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TooResilient:
You are 4 siblings, & you’re No. 3. You’re close to only your last the No. 4 but you see the oldest 2, they don’t give a fvck about you & last. They hardly care about you 2. They don’t speak to you both.

But there are your parents who communicate with you all. Your parents don’t really care about the relationship among the children as long as they’re calling you all individually & you’re picking & responding that you’re fine.

Your parents in fact cares more about the two older than the two younger. They send the eldest some money monthly to support her and go as far as selling some property to help the second oldest with his travel expenses but you see the last two, you only receive “how are you?”, “I’m just checking up on you to know you’re fine”.

You also noticed that your parents received information & update about you & shares it with these two older (it’s like sharing your info with people that don’t like you) and this always works against you most times (spiritually) when people that don’t even know already knows what’s going on in your life.

So you’ve decided to cut the parents off, you stopped sharing updates about yourself to them. You & the youngest are like the siblings that have each other’s back. In fact you’ve resolved that your younger sibling is the only family you have.

You even have first-hand info that if anything happens to your parents, there’s no inheritance for you. The two older will definitely take over everything & because they don’t even like their younger siblings, what do you expect? You as the 3rd, you’re already doing well for yourself, God is blessing & providing for you and you are not reliant or expectant on any inheritance, so what’s the point? Everyone can go their separate ways in life. You are even doing better & more successfully than the two oldest & the closeness was never there right from young.

In a nutshell, you have resolved that the only family you have is the youngest & you’re fine. No negativity & the spiritual battle has been reduced because the less your enemies know about you, the less spiritual battles.

Am I right? If you were in my position, what will you do?

Wetin you and your younger one do everyone?

How far naa

I dey interested

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blingxx:
Elon musk .the richest man alive is not married but have a lot of kids .. cope harder

He's not the happiest also

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Shey the nylon inside is meant to make it look like tokunbo?

Empiree:
you don't get it, sir.

okay bro.. Allahu A'lam

true2god:
Noted. In any conversation, points are always made to 'subdue' the opponents argument, as long as you have your facts right.

my brother.. Islam is not about argument .. it's about assisting ourselves to righteousness.. and if you're looking for fault in people, know that people are not perfect and you don't define Islam by some people...

true2god:
Which country then represents Islam? Muslims are always denying the Saudis anytime they 'misbehave'. The Saudis determines who performs hajj, and who don't, hence holding the key to the spiritual fulfilment of millions of Muslims.

By their fruits we shall know them. The fruits of Islam are there for all to see. You can't be a more Islamic than the prophet and the 'rightly' guided khalifas. I don't need to tell you that your prophets grandchildren were not killed by the Jews and the Christians but by fellow Muslims, hence the descendants of the prophet were completely WIPED OUT!

Saudi doesn't determine... Allah does.. I don't see any wrong in pointing one's fault irrespective of his status.. what they did is wrong, why are you so keen on denying this..
You seem like someone who wants to attack Islam... if you have vast knowledge about some matter, turn seek appropriate knowledge and stop talking due to your mere mind thoughts.. May Allah guide us All.. and Allahu A'lam

true2god:
Not all protest are justified especially if its certain that life will be lost. The man that allegedly made the statement left unscathed while hundreds of non-muslims were killed and churches burnt. How can you justify Nigerians protesting over a cartoon drawn in far away Denmark? How does it affect us as a nation? And again, you can't censor and regulate how people should talk and think because it affects your religion. That's a crazy way of thinking! Comparing Islam to a scorpion is also derogatory, even if you don't know.

You are listing all the atrocities against Muslims without listing the atrocities of Muslims against non-muslims. Islam has been at war with non-muslims since its inception; I don't have to school you on this. All the first rightly guided khalifas are warmongers who spread the religion through the sword. On the Rohyinga issue, the Rohyinga people are from Bangladesh (formerly part of India) who supported the British war effort against the Japanese in the 2nd world war. After the defeat of Japan, they were gifted with large chunk of land in Burma, now Myanmar, (the Burmanese supporting the Japanese) where they settle for over 50 years. The Myanmar people are only kicking the Rohyinga people out from their ancestral land. The Indian and the Bangladesh govt understood this simple historical fact hence they can do little by only ensuring that the Rohyinga people are relocated back to Bangladesh where they rightfully belong to. Read history and not media propaganda.

