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hello please have you been able to get any shipper that ships from phillipines o Nigeria?

Have you been able to get a shipper?

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@Op, Taking a look at what you have written so far I think you do not understand your wife. If you live on the mainland and your wife is a banker, then 5.30am is actually too late to leave the house every morning .

Coming back in the evening, once she can't close at 4pm, then you should know she can't get home any time before 9pm. All what you have written is actually a no case.

Forget all the people commenting in your favour, most aren't married and will act differently if they are married.

On the sex part, you need to improve yourself. If you aren't romantic or nagging a woman all day sex can't be in her mind. And having sex with her when she inst ready will give her bruises. So, you need to improve on that. Send her romantic text, give her a massage when she is back, welcome her with a hug and kiss and you will see her body ready for you.

@ Facebook posting, she was wrong but since that account has been temporarily deactivated, you should let go. Its wrong to conclude she is cheating because she us active on social media. If you give her the care and romance she wants, she won't be that active on social media.

@ beating her, you committed the unforgivable offence. How can you beat her? That's totally wrong. Go beg your in laws. Go beg them seriously and be ready to receive the insult if your life. No one will take it no matter the circumstances.

Then you sent her packing, that's bullshit. What happened to for better for worse. Don't destroy your home. Go take your wife back home.

And going forward, pls stop being selfish. Always consider what she wants in all situations and learn to compromise a little hear and there.

@ angie, we stay in a 2 bedroom flat, we don't share room with them. And that's one of the annoying thing about the whole scenerio. Guess the fault is that, we normally don't lock the door to our room. And it's basically hubby's fault cos he had the opportunity to call the guy to order after he took my wallet but he never did.

Guess I have learnt how to handle the guy a little today. Thanks a lot all.

Honestly, they all come in watches TV all day long. Am sure with sambarry advise, he should feel a little uncomfortable around me.

@ sambarry, thanks I think that's the best I can do. Its just so annoying having him around me and am expected to be nice to him. I feel very terrible and hurt especially when hubby sees nothing bad in his brother stealing from his wife.

Hello House, got a slight problem and don't know how to handle it. Got married years back and my in laws comes in at least 3 of them at a time, and they can spend like 3months then go back and they are back after few months. The issue is: they came around and my wallet got missing after they left, 2 months after they are back and I saw my wallet with one of them. Didn't complain but pointed it to hubby.

Then, when they left, one of them went to my room, picked a very expensive gold chain, and a very expensive top I just bought. Meanwhile, at the same period, I gave the guy a phone I bought for 62k when he kept begging me for the phone daily. Then 2 months after, the guy wants to be back and I told hubby am not accommodating him ever again.

Suddenly, the guy came to my house unannounced and has been around for over 2 weeks, then I asked hubby how long he is going to stay, the fight started. Honestly, I cant tolerate the guy around me. Really don't know what to do.

It's test first then interview. Won't take so long. Just schedule 3 hrs for the test and interview max. But, if u think u can't make it, just call to reschedule. All the very best.

Update: if you are called for an aptitude test/interview, please learn more about the company at: www.dbhsolutions.com before coming for the interview.

Victoria Island, Lagos

We have started receiving your resume. If you are shortlisted, you will get a message from the company before friday.

Hello House,

my company is presently recruiting for the above position. we want someone who is:
- creative
- commercial experience
- presenting, dealing with vendors and construction
- exposed and intelligent
- design and or archi background… mainly measuring, space planning and sketching ability i.e. auto cad
- Project management understanding etc

