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rabazamba:
I'm glad you've come around...
I know a lot of niggas are scared of being called misogynists but real ones knew that Heaux was spicing that story up and she won of course. 'I need a Chike in my life' dey trend everywhere I pity the nigga Frank, he has insulted the hell outta me on X many times but I can't kick a man who's down

I thought na ajebo girl sef I no know say na Frank even train am. Now came out like the nigga wasn't essential to funding your lifestyle. If you no invest in your wife na misogynist them go call you, if you invest in her you're lazy and you want to eat off her later in life. They take special pride in not wanting to be useful for shit

And I have observed it's mostly +234 women and black women that are very loud with this narrative.

Guys just need to recognize that these Millennial and Gen Z women are very different. You can't be led by your feelings and emotions alone you have to borrow elements of the Pimpin game in your interactions with em. Because even the ones that are not heauxs, support heaux culture and want to live vicariously through heauxs. That's why Cardi B and Meg are their role models

Ibime:
Well it happened 20 years ago when he was a teenager so sure to be one of the highlights of any teenage years

I know but come on dawg. Shouldn't be flexing that. Hell that's something you should be denying if she came out to say you did it sef.

iamoyindamola:
Senior man no they form phone at all

Seniorman Kelz is enjoying every moment of being a Scottish League winner 🧡🇳🇬 pic.twitter.com/YdjpnbTNTm

— 49th. (@the49thstreet) May 16, 2026

Mikel Obi I'm looking at you

https://x.com/i/status/1420036368403779602

Be like I owe oga Frank small apology. He committed the Sam Rothstein, (I highly recommend every nigga to watch Casino) Anambra man mistake

You wan invest in +234 woman so that when you run down she go say na she dey feed you guys gotta realize one thing the only thing these babes are loyal to is their feelings. You can give her a conglomerate she would fvck the intern if he makes her feel good

I dey sorry for Hearts fans. What a cruel way to lose a title

Ibime:
False

Although he got a rhyme about his son taking corner kicks Infront of Luis Enrique at PSG

I'm like when did Luis Enrique start watching PSG Under 8s

Lol I for say.

Drake raps have stopped moving me long time ago. From weak beats to monotonous subject matter. How can you be telling us about banging Cherokee D'ass in big 2026. P0rnstar wey don wash almost 15 years ago

iamoyindamola:
I’m ICEMAN, cold like Rice-man, we’ve got the best player in the league, must be nice man"

What in the Nursery 1 rhymes? He put that on wax?

Mitchell screwed the Cavs so badly. Some guys just simply cannot be your #1 option if you're trying to win

Now we have Game 7 Harden to look forward to


Spurs violating the Timberwolves. OKC vs Spurs is set. Chet vs Wemby. Absolute cinema

raumdeuter:
If woman wan talk make she talk as long as she does not claim any criminal doing on you. For a man just count your losses and move sharperly

As a man, the world already has zero fvckks to give about you. Even if video of woman dey wey dey beat you, people go still join to laugh you.
If Roby say Mayowa dey wife dey cheat, she say na because Roby no dey satisfy am, Na the man dem go still laugh
So why the need to explain to people who wont even send you. The kain sympathy women dey get, Men no dey get am

All the shalaye wey Roby do 3 weeks ago, No be laugh majority dey laugh am

On a second note, celebrity life only favor a few men.

Look at either Yankee or Naija, when women be celeb, what do they spend their money on? Maybe fashion and jewelry. For celeb man, aside fashion jewelry, cars, houses, WOMEN, then lawsuits
When women celeb see say their star don dey do go down, they can quickly hook a comfortable Wall street man and settle down. As a celeb man wey you don dey go down, you will still be expected to be spending, keep up appearances . Genevieve go still see man wey go sponsor her lifestyle, while Ramsey Noah would still be expected to sponsor a woman no matter how broke he is.

If you no dey careful you go turn nuisance sharply

See all the A listers of Nollywood and Yoruwood 25yrs ago, compare the men to the women the women still dey manage, Some of the men are so bad right now

See all the former BBNaija stars, where are the boys now? Whereas you still dey see the girls dey turn up on some big mans bill

This is what they probably told Saint Obi and that's how he died in silence. I don't agree with this at all

Hey ya he was a nice guy when he dies at 54 na him go end am.

