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FoodRe: Lagos People Won't Kill Me With Stew, Oil & Pepper by aBOSEDEJOY1: 5:03pm On Jul 14, 2016
Do you mean you guuys dnt eat stew at all?is made from vegetables,so why the heck?
InyinyaAgbaOku:
Because rheir foods are not tasty, so they had to add stew to top up the taste
FoodRe: Call Us For Your CAT FISH Order In Port Harcourt (See Pics) by aBOSEDEJOY1: 4:17pm On Jul 14, 2016
Pls send your email.
chidarl85:
Please call 08033096157 for your catfish order!
EducationRe: Show How Much U Remember About Ur Secondary School: Write Ur School Anthem by aBOSEDEJOY1: 3:03pm On Jun 17, 2016
My town girl,nice anthem,i heard your school produces intelligent students.
BumbleBee2ice:
Hope High School, Lagos Island. (2000 set).
All my hope on God is founded;
He doth still my trust renew,
me tru change nd chance He guideth
only good nd only true.
God unknown He alone, calls my heart to be His own.
EducationRe: Show How Much U Remember About Ur Secondary School: Write Ur School Anthem by aBOSEDEJOY1: 3:00pm On Jun 17, 2016
Nice,first stanza gave me goose pimples.
Sunnyontop:
Federal Government College, Ikirun

Oh God of creation
We have come together
From so many states
To search for knowledge
That will may of be blessing
To the whole nation
From F.G.C.I.
Our alma Amata

We pray to God
To be our guide
Teach us to live with love and peace
F.G.C.Ikirun
Our alma Amata
Great great great
Fellow students
Great great great
Our teacher
Great great great
Our College
Great great great
Our alma Amata
EducationRe: Show How Much U Remember About Ur Secondary School: Write Ur School Anthem by aBOSEDEJOY1: 2:51pm On Jun 17, 2016
Walahi its the funniest.
reminiscing:
lol Agboro Anthemgringrin
EducationRe: Show How Much U Remember About Ur Secondary School: Write Ur School Anthem by aBOSEDEJOY1: 2:50pm On Jun 17, 2016
Primary School

St Mary's convent,3 Campbel stree,Lagos Island

St mary's convent school
Example for other schools
Heavenly father bless us
That we maybe good children
To grow,from strenght ,to strenght.

Secondary School,Federal Government Girls College,New Bussa Niger State.

FGGC New Bussa,a great institution
We pledge our loyalty as long as we live
All that you teach us now
The truth and Honesty
All these will go with us wherever we go
We learn to be humble and work diligent
We learn to do our best in all that we do
When we win,be not proud,always be consistence
All these'ill be our guidelines wherever we goooooooooooooooooooo.

Year 1994-2000set.
CelebritiesRe: Tonto Dikeh Talks About Weight Loss by aBOSEDEJOY1: 3:46pm On Jun 16, 2016
is your life,its not healthy.
bolt000:
undecided
Its Healthy Tho
CelebritiesRe: Tonto Dikeh Talks About Weight Loss by aBOSEDEJOY1: 3:31pm On Jun 16, 2016
You ruining your life by doing that.
bolt000:
Whats Bad There.
I Am Just Proudly Part Of The Vaseline Crew.
CelebritiesRe: Tonto Dikeh Talks About Weight Loss by aBOSEDEJOY1: 2:06pm On Jun 16, 2016
Not good to admire a married woman,limit your gaze is better for you.
bolt000:
How?
CelebritiesRe: Tonto Dikeh Talks About Weight Loss by aBOSEDEJOY1: 1:57pm On Jun 16, 2016
Ole ni e.
bolt000:
I For One Love Her Current Size.
Food.. by aBOSEDEJOY1(op):
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Foreign AffairsRe: The Obama Family At The Beginning Of Obama's Presidency And Now by aBOSEDEJOY1: 4:22am On Jun 16, 2016
Pls you are too funny jo.
adebrave1:
Before he became the president his hair was so black as if he was using dye but now reverse is the case. Same also Babatunde Fashola before he became the governor of lagos state he was handsome and charming but now, reverse is the case.


