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CrimeRe: He Slept With A Minor! But Claimed He Is Not Responsible For The Pregnancy by adanduka: 8:53am On Mar 16, 2015
Your friend deserves his present predicament. It will teach him to teach his pen.is to stay off minors. But the pregnant girl should be punished too after delivery since she wasn't raped.
The fiancé should move on. A faithful spouse does not deserve a cheater.
FashionRe: Guys Can U Let Ur Gf Rock Dis ? by adanduka: 8:45am On Mar 16, 2015
The girl must be in night business. The traffic light on her head will always be on lipsrsealed
CelebritiesRe: Basket Mouth Complains About Power: Spends N360k Per Month On Generator(pic) by adanduka: 8:43am On Mar 16, 2015
LIES
FoodRe: #yummy# How To Cook This by adanduka: 10:16pm On Mar 15, 2015
[quote author=Upaka post=31654348][/quote]Love your shoes kiss
Jokes EtcRe: Funny Ways To Breakup With Your Spouse by adanduka: 10:12pm On Mar 15, 2015
You smile when people compliment you and refuse to compliment me, it's over sad
Jokes EtcRe: If Am Been Starve For A Year... by adanduka: 10:01pm On Mar 15, 2015
Not enough soup.
Nice meat tongue
CelebritiesRe: Mothers Are The Best Creatures In The World, Am I Right? by adanduka: 9:57pm On Mar 15, 2015
My mum is the best but she probably would not dry my hair & say this. grin
#Naija mums
FoodRe: #yummy# How To Cook This by adanduka: 9:54pm On Mar 15, 2015
When do I add the stove/gas? huh
BusinessRe: The Importance Of Bank Verification Number (BVN) by adanduka: 9:42pm On Mar 15, 2015
Seen this on FB before huh
FamilyRe: I Have Just Lost My Job - What Can I Do Now? by adanduka: 5:17pm On Mar 15, 2015
First things first
>Cut down on your bills as soon as you can especially rent and school fees
>Until you decide on what business to do, don't touch that money yet
>Any business you finally decide on, start small and then steadily build on it
I WISH YOU WELL
Nairaland GeneralRe: Imagine!!..fan Lashes Out Nigerian Gay Activist{pic} by adanduka: 5:16pm On Mar 15, 2015
THE FIRST POST IS JUST THE HARD TRUTH
PoliticsRe: Message From Radio Biafra. by adanduka: 5:14pm On Mar 15, 2015
Let's wait till election day to see if they will boycott voting.
Nairaland GeneralRe: A Legal’s Perspective On The Issue Of A Cockroach Found In A 7up Bottle by adanduka: 5:12pm On Mar 15, 2015
OP, either you are working for 7up or selling your market in the hopes they notice you.
CelebritiesRe: Tonto Dikeh Dazzles In New Photos by adanduka: 9:25pm On Mar 14, 2015
ARE THOSE VEINS ON THE UPPER EYELID?shocked
PoliticsRe: Prof. Osinbajo Kneels Down As Powerful Bishops Pray For Him (photo) by adanduka: 7:27pm On Mar 14, 2015
It doesn't guarantee him Aso Rock
CultureRe: Help! Family Members Say Do Not Ever Call Me Again by adanduka: 7:25pm On Mar 14, 2015
He shouldn't call them. Doesn't he understand English?
He should face his life, they'll come calling later.
RomanceRe: Woman Offers Herself For Marriage As Incentive To Anyone Who Buys Her House by adanduka: 7:23pm On Mar 14, 2015
So she can take back her house when the man passes on tongue
IslamRe: Dogs Are Cute So Why Do Muslims Hate Them..? Find Out Here by adanduka: 7:20pm On Mar 14, 2015
Don't know any Muslims that have dogs. I see why.
RomanceRe: Is It A Crime For Your Wife To Know All You Have In Your Account ? by adanduka: 7:19pm On Mar 14, 2015
You know your wife.
You may have to own a secret separate account.
This isn't ideal but it works for some couples.
FamilyRe: She Doesn't Love Him, But He Doesn't Believe In Divorce. by adanduka: 2:59pm On Mar 14, 2015
5minsmadness:
This couple have been married for three years and have two kids. The man met his wife at his workplace during which time she had just finished nysc. They got to know each other better and soon they became a couple and got married. The man helped her get a job at his place of work but noticed she didn't mention his help to her parents, making it look as if she got the job herself. However he overlooked it thinking it was no big deal.