I understand the silent man and I also understand the man that decides to speak. And men need to do less laughing and more listening to our problems. Suicide rates and mental health issues is at a high and we can't keep being indifferent to each other's struggles. Women are not wired to care. That one is nature and I don't hold it against them I just understand that's woman being woman but the first instinct as a man hearing another man's marital issues should not be to laugh. Let the women do that

As for male celebs if you don't maximize your fame and spend responsibly you have yourself to blame. Chris Brown is the only male celeb doing it right and breaking these girls pockets

I've never understood the culture of trickin, living lavishly trying to impress women. I've always maintained men should be even more frugal and have zero tolerance for women that are there to squander your resources. I have not seen church wey get ministry for Widowers.

You're the man expected to pay for education, leave inheritance, Life insurance. You're expected to provide in life and even in death

If Desmond leaves APC I'm not sure he can win election in his own compound

izzou:
These are just basics that we get over with.

How does a kid get over the fact that people tease him because his mum was knacking around? You cannot compare this kind of shame to what you listed above.

He has divorced her. Frank has divorced his wife. No need to be talking up and down.

Till today, nobody knew what happened between Alex and Fancy. Na people be that.

Everybody must not be in your business. Well, I am here to read their stories sha. Of dem wan set ring light and begin describe wetin no concern us, who am I to object?

Nope. There are people still dealing with trauma of their childhood teasing till today, I don't agree that the mum knacking around is a worse shame. That is their parent's shame not necessarily theirs

My issue with Frank is not the talking it's the talking when you also have that number of fuvk ups on your dossier

Wasn't the Fancy running around calling bro gay or something of that nature?

CrystalTiger:
She came with names of various mistresses, that's actually what surprised me.. Even stating clearly that there's video evidence of Frank frolicking in their matrimonial home..

One thing that's confusing is that bills payment, like what was Frank doing with all his money?

Frank is actually lucky if he was moving like that fr. There are women that will put a bullet in his dome for those crazy moves

raumdeuter:
Once you come public like that everyone starts fighting dirty. Even tell outright lies just to damage you or get back at you.

Regina Daniels fit claim say na she dey sponsor Ned Nwoko sef, How we wan verify? Abi Ned go come begin share his bank statement to us?.

Ned say Regina dey smoke Colos, Regina say na Ned introduce am to colos. Which of them NDLEA don arrest?
Tonto say Churchill na one minute man, Shey will we bring them on TV to come prove themselves.
Tiwa say na Tbills dey use her money chop edible catering, Tbills say na Industry senior men dey chop him wife.

If the man or woman makes any allegation, how do you prove or disprove it? It is just a bunch of He said/ She said. The Roby and Mayowa thing, what is the head or tail, 3 weeks later. Maybe to get gigs for Roby sha and make clicks money for Podcast

All the drama is always a variation of

Man - My woman was an ashawo, she is irresponsible, she dey smell
Woman: My man na woman beater, he no get money, he be 2mins man

Relationship don scatter, move on and rebuild whatever is left of your life

In the fluff and noise time always tells who is the bad vibes and who was the problem in the relationship. Nothing is new under the sun

From all of Tiwa moves over time can we say T-Bills was wrong?

Ned has like 4 women in check. Only Regina has gone rogue. What does that tell you?

Another example David Justice and Halle Berry. Both split. One moved on and is happily married 2 decades later the other is paying child support and alimony to like 3 different men. You can make of that what you will

Cardi B said Offset was the bad person but was fuvkin another nigga with that man's baby still in her belly. Now she has jumped fresh out the frying pan into the fire

I believe in silence personally but I don't believe in gagging people who can't hold it in and need to speak on whatever maltreatment they experienced

Whether you were the good or bad person. One thing about time. It will always tell

TemporaryHansel:
The only people defending Frank Edoho on this matter are people that didn't know his antecedents during his prime days, and those that defend anything their gender does.

Man fvcked anything fvckable, he was always in the news. That guy can't tell me he didn't fvck anybody's partner back then. He should've just moved on mehn.

Relationship and marriage issues are things I believe should never be brought on social media irrespective of what happened.

Naah you can't defend Frank after seeing that response sha. Never that

Me I believe in a code of silence as well so long as you're not being attacked. But certain offenses should be exposed if they are that egregious. DV, Paternity fraud, If they gave you diseases

GloriousGbola:
The guy is likely not providing a unique service only he can provide. Most people will not want to work with a person who has openly admitted to secret recording in the past. In competitive bids he has pushed himself out

You are also confusing performative politics with business. What you want as a business parter or client or service provider is a sober buttoned up individual. Not a person who runs to social media to announce his dispute with you in the court of public opinion.

