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Phones / Re: Phone Engineers On Nairaland Willing To Assist You - Part II by Adebayo4christ: 3:53pm On Jul 10, 2018 |
i need a samsung galaxy s7 edge screen. anyone should please quote me |
Technology Market / Re: **PHONE SWAP CENTRE**SWAP IT NOW!!! pin:265DA560 or 08033923897 by Adebayo4christ: 6:16pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
bobo65:. bros, i have apologised na. one, changed phone. 2, was out of the state from my office. now vex. i don dey around. we go hook up soon. no mind bad belle. me and u don gather dey tei tei |
Technology Market / Re: **PHONE SWAP CENTRE**SWAP IT NOW!!! pin:265DA560 or 08033923897 by Adebayo4christ: 2:27pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
bobo65:... oga, I no even get ur number again. I changed phone. your Samsung don go blind. plz beep me on whatsapp if u still get my number |
Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Adebayo4christ: 1:02pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
QSola: your number plz. I want to pick up the car seat. R u in lagos? |
Phones / Re: Phone Engineers On Nairaland Willing To Assist You - Part II by Adebayo4christ: 12:52pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
Samsung galaxy s7 edge screen needed. plz quote me if y have |
Technology Market / Re: **PHONE SWAP CENTRE**SWAP IT NOW!!! pin:265DA560 or 08033923897 by Adebayo4christ: 12:50pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
Samsung galaxy s7 edge screen needed |
Phones / Re: Phone Engineers On Nairaland Willing To Assist You - Part II by Adebayo4christ: 7:27am On Jun 22, 2018 |
Good morning fellas, plz if anyone has Samsung galaxy s7 edge screen , pm me abeg |
Family / Re: Help!!! by Adebayo4christ: 4:15pm On Jun 16, 2018 |
yettymuse:. she teaches in her mum's school and she has refused to leave there o. |
Family / Re: Help!!! by Adebayo4christ: 4:02pm On Jun 16, 2018 |
But if I may ask, what are 5 things she complains about you often? What does she nag about you? You can't tell me you are free of fault in all these. If we say make we ask your wife wetin dey Shelley, wetin she go yan? [/quote] bro, God sees my heart and God will judge me if everything u listed here , I have mot done them. I will leave my office during break just to come to her mum's school to ch3ck on her. buy food, drinks, I prefer not to have than for her to be in wants. do u know d reason I was asking for car then on uber thread, it was all to please her so we won't have to be jumping from one bus to f other all the time. what again does she wants. since we got married ,I have been the one washing my clothes by myself, or I take them to dry cleaners, I wash plates, cooks, sweeps, what again does she wants. someone adviced me on this thread that I should take it as if am staying at home alone, won't I do all this things myself. she has taking me to be a weakling and I agreed I am. all because I never saw my dad matters my mum, I grew up learning from my dad who cooks for us alot of times bfr my mum was transferred back to lag. I am a weakling. she has taking advantage of that. The five things she complain about me are: my parents 2, my parents 3, my parents 4, my parents calling us to check on us. 5, that am not too spiritual like I was bfr we married and I explained to her, that with all get attiude, it's difficult for me to pray with me |
Family / Re: Help!!! by Adebayo4christ: 12:57pm On Jun 16, 2018 |
Pipedreams: she is always in her parents house and comes home whenever she feels like. So , It is even easy to run away from home |
Family / Re: Help!!! by Adebayo4christ: 10:09am On Jun 16, 2018 |
Restroom: I am ready to pay her back in her own coins now. have told her she has brought out the devil In me and she will see it. I have never raised my voice on her. even when she shouts , I plead with her to reduce her voice. I hate it when people or neighbour hears husband and wife shouting on each other. secondly, she is not bringing money for support. I give her 1k everyday despite the fact she is with her mum. bfr going to d office, I go there and see her, after closing, same thing. what else will I do. as per her parent, that's a no go area. she don warned me never to involve them or else na wahala I dey look for. and me don't like wahala. also, my mum is So one who notices if things r not going on well, my mum will always call me aside to talk to me. even despite my dad's sickness , he is always telling me never to hurt her but they don't know what I am going thru deep down . I am beginning to think the reason her dad go stay for abuja may be also her mum is not giving the husband peace of mind. the dad comes home two times in a year. the mum dare not talk to her, she will shun her mum not to interfere btw us. same thing she wants from my mum. you don't know my wife, she can't be intimidated. she is prepared for anything. I guess she has found what she wants and need ( the pregnancy). I am also tired of praying or committing anything to God's hands again. it's a pity I don't know how to drink, or have friends. I am a lone ranger. I would have indulge in something that will make me forget my sorrow. |
Family / Re: Help!!! by Adebayo4christ: 8:59am On Jun 16, 2018 |