Recently however he has come to realise that his wife doesn't love him. He feels this way because she never acknowledges his good deeds around the house, is never willing to listen to any advice he has to give but rather takes her friend's advice over his. Most times he asks for sex she says she is tired or in her period or that they should postpone it to the next dayhuh And when the next say reaches she pretends to forget. If the man insists it turns into a big fight and they don't talk for days.

The man decided to be helping her around the house in case housework was overwhelming her as they don't have a nanny. He washes the clothes, picks the kids from school, cooks food for the kids and feeds them when she comes late from work and he is the one at home. Despite all this it seems he is making no headway as their sex life has not improved. The man decided to stop asking for sex but the wife didn't even notice.
She rarely serves him his food properly. He comes from a traditional family where the woman serves the man food as soon as he comes back from work. She says she was not brought up that way and starts cooking the food when the man comes home. He decided to be understanding and accepted to wait. But he finds if he doesn't remind her, she doesn't near the kitchen to cook for him. He had now resorted to serving himself when he gets home, thinking his wife will get the message but she is comfortable with it.

He feels the wife no longer has feelings for him and left for him would have divorced her long ago, but he doesn't believe in divorce. Also he is worried about the kids and how it will affect them if they separate.


Pls advice needed.
Looks like both couples feel the other spouse doesn't love them and they've started acting up.
I suggest you go for professional counselling. If you have not been paying attention to her needs she may be able to talk to someone who really cares to know.
Divorce is never the solution. You may move on to a worse person.
Jokes EtcRe: What Should We Do To This Man by adanduka: 2:52pm On Mar 14, 2015
Nigeria should be renamed after him sad
HealthRe: World's First Successful Penis Transplant Performed In South Africa!!! by adanduka: 2:50pm On Mar 14, 2015
drlawizle:
Or perhaps dr penis is too soft to be circumcised undecided
Joystick is joystick no matter the race cool
HealthRe: World's First Successful Penis Transplant Performed In South Africa!!! by adanduka: 2:00pm On Mar 14, 2015
Pictures of before & after?
South Africa should come and learn circumcision from Nigeria. I don't think we have that high rate of joystick loss.
Forum GamesRe: Three Words You See In The Picture by adanduka: 1:20pm On Mar 14, 2015
Maccoy1:
are you a chosen
Na only 'Chosen' dey talk about heaven?

I am a peculiar person, chosen and Royalty wink
Forum GamesRe: What Colour Do You See by adanduka: 2:29pm On Mar 13, 2015
Diamond
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Chemistry/ Bio Chemistry Graduate Needed For A Sales Job by adanduka: 2:28pm On Mar 13, 2015
Location and possible salary range?
RomanceRe: Bride Walks Out Of Wedding After Groom Fails Her Math Test by adanduka: 2:27pm On Mar 13, 2015
Did they just meet before the interview huh
Forum GamesRe: Three Words You See In The Picture by adanduka: 2:25pm On Mar 13, 2015
MEGAMONEY
HEALTH &LONG LIFE
HEAVEN ON EARTH AND HEAVEN AT LAST
grin
Jokes EtcRe: Caption This Photo by adanduka: 2:23pm On Mar 13, 2015
MR MAN, IF I LAY MY HANDS ON THAT CANE, I'LL WALLOP YOU grin
RomanceRe: She Is Four Years Older Than Me With Two Kids by adanduka: 2:20pm On Mar 13, 2015
So you can't marry a lady with two kidshuh
PetsRe: Dog Kicked By Driver Returns With Other Dogs & Trashes His Car (photos) by adanduka: 2:17pm On Mar 13, 2015
Hard to believe.
They may be possessed.
EducationRe: What Will You Do If You Are To Watch Over Such Pupil During An Examination? by adanduka: 2:13pm On Mar 13, 2015
I'll tell him that if that thing really works, he doesn't need it for the exam.
He only needs to wield it to get to Aso Rock without a certificate grin

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