ylaa:
IF SHE HAD TAKEN GOOD CARE OF HIM, I BET THE MAN WON'T STEAL HER 15,000 PHONE. PROBABLY SHE WAS ALWAYS PINGING AND NEGLECTING THE POOR MAN.

Yeah everything must be the woman's fault, sh must have forced him to beat her too

But there's another report on the front page claiming Tinubu is in the uk to fetch Buhari

PassingShot:


1. He never liked that PDP/FG is spending N3 billion naira for his swearing in and he made it known. So, dissing them in some way is in order.

2. The fact that PDP's transition committee refused to provide all MDA's reports as earlier indicated annoyed him. So, it's also good to shun some of their activities. After all, they're all ceremonial except the proper hand over event.

Thank you, GEJ wasting money on silly ceremonies while Nigerians are suffering

This is why they say Nigerian youths are not ready to lead. Too much frivolity no light, no fuel and it's the red carpet reception that a President- elect didn't receive that's important to you Chai, this is why Nigeria is messed up. The youths have wrong priorities

Kx:
Cluelessness was merely sugar coating it, wickedness is the right word.

Gbam

Chai, was dame eating gold

All these wasteful handover pogrammes in a time when the economy is bad is tasteless and I agree with Buhari for skipping them. Instead for FG to be addressing our present situation where Nigerians are suffering they are more concerning about unnecessary handover ceremonies. All they need to do is that one day of May 29th celebration

@ Firefire, you were accusing APC of being vindictive . Come and see your people it's Bode George the man says is after him PDP is self imploding

Chai 4.1 trillion just to clear debts and outstanding salaries. Nigeria has never had it this bad financially GEJ and his croon is have really emptied the treasury and left crazy debts

He he he. So it's even PDP fighting itself

chibic:
Hmmm...the heart of women is a wicked one. What you will find there is grudge, malice, vengeance etc. No wonder GOD placed them under men. If not, this world would have been over.

Don't be a hypocrite , how many men will morn a cheating wife Nigerian women are a 100 times for forgiving then the men

babygirlfl:
So men now know for better for worse? Do they remember that when sleeping with other women even when there is nothing wrong with their wife?

@op, if he was 100percent faithful to you when he was fine then he needs you now and deserves your faithfulness. If however he was not faithful to you, then he does not deserve your faithfulness but what you do is up to you.

Me sef I'm shocked, see the them suddenly remembering it's for better and worse ..yet na them they commit adultery pass even when the woman is giving them sex. How people her can abstain for even 6years

50calibre:


Not my mum.

It's an anomaly for a woman to have urges in her 60s, those women are freaks.

It is not abnormal , many women have healthy sex loves even beyond 60. You never see those cougars with young guys that they can even keep up with in bed talk less of sex with their age mates

2goodbobo:
I know of a woman whose husband has been away for the past 4years. He only came in last year around
September and stayed just for 3days then left.He's in a foreign land hustling.

I don't see my self leaving my family o. Staying away for far too long is a recipe for cheating.

@ Chibic, see that ! 3days in 4years and you think eventually both parties won't fall into temptation I can never find myself in such , will he tell me he isn't cheating for those 4years more like steady girlfriends sef I no fit but some may choose to stay in such and have an open marriage (only difference is Oyibo will tell each other while Nigerians will be pretending but deep down they know)since the hustling is more important to them , it's all about choices. Most long term long distance marriages especially those with neither party travelling to see the other frequently will Have both partners cheating at some point or the other

irunoko:
story. When you give them street boys 500 naira each. The real hungry ones they will throw caution into the wind . those ones resemble people who get social inhibitions. ?



shioor

Infact when they know what he did they will give her discount sef

mizzochocinco:
my mum has been married to the same man for 32yrs with a dentist, auditor and architect born of the marriage. Im sure thats not something your parents can attest to so yes i want just to be like my mother and thank God for my father i know a good man, so its easier to identify fraudsters like you who never had anything good in their lives
If you grew up seeing your mother being mistreated and living with it, its obvious that you would think its a normal way of life when you grow up.

Abeg stop replying him, respond to people who are ready to state their opinions in a mature way devoid of insults.

Those are usually "open" marriages

The man will be getting his groove on when away, eventually the wife will realizes she's been getting the shorter end of the stick and she'll step up her game too.

I'll simply call my brothers he will surely regret his stupidity

lolababe331e:


Abeg why not ask for the whole story before you rush to conclusions. He asked my mother to take us with her, that was his wish.my siblings met with him when we were teenagers ( I was in school) and he never denied telling her to take us and he also admitted that he knew where we lived all along and never tried to see us.we lived in a small town so he knew our house and our schools. He was drunk and womanizer who felt that he had better things to use his money for , he got fed up of the responsibility. Basically he told them straight up that he realized he wasn't cut out to be a father. After that day they left contact details for him and he still never bothered to call or look for us. So I should go and bring someone who's said he doesn't want to be a father to my wedding Or I should go kneel I front of his house and beg for him to care Look for ko, look for ni

By the way I have never hated him,he simply doesn't exist since he made his choice. It's not a grudge but simply realizing some people should never have been fathers or mothers and you move on with your life. You guys here always want to same it must have been the woman who hid the kids well in this case he was the one who was too selfish to care.

