Family › Re: I Caught My Wife Making Dirty Calls With A Guy. Help by abescom: 1:06pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
TheEminentLaity: You do know it's a whole world of difference if in your sex-starved state, caused by repeated turning down of your love requests from your wife, a number of attractive females persistently woo you - as it is for fine married women getting little attention and rejection from their husbands.
Dissatisfaction + Attraction + Opportunity = Cheating You are right. But still same women will shout "all men are the same" nonsense. Most of them these days are on a "pity me" party rather than accept fact for fact. But let's not derail this thread. |
Family › Re: I Caught My Wife Making Dirty Calls With A Guy. Help by abescom: 9:21am On Sep 16, 2017 |
FitnessDoctor: Actually a woman who knows she is married and tells a toaster that she will think about it is already cheating. Ask yourself if you are married with a son would you give any other man the slightest chance to think he can date you. No, no matter how close he comes. and how did he get her number and why is she still picking his calls? The hypocrisy of women of these days stinks honestly. If it was a man who did that they all will be shouting to high heaven but see how they are tactically encouraging a married woman to continue as she has done no wrong. Who gave the dude her number in the first place, why was she laughing? Imagine that same woman catch her husband taking a good look at another woman's ass, imagine what her reaction would be. The rate at which women of these days justification their nonsensical attitudes is appalling to me honest. |
Family › Re: I Caught My Wife Making Dirty Calls With A Guy. Help by abescom: 9:16am On Sep 16, 2017 |
kimbraa: It depends. In this situation the man is already bitter 'cause he's suspicious of the wife's fidelity, and in the stead of keeping mute when you know things are happening under your nose, communication is good.
At times we say "I'll think about it when we're not interested but enjoy being chased". For a married woman, I don't see why she'd indulge a dude that far but the op has to discuss things with her and perhaps cut her some slack 'cause you can't really tell if she was interested. I will think about what? Whats there to think about? Who gave the guy her phone number in the first place? Sorry to say but this is silly. A married woman who appreciates her home shouldn't even be thinking about a guy wooing her. You should point blank restrict the devil and he will flee. |
Family › Re: I Caught My Wife Making Dirty Calls With A Guy. Help by abescom: 9:13am On Sep 16, 2017 |
kimbraa: For the fact that she's married doesn't stop other men from chasing after her 'cause some would, even with a ring on. What these ones want is to get in-between her legs. You women need to stop this. The fact that I ask a man I am married does not mean I am all of a sudden blind, I also see other women. Men Refrain from doing anything stupid despite the fact that I can if I want to especially in these day and age that women are so freaking cheap. No justification for a married woman allowing herself to be flirted too and even laughing over it. She is obviously welcoming it. I wonder what you women's narrative would have been if the case was to be reversed and it is the man. You won't come up with this your excuse then I guess. Thinking of divorce over the issue is quit a rash decision to take. You either iron things out with her by discussing the conversation you heard or go detective for more facts. I personally won't allow someone considering cheating or probably have cheated in my house. No way. |
Family › Re: I Caught My Wife Making Dirty Calls With A Guy. Help by abescom: 9:09am On Sep 16, 2017*. Modified: 10:41am On Sep 16, 2017 |
torres89: most times the problem is always within us.
but we are always looking for whom to blame...
have you considered spoiling your woman with enough flirting and romance 
if u can't do that, then someone else will do the job for you.... This is rubbish to be honest. So because he doesn't spoil his wife with "enough flirting and romance" means she has the right to cheat? I am a seriously sex starved married man does that mean I can go and cheat because my wife most often says no when I ask? Let the OP spoil her however he wants, if she wants to cheat she will cheat. Not buying this your post at all. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Primate Elijah Ayodele "Warning To The Nations": Nigeria Will Divide By 2032 by abescom: 1:09pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
I wanted to comment earlier then refrained because I do not know if GOD is talking to him or not but the Arsene Wenger part forced my hand.
Oga pastor, I can make better predictions than this. Honestly. And I and you can't be serving this say GOD. My GOD will be categorical and not one who will be saying "may, may, may, may" like a stammer. |
Politics › Re: 3 Boko Haram Members Arrested In Ajao Estate, Isolo, Lagos by abescom: 4:12pm On Sep 12, 2017 |
Hausa community arrested while some people who are always the victim won't see anything wrong in an idiot recruiting his own "soldiers" in a lawful country.
Shame on them. |
Business › Re: Naira Falls Towards N400-$1 As Electioneering Resumes by abescom: 1:18pm On Sep 12, 2017 |
LordAdam16: When you were typing to your heart's content that you wanted it to crash earlier this year, you didn't remember you were a freelancer abi?
Just look at yourself.
Everybody looks after his/her own interests. So don't call the marketers "stup*d." In fact, another hike in prices is in the horizon thanks to the imminent minimum wage increase. That your 365k would be worth a whole lot less, when wage increases and marketers hike their prices accordingly.
