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It's just funny how the OP is guilty of broke shaming and abusing Nigerian men but wants to correct only one side of the defects. She is guilty and can't see her defects. OP is an hypocrite, please if you want to change a system.. Always practice what u preach

sexylassie2:
stop giving excuses, you can marry anybody you like, you think other women from other cultures will tolerate you been broke?

Nigerian men that kill and abuse us daily but cant tolerate broke shaming.

if you think women from other cultures will tolerate you depending on her for survival then you must be watching too much foreign movies

you are fighting for men slut shaming women which is wrong but u don't see the need to stop broke shaming men. Who is the hypocrite here. Don't u see u need to defend Nigeria men because other foreigners read what u guys write in your perspective. See, if u want to defend for what is right do it both ways and don't be a hypocrite

Y are alot of guys becoming so weak. Can you read through what you wrote there, don't you see she has lied, bleeped and cheated on you and if you didn't catch her she will not open up. What more do you need.

Don't let love blind you, work with your heart and brain. You are a weak guy. No person deserve a lying cheating partner

Ok let me start with mine, during the days of 2go. I met this girl on the site and fortunately she was in my University, we promise to see each other at a particular place on a set date. I felt it was a normal hang out since she said she will be going for lectures later.
To my greatest surprise this babe came with her friend to see me and I was kind of shocked but hid it anyways so I had to change plans and take them to a nearby eatery. I had 1k and my ATM card with me but since I have booked 1k then for the little hangout I thought we would have, I told myself I will stick to it.
We got to the eatery, I told them to sit down and I went to the eatery stand to order, I was like what can I buy. I was in my thoughts for 10 mins before I settled for hollandia yougurt of #500 and two meat pie of #250 each. I took three disposable cups with me and went to my table. The ladies were staring at me when they saw what I brought lol I didn't mind, I opened the juice and poured mine in a cup and took one meat pie. I was eating it passionately and left them to decide what they do with the other one meat pie.
They were looking at me and I was like do I care, well the silence was much and I told them I have a class and needed to leave. I left and got a call from the suppose girl saying I embarrassed her in front of her friend and I was like you embarrassed yourself because we decided it was two of us and we just wanted to see. We had a little disagreement and I left it there because I don't have time for unnecessary drama.
One month later, I decided to try my luck again and we bonded. I had my own share of the cookie anyways.
From that day upwards I go the venue for my blind date 45 mins before time so as to evaluate the package and know what to prepare for

Ok, I have seen single mom perform poorly in raising kids especially boys because most times whether you accept it or not boys needs father figure to be disciplined. I have seen single dad also do poorly too both the ratio is less compared to the high ratio from single Mom. A single Dad can still properly raise a fairly disciplined home better to me than a single Mom.

I had to go check statistics online and it validates this claim and just this evening I saw a single mom smoking shisha from a pipe and giving it to her kid of 5 years old on Twitter. I was really pissed actually, so what do you think

The thing is guys are more open about this than the ladies where as ladies cheat more because of the attention they get from guys on a daily basis. Ladies are more hypocritical about issues like this

rawpadgin:
I have cheated on every girl I have dated

God give me a sign !!!

I need to be loyal to this wonderful woman I have now

what really makes you cheat. What do you see in them u don't see in your current gf

Lamanii22:
Would kissing be regarded as cheating?


Kissing another person*

well depending on your intention. If u caught ur guy kissing another girl will it go down well with you

Semperty:
I cheated on my ex with my real G

real G. Do u mean u are bisexual

Noloss:
No.

so u have never cheated before hmm na so

Alright, I am a sex therapist and I would like to know people cheat in a relationship and if after cheating did you find what you were looking for.
Let's make the thread fun and others can learn



Cc lalasticlala, Mynd44

skymight:
Thanks bro this really touched me. I have been planning for a sucide now since January this year but I am having a rethink right now.

please stay strong brother, God gat you and please don't give up.. suicide is never an option

Done.. not even stressful 08139659848 MTN

Well, it is a trending fact that ladies are now bold enough to for a guy they like. Some guys appreciates that form of boldness while others take advantage of it. So ladies what have been your experiences

Starlight10:
Abj. Bye!

josh i.will.take it from here. U are not in abj

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I stumbled on this information and more on digital marketing in collaboration with content marketing and i can tell you, I can comfortably pay my house rent of 800k and i live a good life. I earn 250k per week and its getting better. I was in the labour market for two years feeling hopeless until i stumbled on this information am about sharing to you. I do trainings and seminar but based on demand and a lot of people staying far away can't make it to lagos. I started up a whatsapp training class on everything digital marketing and i will include a material i used on everything mini importation too.

I charge #1000 for all this information. I am currently looking for 50 people before sunday to lock my group and share this information. With 1k you will have information that will change your life and make you an enterpreneur. You really have nothing to lose with 1k. It will be a one week class at selected hours of training. Interested people should chat me up on 09074805960.

blesskewe:
Ur whatsapp number

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blesskewe:
Hey saw ur pm
Hope am safe

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Am interested 09074805960

lawpeh:
He got someone pregnant. Just found out today....it hurts like hell

sorry about that, stay strong dearie

Well, for me it was distance which in turn caused trust issues. My Ex felt my life revolved around her and i should be checking on her both in the morning and night. WTF some ladies sha and attentions. If i don't call for a day or two am with another babe or I have forgotten her.

since i no get time for insecurities she was exhibiting I let her go. i felt most times she can be seeing someone else because you mostly accuse people of what you are guilty of.

I don't have time to watse and i ended it jare. she was draining choi. Relationship can be exhausting with the wrong person . So, what urs

So many kids on nairaland truly. U guys didn't just derail the thread but abused it also. We no even discuz the subject matter again

So, this is another point of view to the thread that says have you ever forgiven.a cheating partner. You know most times we are hypocritical and always feels the other partner in the relationship was the reason it never worked out.

My question is have you being caught cheating? what was your partner reaction when you were caught

MhisTahrah:
Age :19

Location: Lagos

Occupation : Student

Religion : christian

Genotype :

Relationship status :

Person of romantic interest :

Hobbies : reading, sleeping and twerking

What are you looking for and in what time frame : A shrink, till I graduate from med school

i think i have seen my match, am in lagos too. lets hook up

SeyiAyorinde:
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eezeribe:
Sent

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Ok, i have been thinking on this and would want to know your thought. Can you forgive a partner that tried to poison you. Experience will be much appreciated

Darammliveth:
Because she's a good lady

Why did u leave her if she was that good. Or maybe you are scared of commitment and still wants to play around. Then, when u are ready you will want to hook up with her because she is a good girl according to you. Just pray she does not meet good guys like us

Well i know basically most guys keep in touch with their Ex for Rebound Konji level if there is no one else why girls to do that for fun, straffing especially if the guy is good at it but most times it is money