own bf and stop asking me.

only in nairaland

but this is why i will never marry a nigerian man, they are all cheaters

tbh i can't rate but i willl advices you to wear more make up and smile.

plus i don't think that's the best picture of you

ghanaian guys are better than nigerian men

my boyfriend is from ghana and i would totally take a bullet for him

lol i would never do tht for a nigerian guy, i would use him to shield me

Steadyangel:
i am a girl, aged 20 years, the first child in the family of 5 childern, my parents struggle to make ends meet. i gained admission into one of the higher istitution in Nigeria @ the age of of 17. dispite all my endovours the burden was too much for my parents i had no other way than to assist my parent, i had a painful experience on the line that i dont like sharing with people, until wen i started having an affair with my lectuer in school, this man help me, my sisters n brothers, parents,cousins. in the campus i am on top becos i ve n use things my mates dont have, wen i complain to my friends they tell me to carry on that some people are envious of my position that it does not mean.
but for me i always feel conscience guilty each time i remember that i am having an affair with a married man who has a home, wife n kid. but i have no other option than to continue in the affair. he has reduced the stress in my home and it is difficult for me to quit each time i remember the assistance .
but my conscience is not at peace. my ppl knw him but dont knw i am having an affair with him. he gave me money to give to my sisters for their exams.
i knw of a girl dat i met in one of the higher institution i visited during ther SUG week, she came from poor background, she took me to the government house of the state were i say n dined with the governor of the state who she say was her guy, the man helped the girl to complete her education n her family elevated.
i dnt like cn my family suffer and i cannot play d dirty game because my conscience will not allow me to do so.
even right now in my suitation i pity the wife n the little kid,because i am using their instrument without taking permission.
he said "because you are intelligent i'll train you to any level you want, untill you decide to get married", he stoped me from clubing with bad colleague or group of girls in my sch., he provide everything i need before 24hrs. but one problem is that he is too jealous, if i talk to male students in the school/recieve call it is a problem because i will be questioned.
sometrimes i feel as if i am in a big chain, he is a free man he can do whatever he like, how can i question him.
IF I LEAVE HIM MY FAMILY WILL GO BACK TO HAND TO MOUTH METHOD OF LIFE< AND MY SISTERS HE PROMISE TO HELP TO SCH WILL BE DENYED ACCESS TO THE HIGHER INSTITUTION, MY PARENTS I DONT WANT THEM TO SUFFER<
I LOVE MY FAMILY THAT I WISH TO TAKE THEIR THINKING RESPONSIBILITY
SHOULD I KEEP ON SACRIFICING MYSELF TO MY FAMILY OR SHD I STOP.
I LOVE MY FAMILY THAT I WISH TO TAKE THEIR THINKING RESPONSIBILITY

pls friends in Nairaland advice me n what to do i am dying of silence

so? your doing something good i would stay if i were you then as soon as you graduate tell his wife.

then ask god for forgiveness.


sometimes we need to bad things to survive

you guys stop contributing to this thread its done, no more he already decided.

pleep:
Haha same here it's embarrasing to think about the stuff I did back then.
so were you guys ever members? I quit RS about 5yrs ago also, then I only came on for the holiday items
you guys know they took away the wilderness? (wildy )

runescape is nothing without the wildy, i use to always bring level 3s there.

sexkillz:
@9jafetish! I'm no woman Beater. If i'm in a relationship with you, as in the getting to know you stage and i notice you have an inherent trait not to be submissive, then i'm gonna drop you faster than you can say Jack! Do you believe in quarreling with a man all the time just to prove to him that you are independent? You statement confuses me again! Are you saying that a married woman has no right to be submissive to her husband? Because she wants to be independent?
Understand that being submissive doesnt mean the lady is a robot; always at the beck and call of the man! That is an other angle which i may not air in the romance section!

yes they should fight like talk fight. and fine if u dumped me it wouldn't matter because i would still be independent and probably make more money than you.

u know why u can slap her around because u can and she will do nothing!

sexkillz:
You should have just made your point and moved on! The Otondo was really uncalled for! Should i drop an insult on you too, and we start a war on this thread? You really want that? I'm good in that department too you know! Watch what u say most times!. . . .   BTW i could repeat that statement over again!

then when your submissive wife makes one mistake you are going to slap her around.


, u black guys should start liking independent black women, who u don't have to worry about.

the boy could even be suffering from schizo because of her

i can telll you now that boy is going to be a future murderer or a women beater.

the mother screwed up his childhood

pleep:
No of course not. I was adressig Dave2 who's acting like the world is comming to an end because teenagers are dating.


@ Pc guru Did u ever play runescape? That game
wrecked my social life for a while haha

OMFG rofl i also played runescape too and it destroyed my social life.

i haven't been back on runescare for 7 and a half years

wtf? speak english