₦airaland Forum

PoliteActivist:
Indeed. They never look beyond the surface.
All sorts of people kill themselves EVERY DAY, but once it's a single lady, it must be because she is single!
Amumaigwe, Shagamoni how do your posts tally with these statistics below?

You mind those failures?
Always craving for the 'submisiveness' of females to function as living things. If they don't get it, they commit suicide.

The statistics of them committing suicide is way higher and they feel they can tell females how to live their lives.

gulfer:
RIP to her!!!! To all the female "I can exist alone", learn from this... Loneliness and congi nor be your mate o

Females can exist alone. Its males that can't. Let that sink.

Amumaigwe:
The challenge is universal sis. Before you japa, why not ask older and single ladies abroad how they cope.
God designed a path of happiness for women but some of them are busy attempting to change that for centuries but are failing.

Ask women that are faithfully married and remained submissive to their husband what the feeling is like. Nobody is wiser than God.

Sh1t talk

Okobola146:
Depression is real.

Seek help.

Lagos telecoms accountant commits suicide, friend blames depression

A Lagos accountant, Folake Abiola, has committed suicide at her residence at Osapa London, in the Lekki area of Lagos State.

PUNCH Metro gathered that the 45-year-old was at her house on Friday when she allegedly drank what was suspected to be insecticide.

She was said to have died shortly after, as her family members, friends and men of the Nigeria Police Force met her lying motionless.

A colleague of the deceased, who spoke to our correspondent on condition of anonymity, said Abiola had been suffering from depression for years, adding that the news of her death was shocking.

Contrary to claims online that Abiola committed suicide due to loneliness, lack of a husband, among others, the colleague said her associates knew that she had been in romantic relationships, adding that she ended them due to depression.

The source said, “She had been suffering from depression for years and her death has nothing to do with loneliness or lack of a husband or sex. Within the last seven years, I know she was in a relationship twice.

“She ended those relationships on her own because of depression. She said she did not want to bring someone else into her life when she could not take care of herself. She was going through extreme depression, but people that did not know what she was going through have been posting rubbish online.

She was a senior accountant at a telecoms firm and we are colleagues. She took her life herself and was buried that same Friday as she was the only Christian in her family.”

The colleague described Abiola as an angel, a conscientious accountant and a lover of Christ, who was liberal in giving, adding that she had been saying she wanted to end it all before she took her life.

“In Nigeria, we don’t pay attention to mental health; a lot of people are going through depression and it is not necessary that it has to be caused by anything,” she added.

A source said the deceased worked with Globacom Limited, adding that she was on leave when the incident happened.

She recently celebrated her 45th birthday. She was not talking to people; she always kept to herself,” the source added.

The state Police Public Relations Officer, Benjamin Hundeyin, said the police visited Abiola’s house and met her lifeless body on the floor.

Hundeyin said, “The moment the police in that area were alerted, they arrived at the scene and met the woman lifeless on the floor. A bottle of insecticide was also found by her, apparently, she had ingested that insecticide.

“The family members that were there officially wrote to the divisional police officer requesting for the release of the corpse to enable them to bury her in accordance with Islamic rites and the corpse was released to the family on compassionate grounds.”

Depression is a leading cause of suicide in Nigeria as experts decry lack of proper awareness of mental health in the country.

In December 2021, a Diploma holder, Lekan Odunare, was filmed jumping into the lagoon.

His wife, Sofiat Amusa, later claimed he was driven by depression and frustration.

- Punch Newspaper.

Sad

malel1:
There no need taking ur life , what God cant do does not exist . MY ELDER SIS MARRIED at age 49.
We just celebrated the marriage during easter.

The funny thing is her marriage seems to be the best among the family

People won't like your comment because they are miserable. Misery loves company.

Congrats to your sis.

MALIGNANTGuest:
U are going Far.
MEN are already fed up.
They have lost interest globally.
It's getting to Nigeria now.
WHITE MEN now settle for BabyMaMa...
By the year 2050, we may have people getting married to Dogs in Nigeria..
Not my prayer though.

