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TemporaryHansel:
Guys no dey ever hear. Young girls these days are bad prospects for serious relationship and marriage. This is not 1990.
I always say it, as a guy, if you want a serious relationship/marriage go for ladies above 28.
Younger ladies now are either not mature enough to understand commitment or aren't interested in commitment, but most guys still won't hear because a lot of them are looking for someone they'll lord over like dictators.

Young girls of nowadays are only good for casual flings to be honest. As side chicks/fvck mates, any guy trying to take them serious is on a long thing, it's 50/50 chance.

The last part on bold is very spot on.

This thing no get manual. Old or young what matters is her orientation and her background. Did you meet her in survival mode? What is her investment in the relationship outside her vagina? What's her moral compass? Is she actually a wife or a scallywag that you put a ring on. None of this is necessarily tied to her age.

This particular Ugo guy I doubt he is significantly older than this babe. It's a Gen Z and Millennial issue. Any woman under 45 is not exempt

The problem is most guys are led by their wood and their emotions, they think a woman making herself available to eat your money means she loves you, they are not verifying and checking her actual skin in the game

Also a cultural issue. Nigerian men were raised on tricking and peacockin, the women were raised to expect and demand it.

izzou:
Make dem go pray for security

Meanwhile the Saudi wey dem dey go pray dey rely on US for security, Black man our mumu na till infinity

GrammarNazi1:
True, and that decision of theirs to stay with a partner they don't love and that they unapologetically cheat on just because they need someone to take care of them is nothing but fraud.

A lot of them are after sperm donors and or sponsors. They do not have the capacity to love nobody especially for Naija settings. That is why I dey always pity tricks that try to lead with their wallet and catch feelings for person wey just dey find who go rescue am

When you tell this uncomfortable truth dubious women and simpjutsu men alike start calling you redpill/incel, But me I be renegade so I no really send anybody papa. I speak on it cos I dey see things

Poverty state like Katsina taking 4bn Naira loan to pay for Hajj trip. Saudi people go just dey laugh us everyday

Ibime:
Referee stops the fight

Wardley refused to go down even once

Ref had to save his life and save him from himself

His corner should be sacked for sending him back out in the last 3 rounds. A horrible watch for his mother.

I'm still kicking myself. I didn't know the fight was this soon. My eyes were on the MMA battle between Chimaev and Strickland and the Verhoeven x Usyk fight soon

Wardley's chin really his biggest enemy. A chin like that legit takes years off your life

GrammarNazi1:
From the horse's mouth: Ugo.

Lool. I saw the photos and videos of their marriage serenren and things. Baba even build app for the girl

Olamide wey sing Won ma you think say you wise pass am abi

Guys have to realize that most women today are looking for a wedding, they don't actually want to be wives. That's why they use words like 'unpaid labor' to describe looking after their immediate family. They want a sponsor or sugar daddy under the guise and bells and whistles of marriage and not an actual husband

PDPGuy:
Funniest tweet I’ve seen today 😂😂

It all makes sense why he turned his back on Obi. It was not financially lucrative

benji93:
I especially agree with the last part. I do not think we win that championship without it going down to the wire. It's hard to defend the position. He played the last two games as you pointed out. Surely if his getting suspended led to a loss of momentum, his return should fix it. It didn't. Which means there's probably something else. My guess is that the star players weren't experienced enough, and not as stacked as people make it seem. They won 72 games because they were doing something relatively new. The run to the 2022 championship was the first year i could properly judge Stephen Curry in isolation(as much as i could come close to it). As in can he really carry a team, given his size? I am glad he proved that he could.

In short, GSW going up 3-1 was the anomaly. But i understand why Draymond and others would buy into the idea that his suspension was the reason. Anything to make myself more important than i am is welcome.

For the first line, while it may be true that GSW cuddled him, I do not know if there's any other way to manage such an oversensitive player without hitting his performance( i maintain that he was important in every championship). You cannot also cuddle such a player without enabling him. So as a business you have a choice to make. They made theirs , and it produced 4 championships. Most owners would take that. It increased the value of the team.

An underrated element in that Warriors collapse that is often swept under the rug and also explains why Draymond returning to the last two games ultimately didn't matter was the injury to Bogut

Overall that Warriors team pre KD were not as stacked as people think. That is myth and urban legend. They had no size compared to the Cavs and actually over achieved

When you look at the perimeter and bigs, Love, Thompson, LeBronze, Jr Smith, Shumpert, Richard Jefferson compare that to the Warriors and you see what I'm saying.