One person will now come and tell me grey hair is due to age, iffa hear.....


If you see beta stress you go bend. grin grin
FamilyRe: Advice: After Two Wasted Years, I Want Divorce Now by aBOSEDEJOY1: 5:00pm On Jun 15, 2016
your fake orusha jesus will not work by Allah Olodumare.back to you,stop forcing your opinion on juzzybabe.
Taryur3:
Hey madam...did I quote you here...?why are you typing my name all over this thread? Why the insults? Did u know me before? Or are you insane? I just wrote my own opinion without insulting anyone and you continue running up like a mad goat.why don't you just write your own without insulting someone...?I dnt know if you are married...and if you do may you divorce soon in Jesus name as you wish the OP to divorce.why are you trying to scatter a marriage that was blessed at early stage...? Which marriage is perfect? If she divorce the stubborn man now...are you ready to engage her with a perfect man? No wonder most of you ladies always be a victim of circumstances...you only think in one direction. Why don't you help her to pray for her marriage....olodo oshi...Even her mum never advise her to divorce...you are here ranting she should seek for divorce...the OP should just becareful of the kind of advise she follow...your type cnt counsel pre nursery kid not to talk of marriage....Abosede...dnt let me have your time here...and never you quote or type my name all over again.thanks for understanding
CelebritiesRe: Toke Makinwa Stunning In Burgandy Red Jumpsuit (Photos) by aBOSEDEJOY1: 2:33am On Jun 15, 2016
How can a lady be exposing her undies?the world is definately ruined.
FamilyRe: Advice: After Two Wasted Years, I Want Divorce Now by aBOSEDEJOY1: 2:26am On Jun 15, 2016
From these writeup of yours now,its clear you are not in a hurry to leave a beast you are still refering my husband,my first love,bla bla bla,you sound like a resilient lady that can withstand any storm,well,maybe its your destiny to suffer in the hands of him,who knows?and truly you can continue the pain,maybe you will be lucky not to die in the process,but really you sound confused and foolish,if you had miscarried your baby of nine month pregnant,maybe you would have been wiser,cos miscarriage trauma is lifelong,very difficult to heal through.
Juzzybabe:
My dear,your case is different. you never had it but u knew u had a family to care for. you had them at heart. My husband of recent has bath his body with tattoos and flexing on Facebook to bluff me. well,he knows how much tattoos disgust me so that shudn't move me. My point is the guy is not complaining of anything like cash,he is just listening to his mother's voice. And now I think he has moved on self. I can't be waiting till Jesus comes na.
The man in question is my first man,my first love. I love him despite all and I wish we both grew our baby together but the love I have for him,he obviously has not even half for me. While we dated,I did him some unforgettable favours,I sense he married me cuz he tot he owe me but and wanted to pay back. probably he is not just ready to settle down. but I will not keep waiting until he makes up his mind,I have a life to live.
FamilyRe: Advice: After Two Wasted Years, I Want Divorce Now by aBOSEDEJOY1: 2:06am On Jun 15, 2016
Then do so if you love your life,but dnt forget to let him visit his daughter ,as its not nice for kids not to have a feel of their dad regardless of whatever happens between you guys.the trauma and sadness it brings in a child life cannot be measured.
Juzzybabe:
"permission to aborthuh" Aba,no na. Secondly,I only seek advice. Since its faceless, I think its best talking to a large Number of people and weighing their opinions not like I can't take decisions of my own,but things like marriage needs absolute care and cautions. Thirdly, I have been waiting for a change since,nothing seems to be getting better. He has told my family am not his wife. my dear,I can't say it all. well,I have a good and well paid job,my daughter is growing up well and I make sure I provide all she needs. Am a woman and am human,I have feelings. The last thing I want to do is sleep with another man knowing am still entangled with another. So as to not sin,I better quit the fruitless one at hand and move on. I have tried!
FamilyRe: Advice: After Two Wasted Years, I Want Divorce Now by aBOSEDEJOY1: 2:01am On Jun 15, 2016
Its the foolish Tayor of a guy,maybe they sent the Tayur for her to maintain her domestic violence from the spiritual realm,i would advise the poster to seek spiritual help against this TAYUR OF A GUY on nairaland,as his advice can send her to an early grave,leaving her child to suffer abuse by step mum and others.
SemuhleB:
The type of men we have these days are just sickening. Its like the bad to good man ratio is 9/1. Nigerian women are really suffering and the worst part is the laws seems to favour men.