Nothing is going to affect that guys business, Forget that thing.

GloriousGbola:
I believe this is why he wanted to die the whole matter. But banger boys gonna banger boy so now everyones laundry is gonna get washed in the open

I just don't think speaking on his part was smart if he was that egregious an offender. Even if na my friend and they table the matter to me once your wife tells me you were spending her money on other women you have instantly lost my support. Even if I no agree with her cheating I will understand

No be banger boys say make he misbehave to that extent. Carrying olosho and all that? Naah man

izzou:
Does being vocal mean sharing your problems with 200 million people?

I would never understand why one will end a marriage, have a kid and com online to cast himself and his wife?

I wonder how that kid will cope in school when his mates bullies or teases him.

Everything cannot be for public consumption, in my opinion

Nothing is new under the sun. Will I personally do it, No. But if they are that aggrieved and the offense is enough for them to want to speak then I'm not going to hold them.

I will never tell a man to protect the image of a scallywag.

Kids are bullied for being too short,too tall, have a big nose, have a big eyes, have a big head,skinny,dark. Kids tease and bully each other for anything. No be today. We had a chick who had big teeth back in the day. We called her the Dentist.

I can be against something but also defend their right to do it. Don't beat a child and tell it not to cry

Ibime:
Drake is not on my algorithms. I won't go looking for it. If it crosses my path, I will listen.

This is news to me. Coulda sworn you were a Drake guy

GloriousGbola:
The reason the story did not make sense to me is that it is very very very foolish for a person who is not in the entertainment industry to be putting his messy family business online.

Divorce the woman and move on. Now people who want to do business with you Google you and this is the mess they see.

In addition he has now brought in feminist army backup who will want to avenge their sister. If he has misrepresented any of the facts or lied it can get very very messy. The lawyers representing the ex wife are based in ikoyi, not somolu. Rich chicks with an axe to grind.

Nothing wrong with a dude talking on one condition that he did nothing wrong. This Boomer mindset of always being silent needs to die. Na wetin kill Saint Obi be this, Silence culture

Scandals is nothing new even Bill Clinton and Trump have been involved in scandals. If he is good at what he does he will get business regardless. E no commit crime

It will be an audio lawsuit and nobody will win nothing just usual Twitter noise

Lmaoo if the lady's response to Frank is legit then Frank really fvcked up. Spending your woman's money on another woman is a cardinal sin. I can never support even my younger brother or elder brother if he does that

What's with Drake and all these monotonous timestamp tracks. 1 AM in Okokomaiko

Lyrical wise it was actually solid. Drake pen is nothing to sneeze at. The issue is the subject matter and the '"woe is me" energy on all these tracks, the beats are mid and the mood dreary, are you the victor or the victim?? plus you sued so what are you still dissing for? It felt like a continuation of the Heart pt 6

@Ibime Do you rate the track?

Roland17:
The werey has gone back to Cardi B. I don’t know why these cats just love drama. It’s like they can’t save themselves even if their lives depend on it.

They deserve each other. Diggs has always been that way from the Vikings days. He's just mainstream now.

Darryl Fraud Morey fired by the Sixers

birdman:
You saw the Stefon Diggs trial? At least guy man escaped with acquittal. Either the drugs or the women, both out to get you. And if you escape that, congrats, you get to deal with relatives

Stefon has himself to blame.One can only hope he's learned his lesson. A lot of these people outside their sporting pursuits don't necessarily make the best choices. Relatives are a pretty easy one. Help the grateful ones cut off the entitled ones. It's really that simple.

We all need healthy coping mechanisms especially these guys that can actually afford their vices which might be drugs and or women

Amigoos1:
I actually agree with you and A40 that in a functioning country the government shouldn’t be sponsoring religious programs. This is not me defending the Katsina government in any way.


I am simply looking at it from the perspective of over 3500 Katsina Muslims being helped by their government to fulfill a major aspect of their religion. That is why I said I can’t begrudge a program helping thousands of citizens when we have seen public funds wasted on things that benefited absolutely nobody.

To me it’s similar to the government distributing sewing machines to over 1,000 youths. You can debate priorities but it’s still a program directly benefiting actual people.