Draymond to his credit was actually very good in the 2016 series but that says a lot to how poorly Steph and especially Klay played

Draymond IMO should have been kicked out after the Poole incident. He was mostly useless in the 4th title run and actually ran off the best young player that might have extended Steph's title window.

Now you're stuck with 3 old guys that are going to trick themselves again into believing they can compete next year once Jimmy returns

Roland17:
The Meerkat converted the corner pieces (JB & Tatum) of the franchise into 3 point spammers. I mean we watched JB and Tatum under Brad and Udoka and neither player was jacking up 3s like they are doing under this Meerkat. When you look at JB and Tatum's physical attributes, they should be driving to the paint. We saw JB during the regular season even after Tatum returned, he was driving to the bucket and punishing teams, so what changed? Tatum has become too lazy, scared of getting injured or comfortable with the 3 ball that he no longer drives.

I remember several seasons ago banging the drum about the evils of 3pt spamming and how it makes you a lazy hooper. Guys like you listed there Tatum and Brown are a good example of that.

The other aspects of your game suffer. This was what the 🐐 MJ specifically said when they asked him why he didn't take a lot of 3s. For guys like Harden it's already too late but the likes of Tatum and Brown can still be salvaged

We are seeing it in real time with Donovan Mitchell. He has become such a 3pt spamming merchant now he doesn't even get to the free throw line anymore. Besides the last two games

Roland17:
When you look at our typical starting 5 of D. White/ Hauser/ JB/ Tatum/ Queta, outside of Hauser, which other player is a recognized career 3 point shooter? D. White is the worst of all with his irresponsible attempts. He was known for his defense when he was with the Spurs and when he attacked he drove to the bucket but somehow, the Meerkat gets a hold of him and converts him to a 3 ball spamming merchant.

Naah but look at OKC for example and look at your role player guys. Scheirmann, Pritchard, Walsh all these guys besides Pritchard are basically useless outside of 3pt spamming. OKC have guys like Mitchell, Wallace, Caruso who can either score and or facilitate. Your role players are mostly specialists that are useless at everything else

The White example is another one. His skillset IMO has always been limited but being a high volume low efficiency 3pt spammer is basically suicide

Roland17:
As for JB/ Tatum, I think we expect too much from them. Most 1-2 punches never get along, especially outside the court and they are not different. What makes it worse, is that they are distinctively different people outside the court. JB has shown he can be the number 1 in any franchise but I don't think he will get it as long as Tatum is still on the team. I think we have reached the ceiling for both and it may be time for one to move on.

Not getting along off court is one thing but I don't know that they get along on court.

When you come out and say the season where your most prominent teammate is out for the majority and you blew a 3-1 lead is your best season thus far, even above the season you won a title and were recognized as both ECF and Finals MVP. We have to wonder, what means the world to you is it winning or being recognized as the guy over Tatum.

SmooshCHN:
Whatever you say man, I agree with you. And to think we'd have had more championships if he or the front office had kept his mouth and behaviour in check.

I've been done with him since he chased KD out and hit Poole. He _{and H.Barnes} were arguably the reason we blew that 3-1 lead, pushed to get KD on the team and then started barking saying "We won without KD". Abeg abeg with his hypocrisy. Wonderful player if you look only at his defensive impact and that's it. I honestly rate his "leadership".

And then the Steve Kerr slander? He needs to go.

The Warriors coddled him and this is the prize they've won for that. I'd argue that 4th chip y'all won it without him.

Klay certainly played a bigger role than him for that chip and Klay is gone while y'all continue to allow him overrate his importance whereas he's never been more than the 4th best player for all your chips

15. Steph, Iggy, Klay
17. KD, Steph, Klay
18. Steph, KD, Klay
22. Steph, Wiggins, Poole

I don't even agree his suspension cost the Warriors the 16 chip cos he played the last two games and they still lost (fair play on his Game 7 performance though)

birdman:
My feels is not much makes Jaylen happy. Guy man is too "intellectual" for his own good. I think he and Tatum are on good terms, but Tatum is going to be too low key for him

He might be KD's appointed successor in terms of malcontentment.

I won't be surprised if the Celtics are looking to ship him at some point.

I like Jaylen's game but he has to understand the days of him feeling slighted and unrecognized is gone. He's gotten his fair shake in accolades and contract.

Hell I'd argue the fact that he's been let off the hook for blowing a 3-1 lead that's what he should be really pissed off about. Cos if he's really that dude he would get the criticism of losing that comes with the praise of winning like other superstars do. So perhaps he's not truly viewed as a superstar and it eats at him

birdman:
He talks a lot, he is there to bring his viewers to the show. That is the way the world works these days. Prove you have followers, and you get a seat at the table.

