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If it is due to work they both ( the wife and husband) only need to pray for a better job but otherwise it is extremely sick.

I am married, I can't stay out till 9pm. Max is 8pm. An it is upbringing problem. My mom takes it almost a crime to return home past 7pm.

kynbasil01:
i think you need your head checked. ...4 your information KALU has case in court over corruption issues and has been running from pillar to post to get a favorable judgment. .. and your APC accepted him with bold hands even with his corrupt cases....he can only deceive your likes

APC will not support anyone from joining the party. The real question to ask is, have they thrown away the case in court? If they have not then your outburst is meaningless so make use of your own advise and check your head asap. You could do with it.

Achuwa1:
Sahara reporters are just a propaganda media house

If not for the poor educational system in the country, you will understand Dino isn't the one to pay judges but the government. But yet you spend the most important time of your life defending this same corrupt bastards that have ensured you got a poor education. Shame, big shame on you.

Achuwa1:
She said she got paid for handling Dino's case or do u want her to render a legal service free of charge?

A judge is now being paid by Dino? Or do you lack understanding this much?

EmekaBlue:
give me d money to leave na or shut up

So you don't have the money to leave but spend the bulk of your time on here defending those who are the main reason you are so broke.

Continue in your folly.

Tahrah:
Your zombiesm is of the highest order

I can see you are on your period. I have been informed that's how you behave when on period.

Ndo. Kpele.

ZombieTERROR:
Buhari made it clear in America that their are two regions in Nigeria
The 5 and 97 percents
The 5% should not expect the goodies he has for the 97%
No president have said such since the history of mankind on earth

Post the exact quote or shut up forever.

ZombieTERROR:
Who doesn't know Buhari is a bad luck
A confirm jihadist .. Coupist and tribalist

Buhari is a terrorist

Who doesn't know the so called foreigner is a foolish jobless Ipob with too much data.

And it is irony that an Ipob can call someone a tribalist. No tribe in the world is more tribalistic than you lots.

Tahrah:
The president's health is shrouded so much in secrecy that we can't sift the lies from the truths.I don't care if he never comes back

Ordinary menstrual period you hide from your family members. Your menstrual period period ( if you are wise enough to decode the need for period, period) is shrouded in so much secrecy from EVEN your family.

Based on that, leave Buhari alone. Na your health? We elect him to rule Nigeria not to tell us about his health. He has done nothing unconstitutional you lot only enjoy crying wolf.

EmekaBlue:
Politicians using heads of zoogerians to play kpankpangolo

Orji u better don't let me call u an outcast o.

Kalu is outcast and Dino and Saraki are now an incast. Right?

Hatred for the truth will end up ruining you lot.

IPOBs won't like this. They will call Kalu several unprintable names now as he has refuse to join their idiocy.

They disown people who do not support their evil agenda just as easy as they adopt evil, corrupt foools who are only taking advantage of them. May the spirit of Ipob never befall us.

Dino's political career will end just like that. That's what you get when you are corrupt and have more money than sense.

When he ought to have laid low, he was busy fighting people more powerful than him thinking he is Saraki who himself is only allowed to get away with his nonsense for now.

Kudos to SR once again. Always on the neck of our useless politicians. If only we have 2-3 more media outlets like them.

Now let me seat back and watch how the usual suspect will deny Dino as usual. Shameless people who are hungry yet defending those taking food from their mouths.

Danishguy:
Na them... Pathetic scammers

My first online purchase was a really bad experience, all thanks to the thieves from the west.

Seun please do something about this tribalism on nairaland. It is getting serious out of hand.

2rhymestharap:
Alagbado Lagos, somewhere after Abule Egba towards Sango otta Ogun

I used to live at Alakuko hence I know those areas well. Unfortunately I got something else before you reply.

Best of luck.

Jayson1:
They only see corrupt men in the SS, but the NE and NW are free from their search.


A round of applause to the bias EFCC.

See them jumping into my mention like grasshoppers.

