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Hello Sis,the handwriting is written boldly on the walll dont allow the man and his Mother toy with your emotions and life.A man who has no secret is a no no because he tells virtually everything that happens between you to friends and families even sex and that is a signal there will later be an issue in such marriage if you eventually gets married to him. Sis,be wise in your decision making dont let love blindfold you from seeing the dangers ahead.He may be older than you but not matured mentally,physically,spiritually and intellectually.A real man protects his wife from family interference so be emotionally stable,pray and wait on God for direction in choosing a life partner for you.As an orphan you need a man who will treat you and love you genuinely without his parents dictates.You need a man whom you both decide and agree together and not a man who cannot decide for himself but rather follow other people's dictate

You would agree with me that there are lots of broken homes this days which is not rampact as early 80's and 90's..
It's now time for our singles to brace up for the task ahead called Marriage so as not to be thrown out of the house in less than 5years. Many brokens homes could be averted if proper steps were taking before saying I do.
Here are some of the causes of broken marriages..
*Not putting God first to choose for you-This will always pose an issue in your marriage because you are been led by the flesh and not by the Spirit.

* Allowing your boyfriend put you in a family way while still dating- This is also a major issue that should be taking with caution because your boyfriend might just want to chop and go but because you were so engrossed in loving him you forget who you are then completely clinged to him.When pregnancy comes up he has no choice than to take you in but mind you the acceptance is not straight from his heart he only did for the baby between you both.As time goes on living together he begins to show you his real self thereby getting provoked at everything you do or say just to get you out of his life.

*Moving in with man who hasnt paid your bride price- This is another catastrophe in marriage because he uses you as he likes thereby sending insulting words to your parents.Having done with you turning you to a baby factory he then threw you out of his life with kids to single handedly fend for.He categorically and enfrontically tells you nothing binds you together legally therefore ask you to stay out of his life and ways and then goes ahead and marry the woman of his dream. To avoid story that touches or had I known never you move in with him until your bride price is paid and performing the necessary rites on you.

*Not knowing your suitor's age before saying I do- This is where alot of people get it wrong....the saying age is just a number is meant for matured minds physically, materially,spiritually and intellectually.Never you allow love blindfold you to a very important issue that needs to be addressed before getting married.Try ask his age as well make your findings before saying I do because as a lady you might be older than him not knowing to you but known to him but because he wants to get that thing under the skirt he overlooks. Mind you if you eventually get married to him he will someday use it against you thereby calling you sugar mummy having bore him kids.

*Not working or having a job of your own-This will always pop up misunderstanding always asking without you supporting by bringing to the table for you both.
With my above points you would agree with me that broken marriage can be controlled if adequate measures are put in place . Therefore, single ladies and single guys should take note of the above listed vital points.Wishing each and everyone of us happy marriage life ahead

Am proud of my name anywhere anytime anyday( ABIOLA)

Taking a look at the picture,the truck is obsolete.Besides,is been parked and not on motion

Which way Nigeria?Is this the change we all craved for?A country where your human rights cannot be exercised,people continue to buy petrol at cut throat prices even as the money with which to buy is nowhere to be found.High rate of unemployment,corruption eaten deep into the fabrics of Nigeria youths,high crime rate and so on.I still maintain that late Abubakar Audu's running mate(James Faleke)should be declared Governor since he was duly elected deputy Governor of Kogi State while the party select another person to deputize him.Lobatan

In my own view,His deputy should be declared Governor while the party select another person to deputize him. Lobatan

mascot87:
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Thanks dear, may God bless u but we have use style to end our quarrel in d guys way. Abi no be so bulldoza

Glad to know you settled it amicably

bulldoza:
Ant y biola awayu

Sir,am very well here

akpanikpe:
RIP to him sha. Bt that body on the floor doesn't look like the hanging type, how could someone loose so much blood by hanging. And who was the person that says it cos of extra year?

I really loved what you said,since I thought the same.

Towncrier247:
A final year student of the department of Engineering, Federal Polytechnic, Akure simply identified as Festus, hung himself after checking his results and discovering he will be spending another year as an extra year student in the school. See the photo after the cut...
http://www.newseveryhour.com/2015/11/futa-student-commits-suicide-after.html

@Op pls,be skeptical,tenacious,well-source and as well open minded in your writing.Extol the truth

Sijo01:
He hung himself while lying on the floor with pool of blood? Your own journalism nor get part 2.

You read my mind

This is childish@Bulldoza n Mascot87.Pls,be positive.

Be positive@Bulldoza n Masco87.To the victim I wish you quick recovery

I pray may ur soul rest in peace and may God give your family the fortitude to bear the loss

Greatest Mapaite rest in peace.

Rest in eternal peace Omolabake!I pray may God give ur family d fortitude to bear the loss.

My sister calls my boyfriend's name in her sleep

Yes@kolade354 but on order.You at reference,there is nothing bad in she studying and being an enterpreneur.See,I use myself as an example,selling in school to make ends meet is better than trading your body for money.Being an enterpreneur wil not affect her study but rather equip her for better chances after school.what you don't understand here is there are thousands of people out there looking for a job but if I may ask how many people think of creating job for themself?I love the level of her courage to start up something that will better her life.So,@ Iyoha you are the best...keep the dream alive...See you at the topmost top

You can start jewelleries business and earn double of your capital.This is real and not scam,am also into it,that is what I sell in school together wit recharge cards.Infact,when I graduated and went for my youth corps service,I continue with my business there and am stil into it.For enquiry call me on 08039481773.Wish you the very best

The change Nigeria need begins with you and I

Pls,BGS send me a text to come for an interview at 161,Herbert Macaulay way opp Adekunle,Ebute metta on Monday.Does anyone have any information regarding this company?Is it real or scam?Your opinion and suggestion will be appreciated pls

I pray may your soul find rest in the bosom of Almighty God.Rest in peace ma