There is so much advise I could give you but more likely than not you don't have those avenues in Nigeria. That guy would have been locked up for assault. Threats and harassment are a serious thing as well and are not taking lightly.

I really dunno how some Nigerian girls deal with these beasts. The fear of Nigerian men is the beginning of wisdom.

What's worse is some losers want to turn around and blame the woman for her role in getting beaten and that no man wants a single mum. Wtf who says such things.

I have a newfound respect for Nigerian women like the op and not those silly hilly billies.

Relationships are not a do or die affair and you were sensible enough to get out on time.

I just hope you have learnt your lesson. Do you even know what your husband is doing in Dubai. Are you sure its even legal. I believe everything happens for a reason and you may just have been saved by not going to Dubai.
FamilyRe: Advice: After Two Wasted Years, I Want Divorce Now by aBOSEDEJOY1: 1:54am On Jun 15, 2016
i can see how wrong you are,so until her man cheat or marry another woman that she can be pained and act,gracious Lord,you are so deadly and evil inciting,its even better if a man marries another than for a wife to be experiencing this kind of evil in her home,it will pay her if she leaves and marry another person,shes not other ladies that are still spinsters,shes her own destiny,everyone destiny is different,so dnt e ven compare her with them,it may be different in her own case, av seen ladies,my friends that divorced and remarried living happily ever after.
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FamilyRe: Advice: After Two Wasted Years, I Want Divorce Now by aBOSEDEJOY1: 1:46am On Jun 15, 2016
Pls your advice is not needed ,a woman cannot be beating even when shes 8month pregnant,abi werey lehin okunrin yin ni?doo u know the extent of damage that can cause,then the trauma and depression that follows,pls dnt ever advise her wrongly,there are good men outthere ready to put smiles on her face,and yes i got a good man that respect me and care greatly,they are still there ,she should never apply your kind of wisdom,shes an adult that deserve happiness and shes lacking such,so carry your lame advice go somewhereelse.
samuelson06:
@Juzzybabe

Please don't go divorce. Probably, you guys started on a wrong foot. But at least you both were legally married. As humans, we all have different life journies. Don't feel your mates are having a wonderful life and family out there and you are here 'suffering.' No! What has happened has happened. I'll encourage you to see the whole thing as a challenge. Face it and win it - get your husband back. This is a trick of the devil to shatter your life. Don't give up. I tell you, there's no better life out there. You may not know the challenge your husband is facing over there. Why not make him your prayer point everyday? Why not wake at midnight to pray for him? See, prayer works. Pray for his life, pray for his return and also pray for what he'll be doing when he returns to re-unite with you. It's that simple! You have a stake in his life and your prayers would affect him directly. Pray and believe God that He is working out an answer for you. Like you always wanted, raise the child the Lord's way. Tell her good things about dad. Tell her dad would return soon to be with her. Don't make her feel dad doesn't care or hates you both even though situation may appear to be so but you don't know God's mind about the issue. If you have any grudge against him, put it away. Call him and tell him his family misses him. One important key here is that your prayers and other things you talk to him on phone must be from your heart. And your heart must be free of hate or grudges about anyone. Forgive and make peace with all. You wouldn't tell me that deep inside you, apart from all that has happened over time, you've got not a little love for him again; you wouldn't tell me that you won't like to see your family a one strong united family. Don't let anybody convince you to seek for divorce. You've got no guarantee that life outside there is going to be without challenges, and if you feel it wouldn't be a challenge of this nature, I'll tell you that a challenge is a challenge. Your approach to the situation would determine your future. I know you have a choice to respond to it the way you want, but I'll advice you to respond to it God's way. There's always a reward for those who endure. Be prayerful. You can change things for good. Learn to make God happy in your situations. I can still talk to you more if you send me a PM. There are other things I can't say here.
FamilyRe: Advice: After Two Wasted Years, I Want Divorce Now by aBOSEDEJOY1: 1:37am On Jun 15, 2016
Hello,its upto you,the siblings and mother dnt love you,why wait for so long,do you want to kill yourself untimely,then he will definately marry another woman if he is not already done dat sef,then your daughter will be taken by him to be beating severely by step mum,i just pity you,wise up,good men are out there for you.
Juzzybabe:
He's no more begging o,in short, i realized he was only begging to cajole me in bringing back the baby so that he can take her. I keep asking him the same question,the same baby he almost killed in my womb,now he wanna claim he has a child,what if she had not survived the tension. Anyway,my daughter is very strong o, and very brilliant. Am grateful to God for his Grace Tho. His siblings has been silent in all of this. None of them has said anything.
PoliticsRe: Ikpeazu And Wife Share Food To School Children. Shoes, Bags, Balls, Books Shared by aBOSEDEJOY1: 2:33am On Jun 11, 2016
Ritual on another level.
metromediaboss:
Abia State Governor Okezie Ikpeazu with his wife, Nkechi today flagged off the Free School Meal programme in the state. The scheme will see Govt providing a free lunch to pupils in Abia Primary Schools on Mondays, Wednesdays & Fridays.

