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FamilyRe: How Has Fatherhood Changed You? by abescom: 3:55pm On Jun 18, 2017
subtlemee:
I wish I can remember what my father use to do for me in terms of physical love and care aside paying school fees and providing money for upkeep and occasional trips to zoo...all I remember is him waking in the morning,taking breakfast and zooming off to work to come back,eat,flog those who misbehaved,read news paper,watch NTA and go to bed..everything was my mother in sickness and in health


I can't let my husband suffer this,i'll make sure I include him in my kids care plan
I can imagine. With due respect, I had it worst. So much that I watched that movie Isoken and brought down in tears at the cinemas and my wife was embarrassed.

But we can do something, we can ensure our children do not go through what we go through. We can ensure we are what we desire as fathers.

This is my own plan. My daughter will have everything I did not have and she will never suffer what I suffered. The GOOD LORD help me.
FamilyRe: How Has Fatherhood Changed You? by abescom: 3:51pm On Jun 18, 2017
1. Before I got married I was depressive, it reduced when I got married but totally gone now. My wife and daughter makes it impossible to get depressed.

2. Before my daughter arrived, people's behaviour get at me, I no send them again now. I have my daughter and she rocks.

3. Before my daughter, I had plans for the future, but now I see the future and it is very bright. That energizes me to work even harder to achieve my goals.

4. Before my daughter I think of people first, who 99% of the time are not worth it, now I think of my immediate family first. Others can go and die if they want.

5. She drew me closer to GOD. Her "awesomeness" makes me appreciate GOD the more. I don't know why I deserve such a lovely girl but GOD says I deserve her, and that's what counts to me.

6. She makes it impossible to be lazy, her future is there to protect.

7. I think my shoulder has grown 2 inches taller the last 14 months.

And many more.
Technology MarketRe: ##ORDER LAPTOPS,PHONES,TABLETS,CLOTHES FRM USA,UK,GERMANY& DUBAI TO NIGERIA by abescom: 8:18am On Jun 18, 2017
Let's do this. I will limit it to books. About 15 soccer books. Send me your email so I can send the links.

Everything should be able $250.
Technology MarketRe: ##ORDER LAPTOPS,PHONES,TABLETS,CLOTHES FRM USA,UK,GERMANY& DUBAI TO NIGERIA by abescom: 7:08am On Jun 18, 2017
justi4jesu:
Welcome dear i ship almost anything. I buy and ship books as well so that shouldn't be a problem. I ship every friday and you get your items in 5 business days to Lagos.

After it gets to Lagos, then if you have a person to pick up in Lagos, the person can pick it up or a courier will be arranged for you to Ibadan if you choose.
Can I pay you via paypal or worldremit/bank to bank (I have UK bank).
Technology MarketRe: ##ORDER LAPTOPS,PHONES,TABLETS,CLOTHES FRM USA,UK,GERMANY& DUBAI TO NIGERIA by abescom: 8:28pm On Jun 17, 2017
Interesting service you have up there. How long does it take for you to ship to Ibadan? I need to order a phone and a laptop.

Also will you be willing to ship stuffs like books? Want to buy couple of football autobiographies and football history books.
PoliticsRe: PDP Governors Meet At Fayose's House In Abuja Over Supreme Court Judgement by abescom: 10:06am On Jun 16, 2017
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FamilyRe: Woman Beaten By Her Husband For Refusing To Have Early Morning Sex (Photo) by abescom: 9:23am On Jun 16, 2017
Vision4God:
My thought, he is inconsiderate.
What happened to discussion?
Can't he jokingly talk to her about it or express it in a way that both parties will understand?

Ds is so bad
Trust me she must have been doing it for a while. Can't be the first time. I refuse to believe the man will be so animalistic to do such a cruel thing based on a one off.

