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Everyone on earth will have one or two things you regretted not doing or even doing. Even the richest man, happiest man or anybody have their own story to tell.

Share those things you regretted doing or not doing...

[quote author=joywendy]Yes true but in the case of rape, and some others that might probably ruin and cause some troubles in the home. Is it not better you don't say a word? If you tell your spouse and he/she takes it differently what would u do?

Knowledgeable opinion but the spouse should be ready to accept him/her for who he/she is, it wasn't her fault she had that experience.

It's good not to do anything that will become a secret but once there's a secret. Some secret are better not talked about, that is why it is called SECRET. But make sure your spouse knoes everything in case the shadows will still hunt you.

dejt4u: Honestly, i dnt knw wat to write

if u don't know what to write, you shouldn't have filled up that space with those words to only book space.

#guyhowyoudey

Following....

I just hope there won't be PRISON BREAK in reality.

ogaofficer: 4 sale

wetin u won sell?

1. Dangote's daughter cheated on me and
you say I should break up? Don't you know
that Love is all about forgiveness.

2. Beloved sisters in the Lord, if your
boyfriend can finish 5 loafs of bread and 2
fishes; you are dating 5000 people.

3. A boy I beat up back then in primary
school is now in the US Army. He poses
with guns on Facebook, and looks like he
hasn't forgotten.

4. One stone is enough to break a glass, one
word is enough to break a heart, one
second is enough to fall in love BUT Why is
one chapter not enough to pass exams?

5. When you see a Nigerian couple outside
staring at the moon, It's either NEPA
(Nigeria's Electricity company) took the light
or they are waiting for the smell of the
insecticide to subside.

6. I just saw a Tricycle (Keke Napep) with an
inscription "Trust No woman" I have a
feeling that guy once had a range rover.

7. If you want to change the world, do it
now that you are still single, because when
you get married, you can't even change the
T.V station.
Add yours

kittykat1: Especially the woman cos she is d slave and also less human

No, She's not a slave, not less human.

Nice topic anyway....

Daresh: What exactly should she submit to in this matter? Her husband doesn't want to wear his ring, she doesnt want to wear hers? Abi did she do anything wrong? If she's doing something wrong then so is he. I tire for double standards.

Though this is not good but we all know that men have this EGO character, I feel anyone of them that is matured and wise enough to think of saving their marraige should shift ground and succumb to the other spouse' demand.

@daresh....weldone!!

Aregbe of Osun state





dejt4u, bear me witness.....#winks

Aregbe of Osun state





dejt4u, bear me witness

Daresh: Of course you will blame the woman. It's all her fault abi?

I laff....it's not like that now....just that the woman is expected to submit.

Truckpusher: Tell them.
You can never have two captain in one ship
If the woman is the captain let the man obey the rules but if it's a clear cut situation that the man is the captain then let the weaker vessel lay low.

Baba, u ar making sense

People do think am heartless wen I don't cry. Even wen something pain me seriously, I still find it difficult to shed a teardrop. It's probably bcoz I've lost my Dad & I don't know who else can be that precious to me.

But recently, it's like am broken...When I think of some things or happening around me, tears roll without invitation but I don't do it in public.

There was a woman that died recently, she was very sick & had very young set of kids...first born is like 14 out of 4 kids...wen she about to be comitted completely to mother earth, I cried.

azuson: I am married for 7 years now and bless with 3 wonderful kids.I am not trying to boast about my wife but I want to let you know that the best thing that can happen to any man is to have God fearing woman,I am bless.

After work,I can't wait to meet my wife because she return before me and seeing make the stress of work varnish like lightening. She is the best cook in the world,the best home keeper, the best in the bed room and the best friend I ever had. While I am from Igbo,she is from Ekiti.

Blessed is the man that have good wife for he shall live long under the sun.

Please God help the singles on this forum to get their soul mate.Amen

To d OP, don't take that wife for granted.

pweedyuz: trust nl men
their first move will b to open a thread nd d topic will b
"Guys pls,i need ur advice on dis issue" or
"My wife lied to me"

thruout our relationship my wife told me she was a virgin...i was really happy to have been dis lucky cos its so hard to find a virgin in dis century...but on oir wedding nyt,after entering d door,,i found out dat d room was unkept--d hole wasnt tyt nd dere was no blood too.
pls guys,,,wat is ur take on dis
should i divorce her or go on with d marriage knowing fully well dat i cant trust her anymore
*no insults pls*

That is nairaland for you.

Follow ur heart but try and study her the more for few weeks, study her words, anger, how she handles situations and everything ...and wen u see that u can cope wit them all, you can go ahead wit d relationship.

Be ready to cope all the good, the bad and the ugly part of her.

Austyn44: U think so? Now think about this: U bought a new car ( tear rubber) according to the dealer only to discover @ home that the engine is 2nd hand.
Now the above situation is nothing compared to thr one u posted. So...

....such thing do happen. I mean the two situations.

xymmie01: To me oooO, virginity no b big deal,but It will be hard 4 me 2 trust her again......

You ar really talking sense....distrust

Austyn44: WELCOME TO WHO WANTS TO BE A VIRGIN.
Today on the hot seat is my wife.
Qstn 1 (for tertiary virginhood). Are u a virgin?
Life lines
1. Ask me, 2.phone ur ex 3.call the doctor.
We will be back after the break (6 months)

This must be a joke...real joke!!!

dejt4u: Is it a must that u marry a virgin?

Not a must, actually, but for d fact that she had lied & you 've been anticipating it only for her to cut that expection short by that discovery.

Confession long before d time would av make everything seem normal. But for this, you would only be made to feel like a fool.

farano: No mind am. No b when e don chop d thing finish e go come realise say the girl no b virgin

...that's d only way to discover the unknown. The main matter for this thread

Chukkasy: bros na lie o.

LWKMFH

temigracie: Yeah, just wanna observe ni

Owk!!!

Would u tell d lie knowing dat if u tell him u ar not a Virgin, he might not want to continue wit the wedding plans? Would you lie that u ar a virgin, just to retain him?

dre11: Fall for the lie......
That's means the relationship is built on lies and on lies it would grow.....
Because I hate that....

I will ....... Let me leave it blank till that day

baba, talk oooooo

temigracie: ..hehehehehehe...

Am not a guy now....neither am i a lesbo....

Abi Farano wetin we wan yarn for this matter??...

...meaning, there's nothing u wanna say on this?