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AmazeBalls: Salam sisters,I have been trying to find d right words,went for my pt today and it was negative.Alhamdulilah for everything.Allah knows best

zeezzy: @my sisters,tnks so much for being there.jazakumulahu khayran.it easy to share it here and just bare everything out.I don buy cloth sef but as they start distributing their invitation card last week,na so people dey rain me wit calls,dey proffer diff. solutions,one even has d gut to say make their pastor com pray for me,na so i tel am say we no get problem,we just neva ready to born and if there is a problem,Allah is sufficient for me,she vex,saying all sorts of things[she is my aunt{mum's elder sister}]some sound as if they have good intentions others as if they are mocking.Infact,dh cancelled our journey to Lagos for the ivf till after d wedding[i was cleaning everything in the house and eating,eating and eating{do that when depressed}when he asked what was wrong,i wept profusely{he said he has never seen me cried like that}.I think i will call mum and the celebrant.i just hope they understand.@amazeballs,you got it,its as if ttc make me to cease to be who i usually am in d family.May Allah help us.




@dear zeezzy I definetely know how u feel,my advise is dat u should go she's ur sister and one of ur responsibility is to be there for her no matter ur condition,if u dont go that will even be the worst,just put urself together nd be happy for her,like safe06 said think of what they will also say if u dont attend,u re not alone just leave everything for God, afterall we didn't create ourself,Allah knows best and may he answer all our prayers nd bless us beatiful nd healthy kids very soon.

pm05337: Glory be to God!!!!! my wife got a BFP this morning......At our second time of trying..Our 5yrs wedding anniversary gift ...My prayer for you all waiting upon the Lord is that this year will not pass you by ....Your joy will be full in Jesus' mighty name. Amen (Psalm 30:5,11 and 12)

rainyday: Amin. Pls my learned brothers and sisters,I will like to be educated more about fasting for a particular purpose,i.e fasting for 3 or 7days asking for Allah to bless one with the fruit of the womb. Jazakallahu khairan

inwangobio: @nogen, let me shock you a little, our 10th anniversary will be in August, there is no name my wife hasnt been called, one pastor that came to my former church to preach even said ' if u want to marry go for all these sec school leavers cos most university graduates have destroyed their wombs cos of several abortions and later they will come to be disturbing us for prayers.' That day my wife wept n wept, d morning she had bfp, som1 said that i went to marry a man like me. God is our justifier.

deols: May Allah answer all the prayers. Amin

But while at it, would you mind discussing what you are doing aside praying?

What are the fertility treatments you have had?

What are the challenges?


And while the prayer is on, do remember to add that Allah provides them and make them beneficial to you, make them sources of joy, Muslims that would hold on to Islam.

Oh this prayers are better said in Yoruba

arisolama: Pls Sisters enof of the word battle! I need very serious and urgent help here! I was about starting my IVF treatment this week(first atempt) but I've just been told that my enemy has fibroid,3 in number, 2 measuring 4cm and 1 measuring 1cm,I'm told I have to go and remove the fibroid first before going for the IVF. Pls can I go ahead and have the IVF with fibroid as some ppl get pregnant with fibroid or I must remove it first and if that how long will it take for me to recover and start the IVF treatment.Pls has any1 been through this before? Would really really appreciate if U share the experience. Thanks evry1 and God bless and answer us all IJN.