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Romance / Re: Help And Advice Needed!!!! by Adebayo4christ: 12:03pm On Apr 12, 2018
stacyadams:
made a mistake already..look after ur kids and leave that woman..
MY PRAYER NOW IS THAT SHE SHOULD GET PREGANT SOON. MEANWHILE, I HAVE SEPARATED MY ROOM, I MOVED INTO D SECOND ROOM. SO, SEX IS NOT THAT MUCH. ONE WEEK ONE TROUBLE
Romance / Re: Help And Advice Needed!!!! by Adebayo4christ: 11:56am On Apr 12, 2018
OhiOfIhima:
You mean she outrightly say somtin like dis from her mouth... Brother it sad u have such a lady, during my friendship time, I encounter such a lady who hardly say sorry if she offend u n still want u to do d same, it wasnt easy.. Am lost here but the truth is that you noticed this her behaviours during you guys dating days but chose to ignore them possibly she will change. Give her time n also why her parents is not in support of you guys marriage?

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HER PARENT WERE NOT IN SUPPORT COS OF MY STATUS AS A SINGLE FATHER OF TWO AND ALSO AN NCE HOLDER TO A MASTER DEGREE HOLDER.
Family / Godly Advice Needed by Adebayo4christ: 10:47am On Apr 12, 2018
GOOD MORNING WOMEN/MEN OF VIRTUES, PLEASE HELP ME GO THRU MY LONG STORY AND ADVICE ME ON WHAT TO DO.
I GOT MARRIED ABOUT 5 MONTHS AGO, MY WIFE IS A VERY SPIRITUAL PERSON(MFM). AFTER OUR MARRIAGE, I NOTICED SOM CHANGES IN HER, LIKE NAGGING, GETTING ANGRY OVER LITTLE THINGS AND MOST ESPECIALLY PRAYERS. I DONT HAVE THAT STRENGHT WAKING UP IN D MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT TO PRAY WITH HER AND ALSO COS OF JOB, WE STAY IN IKORODU AND I WORK AROUND OYINGBO SIDE.
ALSO, WHENEVER ANY OF US WRONG EACH OTHER, I WILL B D ONE TO BEG AFTER DAYS OF KEEPING MALICE IN D SAME HOUSE. IF SHE IS D ONE AT FAULT, SHE WILL NEVER BEG, BUT FOR PEACE TO REIGN, I WILL SHEALTH MY SWORD AND BEG HER.
I ALSO NOTICED SHE CHANGED TOWARDS MY PARENT, SHE DOESNT CALL THEM, NOR ALLOW US GO TO VISIT THEM. THEY ALSO STAY IN IKORODU. BUT JUST LIKE 30MINS DRIVE FROM EACH OTHER. SOMTHING HAPPEND ON FEB 15 THIS YEAR, MY DAD SLUMPED AND I WAS CALLED AROUND 8PM TO COME AROUND. THE NEXT THING MY WIFE WILL SAY IS, CANT IT WAIT TILL TOMOROW.I WAS SHOCKED BY THAT STATEMENT. WELL, MY DAD HAD STROKE, AND WAS IN N OUT OF THE HOSPITAL. OUT OF LIKE THE THREE WEEKS MY DAD SPENT IN THE HOSPITAL, MY WIFE CAME TWICE TO IKORODU GENERAL HOSPITAL TO VISIT HIM NOT ON HER OWN BUT WHEN I GO THERE TO VISIT HIM. I GO THERE EVERYDAY TO BATH HIM BFR GOING TO WORK AND AFTER COMING FROM WORK.MY MUM CANT HANDLE IT ALONE.
FAST FORWARD TO WHEN HE WAS DISCHARGED, I MAKE SURE I GO TO MY PARENTS HOUSE EVERYDAY TO CHECK ON HIM BUT MY WIFE ALWAYS COMPLAINED. TELLING ME A TIME WILL COME, I WILL HAVE TO CHOOSE BTW MY DAD AND HER. I WAS MAD THAT DAY. SHE ALSO COMPLAINS OF MY MUM HELPING US IN SOME AREAS. LIKE, GIVING HER MONEY OR FOODSTUFF,. SHE TEACHES AND CO OWN A SCHOOL WITH HER MUM. NOW, SHE WAS ON THREE WEEKS EASTER BREAK, ALONE AT HOME TILL I RETURN IN D EVENING AFTER WORK,
FOR THE PERIOD OF THAT THREE WEEKS SHE SPENT AT HOME, SHE CAME WITH ME TO VISIT MY DAD TWICE. MY MUM COMPLAINED ABOUT IT BUT I SHOVE HER OFF. MY QUESTION IS THIS.. IS THIS A GOOD BEHAVIOR FROM HER. ANYTIME I COMPLAINED TO HER. SHE WILL TELL ME THIS IS 21ST CENTURY AND THEY CANT EXPECT HER TO KILL HERSELF FOR THEM. THIS IS JUST ONE OF THE VARIOUS THINGS SHE DOES TO ME AT HOME. SHE HAS WARNED ME NEVER TO REPORT HER TO ANYBODY ESPECIALLY HER PARENT WHO WERE NEVER IN SUPPORT OF THE MARRIAGE THEN, COS I HAD TWO CHILDREN FROM DIFF LADIES WHICH SHE KNEW OFF BEFORE THE RELATIONSHIP STARTED

