₦airaland Forum

nijabazaar:
Chai...


But let's be sincere, if Enyimba or Rangers should have a line up of Five Chinese, 2 Europeans and three Tunisians will We Nigerians complain?
If and when we complain, will we be tagged Racists?

Your head dey there. Personally I see nothing racist about what the guy said.

Peterobi90:
But we are only concerned about Wike enforcing laws protecting his people...

If Buhari had done what Wike did, will you in all honesty have said what you said?

Be honest, let GOD be your witness.

Dganji:
More than ever am not happy with my mom.

I have this younger sister who was adopted by my dad from his younger sister (her father is late), she's just 10 years of age and I really don't like my mom's attitude towards that little girl. In the past when i was much younger, my mom had many quarrels with the mother of my adopted sister which I really can't give accurate count on who's right or wrong, but for the record my aunty (younger sis mom) is very troublesome no doubt.

She started living with us June last year and I noticed she's always very happy when me or my dad comes home. I was thinking it was because we were very nice to her, not knowing the kind of pressure she was going through at home.

Several occasions I have seen my mom saying too many harsh words to that little girl which I am not comfortable with but I've had to keep my calm. I feel reacting would make my mom hate her more as she might feel the little girl has turned her children against her.

The saddest part of it is that our last born who's 15 years is taking the same part with my mom in frustrating that little girl. Today Ilost my cool and reacted and truth is I'm not willing to continue keeping calm again.

My immediate younger brother (we are 3 boys and no girl) decided to start taking this my little sister out for jugging cos she's too fat. She always returns home crying cos of the pressure they put on her to jug. My mom on hearing her cry today came out and started beating her and saying hatefull words to her, including insulting her mom, calling her mom names which honestly would get any child angry if they are told same about their parent.

Out of annoyance I got up and shouted at my mom to leave her alone that it's becoming too bad for her as a mother to treath children like that. Instantly my mom kept calm and guilt was written all over her face. I'm honestly not happy about disrespecting my mom but I'm no longer keeping my calm.

There was a time when my dad had to take similar action against my mom and it didnt go well for anybody, the little girl suffered more hate from my mom and my dad wasnt really happy with my mom that period.

Returning that little girl back to her mom is never an option as the environment where her mom is very negative and would no doubt worsen her situation.

Talking to my mom calmy about it has been done by me and my immediate younger brother but problem still persists.

My worries are.
1, the little girl
2, my youngest brother who is taking after my mom
3 me disrespecting my mom.

Nairalanders your advice would be appreciated on this situation. I already have what to do in mind already but I will love to hear from those who have experienced similar situation and how best to handle it.

Kudos to you boy. I am happy reading this from you. Shows me you will grow up to become a real man, a responsible man. May the GOOD LORD give you a good wife to boot.

Now, you have done absolutely nothing wrong. Of course I doubt your mom will even chance, you know what they say about old habits however, keep speaking up, maybe just maybe she will change.

I had/have a similar issue, was practically disowned for it....let's leave it here.

KingAzubuike:
Igbos aren't cowards, we always say no to oppression.

And you know he is an igbo how? Plus no igbo there has gotten that treatment?

You chest beaters are sick set of idiots.

judedwriter:
Very painful....

That Roberto bagio's clinical finish broke my little heart

Yekini's miss broke my heart more. And of truly the match was sold, Yekini must have had a part to play in it all.

ghettokid1:
Not wicked but ignorance

Ignorantly wicked.

ejighikemeuwa:
Remember that the tanko handling this case came to the position unjustly for the purpose of fulanisation, he cannot give just judgment no matter the clearity of your truth and justice.

So it was not the same SC when it was Baysela case right?

You lot are sick.

Buhari's handling of this herdsmen farmers issues has been beyond disgraceful.

We know many of the killings are politically motivated but truth be told, issues like this one happens because the government's inaction has given all herdsmen he audacity to do as they want.

It is pathetic.

Where in Ibadan?

J

Are you planning to beat her?

Oluneutral:
Did I just read you calling these accusations little things? Abeg, fear God o, these aren't trivial issues please. These can literarily run a man mad.

Gbam

Mstick:
Mr shut the FUÇK UP! if you’ve an issue with your spouse take it to your spouse or a counselor!


Nairaland is a site overrun with kids and never do wells and this thread will not go on without his wife being called names and idiôts will fill OPs head with crazy ideas just watch!


If nairaland stop existing then where will you and your kind take their issues to?!


You’re not wise no wonder you came to nairaland to look for advice, he said his wife forgets their anniversary so what brought about sex,money, househelp and her not working?!


I don’t know how grown adults can bring topics about their spouse to this site knowing fully well how rude people are on here. How do you feel when you read insulting posts and names directed at your spouse?!

How the hell am I pulling him down?! So because I ask him not to bring his family matter on here that’s pulling down?! You need to get wise.

I won't bother with a sicknote just so I don't derail his thread.

Mstick:
Oga if you’re running nuts like you claimed you wouldn’t add all the flimsy details about giving your wife money knowing fully well how much it triggers the boys on this forum, after all if you don’t give your wife money who will?