A free float would have kept the rate at circa N400 which is good news for everyone. Now we're all looking at a possible dive to 300-330, which is bad for everyone except the government since it makes them look good and importers who are making a killing already, because most political stalwarts already have their stockpile of dollars that they bought when CBN was selling billions of dollars at dirt cheap rate.
As a freelancer, brace yourself, sh*t may hit the fan.
-Lord Stop being judgmental. You don't even know me. I have always wanted the naira to crash and how do you know I am a freelancer, I don't get employed, I employ people. Not being arrogant but stating the fact. Don't judge people from afar please. |
Business › Re: Naira Falls Towards N400-$1 As Electioneering Resumes by abescom: 7:42am On Sep 12, 2017 |
hardwerk: kindly put me through how i can earn even 200-300$ monthly like you please I get request like this constant and I feel guilty that procrastination won't let me teach what I know. But follow me back, constant get into my mention for the next 3 weeks, I will write a detailed ebook. For guys like you and those in my church and will be 100% free. |
Business › Re: Naira Falls Towards N400-$1 As Electioneering Resumes by abescom: 7:34am On Sep 12, 2017 |
I won't mind honest. It may sound selfish as I earn in dollars but would ordinarily have wanted it to crash but of what significant effect does a crash have on prices of commodities?
The stupiid marketers have till date refused to reduce the prices of commodities that jacked up when the naira was circa 500 to a dollar. My $1000 that was worth 500k has reduced to just 365k but I still buy stuffs at the price I was buying when it was 500k. |
Properties › Re: Few Month Use Split Ac For Sale by abescom: 7:28am On Sep 12, 2017 |
Where is the location? |
Crime › Re: Police Parade Suspected Ritual Killer, Ifeanyi Dike, In Rivers by abescom: 7:06am On Sep 12, 2017 |
goodvision12: Make yu no allow bigots matter kill yu oo the only thing it has done is that it has forced me to stop reading comments on nairaland. |
Crime › Re: Police Parade Suspected Ritual Killer, Ifeanyi Dike, In Rivers by abescom: 3:34pm On Sep 11, 2017 |
Michael004: This is one of the reason I always thank God for not creating me as igbo. The way you person reason even tire God himself. Seconded. |
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Crime › Re: Police Parade Suspected Ritual Killer, Ifeanyi Dike, In Rivers by abescom: 3:18pm On Sep 11, 2017 |
But the bigots keep saying only yorubas do this? The rot is everywhere. GOD save the world. |
Computers › Re: Hp 15 Note Laptop For Sale by abescom: 6:07am On Sep 08, 2017 |
Can you do pay on delivery to Ibadan? |
Computers › Re: Cheap Usa Used Hp Pavilion Dv5 With Backlit Keyboard -SOLD by abescom: 5:45am On Sep 08, 2017 |
Can this be negotiated? Willing to call to discuss a price if yes. |
Family › Re: My In-laws Are Making Me Get Tired OF MY Marriage by abescom: 3:11am On Aug 29, 2017 |
Don't blame anyone but yours husband. He allowed the madness. My siblings started on my wife ( with my mom certainly fuelling things from behind) but all it cost me is ceasing contact with everyone of them. Family is not by force. If you a so called family is ready to frustrate my marriage I will just show you I won't all it. Your husband needs to accept he is married now and you and the kids ( if any yet) are his priority. His aunties are not worth it. If they want peace give them peace. If they want war and you can't give them war, step away. Keep them at bay. MrsBimbo123: My father in law is late (RIP), he was a good man and he never stressed me. When things were really rough for my husband, I didn't see any family member, in fact no one came to visit us except my father in law, my mother in law too is late.
My problem is my husband's two Aunties, for 2 years now they have been making my life miserable, always saying bad things about me to people. Someone in my husband's family told me that they are behaving like that because they think I am the one collecting my husband's money but God knows. They are always demanding large sum of money from my husband & I don't mind (it's none of business, even though my husband complain to me most times).
There was a day one of my husband's aunt told my husband to always tell them about anything he is doing. One thing I will never accept from any human being is someone disrespecting my mom, one of his aunt was talking anyhow to my mom few months ago (my mom is very old & she doesn't make trouble). They also talk anyhow to me in public and in the presence of my staff that I will even start crying due to the embarrassment.
I have complained to my husband several times & he told me to do whatever I wish to do to them but It's not in my nature to disrespect elderly people, they are really pushing me, if they continue behaving like this I might disrespect them.
I can remember how my husband's family members tell me that women don't stay long in their family before they go but which woman will stay long with the way they treat them.
I didn't know from the beginning, I have been with my husband for 5years now, he is a very good person, in fact he told me himself that he wish he has no family member, he also told me that he can't talk to them about the way they are behaving.