PLEASE ADVICE ME. AM TOTALLY CONFUSED. I WANT TO OPT OUT OF THE MARRIAGE. I AM NOT ENJOYING EVERY MOMENT WITH HER AGAIN.
Romance / Re: Help And Advice Needed!!!! by Adebayo4christ: 10:30am On Apr 12, 2018
Geedhey:

mhen this is strong... how did u Guys end up in first place if she is already tired of u in 5months... did u pressure her to get married to u cos she seems like not into u or u were the fall back option after her suppose dream guy didn't bulge to get married to her

I NEVER PRESSURED HER, RATHER, I WAS PRESSURISE. HER MUM WANTS THE WEDDING 2 MONTHS AFTER INTRO, BUT COS MY PARENT WERE NOT FINACIALLY BOUYANT THEN, THEY PROPOSED WE SHIFT IT TO THIS YEAR, THAT WAS JUNE LAST YEAR AFTER WE HAD INTRO. SECONDLY, SHE IS FROM IJEBU IN OGUN STATE. 3RDLY, WE ATTENDED SAME SCHOOL LESSON TOGERTHER, SHE ATTENDED MY DADS LESSON THEN IN SECONDARY SCHOOL, WE LOST CONTACT TILL WE CAME AROUND TOGETHER DECEMBER 2016. BY MAY, WE HAD OUR INTRO.BELEIVE ME, SHE WAS THE ONE WHO GOT MOST OF THE THINGS WE USE FOR THE WEDDING, SUITS, ENGAGEMENT CLOTHES, THOUGH SHE ADD MONEY TO SUPPORT THE ONE I HAVE. BUT NOW, I DONT SEE HER MONEY AGAIN . MY ELDER SISTER GAVE US A FRIDGE THEN, SHE WAS ANGRY, I CAN SEE THE HURRIEDNESS TO LEAVE HER PARENTS HOUSE THEN, MAYBE COS OF HER AGE OR COS OF THE INSULT THE GETS FROM HER YOUNGER SIS. ALL SAME I LOVED HER THEN, NOW, SHE DOESNT EVEN TALK ABOUT MY CHILDREN, EVEN WHEN THEIR MUM CALLS FOR SCHOOL FEES, SHE GETS ANGRY.
HMMM. I JUST HOPED I HAVE NOT MADE A MISTAKE
Romance / Re: Help And Advice Needed!!!! by Adebayo4christ: 9:50am On Apr 12, 2018
MEANEHILE I AM ALSO NOT PERFECT, I AM OPEN TO CRITITISM , BUT I HAVE NEVER BEEN THAT HEARTLESS TO HER OR HER PEOPLE.I DONT EXPECT HER TO BE TO MINE OWN PEOPLE.
Romance / Re: Help And Advice Needed!!!! by Adebayo4christ: 9:42am On Apr 12, 2018
Mcy56:


I think you are at fault here too. Maybe you are a mummy's boy because some men cannot do without consulting their parents first on decisions that has to do with their immediate family.
Also, she must have shown resentment towards your people but you took it lightly thinking you can change her orientation.
Now you have to be very firm with her and spelt it out clearly. Also you are married now, be more manly committed in your home.
YOU HAVE A POINT. ON THE ENGAGEMENT DAY, OR I GUESS AFTER D WEDDING, SHE COMPLAINED THAT D DOWRY PRESENTED TO HER PARENT WAS 10K. SHE WEPT. THAT A WHOLE MASTER DEGREE HOLDER , ALL THE MONEY HER PARENT SPENT ON HER. NOW WE R PAYING 10K.
SECONDLY, I AM AN NCE HOLDER. SHE IS HIGHER THAN ME ACADEMICALLY. SHE IS ALSO 33 YEARS. HEE MUM SPED UP THE MARRIAGE, MY MUM WARNED ME THEN, BUT ....
Romance / Re: Help And Advice Needed!!!! by Adebayo4christ: 9:30am On Apr 12, 2018
Mcy56:


I think you are at fault here too. Maybe you are a mummy's boy because some men cannot do without consulting their parents first on decisions that has to do with their immediate family.
Also, she must have shown resentment towards your people but you took it lightly thinking you can change her orientation.
Now you have to be very firm with her and spelt it out clearly. Also you are married now, be more manly committed in your home.

I DONT DISCUSS WITH MY MUM. FINE, I MAY BE MUMS BOY, REASON BEEN THAT, THEY SAID THEY CAN NEVER ALLOW ME SUFFER AL COS, WHEN THINGS WAS VERY OK FOR ME THEN, I TOOK CARE OF THEM AND MY DAD USE TO SAY THAT, OF ALL D CHILDREN HE HAS, I AM D MOST MERCIFUL SON AMONG THEM. THE TV MY MUM BOUGHT WAS COS, SHE SAID SHE NOTICED SMY WIFE IS ALWAYS PUT ON A SOBER MOOD ANYTHIME SHE IS WITH THEM, WHICH I ALSO COMPLAINED TO HER ABOUT. SHE EITHER PUTS ON EARPIECE AND LISTEN TO PRAYERS N SONGS ON PHONE OR GO OUTSIDE AND SIT DOWN , WHEN MY MUM IS COOKING N WE VISIT THEM, SHE DOENST ASSIST. I CAN GO ON AND ON. THIS IS WHAT I HAVE KEPT TO MYSELF FOR 5MONTHS
Romance / Re: Help And Advice Needed!!!! by Adebayo4christ: 9:24am On Apr 12, 2018
Blacksodje:
If she truly said that, I would advise you leave her before its a year.

For her to have been so bold enough to tell her pastor such whom I feel she respects being a spiritual person, my brother move on. She seems unstable and stubborn

Note: Besides, before someone runs down to this site to share his or her personal issue, I believe a heart to heart form of communication must have happened.

She seems self centred judging from your OWN SIDE OF THE STORY. Who is more of the bread winner?