I don’t understand why you need to add the “she practically doesn’t work” part if you really don’t want your wife to be insulted by kids on this forum.

Your sex life is NOT anyone’s business and it’s also not for public consumption so why do you need to add that detail?

If you feel your wife doesn’t love you, don’t you think she’s on the best position to answer that instead of exposing your family to ridiculous advice from never do wells?

You and your kind should learn not to comment on issues on nairaland if you have nothing tangible to say on the issue.

Many people who come here ( and I have had to at some point ) do so because they need help and want to get it without revealing their identity. The fact that you don't need such at the moment doesn't mean others are petty.

And he adding the money and work aspect is quite justifiable. He obviously is trying to make people see work isn't an excuse.

And if you give someone as much as he has said he gave and you still get called names because you help someone in genuine need you surely will be angry too.

Let's stop pulling others down because you have a way of belief that's different from theirs.

jaephoenix:
It doesnt make sense.What if NTA and co are pricing peanuts,are you saying DSTV must sell at that peanut price.T
That directive is plain bullshit

Did you see where it says Market viable rates?

thatigboman:
so did u get the sim back?

Thrown into a canal. Got the numbers back via my network. I had to call them. They asked several questions as I often call the numbers and was able to get them eventually.

Kendumazy:
Lol. Bad guy. You are very right. If you want to get an info of any bad deal or bad acts in an environment. The thugs in the environment surely know as he dey go.

I remember years ago when my phone was stolen in Egbeda Lagos. I was not interested in the phone as it was a 3k phone. Not a big fan of any gadget that isn't spelt L A P TOP but the sim was very important to me and it contained the phone number of two companies - the director of Goldlink insurance and that of a USA company I do blog outreach for.

I almost fainted when it was stolen but being friends with tons of okada men who are also friends with boys of the world I nearly got the phone...We found the boy who stole it but seeing the phone was useless he threw it in a canal. Pretty sure I would have seen it if it was a good phone.

Mannyemmy:
Are you interested in online business? I have some few ideas to share....

I am in that field already. I do outreaches for companies.

Bumped

alienvirus:
Include Lagos to Ibadan na. That will be like 5 mins in the air. Shortest flight in the world if implemented.

There are many of us who will gladly fly it.

What's the price please.

Note that whoever have interest will want to know the price before even calling at all.

Put the price let's see. I personally am interested.

Putting this in the press will only make the robbers kill the staff to cover their tracks.

The police should have just kept shut.

pretteemee:
First of all, please try not to put all your eggs in one basket.
Try Agriculture.
Oilpalm and Cashew business is very lucrative
It's deals with -Nursing of
Hybrid Oilpalm seedlings.
After 7months of nursing,a seedling is sold for #250-#350(let's say
U have about 4,000 pieces, multiply 4,000 by #250
that's about a million naira).
The good thing about
this particular business is that, customers are
always there to buy and the older it becomes the
more expensive it will be.
-Nursing of CASHEW
seedlings, different varieties.
The cashew gets ready
for sales after 3 weeks to one month and comes
with good profit too.
-Oil Palm Farming in large
quantity.
This is like investing in the future for great
financial return in less than 4yrs time.
-Cashew
farming too delivers profit like oil-money.
Its no news that Cashew business is one of the most
lucrative business in Nigeria and even in foreign
countries.
It's gradually becoming gold worldwide.
U can make more research on it

Thanks for this. Will note it down.

FuckThaMod:
I don't know why we don't like minding our business in this country. Science has proved recently that men can also give birth.. Free the man jor.

May your baby be kidnapped too. Since it is funny. Idiota.

EliteStriker:
check your email

Nothing from your username.

EliteStriker:
How do I contact you, I have a business generating $1000 within 2 months of starting that is for sale due to partnership tussle.

Send me a message on here. Use the private message option

Will appreciate more ideas.

AllenSpencer:
Punishment is too light.

They should be handed over to the state police and made to face the law.

Few years imprisonment won't be a bad idea.

All hand them over to the protesters, let them also experience what they dished out.

LabDNA:
Have you ever support an Easterner who is not in your prefered party?

Many. I support good governance not political parties. Funny thing is that it is you Easterns that have problems with other tribes. No one has problems with you guys.

LabDNA:
So if your politician is a performer, and the East suppports him, you are emotional enough to kick him out and the benefits by cutting your nose to spite your face. Who loses then?

Go ahead and mention that one politician that is doing well that you Easterns don't go against simply because he is in the APC?

Unless you are in denial you know the hate those anything ( good or bad ) that's not within PDP is coming from easterns

LabDNA:
Lol..yet some people are already celebrating. I won't be surprised if they want Dino to lose just so they can mock the East, as if Dino is an Eastern senator.

Maybe because you people support Dino and virtually everyone who goes against Buhari even if they are not easterns.

You and your people started that shiit now they give it back to you and you are all of a sudden itchy. You never see anything.

I just hope he is not coming to take the place of the young goalkeepers. Ike Shororunmu left the stage for him, he should leave the stage for others too.