₦airaland Forum

Felimax:
Please let her go in peace and pray God to bless her in her new pursuit of life. Ok?
Just be very okay with her decision please. As men our timing and theirs are not the same as somebody rightly said up there.
Personally, I refuse to marry a woman that our age difference is not loud enough. In no distant future you will meet the woman
God actually desires for you. Also do well to not keep in touch and even intimate with her after now I take heaven beg you, for your own good o. Experience don teach us something.
Goodluck!

Oga miii share your story... Make we learn

tempem:
I have an amazing landlord!

It's well

Bros u are just too funny

dairykidd:
Thank God for DNA. You're pregnant no wahala born fess. But Op it seems she's not sincere

Wow I love this

omamush:
Maybe you should get on touch with her to be sure its your child she's carrying go for a DNA when its born.. your concern is the child now, there is no need to feel pity for her it was her decision from the onset.

I guess this slove it all....thanks egbon

fuckboys:
Always have sex with different girls, oloshos and esteemos alike, I bet you you'll hardly fall in love, you'll take all girls as a joke.

Works for me tho, fuk em and unto the next.

You came well boss lady

RiyadhGoddess:
It is shocking to see Annie call out her husband publicly over his constant visit to his baby mama (Pero) & his 3 kids.
Who ever deceived Annie that Tubaba will stick to her only will never see Heaven's gate!
Pero is Tubaba's first Baby Mama (not girlfriend) and their relationship produced odindin omo meta. In Yoruba land, a woman who has a child for a man is no longer regarded or referred to as Ale - Concubine, She is now a wife. Forget religion and western culture now. She will be referred to as wife once she have a child for the man whether they are married or not. Also such woman is entitled to everything the man owns, she is entitled to attend family meetings and events etc let alone a woman who had a whole 3 children for a man!

Now Tubaba left Pero, went ahead to knack what is the name of this mummy GO again?
Their relationship produced 2 cute boys.
The only reason Annie isn't fighting this babe is because the babe decided to move on by getting married. If she hadn't gotten married, today, Annie would have had to contend with two ladies for life Because there's no way you would stop a man from visiting his children and of course, during visits, they must knack!

Children has a way of bringing parents together whether you like it or not. Pero's express way still belongs to Tubaba as long as another man hasn't started plying that route, she's still haven't gotten over him and the 3 kids will one way or the other bring their parents together and even instigate a fresh relationship.

Annie saw all these red flags but choose to play "I WON HIS HEART", " I WON" to pepper the rest. I be babe and we sabi as he dey go - manipulating tricks.

His children, baby mamas will forever be in his life whether Annie likes it or not. Pero son is the first son whether Annie likes or not.
Though she is his first babe but iyen o matter because na who first born be the koko.

She accepted to be his wife despite all that is on ground which means she choose to swallow whatever comes out of it whether it is sweet or bitter. She choose to bear the burns the moment she choose to say Yes I Do to a polygamous man. She should carry her cross for life. She should just chill! That cry that she should have cried when she had just a baby and then move on But refused to move on but rather decided to accept his ring, that cry isn't necessary now.

As for the in-laws, there's is no way they can be shut out of the children's (their nieces, nephews, grand children) Hausa man go say INA! They will not only love the children but their mothers whether Annie likes it or not.

And when Tubaba dies, Na all the women go wear Anko (the same attire) stand together along with their children to honor their Father.
Also first son will be given the privilege to take some decision during family meetings & events too.
Will nko, na everyone go inherit father's property.

Make Annie go take chill pill jor. What she should be concerned about is the welfare of her kids and her which Tubaba is really trying.

As for you ladies wey go see man wey don born scatter full ground still shook head enter in the name of assurance and love this will be your fate! Be ready to become watch lady, monitoring spirit and you will have to be on BP & anti-envy pills for life.

No amount of Jaruma's kayanmatta will save you.

I come in Peace!

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Abovebest:
Rather than mocking her, I will advise you to take your time and learn Cryptocurrency

Or are you not tired of being poor and begging

God bless you sir ....I love this

Lawrry:
There's no amount of money that's enough to keep a marriage, you'll still see some women sleeping with their rich husband gateman or driver, why??
There was one conclusion I made about ten years ago, and that's; I look out for a virtue called "contentment" in everyone that will come closer to my life. I looked for it in friendship and I looked for it in marriage, today, I am happy in all of my life's relationships. Godliness with contentment is a great gain.
A major point is, find your bearing well. When I was in Abuja, I told my friends that with the money I struggle to survive with in Abuja, I can live big in Ibadan. They were against me but I moved.
Today, they are all in various parts of Oyo state, when they saw what God has helped me to do. Some couples are suffering in Lagos and Abuja self contained, whereas, a family can afford a Corolla and three bedroom flat in Ibadan with the same money they are collecting.
One thing is having a good wife, who understands clearly what marriage means, another thing is having a wife who just thought marriage is one of the events of life that must be done.
If you have a prudent wife, your total salary of 120k in a month will look like 1.2m to outsiders.
Has it happened to you before that, people who earns more money than you are jealous of you? I swear it happens.