I AM. I WORK AS UBER DRIVER BUT NOW, I GOT A JOB WITH A STOCKBROCKING FIRM. SHE TEACHES IN HER MUMS SCHOOL AND SHE PAYS HEER 10K. I GIVE HER 1K EVERYDAY AFTER DROPPING HER OFF AND BRINGING HER BACK HOME BUT NOW, I DONT HAVE A CAR AGAIN.
Romance / Re: Help And Advice Needed!!!! by Adebayo4christ: 9:22am On Apr 12, 2018
JUST BECAUSE MY MUM BOUGHT A FLAT SCREEN TV FOR US A MONTH AFTER OUR WEDDING AS A GIFT, SHE FLARED UP THAT WHY SHOULD SHE. WE HAVE NOT GOTTEN OUR WEDDING PICTURES COS OF THE BALANCE OF 20K TO GIVE THE PHOTOGRAPHER. MY MUM SAID SHE WILL ADD 10K TO THE ONE I HAVE. SHE ALSO FLARED UP. I TOLD HER THAT IF HER MUM GIVES ME SOMETHING, SHOULD I REJECT IT OR IF HER MUM GIVES HER SOMETHING, SHOULD I FLARE UP COS OF THAT? MY WEDDING DVD IS WITH HER PARENT, I HAVE NOT WATCHED THE VIDEO MYSELF, ALL COS SHE WAS THE ONE WHO PAID FOR THE VIDEO MAN. UP TILL NOW MY PARENTS HAVE NOT SEEN EITHER WEDDING PICTURES OR VIDEO. I ASKED HER LAST WEEK, SHE SAID A COPY OF THE CD IS ON D LAPTOP. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO AGAIN. HAVE TOLD HER THAT AM ALREADY PRAYING FOR DEATH TO COME SINCE THATS THE ONLY WAY, WE CAN BE SEPARATED. I AM FED UP!!!
Romance / Re: Help And Advice Needed!!!! by Adebayo4christ: 9:13am On Apr 12, 2018
I SAT HER DOWN LAST WEEK, ASKED HER WHAT OUR PLANS AND GOALS FOR THIS YEAR IS, HER RESPONSE WAS "ME, PLAN WITH YOU, SO U CAN ALSO PLAN WITH YOUR MUM ABI. NO, DO YOUR OWN N LET ME DO MINE
Romance / Re: Help And Advice Needed!!!! by Adebayo4christ: 9:10am On Apr 12, 2018
Geedhey:
I would want to say she must have shown signs of these while you guys were dating or u didn't know her well enough... bro your marriage is quite still young to be having this kinda trouble.. she's either too self-centered or she's reacting based on some of your actions. Sit her down and have a proper talk with her, women hold grudges a lot so rather than talk she's giving u a attitudes . Sit her down and talk

HAVE DONE THAT SO MANY TIMES, CALLED HER IN D MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT, BEGGED HER. YET SAME THING, I REPORTED HER TO MY PASTOR, HE CALLED BOTH OF US TOGETHER BUT THIS WAS HER RESPONSE THEN, PASTOR, I WILL MANAGE MY HUSBAND AND D MARRIAGE FOR A YEAR AND AFTER THAT, I WILL SEEK FOR DIVORCE. THOSE HER HER WORDS

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Romance / Re: Help And Advice Needed!!!! by Adebayo4christ: 9:08am On Apr 12, 2018
azeezhy:
You are the man of your house. You are the head.

1. You don't need her permission to visit your parents at any time of your chosen.

2. Don't compel her to visit your parents but be mindful (I mean observe how she treats your parents and extend such to hers too) when she complain, draw a similarly between her treatment and yours. Her parents might not be as old as yours now, but they will soon get there and then she will understand.

3. Finally, women are like children, treat them as such. There is an appropriate punishment for misbehavior.. I do not mean beating or anything of such.. She is your wife. You know how to punish her.