Sicknote.

okosodo:
If true, this is the first legitimate arrest EFCC has done without propaganda

I am so tired of you lot. Which arrest is not legitimate. Maybe we should educate each other.

Now speak. Let's discuss.

This will degenerate into a tribal war soon.

Whats the current price for your Samsung Galaxy Note 4? And how do I pick it up in Ibadan?

Where is the location? I am keenly interested.

My wife will get her own surprise rav 4 soon. Hopefully this year. But regardless, she must get that Rav 4. MUST.

oheni:
If you have never spoken Chinese language in your life. Today it's your chance to speak it.Reapeat this words as fast as you can,....."My shoe shall shine soon''.

If you are truly a girl, I pity you would be husband. Someone died and this nonsense is what you could post? Shame to your upbringing. Idiota.

RIP to the dead.

Jman06:
Your brother needs some kind of tough love as a correctional strategy. Give him that tough love or have him grow into a fooll at 40.

I'll suggest you don't send him out because if you do, he'll go and stay with your dad and your dad doesn't seem like he can handle him.

My advice, go to all those mallams that sell cow, get a good ''koboko'', take it home and hide where he will never see it. Next time you send him on an errand and he refuses, pretend like all is well, in the night, after giving him enough food, call him inside, lock the door, kneel him down and beat the shiit out of his asz. Make sure you don't inflict major injuries on him though. Afterwards, tell him why you did that and that it will continue until you see remarkable changes in him. I know you might not have the heart to beat your brother, but you have to. He is at that age where you have to apply the beating strategy, else he would grow into something worse.

If his father can't deal with his OWN mess why should the op does? Who GOD trusted with the upbringing of the children?

The father should clear his mess. He said he is 25, maybe the brother is 19 ( if someone is between them) or 23 if he is the op's immediate brother, he can't possibly correct him with cane at that age. He is gone past that level. What can correct him is the harsh realities of life.

If he can't send him out, he should stop fending for him. He should instead get him a job and let him take charge of his life.

Me, I will send him out, trust me.

Afam4eva:
If it was not your blood, i would have asked you to throw him out asap but since he's your brother, i'll advise you sit him down one day and tell him your mind, i mean everything. His reaction will determine whether you should throw him out or now. If he continues with his foolery then send him back home. Don't mind what people or your parents will say, cos it's normal. Don't also forget to report him to your parents too so that when you eventually kick out his behind. they'll know he caused it.

Bro to be honest with you, seating him down won't change jack. People like him learn the hard way.

The OP's brother's problem is mentality, upbringing problem. The op can't change it. Only the harsh realities of life can change it. Me, I will send him packing without even telling my parents first. He must have told them how he has been behaving and they must have seen it too.

Time to act before he falls into depression and ultimately become suicidal.

bencarson007:
Your father failed in his responsibility by giving out what is supposed to be used to care for his family... Family comes first... Give the extra out later afterall pastors are also humans with families... Let ur papa face his own forget all this holy holy wey he dey claim and do... 2.). Send that little bugger back to ur dad and let them all sort out their issues themselves... You are too young for this shit and ur business is in its growing stage... Stop subscibing for him and feeding him like a fool... Send him back or u will regret. Give ur mom what u can to support her and tell ur sister to stop borrowing ur dad her upkeep money... U wan die b4 ur time ? ... Anyways u hold the key... Over and out

GOD bless you greatly.

Davash222:
Are you sure he's your blood brother


I mean your younger brother


And you have the nerves to say this thrash


You want to send your brother out of your house


Bro, you should be Glad and grateful you have a brother, cherish him, no matter what. I mean, he's your brother!

Shut up already. Or are you the brother and trying to manage damage? If you are he will ( if he is wise) send you out and nothing will happen.

An ungrateful bastard of a brother should not be allowed near the op. He is is good boy, I giver who is being taken advantage of. You or the brother should not kill him for his generation.