Lol. The government is merely using religion as a tool. Religion is the opium of the masses and they are weaponizing it

Amigoos1:
Nobody said Hajj trips will solve insecurity or poverty. The point is that it’s still a direct program benefiting actual citizens instead of politicians announcing projects that never leave paper and pocketing the funds plus funding a welfare program for pilgrims doesn’t stop the Katsina government from also tackling insecurity.

Taking loans to pay for religious pilgrimage makes sense to you and is beneficial to citizens??

I now understand why the Chinese abolish religion altogether at least in their schools. Cos why would you even defend this nonsense

We are not talking of building health centers, schools and programs that address their atrocious HDI rates you're talking about pilgrimage? Smh.

Roland17:
Very sad news. He battled with drug abuse. Looks like he ODed.

He's been out injured for like 3 seasons barely playing. It's very easy to stumble on other demons.

These athletes really go through a lot. Look at the NFL alone this past season we had two players that committed suicide as well.

I won't be surprised if he stumbled into some darkness that not being able to play can lead to.

Roland17:
While I will give Presti his due, I will praise Mark Daigneault even more. He gets the best out of average players. I mean look at what he has done with players like Dort! Opponents used to leave Dort open from beyond the arc but today he has become lethal. He has also made him a better defender and he sticks simple plays. McCain comes in and does the same thing, C. Wallace.. Put another coach on that bench and they look like players with the Wizards.

I will give Presti the credit cos he brings the groceries, it's an endless conveyor belt. And he's the one that has been doing the wheeling and dealing. Getting Shai, picking up Hartenstein from the Knicks, McCain from the Sixers

Ajay Mitchell is on an $8m contract for the next 3 years. Nuggets paid Christian Braun $125m for 5 years. Swap Nuggets roster with OKC roster and let's see what Daigneault does.

So I do think while Daigneault is a really good coach Presti is the real cheat code, compare him to the Pacers GM that skipped on a loaded draft class to trade for Ivica Zubac

PDPGuy:
Lmao 😂

But I think most, if not all international airlines would still want to fly to and from MMIA, especially when the current reconstruction of terminal 1 would be completed by December 2027.

So, at best, the Lekki airport will handle far fewer international flights, but way more local flights. I also don’t believe the Lekki airport will be handling regional flights because part of the agreement that was struck between Tinubu and Babalakin is that Bi-Courtney (at MMIA) would also handle as many regional flights as possible.
That means, for eg, that we could see Lekki - London flights, but not Lekki - Accra, or Lekki - Dakar

Moving international flights solely to that location would be an unmitigated disaster

semid4lyfe:
Nothing vexes me more than the emboldened, I swear.

A lady will spend months planning pre-wedding shoot, bridal shower, aso-ebi colours and couple content but when dem marry finish, enter house and face the responsibilities of building a home, dem go begin dey drop hot takes.

I mean, how can you call taking care of your husband, children and ensuring the smooth running of your home unpaid labour?

And the funny thing is, na the popular educated ones who should know better dey spout this nonsense. Toolz. Gbemi O and other influential women don drop this take before.

The other day Toni Tones do podcast dey spill this trash. "I feel there's so much unpaid labour being done by women in marriage. By virtue of being a woman, and having boobs, you end up doing more yen yen yen"

Me - So you are being exploited by your hubby for having a baby, and should be paid for the birthing and nurturing, something you are biologically equipped for?

Lol. Marriage don turn salary work. And na this mentality birth the concept of push gift. Your wife gives birth to both of una child and somehow the man has to pay you like say you be contracted surrogate.

Ridiculous.

The average millennial and Gen Z black woman wants a wedding not marriage.

The festivities and bells and whistles they want but that daily grind of wife duties they do not want that

The truth is bitter like Guinness.

The ones that pretend they are looking for husband are the ones that are tired of the rat race of providing for themselves and are looking for a savior. But most of the ones that have a bit of money I promise you they're not looking to be under no man. I know so many on a one on one basis

Unless they were raised in that type of household where a man was present and they revered such man

Amigoos1:
I get what you are saying but I can never be against any program that directly impacts and helps the members of any state. It's better than announcing audio projects that never gets done.

How the fuq does Hajj trip help members of a state being ravaged by insecurity and multi generational poverty?

Who do black man this thing??

RIP Brandon Clarke. Only 29

Terrible news. I remember him battling injuries the past 3 seasons for the Grizzlies. Was an energy guy off their bench. Most likely a O.D