Talk to your wife about your discovery. Hear what she'll say. Before you Inform an elderly and respected member(s) of her family or your pastor. Let them call you and your wife together in a meeting to reconcile.
If it doesn't go down well with you, just divorce her.

beekind:

Thank you for your response.
So it means, oath and wedding can be done same day, just that we may be delayed on the wedding day right ?

No bro. It means you won't do the oath-taking at all but may be delayed for the wedding. During my time, those who refused to show up for the oath-taking were asked to stay back while those who did oath-taking were attended to, in the order of their attendance.

beekind:

Bros thank you for the update, can oath and wedding be done on the same day cos I am coming from outside of Lagos.
Also after making the payment to the person, how soon did you get the email in your email box ?

No sir. Oath taking is at least a day or two before the main wedding. If you decide not to come for the oath taking, you may be delayed on the wedding day. You will get the mail as the person is working on it. The time you get the mail depends on when the person starts working on it. If he/she works on it on the day you pay, u will be notified via mail that same day(your email address as well as that of your spouse is part of what they will ask you to send).

adibo:


Can't really remember, it was probably around 35k or so, cus they added livestreaming fees to it

Wow. Thanks for the information. I paid around 40k to someone last year. I know the difference between the self application and the agency route is like 10k

adibo:


Just apply online. I did mine last year and it was very smooth and easy

How much did you pay last year when you applied online yourself?

Someone read through my previous Nairaland post and called the number listed on it. That was a data recharge advertising I created on behalf of someone. The individual just relayed the chat with me; he had no idea I posted on Nairaland, so he informed the Nairalander that the registry issue is a fraud. I am responding to this post to emphasize that it is not. Furthermore, I am merely sharing my experience, rather than recommending anyone to anyone. The only thing I'm saying is "IF YOU get a reliable contact in Ikoyi registry that Said you don't need to come to complete your wedding application, it is true". This is because I was also referred to someone there last year and I paid without going to Ikoyi until during my oath taking and wedding day....
I paid I think 40k as at August 2023. And I had my wedding on 16th or something like that. But the mail I received from the ministry of interior shows the fee is 28,500 (which is difference of 11,500). But you won't do have to bother about going to Ikoyi to stamp or do anything until the day

bdchange:

I have sent you a message in your mail. We will take it from there

I have just replied to your mail now.

bdchange:

Good day brother, I have dm you. I want to also get this contact so I can use it for mine. Thanks

Hello boss. I also tried to reply you but my mail says I can't reply. Send me a mail to azeezabeeb65@yahoo.com.
I will forward her contact to u. Then, u can still go to Ikoyi registry yourself to see her if u wish.

Praktikals1000:

Does that make sense to you? If it's just to count the months, Why not use the calender?

We use the Lunar Calendar. If you have problem with that, why do you use the Sun to count months? If you don't understand that month is counted using either the sun or moon, then you need to check it out.

Praktikals1000:
Muslims are worshipping the moon. That's idolatry.

No, Muslims don't. We only use the moon to count the months. Same way our forefathers did before we got access to the calendar

tolu30:
Please can you connect me with your contact at Ikoyi registry

I received your message on my mail. I don't know if Nairaland policy allows sharing phone numbers here. If not, I will respond to you via email.
Her Name is Mrs Afolabi. I sent the requested documents and paid her, she did the registration, and I got a mail from the ministry of interior.

splendorian:
Please must the husband be present during the oath taking?
I have a friend who wants to bring his partner abroad and he needs the court wedding certificate to process visa for his wife as they did only trad in Nigeria before he travelled out.

To the best of my knowledge, the wife and the husband must be present. Wedding will not be conducted in proxy

mikeayus:


Thanks for your honestly bro...please is it possible you help me find out from your family friend?

I got a contact there who wants to do everything for me for 32k...but I'm not convibced she would do the process rightly because she said I should snap and send her pictures of all our documents...and didn't say we should come with originals at all for sighting or verification

That's how they do it.. I used someone in Ikoyi registry and sent the details and documents she requested. I didn't go there until during the counselling session followed by the wedding day.... if you got the contact from a reliable source, don't be scared. That's just how they do it

preekahantas:


Lies.
I know Simi from my Ikotun days. Her family house is close to where I make my hair then.


There is no boy in Ijegun Ikotun that did not Bleep Simi around Aso Rock before it became Aso Rock. Go there and ask about Simi leave social media.

Please watch what your put on this platform. Don't accuse Simi of being what she probably might not be please.

It should depend on how much you earn. If you are earning 100,000 Naira for example, you may want to allot 40k for Food, 30k for Savings and use the remaining 30k for other things you may need.

turmacs:
Please someone is looking for a shop for rent around Festac...No inside Festac, just around Festac..budget is 300-350k.. If you know or have one available, please quote me with your contact... It has to be spacious and clean

Go to Festac to get an Agent yourself. Don't be scammed

Report him to your husband.. End of discussion

BeardedmeatR:
Tinubu is ungrateful.

Ungrateful for what?

Why did he refuse to pay you, sir OP?

I just like their pictures on Facebook and celebrate them on their birthdays. I respect them so much, but i have no personal relationship with any.

#Teachersday2020 https:///c0Cwugrhip

Tell her to go and sleep outside or go sleep elsewhere on days you're meeting your wife.

agwom:
Nigeria is full of poor visionary leaders! They believe that by building mosques or churches will make them enter heaven.

Where did you hear it's the government that's building all the mosques and churches? It's a private undertaking. Please let's be guided.

OLAFIMIX:
Dm for your Ankara face mask at the rate of N50 upward. We sell in Unit/dozen.we can deliver up to 10,000unit.

Nice one. God bless your work

awhybliss:
I really feel like doing giveaway.. I want those who really needs it to benefit the most, have been thinking, any idea how I can go about it? If I buy your idea, automatically you won yourself a giveaway

If you stay in an estate, just move to a "low-class" area close to you and give cash to few you find to be indigent (very poor).

Feranchek:
Good morning house. For over 6 months now, my penis has been itching me. I've been to different hospitals for help (BABCOCK teaching hospital inclusive). I've also tried different pharmaceutical stores around me, yet no solution. I'm deeply worried.

Try explaining yourself to those Traditional herb sellers (elewe omo). If it's nothing serious, it'll be resolved in less than a week or 2. You'll start seeing result after 3 days.

horlarlorwor:
Apology to say these.

Nigeria, are you truly treating COVID-19 or you guys are Malaria?

According to the minister of health, the doctors are only managing the symptoms, the patients recover on their own depending on their immune system. Abbah kyari is recovering, we heard. He'll be discharged when he's Negative. Same goes for others. We should be grateful not asking why it's better in Nigeria bro.

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