He actually said he didn't have a problem with my Mum,just wanted to enjoy his life and felt a wife and kids were cramping his style.

Funny enough he had 2 kids outside and did the same to those ones to,abandoned them and never paid a dime towards their care. Just irresponsible and as a good role model to my kids I refuse to have a negative influence around my family

Are you new to nairaland. Even when a man abandons his kids it must be the fault if the evil woman I am sure they will look for a new excuse for him now, another evil woman must have jazzed him

Very nice. He looks like the strong minded person he is and which is what Nigeria needs right now

Good

babyosisi:
NdiIgbo shine your eyes o
I said it here many times
Do not for once forget who your main enemies are
One is satan ,the other looks like him
Ekwusi go kwa m

You are the real satan here. Always spreading tribalism and hatred. Shameless evil old woman, at your age people preach peace but you go around spreading hate.

You live abroad but spread hate between Nigerians and their neighbors. If a war breaks out you know won't be here to suffer yet you push the gullible young ones. Evil old goat

Why not, my daughters will wash the cars with their brothers just like my sons will cook with their sisters. We will simply rotate the chores

funshiba:


Hmmmm.... I got scared when i saw this post.... Its with heavy heart I say this is happening in my young marriage....My spouse is AA im AS. We had our baby in America this year they told us this, We asked for a recheck and it was almost same thing.

We decided to come to run our test in Nigeria, A test and a re-run says the same SS. The hospital advised we check again in few months as the infants undergo changes and the result cannot be confirmed.

We will wait till she is 6 months to 1yr old. But you dont have an idea of how scared i'm. I discussed with a medical consultant friend and he told me it is impossible that I should worry and check when she is one. but I'm scared to death and pray about this everyday. Medicine is abit funny cos I dont know possible this is medically and I dont want my only kid to be an example of such. Pray for us. Its not a good thing to happen.

Note that we are 100% sure of our status and had several rerun of test, I also trust my spouse with all my heart, Besides she is the AA.

I will advice this family that made the post to wait and not scatter the home cos of this. Accusation isnt the best and the wrongest approach to go about it.

Thanks

As long as your wife is confirmed to be AA even if she cheated the child should be AS as the child must take one from both biological parents. So definitely your wife didn't cheat and there must be another reason

I have had incidences where Nigerian labs will call SC -SS and vice versa, it's like they are not used to the variant

Let the man and the daughter be checked at Me- cure. The man may actually be AC and the daughter SC which is possible

He he he, the haters will have many days to lament Tinubu is the master strategist

MabraO:
Where is temitemi and barcanista

Come and defend ur hero

GEJ needs to be d president of kirikiri maximum prison

They always run away from threads exposing the sham that is Gej's government

The things they predicted for APC is coming true for PDP

Your Mum has become an enabler, until she stops supporting him he will continue to be lazy. A lazy man should not eat since he feels his pride is more important than contributing financially for his family , let her go away from him. When he sees that false pride will not feed him or pay the bills no one will tell him before he go gets any job sef.

He is a leech and he will suck her dry if she doesn't go away. At least for sometime till he starts acting responsibly, her business sef will thrive better when he's not around sponging off and just eating free food

EfemenaXY:


Oh puuuhhleezzz!

A man can't get ráped by a woman! What nonsense.

~ Did he cry and scream out from pain and terror while they were riding him? I don't think so!

~ Did he bleed from the act? Or at the very least sustain some bruises? I don't think so!

~ And finally, what was the expression on his face when he éjácúlátéd? Was it not of pleasure? Followed no doubt by heavenly groans and an aarrgghh?

Kinky guy having had his fantasy / dream órgy claiming ràpe. Mtcheew.

As a fellow woman (and feminist) that is an ignorant way to view rape or sexual assault

Many women have been raped with those same things happening or not happening and it dosent change the fact that it was rape.
If a gun is pointed at the victim during the rape and her life is threatened of course she may not scream because the rapist has told her if she screams she'll be shot! Same thing with the man

There are incidences of rape without much injuries especially when date rape drugs are used. The victims consciousness is reduced so the victim won't struggle and that reduces the bruising but it dosent change the fact that it's rape.

Him having plessure while ejaculating or not is irrelevant because it's the drugs making him do that .

Any form of sexual activity that is done against a persons will is sexual assault or rape, using drugs to make the person do it against his will doesn't make it consensual.

Elueme:
This must be another hypocrite on the prool. You were busy running your mouth like somebody with oral diarrhoea without recourse to your present line of reasoning that manual method was employed when the issue bygered on Rivers and Akwa Ibom.
N.B: I will not engage you in e-fight. Bye!

The difference is that INEC authorized the use of manual accreditation during the presidential election but during gubernitorial INEC specified that anywhere the card readers had a problem, elections should be conducted there the next day.

I am sure if you get the numbers for presidential election for Bayelsa and the rest of SS and SE it will be the same trend as that of Kano because manual was allowed by INEC but during governorship it wasn't allowed that's why that a fraud

Lmao, naija.com

Nairaland has gone to the dogs