This is hilarious

Dyt:


Yes, I still loved him when I walked away, it wasn't so easy but I had to for my mental health..

Now, not everyone have that courage to, considering the kind of society we came from

You made the right decision

Na shit full that ynash

DBestDoc:


I don't think it's peculiar to first sons. It just depends on the family and any of the kids can be picked out as the Donkey/victim. Especially, that one with a kind and selfless heart.

I dated a man with similar trait as the OP's husband and in his case, he was even the last son, hahaha. He sponsored both his older and younger siblings through school, was taking care of their families and at the time we were together, he had started sponsoring most of his Nephews and nieces through school.

At some point, i advised him to give his siblings some capital and encourage them to start some business so as to relieve the financial burden. He waved that off with the excuse that his people are not business inclined.

Oya, upgrade your educational qualifications na for better future opportunities now that you're single and have the wherewithal, Mr man said ok and after a few days he came back with the excuse of having too much family responsibilities to spare any cash for such. Apparently, one of his siblings he shared the idea with told him the program was expensive. I offered to 'loan' him the fees but he rejected the offer.

He easily ran out of cash for someone earning in 6 figures at that time. He wasn't married, no children he wasn't spending the money on me obviously but he was almost always broke. Most phone calls he received whenever we were together were money requests from family. Account will turn red immediately after pay day (i started thinking he'd been jazzed, i didn't know what else to think about. lol)

I got to understand that doing those things made him happy. That feeling of being the messiah of his family gave him some sort of satisfaction and fulfillment that nobody was allowed to deprive him of. He always confided in me that he's been there for his family since he was a boy.

The love i had for him turned to PITY and then to indifference. I saw a wonderful man with a very good heart but was non-progressive this, i couldn't deal with. His family didn't love him enough to advise him to help himself while helping them. He was a dead weight that i needed to offload. After analyzing the situation one day, i RAN without telling him why. No drama, no quarrel, i just ghosted him i didn't want another begging or convincing.

Red flags everywhere. It's important for young people to consider all these things before choosing a life partner. It never gets better and once you're in, you're in. Running was one of the best decisions i've made as a woman. Man is already 40 now unmarried, no kids. I just feel so sad for him because he's a nice person.

You made the wise decisions. This applies to me too as my elder brother always claims he doesn't have money when responsibilities arises and everyone turns to me. My weakness is my inability to say "NO" when I know i can help. Fast forward, things have changed. I realized we were all surviving before I started working so we would always survive regardless of whether I help or not. Now, if you ask me for 10k, I give you 3k. If you can't manage it or get it completed from another source, OYO is ur name. Men not neccessarily first borns must wise up. Invest and plan for the future. If you keep doing everything for your siblings and family and you don't invest and save for the future, YOU ARE ON YOUR OWN

Bluehill1051:
Mtcheeew rubbish post. I pray that your husband even die sef!

A sick fellow

SLAP44:


Did it ever occur to you that she might be setting you up for a real beating?

SLAP44:


The same girl can walk out and meet the richest young boy in this country and get married to him and in two months will be pregnant, living in her husbands new house in New York and starting school in a university in the USA.

Meanwhile

The former boyfriend's broke azz might just be chasing the normal N50,000 contracts

So true
Some guys think because a lady left them, It automatically means they will get rich in future and eventually meet the girl selling plaintain on the streets. No be Nollywood.... She can make it on her own and as a matter of fact, she can make it before you sef

Adams011:




It's not cooked up bro, my family's rich, but it's like a ritual with my folks you tend to get all necessary support after school, I'm a fresh graduate and preparing for my NYSC, my pop's got me that contract to start up and set things for myself as a man. The night she left was the night I wanted to tell her we won the job, she wasn't patient enough, I cried on the phone when I called to remind her to be patient enough for me. I snapped and showed her every details and the money attached

You are a small boy OP.

adedayourt:
Am not moved by all these celebrity marriages. One thing is always the end product

Bad energy.... Stay far away

Oops!!!!

this guy is just something else

Nigeria we hail thee

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neroflo:
i hate all this rich celeb


they will just be intimidating the masses with their illegal wealth

Pray for God's favor and stop being a frustrated idiot

Barthley:
are you sure you're okay Sir?

I'm not sure he is

#Buhari_Out_2019

This country yaff tire me

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Is there a WhatsApp group already? Kindly add me to the group 08093131847. I'm putting in for Msc Computer Science. Like minds should holla

My question is; Those of us who got the bio data mail, have we written any test before? I don't seem to remember....

Nothing beats planning... Investment is bae

Looks lovely on her...

Biglittlelois:
Anytime it's getting dark and i'm still out, i always feel uneasy even if i am with someone that can keep me safe, lol

Exactly... The feeling is same... I just suddenly get uncomfortable

I'm a northerner but I must say the Northerners have a long way to go... Who still build mud house in this era?

Let her know you can't accept her back.. Wish her well. Move on with ur life....

Celebrities and their useless ways of life...