Let everybody get tired of marriage biko and face front.

Who knows, you negroes might start inventing things by then for once or maybe y'all start fvcking goats full time.

hush15:
[s]So sad but then again, I won't accept that no man ever approached her. However, I know it's a difficult task to find the right man that suits her and maybe she saw but was not single.

Honestly, women should learn to share and accommodate their fellow women to share a man because I believe, the more the merrier. it may not have been the perfect scenario but she would have probably lived a more fulfilled life.

One thing I know in this life from experience is that we need to build the right character and imbibe positive attitudes in ourselves. Marriage doesn't work out because we married one man or one woman but because we behave right and respect our partners even when it seems hard and bruises our egos. When we begin to understand that we are purposed differently with mutually exclusive traits, and there is no basis for comparison, tolerating ourselves would be easier, and believe me, we will still end up with desired results.

My opinion might not take the meaning to many but men and women out there, let's please treat each right. once we are able to do that, we are helping ourselves a lot and we will realize that each woman will have a man and each man, a woman or women and we will all still be happy[/s].

I hope you live in the north to experience the defects of what you are promoting.

lailo:
Congrats. Women are funny. They wanna eat their cake and have it. There is a way God arranged it. Submit to a man and live a world of peace, carry pride on your head and live a frustrated and depressed life. Another feminist bites the dust

Says a f00l who can't afford 2 boxers.

This one doesn't know what to do with her life and I am sure she comes from a very wicked, loveless, family.

When many women are rushing out of their marriage....some sef, inside the marriage, they beg or sleep around just to feed because their so called husbands are useless.

The thieves and low lives on nairaland...don't they have mothers? Na every woman wey born dey raise better pikin?

See reverend sisters happy living their lives. If you know your spiritual main purpose in life, society can't dictate for you.

That's why I love oyibo people.

That's why they were all crying out of envy on this forum when they heard some lekki girls were cashing out with 1.5million for bestiality p0rn.

Talking at lenght with someone that has it in mind to scam me is impossible. I no get that patience to converse with thief.

I usually insult them...telling them to go and find work and I hang up.

Oh and be careful with people you meet here who ask you for your school and date of birth for the sake of getting to know you.

Every broke red piller's dream babe.

CaseSensitive:
I’m not religious but I think in that same chapter of the verse you’re making reference to, the bible also commands fathers not to provoke their children. Every relationship is contractual. In this particular type of relationship parent-child(ren), the bible is primarily laying the groundwork of how the contract should work. Just like any contract, once it’s broken, the rules change. Honour your parents unless they make it impossible.

Some parents have used their mouth to ruin future opportunities for their children.

A man or woman that will go to their friend's or relative's house to speak ill of their children on trivial matters that should be sorted out internally don't know what they are doing.

DOTian:
If you desire long life and properity, get some good education, get some good work ethics, make some good friends and move around some good circles and you will be fine. Do the right things at the right times. Respecting your parents is very good and important but it's not an automatic yardstick for greatness. Some of these overtly religious people are becoming too dogmatic with their rants

You are right.

I have seen people who don't even have a good relationship with their parents...yet, they do well as long as their hands are clean.

What op doesn't know is that bad energy ruins opportunities. If you like, be a saint... If you are from a bad family and you don't move away from it and start life on a clean slate, you won't move forward in life.

Ok.

Keep breeding more and raising them like wandering cattles ok?

coputa:
Gambling is not bad,it's only when someone is addicted.life itself is a gamble

One common trait with addicts is that they are always in denial saying their addiction isn't bad.

Hunger in the land...yet, people dey born like rats.

Mchteew!!!

This is what women have been suffering too. Its not new...zoo and their archaic mentality.

You first me donate sperm...so what? You first me open pu$i...so what?