Typical Job Description:
• Review the request for proposals (RFP) submitted from the client ensuring that it is progressed through the RFP lifecycle.
• Obtain assistance from other departments as required to prepare the proposal plan that meets the objectives of the proposal budget and timeline.
• Clearly define the requirements and Scope of Work offered to the client and identifies any clarifications or exceptions to the client’s request.
• Ensure utilization of approved company vendors and OEMs, requesting costs if necessary to complete the request for proposal (RFP).
• Submit proposals within the required timeframe, ensuring follow-up within 3 days of submission.
• Obtain feedback from projects for “lessons learned” to incorporate in future proposals.
• Prepare initial assessment of the technical, financial, schedule or any other unusual risks associated with a proposal
• Prepare and review purchase orders in order to verify accuracy, terminology, specifications and send copies to OEMs
• Placing orders with our OEMs, tracking and following up on progress through to delivery, respond to queries about order status, changes, or cancellations
• Determine if inventory quantities are sufficient for the RFP; liaise with Logistics to order required materials when necessary.
• Assist in project planning, budgeting of all projects assigned to you
• Monitor and track project milestones and deliverables and make revisions as and when the need arises.
• Develop or update project plans for projects including information such as project objectives, technologies, systems, information specifications, schedules, funding, and resourcing.
• Prepare project status reports by collecting and analyzing information from all lead engineers ensuring that the weekly report is sent out to the client in a timely manner
• Have confidence in own ability to intelligently communicate with Engineers on project progress as well as effectively lead the discussion
• Ensure project documents such as high level project plans, SOWs, Change Request Form are completed
• Identify the elements of project risks that are likely to give rise to disputes and claims.
• Obtain feed back from projects for “lessons learned” to incorporate in future proposals.

Qualification:
▪ Knowledge of Microsoft office applications and working experience with spreadsheets.
▪ Knowledge of cost controls and international logistics support.
▪ Excellent oral and written communication skills.
▪ Effective leadership and interpersonal skills
Experience:
▪ Typically two (2) to five (5) years experience in contracts administration or proposal development.
▪ Prefer at least two (2) years experience in contracts administration.
▪ Experience in a like position within the last 2 years.
Education:
▪ Bachelor s degree in Engineering, Architecture or an associated discipline.

Forward your resume to: info@dbhsolutions.com

Closing date:9th July 2014

@ poster, its so funny how we support evil because its on our doorstep. A lot of our parents didnt do court or traditional wedding in the past Yet they were regarded as married. Your cousin is trying to snatch another woman's husband. There are two Sides to a coin. The man can not claim to be a saint in the whole 17yrs and am certain in anoda 3yrs ur cousin too might be exhibiting the same madness That woman is exhibiting and the man will go after anoda woman. Even in a law court, divorce is done after all the party have given their consent. Your cousin shld go look for her own husband and leave the woman and her man alone to sort out their issues. There is no crazy woman anywhere o.

My jollof rice isnt also perfect. I really need help here. Smtimes u eat jollof rice out and it has this kind of sweet taste, i will like mine to be like that always. Maybe it has to do with my tomato paste or so, but can sumone pls help?

@ op, why so much fight cause u got a response u don't like? Its cos of men like u that the female folks are embracing the western culture. I can imagine how u will beat up your wife at home cos she made a comment u don't like.

Paulipopor: all the above listed areas of IT are related to banking. You still need to specify which.
That being said, banks have their internal IT department that handle the IT related jobs. You can learn these jobs and join them. Or are you looking at starting your own thing, you can learn programming and write programmes for community banks.
Check out this thread
https://www.nairaland.com/826851/which-i.t-career-best-most#13630314

Thanks a lot. Will check out the site.

Am presenting working as a marketer in the bank and I studied banking and finance. Have about 6 yrs experience in the banking industry but I feel I have a flair for the IT aspect. Will love to diversify into IT as it relates to the banking industry.

Hello house, am a banker but really wld love to diversify into IT. What programmes do I need to do? Thanks.

The woman has made a fundamental mistake in marrying a guy that physically abuses her. She needs to correct that mistake before she gets killed. Going back to her ex was wrong and there is no justification for that. Won't advice her to tell her hubby cos guys don't forgive such act. She shld rather find a way to let the husband stop beating her and run away from her ex permanently.

A big thanx to everyone. I have a very good job and was even picking up most of the bills till a few month ago when he had a better job. I believe the only thing I havnt done is having a life of my own. I am glad I came here. Thanks a lot.

