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2kurupt: It's because of minors like you that romance section should be restricted..

It's because of idiots like you that being stup[i]d should have been made illegal. Punishable by death.

Rocktation: AbiL, you misunderstand. The mere fact that it is immoral to demand se.x from his niece, isn't and wasn't enough to shield her, from suffering the ills of the predicament. The present situation could've been avoided, had she gone back to the villa, indeed.

I'm not saying the situation isn't avoidable. The uncle should have left his d[i]ck in his pants, and she should have left his house.
But the situation now is that she's pregnant. So no matter how avoidable previous actions were, it cannot change the fact that there's a baby in her womb.

AmBeautiful:

Pele

2kurupt: @abiL. You must be silly to have made that comment in the last paragraph.
That simple mind of yours can't tell you that staying in the village is more worthwhile that the situation she found herself presently.
FYI every Nigerian belongs to a village somewhere

You are definitely a fool. 100% confirmed. No doubt.

Didn't you read my first sentence. I told her it would be right to abort it. But who am I to decide for her. I can advice her, but at the end of the day, it's her life. I can't impose anything on her.


Do me a favour, crack your head open, because I doubt there's any brain in there.

Next time, instead of calling me up on something I've said, read my post again before opening your dirty mouth. Brainless tw[a]t.

To all those girls && boys hating on her picture.... Abeg let's see your own. Post your own pictures on here so we can judge.

One fact about relationships is.... You're not in one.


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mekaboy: Why do girls feel that if a man is holding them tight while they sleep is a sign of love. I like to sleep freely without holding anybody or anyone holding me. I don't feel comfortable holding someone when I sleep.because I don't want to break her heart I hold her at night, when I wake up I get serious pain on my right shoulder joint. But I keep this to my self, but I think if I have to get married to a lady I have to let her know how I like to sleep if not I will wake up one day and notice that my hands have fallen of from holding. Are there any guys out there like me ?

So they know that you are not going to run away after having s[e]x with them.

[quote author=Mynd_44]As evil as this sounds, get an abortion and move out of that house. You dont want to have a child who was concerted through incest[/quote]You spoke my mind.

Abortion isn't good, but if you do have the child, everytime you look at the child, you will be reminded of the bastard you call your uncle. Also what will you tell people if they ask you who the father is?

Make sure everyone knows about your stupid uncle, especially his wife. Bring shame on him.

&& don't listen to a few idiotsss on here that said you should have moved to the village before your uncle molested you. Your uncle shouldn't have petitioned you with sex. It's illegal and immoral. He used the fact that you have nobody to turn to, to take advantage of you. Which is totally wrong.


If you want to keep the baby, then keep it. At the end of the day, it's your body, your life and your choice.

almosttired44: If I claim I wasn't expecting every kind of response on this thread, I'll be lying. However for those of you writing as though you had a comprehensive knowledge of me and my marriage, Just know that all you know about me and my marriage is the much you have read here. I deliberately left out certain details which you are never going to be privy except maybe when i come to your consulting room to consult you on my marriage or personality. All the same, I did say at the onset that i will ignore some people and that what i will go on to do.
For the records,am not an aggressively assertive person but you can be sure I know who I am and what I want. Just before I got married, I dated someone who was agreeable to a fault-almost without her own opinion. That was an extreme with which I wasn't comfortable and to cut a long story short, that relationship ended. So when i talk about strong and opposing opinions, am not wishing for someone without opinions. Am asking for someone who won't always think it robbery to submit to my view should our opinions clash. Marriage for me is not about physical intimacy, I want my wife to be my companion in my thinking as well.

On a serious note, why didn't you discuss the issue with your wife? Like communicate it with her verbally. Communication is key in relationships.
Also, what are the chances of her seeing this? Is she a member?

Let's assume that your wife does read your thread, I don't think it will make her respect you more, or favour your marriage. If I was your wife, I will just laugh after reading it because by you not communicating it directly with me (your wife in this instance), it shows that you're scared and ain't man enough to face her.

Anyway good luck in whatever you're trying to achieve from this.

Has it occurred to you to ehmm... Hmmm.. Ehmm... Maybe get your own watch!

Let them wear their bad watches, it's not like it should be affecting you.

Invest in a GOOD wrist watch yourself if you badly want to know what the time is.

Ps: and it's not only guys that wear bad watches, a lot of girls do. Some girls e.g. (the poster) can't even afford a watch. Just saying!

&& why did u refer to your wife as "madam"? Maybe that's why you "feel less than a man" (*in your own words*). From what I've read, it seems like you put your wife on a high peddle stone, when both of you should be equal in marriage. You regard her as being superior to you. A marriage shouldn't be that way.


You need to have more backbone. The more you act like a boy instead of a man, the more she will see you as a pushover.

You need to command respect from her by not demanding it.

Isn't it much better to have a conversation with her, or writing her a letter to express how you feel. What are the chances of her seeing this? Even if she does sees what you've written, how would she know it's about her.

Some people just like to spread that dirty clothes out for all to see.

Just to add my two cents in (again)

The person that puts more in, has the most to lose.

So if she does stay with you, she'll be doing so because you're second best. And when the relationship does end, you'll be the one hurting (crying like a baby), whilst she'll be moving on to the next one.

A word is enough for a wise.

Sunebanty: thanks bro,i think i av to patient here cos it wn't be that easy to leave her,though i can but it wn't be an easy thing

It won't be easy because you think she's the one. But the quicker you start to realise that other girls possess the qualities you see in her, the better.
I've been in a relationship where I found it hard to let go, but looking back now, I looked so stupid because what I was fighting for, wasn't worth holding on it. I am so better off without him.
So once you've let this girl go, you will start to realise that she ain't all that.

Tellmeurmind: try it and c if u wil get away with it.

What are you two fighting about? There are plenty of three-legged girls to go around.

Tellmeurmind: why God forbids na? are u not up to 18 years? why are u afraid? am bringing u to the north to come and look after our cattle. u wil be very useful here with ur iPhone mate to monitor d animals. i don dey kolo 4 ur luv o. u knw wat? if u sleep tonite and u dont dream of me, u r free to walk out of our farm.

No I'm 12 years old. Unless you want to be arrested for being a peadophile. It's not enough that you're molesting goats ehn? Now you want to molest a child.
Bring me to the north from where? Abeg let me be where I am. I'll send you a girl with three-legs. Those ones that makes your mouth water with salivation.

If I dream of you tonight, I'm going to the church for deliverance.
&& don't worry, I won't need to walk out of your farm because I haven't entered your farm.

Take care of your goats. Please do wear condoms. Don't want the goats catching sex[u]all[y] transmitted infections from you.

Excelboi: Femme - fatales? Maybe he meant in yoruba Femi Fatale (Femi put pepper ontop am)... Abi op

hahhahaha people like you are the reason why I visit this website

If she can't forget her ex






FORGET HER!


It isn't by force. There are plenty of single girls in the world. She's not the only one with a punaaaani

Tellmeurmind: why are u so concerned with dis matter of woman again? i ve found u and am not looking for anybody again.Just begin to pack ur Ghana must go. My pple in Yobe are waiting for u.Begin to learn how to cover ur face now because Mumu pple like Mynd_44 wil not ve accessed to ur small london again. As per job issue,am still managing my goat biz. I ve Bsc in Cattlelogy.Welcome Iyawo Baba Eleran

Hahahha you actually do make me laugh.
I don't do Ghana must go, I'll put all my stuff in a bin bag and meet up with you very soon (God forbid).

Hope you ain't molesting those goats you're looking after.