Truth be told, your wife is your own family. Balance it. Don't let your relatives and siblings divide you against your wife and don't let your wife cut you off from your mom. [/quote] thank you very much bro. u have said it all. I perceived she is trying to separate me from my parents which I am guilty of. I allowed her to rule me. even sometimes when she offends me, and she doesn't apologise, I still find myself going back to her to beg all because I want peace In my home. but I think I have had enough of this now. God will help me and give me d boldness to be able to face her. meanwhile, she had said the day I raise my hands on her. na that day ,I go die or make I no just come house for seven months. I dey fear for my life. secondly, I am the first son and second child. my elder sis is married and based on d mainland.my other younger sis too is married and stays with her husband in ilesha. our last born is in school. right now, there is nobody with my mum. more reason am trying to be close to her now than bfr . j can't afford to lose her again too . NEVER |
Family / Re: Help!!! by Adebayo4christ: 8:50am On Jun 16, 2018 |
Obaf1: there is a particular passage In the bible she always quote for me. even the day I reported her to one of her pastors , d dame bible passage that one too quoted.. a man shall leave his parent and cleave to his wife. That has been her way of defending herself, that my parents have lived their life and r still living it. |
Family / Re: Help!!! by Adebayo4christ: 8:17am On Jun 16, 2018 |
GAZZUZZ: Are you married Sir, cos the last time i was in your shop self, I don't remember seeing a wedding ring on your finger ooo GAZZUZZ: Are you married Sir, cos the last time i was in your shop self, I don't remember seeing a wedding ring on your finger ooo .. lols |
Family / Re: Help!!! by Adebayo4christ: 8:12am On Jun 16, 2018 |
adebayour26: I have done that severally, either she says ,cos I have changed, i don't pray with her again and or attend MFM with her all just cause she feels I stopped attending some of her Wednesday program with her because my mum said , the women leaves their church when they r married and attend the husbands church. I told her , how will God answer our prayers with all this her attitude. I think I have to do what she asked me to do that day that lastma officials impounded my vehicle on my way to see my parent. she said its either I choose them over her or I choose her over them, I have made a terrible mistake |
Family / Re: Help!!! by Adebayo4christ: 7:51am On Jun 16, 2018 |
Pipedreams: God bless you bro. U nip d bud. That was exactly what happend. I could remember when my dad and mum were trying to say the wedding should be held this year but the mum was kinda adamant. and my stupid self too was kinda clouded with d spirituality stuff. All is well sha. I shall overcome someday |
Family / Re: Help!!! by Adebayo4christ: 7:47am On Jun 16, 2018 |
GAZZUZZ: I have a well paid job now sir |
Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Adebayo4christ: 5:47am On Jun 16, 2018 |
Good morning mummys, am sorry for posting this here again but I just want to know why women behaves the way they do sometimes. please I need your help urgently. In my former post, I posted about my dad being sick then and how my wife has been behaving to me and to them also, now I lost my dad, instead of my wife to be there for me, she had totally changed to worst. from nagging, to shouting , and other things. i dont know what ny parent has done to her to deserve what she is doing to them. despite the fact that my dad was her teacher in secondary school. part of the reason my dad supported our marraige then cos she was a devoted MFM member. through out my dad's sickness that lasted for almost 3 months, my wife was there 4 times, her parents came just once. the most painful thing to me now is , anytime i want to go and visit my mum during this her period of mourning , she feels reluctant. , i could rememeber how my aunties begged her immediately after the burial to please allow us move temporarily to my parents house just to keep my mum from thinking, later in the night, she called me and said, sebi my mum had achieved her aim of she feeding me and looking after us now, relating what my aunties said in the afternoon, . secondly, I am beginning to hate her , and I am blaming myself for my dad's death. I believe if I had been going to see him regularly as i am doing to my mum now, who knows he may not have died. He died of depression cos of his stroke condition. the morning of the Friday he died, he still called me and asked me if he had offended me and my wife, asking why I have abandoned him, I just had to lie to him that it was cos of my tedious job , and I promised to see him on Saturday morning, he died that Friday night .I didn't see him for three weeks bfr he died and my wife two months , meanwhile we stay in the same ikorodu. now am deeply hurt and I remember those words every now and then. I blamed myself. another thing I noticed was , it was exactly 6 months after my wedding, he died, and exactly a year after my introduction, we buried him. any coincidence with this? How can I get over this and what can I do about my Wife. to me, the marriage is over. I am just still being considerate cos of my baby she is carrying. and she is also making things worst everyday , making me to hate her the more. Godly counsel / advice please. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Help And Advice Needed!!!! by Adebayo4christ: 5:33am On Jun 16, 2018 |