Okezie Ikpeazu also distributed school shoes, bags, balls & books to pupils in the 3 Senatorial zones of the State today.

See photos below

http://www.metronaija.com/2016/06/photos-governor-ikpeazu-and-wife-share.html
FamilyRe: 11-Year-Old Boy Maltreated By Stepmum: See The Highest Order Of Child Abuse by aBOSEDEJOY1: 2:25am On Jun 11, 2016
The boy can even die if OP dnt act fast,OP is like his guadian angel.
wealthywiseman:
OP, the appropriate thing to do here is to inform the authorities quickly. The nearest police station will do for a start.
You have evidence for them to confirm.
Hurry please, the boy's life is in your hands now. Do not delay any further.
PoliticsRe: Who Wants Our President Dead? by aBOSEDEJOY1: 2:08am On Jun 11, 2016
This is serious,this is definately not Islam,dnt the prophet sought asylum in abbysinia?madness honestly
White007:
I think his own brothers knows better and they are already making plans to unseat Osinbajo and install Saraki.
PoliticsRe: Who Wants Our President Dead? by aBOSEDEJOY1: 1:40am On Jun 11, 2016
Ignorant people,the same Islam that has been in yorubaland ages before their fulani lies came up,nobody brought any Islam to us abeg,we had it before Hausa man sold us to arab slave master in 17th century and wrote yoruba language in arabic ajami,hardcopy still dey Ile -Ife till date.
gists:
Well, I think you are on your own.
I am a Full-Blown Yoruba Muslim too. But I cannot defend anybody just because Islam came to Yorubaland from their axis. I do not owe them any dime! And I certainly don't support selling anybody based on religion. But I do agree we need to sell out the crazy ones among us. Like that one-chance crazy governor that posted Obituary of a man that is still living.
We must support the effort of whoever is in Aso rock to kill corruption (irrespective of his/her religious affiliation). Otherwise, corruption will kill us - Boko Haram is a good/practical example of how corruption can kill.
CelebritiesRe: Henrietta Kosoko's Death: She Is The Third Wife Jide Kosoko Has Lost by aBOSEDEJOY1: 2:51pm On Jun 07, 2016
No i refuse to believe that,millions of people in uk live longer haven enjoyed good social amenities and good medicals,there lives were not cut shot ,they die until they reach 7o,plus,infact majority die reaching100plus.
Gaddafithe2nd:
When it is time, it is time?
CelebritiesRe: Henrietta Kosoko's Death: She Is The Third Wife Jide Kosoko Has Lost by aBOSEDEJOY1: 1:34pm On Jun 07, 2016
Its not every death that its their time,some lives are cut short by many reasons
Gaddafithe2nd:
Na their time don reach. Stop being suspicious. When it is time to leave the surface of this earth nothing can stop us.
May Allah give you and your fortitude to bear the loss.
CelebritiesRe: 2face & Pero Celebrate Ehis' 10th Birthday by aBOSEDEJOY1: 11:57am On Jun 05, 2016
Shes beautiful,its not easy raising kids alone in abroad,so it can age one abit as a single mum,maybe becos she dnt apply makeup as everyone does,and besides,she s far older than annie,though she use to be very preety back when she lived in naija,see her old pcs,she is naturally beautiful.
Crixina:
I thought so too,but I guess everyone is fine in their own way.
CelebritiesRe: 2face & Pero Celebrate Ehis' 10th Birthday by aBOSEDEJOY1: 11:53am On Jun 05, 2016
Thats rather harsh,it wont be nice for the children to feel their dad and mum have issues,it affect kids.their mum being around them with their dad gives them hope security and sense of belonging to a family circle,eventhough he does not live with them.
delishpot:
Anie should had gone with tuface. They lodge in a hotel or rent a home. Then tuface takes all the kids for some fun, at the end of the days outing, drop peros kids and return to Annie. That way the kids can enjoy each others company and tuface keeps his marriage going.
It should have ben a good family vacation.
wish they had someone to advice them.
HealthRe: Blood In Stool For Years; Please Help by aBOSEDEJOY1: 12:42am On Jun 04, 2016
Hmmmm,try and email me abosedejoy1@yahoo.com,there is solution for your cousin.
Amajerry83:
To make this short I will go straight to the point.