Of course I hate it that such a disrespectful talkative is getting this much airtime. Most young people that copy what he does will fail in life, 99% of the time. This not the way to talk to anybody, wether your mates, younger folks, or respected HoFers

Let's be fr. Who's tuning to Inside NBA to hear what Draymond Green thinks on anything? I don't find anything he says entertaining or profound.

Actually he tries to be the victim and villain in the same stories. One minute you're the big, bad wolf not to be messed with next minute you're stereotyped and oppressed as the angry black man. Like bro which one is it? You can't be both

They're trying to market him as a Chuck replacement but the mistake is Chuck is not ultra sensitive. He can give roasting and he can take roasting without getting in his feelings. Draymond is always in his feelings

One more thing is that this ring culture has really been misused and abused. We used to use it to separate guys in the upper room of the 🐐 conversation. The MJs, LeBronze, Kobe, Magic, Kareem, Duncan, Shaq, Bird etc.

It was not for passengers like Draymond to shoot at the mouth at a top 5-7 PF of all time like Chuck

Roland17:
I disagree. Neither Brad nor Udoka coached the Celtics like this nonsense the Meerkat is doing. This is all about the Meerkat. Under Brad we ran a balanced offense and had a strong defense. Udoka took our defense and intensity a notch higher with a structured offense predicated on constant ball movement. The Meerkat comes and decides to convert this team to a 3 ball spamming team! JB and Tatum played under all 3 coaches.

Then he should be on the chopping block. Why I'm also putting some blame on Mazulla is that looking at that roster I don't think your boys even have the ability to play any other way. All I'm seeing is a bunch of catch and shoot guys.

Also what's up with Jaylen Brown. Why do I sense he's not happy with the Celtics. I've never believed he and Jayson Tatum get along and his recent crashout hints at that. I don't think those two are boys that hang out outside the Celtics building

SmooshCHN:
Sometime please tell Draymond to shut up. We are tired.

I'm trying to understand what Draymond's entertainment value is and why is he on Inside NBA. I've never found anything he's ever said to be smart or impactful.

He's not charismatic nor does he have the gift of garb, not funny, not sarcastic in an intelligent way. He just opens his mouth blaaah and says whatever. Why they think he might be the next Chuck is absurd to me.

Get him tf out of there. If he didn't have the good fortune of being drafted by the Warriors nobody would give af about him

airmark:
Arsenal without Gyokeres couldn't get to Ucl final. With Gyokeres they are now in the Ucl final but since your brain has been sold for a plate of pepper soup, you couldn't figure this out.

Ajakaja40 for a reason.

Okrimo. The last two winners of a CL did not have a traditional striker. A team has just made back to back finals without a striker

That should tell any smart person that there are multiple roads to the market place. Common sense that surely flies over your fetid brain.

You have degraded to such a joke I don't even have to come here to insult and laugh at your foolishness anymore. I have retired and now your fellow Chelsea fans are the ones doing it for me

airmark:
And a striker raised them from the dead. A40 how far?

I am happy Enrique didn't buy a quality striker like Gyokeres. Let's see how they will win next Ucl.

Always running your mouth no break no jam no sense.

How many teams with strikers have PSG beaten without striker

Kimbeast:
Airhead the same Psg team without a striker has gotten to back to back final. What do you have to say.

Hehehehe everyone is clocking the Akpuruka analyst.

I wonder what his lamba would be when PSG do back to back without a striker

Just not good enough. Lack of defensive organization and discipline cost us.

Hopefully Kompany does not start believing his own hype because this team cannot dominate Europe with this papier Mache defense. He has to have the humility to evaluate if it's the personnel or the playing style and address it. Cos on a night where your attack cannot bail you out you are cooked

Leyqute:
1. Mendes handball for second yellow
2. Névés handball for penalty.

The ref should’ve given at least one of those calls. Both players extended their arms in both situations. Teams have been punished for much softer offenses.

And if you remember in the first leg they blew the same thing against Davies to give PSG a pen

Upamenonsense running like a 3 legged dog. Stanisic out of position.

When will these two mediocrities leave this team ffs

Shit show performance all round

Theflint1:
The age long cry of my Oga is using me and giving me peanuts.

If he's dissatisfied with what he negotiated and got prior to entering the ring he should setup his own thing, afterall according to him na im start celebrity boxing for Naija

This him format don cast make e pivot. I really thought after that collab with Skepta e go begin rebrand and leave this him local packaging behind

livelongprospa:
That's why I'm tired of him.
Just do well.

