Hmmm, if it's about children that one isn't a big deal especially if you are financially comfortable. You can get a surrogate so you'll still use your own sperm and your wives eggs and the child is all yours biologically just like any other child only it won't put undue stress on her due to her age. The truth is even many men with young wives still have to look for medical help concerning fertility.

That she's looking old hmmm, that one is harder . She can start seeing skin specialists and beauty experts to her her look as young and beautiful as possible but eventually old age will show but at least you can slow down how much it shows.

Now for me the main thing is the trust. That was a big lie and honestly the whole foundation of the marriage is faulty. It's like getting scammed !

But as a Christian we know we all sin daily and God forgives us so yes you should forgive her. Now forgetting and learning to trust her is the real koko

chymystique:


I feel its the man's fault sha cause if he was able to provide for his family comfortably his wife wouldnt need to undergo this kind of stress trying to make ends meet.

Exactly and since she's out there everyday working to help him take care of the financial responsibilities of the home why can't he help her around the house so she won't be too tired especially since it seems he arrives home earlier than her

Nigerian men always saying the woman is the weaker one yet the wives end up doing more work. Work the same hours as you at work and then do all the house chores and cooking and you think she'll be in the mood for sex

xrisdon:
the best thing to do is to confront the teacher first, seeing his reaction which he will either admit or deny will inform you the next action to take.

don't rely on account of your 8years old daughter ALONE.

do some plenary investigation yourself, before taking a substantive action.

You expect a pedophile to admit it you are a clown. The whole point of reporting to the police is for the police to investigate. It is extremely unlikely that an 8year old is lying about such. Either way it's the police job to investigate the man, the school may try and cover up for him inorder to save their own image

alfakoro1:
Has it bn justified. Did u catch dem korokoro. Go and warn him instead via d school management.

How often do people catch pedophiles in action warn him for what The man will simp,y stop with his daughter and look for another victim . Report to the police and the school, by the time the police starts investigating I am sure other victims who were too scared to speak before will come out.

lolababe331e:




Mr. Man stop saying what you don't know. There is even a term for it , it's called Date

DATE RAPE
Rape is the forcing of someone to engage in sexual acts against his or her will. The term date rape refers to rape committed by a person who has had some sort of romantic relationship, or was on a date, with the victim.

http://legaldictionary.net/date-rape/




Date rape is a form of acquaintance rape. The two phrases are often used interchangeably, but date rape specifically refers to a rape in which there has been some sort of romantic or potentially sexual relationship between the two parties. Acquaintance rape also includes rapes in which the victim and perpetrator have been in a non-romantic, non-sexual relationship, for example as co-workers or neighbours.[1][2][3][4][5][6] Date rape is particularly prevalent on college campuses, where it frequently occurs in situations involving alcohol or other date rape drugs,[7] which may facilitate the execution of drug facilitated sexual assault (DFSA).

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Date_rape



What is rape and date rape?

Rape is sex you don’t agree to, including forcing a body part or object into your vagina, rectum (bottom), or mouth. Date rape is when you are raped by someone you know, like a boyfriend. Both are crimes.


http://www.girlshealth.gov/safety/saferelationships/daterape.html

Even if you've had 10 rounds with a girl and she says no to the 11th round it is rape and as long as there is evidence of a struggle, bruising etc the perpetrator will go to jail like any other rapist.

It is like saying because I have given my friend money many times in the past I can't sue him for theft of he takes my money another time without my permission.

Comments like his have shown that Nigerian men need to be educated about Rape. Many of them are even ignorant of what qualifies as rape. Imagine someone thinking because a woman has slept with you before or is dating you that means you can force her and you can't be charged with rape sick

Each sexual encounter is different and both parties must give consent for each other wise it is rape. That you had sex yesterday doesn't give you the right to force her today if she's not in the mood

NewNigeriaMind:


The man Dogara won with votes majorly from SS and SE senators. This is not about North or South. The SS and SE that votes absolutely for Dogara are they Mallams?

They must be Hausa/ Fulani slaves for voting for a northerner

When someone says this kind of thing be very afraid, even if it's 30years from now Tambuwal will get his own. Nice way to handle things, I respect Gbagabiamila more now

apoti:


So the husband cannot cook when he comes back from work, but he expects the wife to cook for him when she comes back from work. If the wife works and brings in some money to help the family, the husband should also help with some of the housework. It's also not an excuse for the woman to be lazy, she should try cook and not buy food all the time.

My wife cooks for me most of the time, but there are days she's very tired or she finished late from work. I would do the cooking for her and even put our daughter to bed. My wife is not my slave.

Gbam. You and her get back home from work tired but you want to sit your bum in front of the tv and do nothing to help out. How wicked, that's not love

bamidele029:


Lol and we all know the result, by the time our grandmothers were 35 they looked like 50 . Then our grandfathers married young blood after their wives had been worked old . Abeg I need my wife looking sexy and beautiful.

