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Romance / Re: Safer To Marry: Virgin Or Disvirgined? by Adekan(f): 9:15pm On Jul 15, 2008
hey guys,
i am kind of new here. but what i will say is that, nobody should condemn another (the dis-virgined the virgin, and vice-versa)

Life is about the choices we make, we either learn from them, and become better people, or we run from them, and still remain miserable as ever.

Personally, i think that it is very good to maintain one's virginity, until marriage. it does not guarantee future happiness, but it maintains your integrity, especially as a woman. more important than maintaining your virginity, is building your character, so that you would make, a man a very happy husband
now coming to the issue of sex, people get wrong. two people can have sex just like dogs, cows, and other animals do it. but what makes us different is the involvement of our souls in the act. the involvement of our beings. a man that truly loves you, will not seek his own pleasure or sexual release, he will seek your own pleasure, because, in turn, your pleasure will bring him pleasure, because he loves you. i am speaking from a woman's point of view.
the reason, we all talk like this is because, we are all self seeking, and not giving.
believe it or not, you will NEVER truly enjoy sex, until, you do it selflessly. and believe me, sex is worth waiting for. most women that lost their virginity before marriage often regret it, because in the end you feel used - I am talking from experience.
so please, if you're still a virgin out there, keep your head up, but more still, it's about who you truly are, how much character you've got. if a man can land a virgin, who has character, then, he has found a treasure indeed
Romance / Re: 'True Love' Versus Campatibility And Understanding by Adekan(f): 1:12pm On Jan 08, 2007
love is not a feeling like most people think. love is a decision. you choose to love the one you want to love. mind you people just use word love. not everbody has the ability to love. it takes one who knows God to love. love is based on godly character, so if you think you are able to love think about again check out the book of ICori thians 13vs1-14. if u ca do all of that then u can love. sex has nothing to do with love. u can sleep with anyone under the right conditions, the person only has to be attractive to u. always remember that God alone is love, and so to love u can only draw from Him.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Job Seekers: What Course Did You Study by Adekan(f): 3:22pm On Aug 28, 2006
hi I'm Yemisi mine is HND Surveying and Geoinformatics. YabeTech
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: I Need A Girl To Disvirgin Me by Adekan(f): 2:06am On Jun 20, 2006
its gud dat you are still a virgin. but u do not need 2 publicize your self. there are girls dat are still virgins out there but u'll never know because its a personal thing. so keep faith you actually might find a virgin
Jokes Etc / Re: This Is A True And Very Moving Story! by Adekan(f): 12:57am On Jun 20, 2006
got me there. i'm seeing it for the first time. really nice. cheesy
Celebrities / Re: D Banj Or 2face? by Adekan(f): 11:44pm On Jun 19, 2006
@ so cool

exactly what i'am talking about. mobolowo won is crazy men. he does something bad and he's thanking God for helping him escape, that is so lame.
Celebrities / Re: D Banj Or 2face? by Adekan(f): 11:23am On Jun 14, 2006
faze is great really. and i think dbanj should stop involving Christ in his dirty videos

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