I HAVE MADE UP MY MIND, I WILL DO SAME TO HER PARENT . SHE IS HEARTLESS.
Romance / Re: Help And Advice Needed!!!! by Adebayo4christ: 9:06am On Apr 12, 2018
MORE REASON I DONT PRAY WITH HER AGAIN. COS I TOLD HER WHAT THE BIBLE SAID ABOUT WIVES SUBMITTING THEMSELVES TO THEIR HUSBAND AND RESPECTING THEM. I TOLD HER TO CULTIVATE A RELATIONSHIP WITH MY PARENTS AND SISTER COS YORUBA SAYS OKO BURUKU SHEY NI BUT DONT EVER PRAY TO HAVE A BAD INLAWS. BUT SHE ALWAYS OUTWIT ME.
Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Adebayo4christ: 8:59am On Apr 12, 2018
GOOD MORNING WOMEN OF VIRTUES, PLEASE HELP ME GO THRU MY LONG STORY AND ADVICE ME ON WHAT TO DO.
I GOT MARRIED ABOUT 5 MONTHS AGO, MY WIFE IS A VERY SPIRITUAL PERSON(MFM). AFTER OUR MARRIAGE, I NOTICED SOM CHANGES IN HER, LIKE NAGGING, GETTING ANGRY OVER LITTLE THINGS AND MOST ESPECIALLY PRAYERS. I DONT HAVE THAT STRENGHT WAKING UP IN D MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT TO PRAY WITH HER AND ALSO COS OF JOB, WE STAY IN IKORODU AND I WORK AROUND OYINGBO SIDE.
ALSO, WHENEVER ANY OF US WRONG EACH OTHER, I WILL B D ONE TO BEG AFTER DAYS OF KEEPING MALICE IN D SAME HOUSE. IF SHE IS D ONE AT FAULT, SHE WILL NEVER BEG, BUT FOR PEACE TO REIGN, I WILL SHEALTH MY SWORD AND BEG HER.
I ALSO NOTICED SHE CHANGED TOWARDS MY PARENT, SHE DOESNT CALL THEM, NOR ALLOW US GO TO VISIT THEM. THEY ALSO STAY IN IKORODU. BUT JUST LIKE 30MINS DRIVE FROM EACH OTHER. SOMTHING HAPPEND ON FEB 15 THIS YEAR, MY DAD SLUMPED AND I WAS CALLED AROUND 8PM TO COME AROUND. THE NEXT THING MY WIFE WILL SAY IS, CANT IT WAIT TILL TOMOROW.I WAS SHOCKED BY THAT STATEMENT. WELL, MY DAD HAD STROKE, AND WAS IN N OUT OF THE HOSPITAL. OUT OF LIKE THE THREE WEEKS MY DAD SPENT IN THE HOSPITAL, MY WIFE CAME TWICE TO IKORODU GENERAL HOSPITAL TO VISIT HIM NOT ON HER OWN BUT WHEN I GO THERE TO VISIT HIM. I GO THERE EVERYDAY TO BATH HIM BFR GOING TO WORK AND AFTER COMING FROM WORK.MY MUM CANT HANDLE IT ALONE.
FAST FORWARD TO WHEN HE WAS DISCHARGED, I MAKE SURE I GO TO MY PARENTS HOUSE EVERYDAY TO CHECK ON HIM BUT MY WIFE ALWAYS COMPLAINED. TELLING ME A TIME WILL COME, I WILL HAVE TO CHOOSE BTW MY DAD AND HER. I WAS MAD THAT DAY. SHE ALSO COMPLAINS OF MY MUM HELPING US IN SOME AREAS. LIKE, GIVING HER MONEY OR FOODSTUFF,. SHE TEACHES AND CO OWN A SCHOOL WITH HER MUM. NOW, SHE WAS ON THREE WEEKS EASTER BREAK, ALONE AT HOME TILL I RETURN IN D EVENING AFTER WORK,
FOR THE PERIOD OF THAT THREE WEEKS SHE SPENT AT HOME, SHE CAME WITH ME TO VISIT MY DAD TWICE. MY MUM COMPLAINED ABOUT IT BUT I SHOVE HER OFF. MY QUESTION IS THIS.. IS THIS A GOOD BEHAVIOR FROM HER. ANYTIME I COMPLAINED TO HER. SHE WILL TELL ME THIS IS 21ST CENTURY AND THEY CANT EXPECT HER TO KILL HERSELF FOR THEM. THIS IS JUST ONE OF THE VARIOUS THINGS SHE DOES TO ME AT HOME. SHE HAS WARNED ME NEVER TO REPORT HER TO ANYBODY ESPECIALLY HER PARENT WHO WERE NEVER IN SUPPORT OF THE MARRIAGE THEN, COS I HAD TWO CHILDREN FROM DIFF LADIES WHICH SHE KNEW OFF BEFORE THE RELATIONSHIP STARTED