Op, now you know how it feels. Marriage is now like a luxury in the zoo...males are feeling the heat now. If you no marry, you are worse than a married church rat according to zoo culture.

This forum gives you an idea of how Nigerians reason.

It has opened my eyes to see that majority of Afrizoorians are dumb.

pocohantas:
And drop their account numbers everywhere to gamble yet again. Yet they say gambling is not a problem. Retards.

They almost tried romance scam...only to realise that those gullible types have ran to Facebook.

pocohantas:
Very doomed. I guess that is why they spend their time dragging FTC and obsessing over the marital status of random users.

Gambling has ruined even celebrities. It is cancerous and eats deep.

Same ones who gamble on this forum also scam and troll. Its a pattern.

Very pathetic.

Zonefree:
[s]To live is Gamble.

I'm 100% certain you're not living better than few gamblers i know.[/s]

All gamblers end up hungry.

Say no to gambling. It kills.

pocohantas:
Majority of them are, that is why they don’t see it as a problem. Imagine if it was the wife using all her money to gamble. They would have landed to give advice.

Having a gambler as husband means poverty for life. Its a serious disease.

The gamblers on this forum are doomed for life.

brokenheart1234:
So, I have been able to save some money from my little business and I'm thinking of getting an accommodation for myself.
The present accommodation is not conducive and I can't keep living like this, especially with my husband who doesn't understand all the sacrifice I'm making for him.
His salary, can provide us more beautiful life but it's not possible because he's into sport betting. Family members have advised him, he claimed, he's a change person, but he's not.
I don't want to keep living like this. It's obvious that his gambling lifestyle is difficult to stop and it's not healthy for me right now.
He always come back to appologies after he's done wasting all his salaries. Because he will need to put his feeding and transportation expenses on me.

In few weeks, I'll put to birth. I'm really scared, not happy and nothing is giving me strength here.
I just want to successfully give birth and talk about divorce later.
What would you advise?
I want to move to a nice appartment without him.
What do you think about what I want to do?

Your over spending has made him lazy. Don't rent an apartment yet. Just move out to your parents' house.

You can decide later whether to separate from your husband or not depending on whether he changes.

judatech:
People don't build strong relationships again.
Any small thing... divorce!
And most times if the woman is richer than the man...
What stops you from renting a house and inviting him to come and live...this move might change him...

Sh1t talk. I am sure you are a gambler.

Bluezy13:
I am a cursed afrizioorian.

Ok

lilyheaven:
[s]he is your first baby, you can't pour your baby away with dirty water.
advice him to open fixed account , where his salary will be going directly , he won't have access to it .
put him in prayer , and see if God won't change him. [/s]

You don't know what you are saying.

Gabby2022:
I stay with my sis and her husband,most of the time I am always home due to the nature of their job.My sis husband younger brother stays with us but he is hardly home because of work.
Fast forward he has been wanting to let his gf come stay with us since ASUU is on strike,my sis was relunctant but she finally agreed.
Today makes it one week since she came,she has been helping with chores and cooking but the only issue is when her bf(my bro-in-law) is around the bath naked even sleep naked,but with duvet.
Mind you it is a room and parlour self-contain and i feel they shouldn't fornicate knowing fully well i am around.
I haven't told my sis yet because I don't want my sis to kick her out.Right now she has monopolized the bed at night when my sis is not around.
Even if you are wayward,at least show some decency and class.

Two people are at fault here...yet you are blaming only the female.

What responsible negroe will bring in his fvCk mate into his brother's little home and be practicing what they do in school right there in someone's matrimonial home?

I should add your sister in the blame game for allowing such.

Bluezy13:
Africans are a cursed bunch.
I am an African,
Therefore I am a cursed bunch.

Ok

Slavery is part of African culture...now that slave trade has been abolished, they have turned marriage and jobs to slave joints.

Cursed bunch.

Shameless beggers on this forum.

They have accounts for trolling and spilling red pill trash then another for begging.

I don't know why Seun can't introduce a block button.