Even though I must also say he is a weak man. Only weak men beat women. Better ways to deal with them without offending GOD and creating a bad name for yourself.
FamilyRe: Woman Beaten By Her Husband For Refusing To Have Early Morning Sex (Photo) by abescom: 9:19am On Jun 16, 2017
dominique:
What is this one saying? undecided
No man should hit a woman, it is a sign of weakness but what segzy0i said up there is true.
FamilyRe: Woman Beaten By Her Husband For Refusing To Have Early Morning Sex (Photo) by abescom: 9:17am On Jun 16, 2017
geozone:
i dont see how this is related to the major crisis Nigeria is having
It is happening in Nigeria and it is a crisis.
FamilyRe: Woman Beaten By Her Husband For Refusing To Have Early Morning Sex (Photo) by abescom: 9:17am On Jun 16, 2017
Men such as that man makes me appreciate GOD. I am not perfect, I have my weaknesses but I am 100% certain I won't hit my woman over anything not to talk of over sex even though it can be painful when denied - especially constantly.
CareerRe: Photo Of Firefighters Looking Very Tired After Putting Off The Grenfell Fire by abescom: 7:57am On Jun 16, 2017
Nigeria will get there. Matter of time.
PoliticsRe: Abba Kyari Now In Charge At Aso Rock? - ex-British MP by abescom: 3:54pm On Jun 15, 2017
CampuChan:
This is coming after SaharaReporters also said the same thing.
Lalasticlala mynd_44
You believe SR now but being an hypocrite won't believe them when they report something that doesn't suit your agenda.
FamilyRe: My Son Won't Let Me Get Any Action by abescom: 2:48pm On Jun 14, 2017
sexybbstar:
I sent my phone number to your email address... Do u still want her to learn French.?
Yes want too. Send your number again.
PoliticsRe: CCB Declares Saraki Has No Case To Answer by abescom: 11:38am On Jun 14, 2017
And there goes the anti corruption charade. It was a fable. My heart bleeds for this country. What a sham?
FamilyRe: My Son Won't Let Me Get Any Action by abescom: 9:28am On Jun 14, 2017
sexybbstar:
Long time abescom
no see. Are you on BBM? DM me your pin
FamilyRe: My Son Won't Let Me Get Any Action by abescom: 11:13pm On Jun 13, 2017
Hahaha. I can imagine. This shiit happens to me always. Yesterday own was so annoying. I was bored and in the room with my daughter ( who was sleeping) wify pinged me " I want to eat you" omo see me see happiness oo, just when I wan go parlour go do the do, the little girl woke up.

Her mother begin accuse me saying I woke her whereas this girl does it constant. It is painful but I guess that's our sacrifice as parents. Your parents must have endured same for you.
CrimeRe: EFCC Captures 3 Yahoo Boys For N120 Million Fraud (Photos) by abescom: 9:54am On Jun 09, 2017
Nbote:
U do realise those boys are from Edo state ryt?? U're new and already joined up d bandwagown of morons propagating tribal hate... Na una type dey run after dem for inside club Joker ...
The nonsense is Seun and not Tahrah's fault. Seun should have put his feet down and stand against this forum being used for the sillyness. It can be done but he doesn't seem bothered about it.
CelebritiesRe: Fans Blast Lanre Gentry For Shading Mercy Aigbe by abescom: 8:43pm On Jun 08, 2017
Marry for the wrong reason ( money) and get the wrong treatment as well.
PoliticsRe: 3 Months Ultimatum: Reno Omokri Mocks Northern Youths, Praises Nnamdi Kanu by abescom: 2:59pm On Jun 08, 2017
Princewell2012:
Pls can you provide any prove of what you re saying or keep your damned mouth shot.
If you meant Kanu's useless and senseless hate speeches.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1XU2JtlUF6M
PoliticsRe: Quit Notice On Igbos: Arewa Youths Make U-turn, Call For Peace Meeting by abescom: 12:30pm On Jun 08, 2017
vantage001:
Bleh.
If nairaland is the sum of your yoruba worth, then you have absolutely nothing.
Linda Ikeji has a far profitable social media platform than nairaland and she is igbo. Even Bella naija that yoruba women flock to is owned by an illustrious igbo woman.
It is you who said yorubas are not appreciated and are useless but you can't do without nairaland. Bloody hypocrite.
PoliticsRe: Quit Notice On Igbos: Arewa Youths Make U-turn, Call For Peace Meeting by abescom: 12:00pm On Jun 08, 2017
vantage001:
Where are the yorubas to come and display their foolishness on this thread.
Evil people that nobody respects.
Yet you shameless visit on hourly basis a forum started and made popular by a yoruba man. Your life needs serious revaluation.
PoliticsRe: 3 Months Ultimatum: Reno Omokri Mocks Northern Youths, Praises Nnamdi Kanu by abescom: 11:57am On Jun 08, 2017
vantage001:
If you don't provide a proof of that then you are a basta**.
Bloody afonja nitwit. Treacherous animals
Who is now the bastard? Who is the nitwit? Dumbfuck.
PoliticsRe: 3 Months Ultimatum: Reno Omokri Mocks Northern Youths, Praises Nnamdi Kanu by abescom: 10:40am On Jun 08, 2017
vantage001:
If you don't provide a proof of that then you are a basta**.
Bloody afonja nitwit. Treacherous animals
Does this suffice or you want more?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1XU2JtlUF6M
PoliticsRe: 3 Months Ultimatum: Reno Omokri Mocks Northern Youths, Praises Nnamdi Kanu by abescom: 10:34am On Jun 08, 2017
People like Reno are just hypocrites. Where was he when Nnamdi Kanu was preaching hate asking igbos to kill and destroy those who do not agree with his ideology?
PoliticsRe: Court Refuses To Stay Further Proceeding In Fani-kayode Trial by abescom: 9:33am On Jun 08, 2017
Watch how in the next few days FFK will start attacking EFCC and accusing judges of corruption in a bid to put the judges in a tight corner. It will all fail.