He fends for him, his brother should do the same or if he can not, he should go to his parents.

If you are not the brother and your read what he wrote, you asap need your head checked.

Listen mate, your father and your mother trained him that way and it is only them that can correct or pad their mess.

I was/am like you. I fend for everyone but every now and then my sibling say some rubbish about me. It was hell when I was single became worst when I got married, they are all lazy, idiotic, ungrateful, barbaric and hypocrites.

They have been working hard to frustrate my marriage because until this week I was weak and allowed their mess hoping for the best that will NEVER arrive.

They pushed me to point of depression, for 6 years Nairaland and sex was my survivor, when Nairaland crashed about 2 years ago, suicide was my only option until my girlfriend ( now my wife and mother of my daughter) miraculously stepped in and helped me over this.

For several years I was on meds that cause 27k a month just to keep my BP normal as I was not sleeping at all. All my family cared ( cares) about is money.

I am telling you this just so you know I have something much more worst than yours and for you to know someone who has gone through ( going through) similar is the one advising.

Forget what Africans will say, send that boy back or away and learn to LOVE YOURSELF first. Damn all consequences. The heavens won't fall. Note that if today something happens to you others will fend for themselves. I pay school fee of 480k every session for my own sister, feed the whole family and do all sort of for them but that wasn't enough. My siblings are always going about saying rubbish ( especially on facebook and my mom and dad just look away even when I draw their attention to it).

Be firm, be a man. Make your decision and stick by it. Your brother sorry to say is an ingrate and should be sent out. No mercy for anyone that wants you dead. He wants you dead if not why would he be that stupid and barbaric.

If your parents can't clear their own mess, you can't too.

The bible is even clear on this. You are to love your parents and family not to be RESPONSIBLE for them. Your brother at the moment feels he is your responsibility and your parents technically feel the same way too. They are bloody not your responsibility. If anything they should be responsible for you and not the other way round. If you are the first born maybe your father is in his lazy 50s, he is still very young.

In fact if I were you I would stop "borrowing" my money to my father. Hypocrites will chastise me for saying this but let them say. I have seen it all. A father who will rather take care of outsiders rather than his family is no father, he is not even GODLY as he has abandoned his PRIMARY responsibility if what you said up there is true.

Take care of yourself FIRST. If you are 25, I assume your brother is at least 23, he can fend for himself. I started paying my parents 120k rent when I was 18 going 19. I am 31. Their rent is now 350k, mine is 450k. I do it every year but never enough and this is despite paying school fee ( school of a child they put in a private school without first consulting me and a child who goes about saying nonsense about me, I will I can post everything here so you understand what I am saying).

If you were to die today, your brother won't die. Harsh fact. Don't depress yourself over irresponsible, lazy and ungrateful bastards.

I think week made the decision ( a decision I should have made 5 years ago ) of being responsible for myself, my wife, my daughter and my parents. My siblings are old enough to take care of themselves. Making this decision has made things a lot more easier for me mental wise. If you don't appreciate you lose it. He doesn't appreciate. Loose yourself off him.

If you want to talk to someone, I am a pm away.

Prince16:
The hypocrisy @ play here is hydra-headed!
Its a mixture of subconscious crime imprint coupled th ethnic bigotry!

This same goons droolin thrash will applaud SR had d name DINO been substituted with BUHARI/TINUBU!

They are a disgrace to be honest. They have no shame.

Mandesz:
only a fool like u will take any SR news serious.

Only hypocrites like you take SR serious when they report against the government but they are not worth taken serious when they report something that favours the government.

Davash222:
Who takes SR serious these days

They would have been worth taken serious if they were reporting something against the government.

jomonic:
If you can write all of the above my response is that you are a child.

Yes, a child to my father and mother. But I am more likely older than you.

IgboSubmarine:
See this one begging for Unity

Mu raised to power 2, who wants unity with people suffering from cancerous level of delusion. Unity with people whose mind is often filled with thoughts of how to defraud others?

Not for me.