PLEASE ADVICE ME. AM TOTALLY CONFUSED. I WANT TO OPT OUT OF THE MARRIAGE. I AM NOT ENJOYING EVERY MOMENT WITH HER AGAIN.
Family / Re: Has My Wife Finally Moved On? by Adebayo4christ: 8:58am On Apr 12, 2018
GOOD MORNING GUYS, PLEASE HELP ME GO THRU MY LONG STORY AND ADVICE ME ON WHAT TO DO.
I GOT MARRIED ABOUT 5 MONTHS AGO, MY WIFE IS A VERY SPIRITUAL PERSON(MFM). AFTER OUR MARRIAGE, I NOTICED SOM CHANGES IN HER, LIKE NAGGING, GETTING ANGRY OVER LITTLE THINGS AND MOST ESPECIALLY PRAYERS. I DONT HAVE THAT STRENGHT WAKING UP IN D MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT TO PRAY WITH HER AND ALSO COS OF JOB, WE STAY IN IKORODU AND I WORK AROUND OYINGBO SIDE.
ALSO, WHENEVER ANY OF US WRONG EACH OTHER, I WILL B D ONE TO BEG AFTER DAYS OF KEEPING MALICE IN D SAME HOUSE. IF SHE IS D ONE AT FAULT, SHE WILL NEVER BEG, BUT FOR PEACE TO REIGN, I WILL SHEALTH MY SWORD AND BEG HER.
I ALSO NOTICED SHE CHANGED TOWARDS MY PARENT, SHE DOESNT CALL THEM, NOR ALLOW US GO TO VISIT THEM. THEY ALSO STAY IN IKORODU. BUT JUST LIKE 30MINS DRIVE FROM EACH OTHER. SOMTHING HAPPEND ON FEB 15 THIS YEAR, MY DAD SLUMPED AND I WAS CALLED AROUND 8PM TO COME AROUND. THE NEXT THING MY WIFE WILL SAY IS, CANT IT WAIT TILL TOMOROW.I WAS SHOCKED BY THAT STATEMENT. WELL, MY DAD HAD STROKE, AND WAS IN N OUT OF THE HOSPITAL. OUT OF LIKE THE THREE WEEKS MY DAD SPENT IN THE HOSPITAL, MY WIFE CAME TWICE TO IKORODU GENERAL HOSPITAL TO VISIT HIM NOT ON HER OWN BUT WHEN I GO THERE TO VISIT HIM. I GO THERE EVERYDAY TO BATH HIM BFR GOING TO WORK AND AFTER COMING FROM WORK.MY MUM CANT HANDLE IT ALONE.
FAST FORWARD TO WHEN HE WAS DISCHARGED, I MAKE SURE I GO TO MY PARENTS HOUSE EVERYDAY TO CHECK ON HIM BUT MY WIFE ALWAYS COMPLAINED. TELLING ME A TIME WILL COME, I WILL HAVE TO CHOOSE BTW MY DAD AND HER. I WAS MAD THAT DAY. SHE ALSO COMPLAINS OF MY MUM HELPING US IN SOME AREAS. LIKE, GIVING HER MONEY OR FOODSTUFF,. SHE TEACHES AND CO OWN A SCHOOL WITH HER MUM. NOW, SHE WAS ON THREE WEEKS EASTER BREAK, ALONE AT HOME TILL I RETURN IN D EVENING AFTER WORK,
FOR THE PERIOD OF THAT THREE WEEKS SHE SPENT AT HOME, SHE CAME WITH ME TO VISIT MY DAD TWICE. MY MUM COMPLAINED ABOUT IT BUT I SHOVE HER OFF. MY QUESTION IS THIS.. IS THIS A GOOD BEHAVIOR FROM HER. ANYTIME I COMPLAINED TO HER. SHE WILL TELL ME THIS IS 21ST CENTURY AND THEY CANT EXPECT HER TO KILL HERSELF FOR THEM. THIS IS JUST ONE OF THE VARIOUS THINGS SHE DOES TO ME AT HOME. SHE HAS WARNED ME NEVER TO REPORT HER TO ANYBODY ESPECIALLY HER PARENT WHO WERE NEVER IN SUPPORT OF THE MARRIAGE THEN, COS I HAD TWO CHILDREN FROM DIFF LADIES WHICH SHE KNEW OFF BEFORE THE RELATIONSHIP STARTED