I'll help her with the kitchen work the she can have energy for the real work after

Sensible man , I'm impressed. Please do you have any bothers my beautiful younger sisters are single single

See their ugly faces

Tanoids how market

The Tanoids are sad because they can't play victim this time

bamidele029:


Don't mind the illiterates , Boko haram members are in prison all over the country and there have been no incidences. There is a reason for transferring them out of their comfort zone when they have no influnce. A particular set of chest beaters are always claiming victim

BH prisoners are all over the country just that it's kept hush hush. The people that made noise about this one did so because they no how emotional the Igbos are. It's not a new thing and it won't stop because of the cry babies, the government does it because if they keep then in their areas they will break them out all the time. That is how they've been able to prevent them from getting out and as long as the SE is still a part of Nigeria they have no choice

lawanson44:


You mean the Commissioner House-boy?

Saraki is non a nonentity senate president , no one is giving him audience not even a perm sec the commissioner is better off

Osinbajo must be having a good laugh

Wow, very powerful words.

If you say you hate Tinubu yet you comment on all threads concerning him and join in discussions about him, you are actually a fan

Gbam, just put Tinubu's name on the front page of a newspaper and you can be sure it will sell out

They say they hate him yet they can't stop talking about him

I am so happy

If Tinubu and his loyalists ( most of the SW) pull out if APC that will be the end of APC , they will go back to their original parties

samobo:


Until i see that happen in ekiti, osun, oyo, ogun, and ondo i wont take U guys serious. Lagos remains a no mans land hence its administration should be all inclusive of all tribes, considering that all tribes contributed to Lagos development.

By the way, Am not decived by Ambode's move, he did it to distract Igbo people's attention from the attrocities he is committing at ladipo..

He is trying hard to disguise as not being an Igbo hater, am sure he know igbos are not foolish and no number of appointments will change what has been done hence we will respond at the right time.

As for the appointment, its no big deal because even the most Igbo hating government in Lagos will not dare sideline lgbos in the administration of lagos because igbos are If not the largest, the second largest ethnic group in Lagos.no wise government can afford to ignore them cos he will need their numerical strenght in times.of election.

Meanwhile Lagos remains a no mans land, indigenous to some yoruba tribes, badagary, ijaw and some slave returnees. Coquered by the british and made a british colony, became Nigeria's capital and now have almost been bought up by the igbos.so igbos are equal stakeholders in Lagos and if e pain you, u can jump into the lagoon...

Lmao silly chest beater. After all the mouth that you are blah blah percent and Agbaje old win what happened. Silly empty barrel, we showed you who the real owners are during the elections

Retarded lagoon rat

Na wa for this breakinglies. That's not her official account , anyone can put up a picture and claim to be Obama sef

After causing the problems, nuisance

He he he , thought PDP was perfect and had no in-fighting

PentiumPro:

Stolen mandate from who?

He is a demented follower of the lagoon fellow Agbaje ...

ddami:
Okay,,
Sending people away from their source of living without providing an ALTERNATIVE.. its an eyesore: accepted..Will those people be able to go back there after the reconstruction

I used to reason from your point of view until I saw the aftermath of the reconstruction of...
OYINGBO ultra - modern market
TEJUOSHO ultra - modern market...
Almost a year after commissioning.. They are EMPTY
A shop going for #6mill....If some of those people have that money they will rather go and BUILD a house in Ikorodu....

Lagos state needs people to go to other towns. Lagos is over populated and has become a dumping grown for all of Nigeria's problems. If you can't afford to do legit business in Lagos , go somewhere else. If caught doing crime don't start begging. Mega cities are expensive and that's life .

Left to your reasoning we should leave everyone to continue to do business haphazardly all over abi, no way. Let them go to other smaller cities if they can't afford Lagos

1miccza:
So any yeye visionless governor wey enter na igbo people e go use show say e get muscle? I seriously blame my igbo brothers thank God for Biafra!!! The mumu governor that has not done jack has suddenly remembered a place called Ladipo. Baby governor dancing to Akiolu's tune since 1900.

Make I see any fool wey go quote or mention me.... Mother fuckers....

Blah, blah , blah continue your online ranting as usual. UPOn all your chest beating that he won't win he won Ladipo has been demolished and nothing you chest beaters can do

For your information Ladipo was scheduled for demolition even before Ambode won and your people were notified but as usual they preferred chest beating to carrying their load and Mushin LG dealt with them today

The lagoon is available for you

Wow, can't believe that ever happened. Thanks Ambode

Most of the traders are illiterates who will swallow hook line and sinker any lie Radio Biafra feeds them without verifying

sexybaykay:

No matter what.. i dislike him

You dislike takes nothing from him, he is still the Governor like him or dislike him

These is to fix the main roads causing traffic and that need minor repair which can be carried out by the agency itself. The inner roads will be fixed by the local governments . This list covers most of the 20 local governments and only Ikorudu I can see missing and they just did some repairs there