For some 4 years now my cousin 33yrs old has been having Bright red blood dropping in the toilet when he stool. It does not happen all the time but it does happen once in a while. Sometimes 2 days and then it may stop for months and then resurface.
Doctors can't diagnose the cause after many checks so they said it's an internal hemorrhoid. According to 2 doctors it's not cancer.
Is there any alternative treatment for this?
Pls nairalanders let us know so we can as well help others going through this.

Lalastica u dey there!
FamilyRe: Man Backs A Baby With Wrapper At Bus Stop In Lagos This Morning by aBOSEDEJOY1: 12:20am On Jun 04, 2016
Abio,the rate people rape underage this days,he did just well.
kashamyanat:
You should rebuke your statement instead. How has taking care of your children or helping your wife become poverty? Be sides you don't know what he is passing thru. As for me, it is 110% safer for him to be with them than to drop them with a frnd or relation and will not be having peace of mind.
PoliticsRe: "We've Blown Two Oil Pipelines In Bayelsa" - Niger Delta Avengers by aBOSEDEJOY1: 7:54pm On Jun 03, 2016
I was suprised to see its an hausa that is minister for maritime,when Igbos importers are there.
mightyhazell:
Simple diplomacy would hav averted all dese!

When jonathan won elections,he not only brought evrybody together as a father,...he went ahead and started favouring the north in almost evth. Wich eventually earned him a v unenviable spot among his kinsmen,for favoring the north to their detriment! Personally I think he over did it!

Buhari won elections and on his first visit 2 usa,he told the world how he has segregated the nation to 5% and 97%. And not only mouthing this,all his actions started reflecting it immediately,..from appointing only core northeners in2 positions tht matter,to terminating contracts and programmes put in place 4 the nigerdeltans (whose region lay the golden eggs of our collective survival) by previous governments etc,...

Imagine if buhari had not terminated all dese,including projects like the maritime institute,..and instead started some mega projects in the region,..I can imagine the kind of peace and support he would hav by now be gettin from dere. As am sure southerners are not like core northerners that once they hate u,no matter how much things u do 4 dem,dey cannever be appeased,as in jonas case. Buhari and indeed nigerians wud av been enjoying massive tranquility by now,..my thots tho*
CelebritiesRe: Georgina Onuoha And Daughters Stun In New Photoshoot In The US. by aBOSEDEJOY1: 7:13pm On May 29, 2016
Is that her thanksgiving style from her sickness recovery?

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