PLEASE ADVICE ME. AM TOTALLY CONFUSED. I WANT TO OPT OUT OF THE MARRIAGE. I AM NOT ENJOYING EVERY MOMENT WITH HER AGAIN.
Romance / Help And Advice Needed!!!! by Adebayo4christ: 8:56am On Apr 12, 2018
GOOD MORNING GUYS, PLEASE HELP ME GO THRU MY LONG STORY AND ADVICE ME ON WHAT TO DO.
I GOT MARRIED ABOUT 5 MONTHS AGO, MY WIFE IS A VERY SPIRITUAL PERSON(MFM). AFTER OUR MARRIAGE, I NOTICED SOM CHANGES IN HER, LIKE NAGGING, GETTING ANGRY OVER LITTLE THINGS AND MOST ESPECIALLY PRAYERS. I DONT HAVE THAT STRENGHT WAKING UP IN D MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT TO PRAY WITH HER AND ALSO COS OF JOB, WE STAY IN IKORODU AND I WORK AROUND OYINGBO SIDE.
ALSO, WHENEVER ANY OF US WRONG EACH OTHER, I WILL B D ONE TO BEG AFTER DAYS OF KEEPING MALICE IN D SAME HOUSE. IF SHE IS D ONE AT FAULT, SHE WILL NEVER BEG, BUT FOR PEACE TO REIGN, I WILL SHEALTH MY SWORD AND BEG HER.
I ALSO NOTICED SHE CHANGED TOWARDS MY PARENT, SHE DOESNT CALL THEM, NOR ALLOW US GO TO VISIT THEM. THEY ALSO STAY IN IKORODU. BUT JUST LIKE 30MINS DRIVE FROM EACH OTHER. SOMTHING HAPPEND ON FEB 15 THIS YEAR, MY DAD SLUMPED AND I WAS CALLED AROUND 8PM TO COME AROUND. THE NEXT THING MY WIFE WILL SAY IS, CANT IT WAIT TILL TOMOROW.I WAS SHOCKED BY THAT STATEMENT. WELL, MY DAD HAD STROKE, AND WAS IN N OUT OF THE HOSPITAL. OUT OF LIKE THE THREE WEEKS MY DAD SPENT IN THE HOSPITAL, MY WIFE CAME TWICE TO IKORODU GENERAL HOSPITAL TO VISIT HIM NOT ON HER OWN BUT WHEN I GO THERE TO VISIT HIM. I GO THERE EVERYDAY TO BATH HIM BFR GOING TO WORK AND AFTER COMING FROM WORK.MY MUM CANT HANDLE IT ALONE.
FAST FORWARD TO WHEN HE WAS DISCHARGED, I MAKE SURE I GO TO MY PARENTS HOUSE EVERYDAY TO CHECK ON HIM BUT MY WIFE ALWAYS COMPLAINED. TELLING ME A TIME WILL COME, I WILL HAVE TO CHOOSE BTW MY DAD AND HER. I WAS MAD THAT DAY. SHE ALSO COMPLAINS OF MY MUM HELPING US IN SOME AREAS. LIKE, GIVING HER MONEY OR FOODSTUFF,. SHE TEACHES AND CO OWN A SCHOOL WITH HER MUM. NOW, SHE WAS ON THREE WEEKS EASTER BREAK, ALONE AT HOME TILL I RETURN IN D EVENING AFTER WORK,
FOR THE PERIOD OF THAT THREE WEEKS SHE SPENT AT HOME, SHE CAME WITH ME TO VISIT MY DAD TWICE. MY MUM COMPLAINED ABOUT IT BUT I SHOVE HER OFF. MY QUESTION IS THIS.. IS THIS A GOOD BEHAVIOR FROM HER. ANYTIME I COMPLAINED TO HER. SHE WILL TELL ME THIS IS 21ST CENTURY AND THEY CANT EXPECT HER TO KILL HERSELF FOR THEM. THIS IS JUST ONE OF THE VARIOUS THINGS SHE DOES TO ME AT HOME. SHE HAS WARNED ME NEVER TO REPORT HER TO ANYBODY ESPECIALLY HER PARENT WHO WERE NEVER IN SUPPORT OF THE MARRIAGE THEN, COS I HAD TWO CHILDREN FROM DIFF LADIES WHICH SHE KNEW OFF BEFORE THE RELATIONSHIP STARTED

PLEASE ADVICE ME. AM TOTALLY CONFUSED. I WANT TO OPT OUT OF THE MARRIAGE. I AM NOT ENJOYING EVERY MOMENT WITH HER AGAIN.