Pochettino:
We women were created to bring down men & destroy their destinies.
I wonder why men don't know this yet.

...... Hello ma'am are you for real

Hmmm it is well

Humans will never stop to amaze me....

She has been through alot already. ..all this factors you mentioned made her up

Bigdik70inch2:
I can't Ooo!!!
Marry fire kwa??

She get easily provoked and so hot tempered.......

She's very stubborn and hardly listen to OR follow our opinions

Just too religious.........infact she fought everyone close-by/neighbour/family/friends/youths/strangers who wouldnt readily absorb her preaching(BIGGEST TURN OFF).......

She's hyperactive too........hardly sit her ass down on a spot to rest.......if she's isn't doing this then definitely she's up doing that...... even the unnecessary things and wud lament if u failed to join her........

Mind:Those r her weakness anyways

GOOD SIDE:

SHE SINGLE HANDEDLY SPONSORED OUR EDUCATION FROM PRE NURSERY TO BEEN A GRADUATE........

SUCH A YOUNG PRETTY HER GOT HERSELF MARRIED TO ONE IDIOT DURING HER PRIME...........INFACT SHE STRUGGLED SPONSORING HIS EDUCATION TO UNIVERSITY LEVEL EVEN WHEN HER FAMILY WERE VEHEMENTLY AGAINST..........

.........BUT THE IDIOT BECAME DOCTOR AND NEVER CAME BACK TO HER/US........JUX THE ONLY PERSON I WILL NEVER FORGIVE EVN ON MY DYING BED.........

SHE SPONSORED HER HALF BROTHERS AND SISTERS TOO.......SOME GRATEFUL WHILE SOME R INGRATES.......

Bros I gbadun your style....when the time comes naturally this method I go use....no time for nonsense

EXLOVER:
I don't see reason why i should be kneeling down to ask a girl I'm dating and we've been intimate several times to marry me.

She's suppose to know we are going to marry soon, she should be the one pressurizing me indirectly, kneeling down is like I'm begging you to be my wife, hell No.

My style during a nice weekend together, after making a dish for you and giving you a great sex, i will tell you straight up, i want this to continue forever, will you be the mother of my kids and my dear wife?

If she say No, good, she can still be supplying me the good sex, why I'm looking for another woman to marry.


Not me kneeling down, and all this public display of marriage proposal na nonsense to me, maybe all this guys na theater arts guys.


In Conclusion...Everyone should do what makes them happy, what do i know? But that's my style i just stated up there.

bossbiz:
Thanks for this info author,
Please is it possible to apply for ones savings account to be converted into a salary account so that one can be eligible?
FYI, i have been using the account for salary for more than 6 months already.

....sis how do you go about it....going to gtb now is a no-no for me

Stomoney:
All na scam. My 11years relationship just ended last weekend . Nothing like love in this country so to me marriage na total scam

oga mi share us your story make we learn

lol are we in the past

DemonInvoker:
I called my gf to come meet me at so so place that my car was bad and asked the Unical babe if she knew a mechanic around she said,yes!!one mechanic wshop was not far from there.
We went there together and saw a mechanic guy and took him back to the car...At that point I told the babe it was okay,That she can go and rest that it was my problem to handle but she insisted on staying...That she couldn't just leave me like that.
By then my gf was already calling to know exactly where I was which I told her...She finally located me... Immediately,She came she recognized and hugged with the Unical babe,they talked for a while and she asked me where I knew her from and I told her we just met...The babe became uncomfortable and left...The mechanic told me the problem with the car wasn't something he can finish that day coz it was already getting dark around 4:30pm already.
We pushed the car into his wshop and he promised before I come the next day that the car would be fixed.
I called a cab to take us to any nice hotel where we can spend the night...After driving round and round the town,we couldn't find any reason place to crash not even a manageble substandard hotel...Every where was already fully booked.
We entered one eatery to eat and settle down small...It was 7pm already...My babe then reluctantly told me not to worry that I can sleep at her place since she stays alone,that worst comes to the worst if I couldn't find a Hotel to Lodge...I can sleep at her Place....I was actually the one that told her precisely to look for a good hotel where we can Lodge and catch fun for like 5days not knowing her place was like a mini-hotel room... Comfortable was an understatement...And Then the Drama!!
*To be Continued*Story too long,man gaz sleep.

bros abeg continue

starbuck:
We should limit the negative words we usually use on kids of nowadays because they are just too soft in nature..