Good morning nairlanders, please I need your help urgently. In my former post, I posted about my dad being sick then and how my wife has been behaving to me and to them also, now I lost my dad, instead of my wife to be there for me, she had totally changed to worst. from nagging, to shouting , and other things. i dont know what ny parent has done to her to deserve what she is doing to them. despite the fact that my dad was her teacher in secondary school. part of the reason my dad supported our marraige then cos she was a devoted MFM member. through out my dad's sickness that lasted for almost 3 months, my wife was there 4 times, her parents came just once. the most painful thing to me now is , anytime i want to go and visit my mum during this her period of mourning , she feels reluctant. , i could rememeber how my aunties begged her immediately after the burial to please allow us move temporarily to my parents house just to keep my mum from thinking, later in the night, she called me and said, sebi my mum had achieved her aim of she feeding me and looking after us now, relating what my aunties said in the afternoon, . secondly, I am beginning to hate her , and I am blaming myself for my dad's death. I believe if I had been going to see him regularly as i am doing to my mum now, who knows he may not have died. He died of depression cos of his stroke condition. the morning of the Friday he died, he still called me and asked me if he had offended me and my wife, asking why I have abandoned him, I just had to lie to him that it was cos of my tedious job , and I promised to see him on Saturday morning, he died that Friday night .I didn't see him for three weeks bfr he died and my wife two months , meanwhile we stay in the same ikorodu. now am deeply hurt and I remember those words every now and then. I blamed myself. another thing I noticed was , it was exactly 6 months after my wedding, he died, and exactly a year after my introduction, we buried him. any coincidence with this? How can I get over this and what can I do about my Wife. to me, the marriage is over. I am just still being considerate cos of my baby she is carrying. and she is also making things worst everyday , making me to hate her the more. Godly counsel / advice please. |
Family / Re: Help!!! by Adebayo4christ: 5:28am On Jun 16, 2018 |
Joephat: thanks for your advice sir. So be it to u as you have think of me. 23 Likes |
Family / Help!!! by Adebayo4christ: 5:21am On Jun 16, 2018 |
Good morning nairlanders, Godly counsel / advice please. |
Phone/Internet Market / Re: in need of Icloud Locked Iphone 6 by Adebayo4christ: 11:07am On Jun 08, 2018 |
MarkWayne89: can it be converted to use wifi. i have a icloud locked iphone 6plus too . since it cant be unlocked. can it be converted to simless |
Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Adebayo4christ: 5:01pm On May 30, 2018 |
Finally lost my dad. |
Health / Re: Help Where Can I Get Best Treatment For Stroke Patients by Adebayo4christ: 4:57pm On May 30, 2018 |
Finally lost my dad to the stroke battle.. it is well |
Romance / Re: Help And Advice Needed!!!! by Adebayo4christ: 4:35pm On May 30, 2018 |
I finally lost my dad!!!!!!!!!! |
Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Adebayo4christ: 4:41pm On May 14, 2018 |
SomebodysMum: NUMBER NOT COMPLETE. |
Phones / Re: Phone Engineers On Nairaland Willing To Assist You - Part II by Adebayo4christ: 6:28pm On May 10, 2018 |
haywire1:how much. send your digits plx |
Phones / Re: Phone Engineers On Nairaland Willing To Assist You - Part II by Adebayo4christ: 1:03pm On May 10, 2018 |
is it that no engineer has samsung galaxy s7 edge screeni ni. i have been posting n posting about it but nobody replied, plz i need samsung s7 edge screen and touch pad |
Romance / Re: Help And Advice Needed!!!! by Adebayo4christ: 8:48am On May 10, 2018 |
ladiesreject: am already dying inside. spiritually, emotionally |
Romance / Re: Help And Advice Needed!!!! by Adebayo4christ: 8:41am On May 10, 2018 |
frixie: thanks for your words, but i dont go to my parents house to eat, its normal for every parent to want to support their children in one way or the other. Just two weeks ago, she called her dad right bfr me and told him, she is paying 60k for her second semester registration for her masters program, when i challenged her about it, guess what her response was? My dad has said, no man will ever pay for her childrens school fees even when they r married. thats her words. now, if u r the one, how will you feel? meanwhile, my mum gave us the Tv as a wedding gift. You r not also in my shoes, and i pray u will not, cos, the shit am taking from her, no man will ever take it. but i have accepted my fate. i will live with it. Thanks |
Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Adebayo4christ: 5:09pm On May 08, 2018 |
Rejoice04: Thanks 1 Like |
Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Adebayo4christ: 4:46pm On May 08, 2018 |
good afternoon everyone, i have been pursued from the TTC thread. my wife is like a month preg now, but everyday, its one weakness , vomiting or the other, headache,. plz what can she use or engage in that will stop it. Note, she is saying its no longer physical know o but spiritual, opting to be praying fire fire prayers . Thanks 2 Likes |
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