I will appreciate any good opinion, God bless you all. |
Computers › Re: ..... by abescom: 9:03pm On Aug 24, 2017 |
Is this still available? Your number isn't going. computerboy: A Very solid deal slim and light weight ultrabook
DELL INSPIRON 15R 5537 ULTRABOOK
CONDITION: USED (MINT)
SPECIFICATIONS: PROCESSOR - Intel core i7-4500U (Haswell) RAM - 8GB STORAGE - 750GB GRAPHICS - INTEL HD 4400 ENERGY STAR CERTIFIED WAVES MAXXAUDIO 4.0 SKULLCANDY SPEAKERS (SUPER LOUD) DISPLAY - LED back-lit 15.6" inch (1366 x 768) OPERATING SYSTEM - Windows 10
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Price - 120,000 |
Computer Market › Re: New Hp Laptop With 4gb Ram, 500gb Hd And Touchscreen by abescom: 4:31pm On Aug 24, 2017 |
Still available? |
Computer Market › Re: Forsale! Neat Dell Latitude E6400 4GB Ram 250HDD by abescom: 4:28pm On Aug 24, 2017 |
Still available? |
Computer Market › Re: Amazing Prices Of Used and New HP Laptops - Okeyson Computers (from 85K)... by abescom: 4:27pm On Aug 24, 2017 |
Do you have a cheaper core i3? |
Crime › Re: Plus-Sized Woman Stealing From A Supermarket Caught On Camera (Video) by abescom: 11:59am On Aug 24, 2017 |
swiz123: And she is stealing only drinks... She must b a drunk Before I opened the thread I felt pity for hard. Things are hard in the world right now but she is stealing just drinks? Pathetic. It is obviously not hunger and poverty pushing her, it is greed, covetousness and the laziness that made her excessively fat. Shame she was not caught at that time, but she has only suspended her judgment day, she will be caught soon. Stupiid woman. |
Computers › Re: ..... by abescom: 6:47am On Aug 21, 2017 |
computerboy: Very portable Stylish gaming laptop for students
HP PAVILION DM4
CONDITION: USED - Minimal scratches
SPECIFICATIONS: PROCESSOR - Intel core i5 RAM - 6GB STORAGE - 640GB HDD GRAPHICS - 1GB DEDICATED RADEON GRAPHICS ENERGY STAR CERTIFIED COOL SENSE TECHNOLOGY FINGERPRINT READER DISPLAY - LED back-lit 14" (1366 x 768) OPERATING SYSTEM - Windows 10 (Creators Update)
CONNECTIONS / INPUTS / OUTPUTS: 3 USB PORTS VIDEO OUT - HDMI, VGA ETHERNET PORT WIFI DVD/RW DRIVE WEBCAM
ACCESSORIES: POWER - HP AC Adapter BATTERY - 3hrs +
PRICE - 105,000 can this fly for 95k and how do I get it? Pay on delivery to ibadan possible? |
Computers › Re: ..... by abescom: 6:44am On Aug 21, 2017 |
I need a Dell or HP. 14 inch. At least 6 gb. Do you have any? |
Christianity Etc › Re: This Is How A Christian Should View Homosexuality by abescom: 12:04pm On Aug 13, 2017 |
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Properties › Re: A Real Estate Agent's Encounter With 419 Scammers by abescom: 7:41am On Aug 08, 2017 |
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Phones › Re: 6.5m Nigerians Activate DND Code To Stop Unsolicited SMS by abescom: 7:41am On Aug 08, 2017 |
I have used that code many times and still get silly messages especially when waiting for a credit alert. |
Romance › Re: How I Stopped Tying Wrappers Around The House... Very Humiliating Experience by abescom: 6:20pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
Benita27: I kind of have this feeling that the op is lying. No guy will walk through a crowd with wrapper. Whether he lies or not, na your lie? I laughed so hard and my wife even join and that's what matters. Funniest thread I ever read on nairaland. |
Sports › Re: Neymar To PSG: The 10 Previous Deals That Broke The World Transfer Record by abescom: 10:28am On Aug 04, 2017 |
ollah1: Based on exchange rate, the amount was equivalent to £200M as against £197M widely reported and his wages is £515,000. According to reports, PSG will declare it as a free transfer in order to get pass FFP laws. The Quatari government is apparently paying Neymar £500m ( which covers the buy out clause fee and his wages for five years) for Neymar to be an ambassador for the 2022 world cup. Smart move on their part as they won't have been able to justify it. |
Sports › Re: Neymar To PSG: The 10 Previous Deals That Broke The World Transfer Record by abescom: 10:23am On Aug 04, 2017 |
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Celebrities › Re: Shina Peller Visits & Greets Ooni Of Ife, Ogunwusi (Photos) by abescom: 8:28pm On Jul 28, 2017 |
Agimor: Some persons will call a form of respect, but when they see Catholics doing same the statue of the blessed virgin Mary they tagged it has worship. Double standard. senseless post. Is the ooni a craven image? |