You are only blaming the west while Muslims are all ready to relocate to the west in their hundreds of millions. As long as many people don't put their house in order, they west will continue to play you like a 'ludo'. The Chinese people put their house in order and are now free from western control and interference. Put your house in order and no troublesome neighbour will disorganize your home.

May Allah increase us in Imaan and guide us in His religion... let's try to watch what we say...

Empiree:
Mawlid is bidiah and Haram.
But Maria songs are halal and sahih

songs are not halal

behavioural changes... many of us jump into relationship before realising much before our partner.. though it depends sha

Rubbiish:
You Muslims don't get it, no one is against celebrating whatever type of religion festival on the road, but while doing it allow others sharing that same road to use it. When Catholics celebrate palm sundays they don't block other road users from using the road. But shiites takes complete possession of the road on most occasion. The footage of d Nigerian army pleading with them to allow them pass is on youtube, reason all these are happening just to curtail their impunity, or else it might escalate into something uncontrollable. I see no reason why a small group of worshippers will block the chief of army staff from using any road, it is an insult to we as a nation. The army is the pride of any nation, a country with weak army force is a weak nation...Regardless of the era of government we are in, be it democracy or military...

I understand whatever you're saying... buh catholics block roads sometimes... let's not argue over this bro...

May God ease our affairs

Nigerians are full of hypocrisy... Though what they are doing is wrong... no one stops the catholics when they parade the road... when the Christians also celebrates their palm Sunday... causing traffic.. which is common in Lagos... smH

Sterling bank put up an Ad that looks like intimidating other banks.. and as you know Nigerians.. they've given the bank savaging replies....

man u and chivita ;Dman u and chivita

Chai even Herdsmen dey follow beef Person

if I were you, I wouldn't say that... see charcoal calling pot black... see someone talking bouh maturity. there are just different kind of fake people hiding under nairaland....

Rioemrys:
Google is your friend!

bring your jet... hating...

Rioemrys:
Childishness

Modified: yeah, I made FTC on my first day of officially joining Nairaland (by creating an account) OP comment doesn't count here. The hustle is real... all my haters quoting me and saying rubbish argue with your phone, Davido nd Chioma re just two immature attention seekers and I hope they grow up soon.

I dedicate this FTC to all the Lost Souls. R.I.P

and what's your definition of mature sir

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Nltaliban:
Strike out your number. I've sent it to the admin, you'll be added once he comes online

please add me too 07016729490

Please help a brother here.... Can anyone help me with petroleum engineering course outline... I'm very grateful my brothers and sisters... Thanks

Finally.... After waiting... My caps admission status changed from not admitted to admitted... I pay my respect to my elders here oh... Looking forward to.meet you guys during clearance. . . I hail my fellow engineers in the making

I am still seeing not admitted despite meeting the cut off.. Pet engr... Any hope?

bukdan:
They will resolve this issue soon jareh. See it as a slight glitch
@Temillistic, our admission is secured bro. We have done our part. It's UI /JAMB bureaucracy that is causing this prob

do you know of any ui engr aspirant that his admission status on caps read admitted?

[quote author=samuelizz post=62556975]Finally..

Its been GOD all the way!! [/quiote] bad boss... Gimme the good news ... What course

Abeg oh bosses of all bosses in this room... I'm seeing not admitted.... Any hope?

Bobola07:
3mL of 12M HCl intravenous will do just fine to drop your bp.

Cheers

all I can say to you is THANKS

bukdan:
Aside @Legendking, any other tech aspirant(met merit cutoff) admitted should please let us know

how far nah... Bro, what's your admission status still displaying?

LegendKing:
Be patient bro. They can't succeed. Hope you fulfilled all righteousness sha??

I have oh.. I am not seeing "admission in progress" instead I'm seeing "not admitted" my bp was 200 last week ... Any doctor in the room... I need to suppress the rate at which my bp is increasing