@ kunyie, thax for your words. We courted for 2year and even when am naughty and expects him to be mad at me, he says he can't fight me cos that will reduce the time to enjoy life together but immediatEly after the marriage, the story changed but I have tried to reduce the size of my mouth. I let him have his way when there are issues then he comes back and tell me I don't help him plan and was just a useless lady. I have called in pastors to come help but he just won't let go. The last tyme we had an arguement, I let him win it and despite the fact that he was insulting me, I kept quiet and he has nt spoken to me for a week now. I have begged him and done everything but he won't let go. Even woke him up during the nyte but he won't just say anything. I came here cos I don't want to insult him out of his shell and I can't cope much longer

Been married for 3years now. The problem is that I can't have a discussion with my hubby without it turning to a big fight. Once we discuss anything and I have a contrary opinion, kasala don burst. No matter what I discuss with him, he believes there is an alterior motive and he throws insults at me, when I can no longer take it, I throw back the exact insult at him then the malice starts. He cld go on for 2weeks where he tells everyone that cares to listen what a terrible wife he has at home. No amount of begging or sweet talking gets him out of the mood until I go to him and really attack his person then he gets over the fight and at that point, he has a lot of terrible things he can't forgive his wife for. The problem is that I can't fight anyone for a day not to talk of someone we live together and am sick and tired of the cat and mouse game I play with my hubby. What do I do please?

In ds time and age, TB is very rare except people with HIV. Will suggest your friend goes for HIV screening if he has been sleeping wth the lady and get the lady to take the same test. Afterwards, they can start discussing walking outta the rltnship or not.

Snipper is good but the best is Rambo/piff paff insect powder. It works like wonders.

I personally don't appreciate visitors coming into my house when am not expecting them. My siblings, parents and friends must tell me before coming over to my house cos I have to inform my husby of their visit and the same goes for him(although he doesn't tell me when his people are coming and I honestly hate surprise visitors) why? I have to plan ahead for them. So that might be one of the problems while the second problem which I have faced too could be the lady's husby. My husby picks up all sort of things from the meat too small to me not respecting his brothers or failing into traps his siblings are weaving for me and not knowing or giving bread and tea for breakfast whenever his relative comes around. So I started being cold to them then he started complaining that I was arrogant. Whenever anyone of his family member steps into my house, am always afraid cos I can't just do anything right. This has made me withdrawn from them a little. This could also be the case with your SIL. Or whenever you come ard, like my in laws do, they come to pick my discussion or smth I will do wrong and report same to my husby.This and many more thing has chnaged my relatnship with them cos I don't trust them. You can look inward to see if you are doing smth not too good in her marriage if not, I believe you shld ask her why she behaved like that. She will open up and even apologise to you

I personally don't appreciate visitors coming into my house when am not expecting them. My siblings, parents and friends must tell me before coming over to my house cos I have to inform my husby of their visit and the same goes for him(although he doesn't tell me when his people are coming and I honestly hate surprise visitors) why? I have to plan ahead for them. So that might be one of the problems while the second problem which I have faced too could be the lady's husby. My husby picks up all sort of things from the meat too small to me not respecting his brothers or failing into traps his siblings are weaving for me and not knowing or giving bread and tea for breakfast whenever his relative comes around. So I started being cold to them then he started complaining that I was arrogant. Whenever anyone of his family member steps into my house, am always afraid cos I can't just do anything right. This has made me withdrawn from them a little. This could also be the case with your SIL. Or whenever you come ard, like my in laws do, they come to pick my discussion or smth I will do wrong and report same to my husby.This and many more thing has chnaged my relatnship with them cos I don't trust them. You can look inward to see if you are doing smth not too good in her marriage if not, I believe you shld ask her why she behaved like that. She will open up and even apologise to you

Its very possible to be friends with a babe you love but in this case, I think you shld continue to be her friend, overtyme she will fail in love with you. Been in a just friends rltnship with a guy and ended up failing in love with the guy or if you can't be patient, you can use this old trick on her. Withdraw your friendship and attention from her for a week or 2 weeks so that she misses you. When she comes begging or smth throw your proposal back at her, most tymes if she has been very dependent on your friendship, she can't say no again cos she will think she might loss you forever.

I will call the relationship off or get a divorce if married. Its worst when you are married cos the lady can kill you.

Prefer a cool gentle guy always.

Thanks a lot .

y me: what kind? butter curry soup, carrot curry soup or?

ReaLly don't know the difference but I believe the carrot curry soup