Fingers crossed Obi and Kwankwaso do well up north especially in kano.
I'm not concerned about the SS, SE and NC.

I won't be surprised El Rufai ports to NDC too

If Obi has strong Northern backing and an iron clad agreement that he will only do 1 term, he will get a lot of support from unexpected places.

4 years is enough to turn Nigeria towards the right direction

Emaprince:
Batch cooking in Nigeria? How many households can afford that?

Country wey minimum wage is like 50k. People are just not in touch with reality at all.

Fantasy talk is all I'm seeing here. Most people can't afford to outsource cooking and a lot of the ones that do are living fake life to accommodate for their laziness.

izzou:
A Southerner is beating him up there...

But his followers have us believing that the North doesn't vote Southerners.

Let him team up with Amaechi. They will win

Tinubu is not just any Southerner, he is at least on paper a Yoruba Muslim and religious and tribal polarization is at an all time high.

We saw what happened when GEJ ran vs a Northerner. So this is not south issue

livelongprospa:
Atiku please do well up north

That's why his candidacy is a waste of everyone's time. He's not even dominant in that said North. Tinubu is still beating him there in several states

MorataFC:
Those are already-made, high-net-worth families. They didn’t start life like that. Many of them built their wealth first, succeeded in business or career, and then outsourced domestic tasks like bulk cooking. By the time they reached that level, their marriages had already survived the early years when money was tighter.


But the man was speaking to young men preparing to start a family, especially those one operating on Nigeria's salary wages structures, so using these elite households as your reference point is misleading. How many Nigerians man can start his life with that examples?
The ratio of families who can comfortably afford consistent, quality quarterly catering like what you posted here versus those who cannot is probably 1:10,000 or even lower in Nigeria today.( These are the ones the man is talking to)
When you are just starting out, with rent, bills, school fees (when children arrive), and the general cost of living, constant outsourcing is not sustainable. You cannot build the foundation of your marriage on a lifestyle that only becomes feasible after you have “made it.” That is his advuce.

The crucial point people miss in this Pasror Adeboye’s advice is,
He wasn’t speaking to the Billionaires who live in Ikoyi or Banana Island. He was speaking to the millions of young men in the congregation who are still trying to build something real from the ground up,( which are made of 90-95% of men who want to marry) .

Make them dey whine. If you like you wey never chop belleful go marry who no sabi cook. By the time you're spending 50% of your salary on food and rent body go tell you

Eating good food consistently outside is expensive even in First world countries. Come be 3rd world like Nigeria. Guys want to pretend like most Nigerians can afford to outsource cooking on a family scale.

birdman:
To be fair, they won a chip spamming 3s. Such is the math of kalo kalo, you win one you lose the rest. Gamblers never quit when they are ahead, they keep reliving tge math statistic

Where is affirmative action GM Brad these days?

I will always cheer for their downfall after denying Udoka a chip

For me though it's just bizarre that they are not even trying to play the game any other way.

When I look at how their roster is constructed with mostly slow catch and shoot guys who can't really put the ball on the floor, I'm inclined to blame Brad Steven's as much or even more than Mazzulla.

For all we know Mazzulla is a modern MLB type manager that's just there for show while the analytics boys tell him what to do

Sportsweb:
So if woman doesn't know how to cook or doesn't want to cook, so who cooks for her family?. She will bring another woman chef to cook for her and husband?. It's funny o

Allow everybody oh. If she no go cook for me what of the kids. What will they eat? We will just be buying Chowdeck or Doordash outside everyday or wetin

So you will be paying all the bills for woman wey no fit cook. Which kin madness be that one.

I also ask. What was she doing in her youth when all her contemporaries were learning to cook? Not even once a week?

That one is trophy wife as good as furniture. And I don't believe any nigga under 60 should be marrying a trophy wife.

Everyone with what works for them sha but I've never met any woman who no gree cook that don't possess other glaring flaws.

izzou:
So Atiku cannot support Obi or any Southerner?

It has to be Southerners supporting Atiku.

Atiku 2031....Let me go and start branding my shirt and face caps.

Atiku betrayal is what led to this mess. I rather Tinubu complete his 8 years than for Atiku to smell Aso Rock. Let's see who will answer him at 84

48 3s. Only made 13

Mazzulla 3pt kalokalo has cost him again. Roster full of 3pt spammers and nothing else

Fairs. At least y'all are not going down without a fight unlike the Nuggets