His tactics all along was to attack the government as much as possible so people ( the gullible ) can believe his court cases is a way of the government getting back at him. It is not. He committed a crime and is trying so hard to get away with it.
PoliticsRe: Sylvanus Adiewere Nsofor: Senate Confirms 82-Year-Old Ambassadorial Nominee by abescom: 9:18am On Jun 08, 2017
The youth are to be blamed for the madness. Most of us are either chasing after women, or doing Yahoo or getting paid by the grandpas to defend their madness on social media.
FamilyRe: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by abescom: 7:47pm On Jun 06, 2017
munchi:
is there a way I can p chat you please ,even if it means dropping my own email
Go on
FamilyRe: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by abescom: 3:45pm On Jun 06, 2017
munchi:
what kind of work do you do pls?
Sports blogging and advertising.
PoliticsRe: $43.4m, £27,800, N23.2m Found In Ikoyi Residence Finally Forfeited by abescom: 2:16pm On Jun 06, 2017
Demolaeby:
I pity for this country. Why not give River state people their money and persecute Amaechi for the worst corruption he committed in the history of this nation. That money can make more than 5000 Nigeria youths millionaires. TELL NIGERIANS THE OWNER AND WHO IS FORFEITING THE MONEY?
Una no just dey think at all. If the money belongs to the state government why didn't they go to court and claim the money?

Just use your brain finally. I won't hurt but note that what you have but do not use,you will end up losing.
FamilyRe: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by abescom: 5:07am On Jun 06, 2017
I have been married for a little less than two years. The benefits are awesome.

1. Marriage gives me the assurance of a better future. I am a team player and my wife seems to have complemented me a lot in this aspect. She gives me the energy to keep going. She is like a torchlight into the future for me.

2. As all women are, my wife is so annoying but for the most part for the best. She gets the best of out me and knows how to help put my anger in check.

3. No more laulau spending. We building a future.

4. Some will be hypocritcal about this. But truth is I was depressive before we got married but she has helped fight that. Not by doing anything really but the more thoughts of her and my daughter gives me hope that I am going places.

5. Before I got married, I average between 700k to 1m per month in profit. I make less but have more than. I make less as I have to now combine with school. But we surprisingly have more. Part of what almost turned me to a pyscaritic patient.

6. I enjoy the thought of going out and knowing my wife and my daughter will welcome me home. You just give me an appointment then watch how I will lose interest in it all once it is approaching 6pm and I am not done with you.

7. My daughter. Just have a child first to understand this benefit.

8. My health became better because I all of a sudden became grateful and while being grateful I forgot my past hurts, I forgot how life was unfair to me. She opened my eyes.

9. My in laws. Nuff said on this benefit.
PoliticsRe: Orji Uzor Kalu Visits Buhari In London, Reveals When He Will Return To Nigeria by abescom: 2:06pm On Jun 05, 2017
Ngokafor:
..The shame is already consuming you cos you are certainly supporting Orji Uzor Kalu..or is he no longer corrupt?..yeye dey smell
You have problem with understanding simple writes up I guess. You are just a bloody troll.
PoliticsRe: Orji Uzor Kalu Visits Buhari In London, Reveals When He Will Return To Nigeria by abescom: 1:56pm On Jun 05, 2017
Ngokafor:
...You are simply a hypocrite..What you accuse others of doing are what you do yourself...You lots are masturbating and salivating over Orji Uzor Kalu simply because he said something that tickled your zombie fantasies and nothing,if he switches camp tomorrow,he becomes your enemy..Hypocrisy is your watchword indeed
Go on and check my posts then point out one post from me supporting idiots.

Shame on you if you can't find one.

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