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Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Adebayo4christ: 5:21am On Apr 11, 2018
miraclebaby:
You also need to check yourself out. If everything is okay with you then consider ovulation monitoring for her. Though I'd say it's still too early to worry, but then I don't know her age.
She is 33 years old
Business / Re: If You Are Uber Partner In Lagos, Please Share Your Experience Here by Adebayo4christ: 10:01pm On Apr 10, 2018
[quote author=all4kollin post=66595827]Toyota Corolla 09 (manual) available on rental basis. Call 08034278076 if interested[/quote
Am interested sir, how much weekly delivery sir
Health / Re: Help Where Can I Get Best Treatment For Stroke Patients by Adebayo4christ: 7:51am On Apr 10, 2018
Good morning friends, please my dad has stroke on the 15 of feb 2018, though it didnt affect his speech, he can talk normal, but his hands and legs were affected.we took him out of the hospital cos they were not being professional in the govt hospital. got a physiotherapist for me , along the line, a native physio was consulted. but to there was stil no improvement. he can just lift the hand a little but the leg is not. but he can feel sensation on both hands and legs. what can he use to speed up his recovery process. Thanks
Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Adebayo4christ: 7:38am On Apr 10, 2018
good morning great mamas,i am here on behalf of my wife, though she is not a nairalander, but am just trying to seek help for her. we got married november last year but she is yet to take in. its becoming worrisome for her and also knowing that i had two kids bfr i met her. cos of that, i make sure i always have sex with her almost everyday or three to four times in a week. she said she has been to d doctor but was told everything is ok with her. please what could be wrong. is it that we r not timing it well or any other thing. thanks

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Business / Re: If You Are Uber Partner In Lagos, Please Share Your Experience Here by Adebayo4christ: 12:43pm On Apr 09, 2018
good afternoon sirs/ma, please, bikonu, ejowo, edakun, help me with a car to work with. am open to both HP and rentals. i will not n never dissapoint. please help me. thanks and God bless you
Business / Re: If You Are Uber Partner In Lagos, Please Share Your Experience Here by Adebayo4christ: 7:48pm On Apr 05, 2018
Plz I need a car to work o. I beg u people in God's name. Plz have mercy on new , old, experience and inexperienced drivers
Business / Re: If You Are Uber Partner In Lagos, Please Share Your Experience Here by Adebayo4christ: 7:03am On Apr 05, 2018
nitigriti:


Cc: Adebayo4Christ
What about those that doesn't have the 35k sir

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Technology Market / Re: **PHONE SWAP CENTRE**SWAP IT NOW!!! pin:265DA560 or 08033923897 by Adebayo4christ: 3:40pm On Apr 04, 2018
rashbaba:
still available neatly used
infinix hot note pro
2 gig ram and 32 gig rom
4000 mah battery capacity
@25k
Location-Lagos
Your number
Technology Market / Re: **PHONE SWAP CENTRE**SWAP IT NOW!!! pin:265DA560 or 08033923897 by Adebayo4christ: 8:21am On Apr 04, 2018
daamazing:
message me.. Check signature (WhatsApp)
Messaged u finish for whatsapp.u just de read my message but not reply.
Technology Market / Re: **PHONE SWAP CENTRE**SWAP IT NOW!!! pin:265DA560 or 08033923897 by Adebayo4christ: 7:24am On Apr 04, 2018
Adebayo4christ:
S6 edge
Still available for sale or swap with a good phone and cash. .
Technology Market / Re: **PHONE SWAP CENTRE**SWAP IT NOW!!! pin:265DA560 or 08033923897 by Adebayo4christ: 4:12pm On Apr 03, 2018
S6 edge

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Business / Re: If You Are Uber Partner In Lagos, Please Share Your Experience Here by Adebayo4christ: 1:06pm On Apr 03, 2018
Dovehorizon:
How much bro?

60k sir
Business / Re: If You Are Uber Partner In Lagos, Please Share Your Experience Here by Adebayo4christ: 12:18pm On Apr 03, 2018
That's the phone

Business / Re: If You Are Uber Partner In Lagos, Please Share Your Experience Here by Adebayo4christ: 12:16pm On Apr 03, 2018
famousguy01:


I have tecno phonepad 3, how much should I put on it for ur Samsung
Send your number bro. Let's chat on whatsapp
Business / Re: If You Are Uber Partner In Lagos, Please Share Your Experience Here by Adebayo4christ: 7:31am On Apr 03, 2018
abiolag:

How much is it?
60k sir, negotiable
Business / Re: If You Are Uber Partner In Lagos, Please Share Your Experience Here by Adebayo4christ: 7:31am On Apr 03, 2018
abiolag:

Where is ur location?
Yaba sir

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