My 11 year old has been giving me concerns academically until I decided to diverse another method to know if he can pick up no matter how little.. I told him if he puts all effort and passes his upcoming external exams, I will buy him a game console.. Was surprised when his teacher called me the other day and was like my son has really improved and she decided to probe further from him when he opened up. She told me that I should try to keep to the end of my own bargain

God bless you abundantly ma so that you can be able to fulfill your promises.....I love that

we careless jo

CsRockefeller:
Sir, let me tell you this for free. You won't forget this advice whether it goes well or not.

Forget beauty..... Forget money...... Forget tribe..... Forget culture..... Only thing I can tell you is not to forget religion.

I haven't seen life too much, but, o have seen much of the years life has given me.

One day, you will either curse or bless yourself with the choice you have made about a spouse.

You will bless yourself if you are happy. It doesn't matter if you are happy in a hut or in a mansion. If a woman loves you sincerely and genuinely without any superficials, you will be happy. If she loves and respects you despite your highs or your lows, you will be happy. And if you are happy, you will live long, surmount your troubles and age gracefully.

If you think these words I type don't mean anything, in 20 to 30 years you will look back and remember today.

I am one person who had sworn never to get married outside my tribe, but, I can be in a river and still be thirsty.

Don't trade peace of mind and happiness for any other thing.

Give it time and everything I'm saying will soon make sense to you..... Give it time.

CsRockefeller:
Sir, let me tell you this for free. You won't forget this advice whether it goes well or not.

Forget beauty..... Forget money...... Forget tribe..... Forget culture..... Only thing I can tell you is not to forget religion.

I haven't seen life too much, but, o have seen much of the years life has given me.

One day, you will either curse or bless yourself with the choice you have made about a spouse.

You will bless yourself if you are happy. It doesn't matter if you are happy in a hut or in a mansion. If a woman loves you sincerely and genuinely without any superficials, you will be happy. If she loves and respects you despite your highs or your lows, you will be happy. And if you are happy, you will live long, surmount your troubles and age gracefully.

If you think these words I type don't mean anything, in 20 to 30 years you will look back and remember today.

I am one person who had sworn never to get married outside my tribe, but, I can be in a river and still be thirsty.

Don't trade peace of mind and happiness for any other thing.

Give it time and everything I'm saying will soon make sense to you..... Give it time.

thanks sir.....well said

plenty thanks

iLegendd:
Wait!

Send me a message let's talk. Most depression is financial and I can show you how to make money for free. You don't need to pay me and I won't charge you.


Modified: After what I read on the other thread about this whole suicide thing being a scam, I retract all my statements in trying to help.

After all, 50% of Nigerians are probably depressed since Buhari took over. Even Mr. Buhari is probably depressed.

Let us enjoy the next level in peace. All then best to anyone who is depressed — God will see us through. Amen!

sir pls u can also teach me how to make money .
without too much stress

cybriz82:
My sister no b Davido get heart oooo,na d pocket get heart.when poor man give woman belle na him pocket dey advice am to run away...

well
said
Sir

I'm lost... Which way Nigerians

omoteacher:



So how do we know what happened next ? We should complete it by our assumption ba ?

Lol asking myself the Same�?

Nigeria my country........

so pain..... underground rapper... rip

all is well

Michelle55:
You can pm me to know more

...pls I also don't mind to know how u did it

coolestchris:
Nigerians are my bride.
I will never divorce you all to suffer in abject penury,
vote me come 2019,forget about all other candidates like Buhari and atiku and kwakwanso, and Saraki ,they all out to further put Nigerians into poverty.
Vote me come 2019

....is this for real

[quote author=oshe11 post=71056700]I read number one and stopped reading bcus it shows the OP issa learner or just did Copy n Paste from a foreign blog.....



YOU NOR KNOW HOW MANY GIRLS WE DON CALL "OUR WIFE" BACK THEN.....[/quote....well he said boyfriend material not husband material in fact husband material fit no get reach 7 sef