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Most Nigerian used car are usually sold because they have one or two issue…..
if it doesn’t have any problem… e go expensive.. even if e get problem, greed and evil will still make them sell expensive so that u won’t know it has issues

They’ve been fvcking once in a while even when she left… shes now pregnant… so they both agreed she return before her baby bump starts showing….

See ehn….. the mater of two pple wey dey fvck hard to chook mouth… na ontop bed them go balck list you

I dont even mind a lady asking, or expecting to be pampered, but u should also expect to return the gesture from time to time
If I buy u an iPhone, u should think of buying me a PlayStation when my birthday is coming…. When I’m buying u bone straight u should also be kind to get me a nice wristwatch during val..
Not that u will be thinking it’s your entitlement for dating me….as if u are doing me a favour…

.one was was saying the other day that men must understand that the way women give back is by cooking and supporting…. Like WTF.!!!!
The support in that statement is not an action word…… it’s just a slogan….
imagine someone telling me the only way to return my kindness is to cook the same food I bought…. As in…..Very any how pple!!

Its not breasts this time ??

alizma:
I didn't say you mentioned Igbo but you tend to criticize what Odumeje is saying and I expected you to go back to Odumeje message after you see my comment. My comment is meant to call your attention to the fact that Odumeje is specific in his statement, his advice is for the Igbos and I know that his advice is in line with the culture of the people (including him) he advised. You can make your findings.

lol…u are a very condescending person… u ddnt even try to get my comment, yet you are forming lecturer and even gave me home work…. Like wtf…

I ddnt criticise what odumeje is said… its just that are not patient when u read ……
….: I opened a different line of argument …..i did not tackle the issue from odumeje’s angle at all ….. i tackled it from women’s perspective of paternity fraud , because women dont want men to do DNA test so they don’t catch them for adultery….. but when its their own son, their mouth changes because they dont want another women to deceive their own

DrRasheed:
Thank you for the insights. Please guide me more on obtaining. Is the leadwAy or Axa acceptable?

If u have euro in an account online .. u can use swisscare

lol….. the other one came in an armoured tank…. So what were u expecting from the one that is only bothered about 2nd term

DrRasheed:
Whattttt 30k Euro? I will be there for just a week o before matching forward.

Even if it’s one week….. ur coverage must be at least 30k euros or more… so that incase u fall sick or have an accident or need something more serious, ur insurance can cover you….dont get me wrong, insurance coverage doesnt mean thats what u will pay…ur insurance premium is way lesser….

Leadway or AXA shouldn’t charge u more than 15 to 20k for 7days insurance … but as tinubu don scatter every where, maybe it could be more

DrRasheed:
Hello Nlanders.

I will be having my interview next month at German embassy. I see that it's a requirement to get health insurance. Please how do I get one?

Also do i need any vaccine cards for traveling?
What other things is required that isn't likely on the website?

Thank you

Just use google to check companies online and compare rates cos they charge differently….if u dont have euros, that means u are stuck with Nigerian companies likes AXA or Leadway..

Shengen insurance must cover at least 30,000euros worth of health expense….if u buy anything lesser, embassy will deny your application…

Vaccine for what?? Is there are new disease in town.?

JobAndVacancies:
Go back and read the story slowly.
Comprehension is your problem and you're in a rush to comment.

All this agbero behaviour is not necessary…. We dont have to agree…. Different opinion on an issue is normal….

Pious101:
you first descended below maturity level into d mud by asking thunder to strike me....forgot so soon
U don't have to agree with me neither I with Ur views, and that does not make either of us comedian. I did not entertain any of their views but I'm telling u the various scenarios that probably played out

lol… thunder fire you is a normal joke on nairaland..
Sigh…. If na thunder Dey vex u… Oya no vex….






But thunder go still fire you shaaaa..

Pious101:
it is obvious U re too dum.b to understand that what I wrote up there is a case analysis of how it is viewed by the different parties involved in this case and not my overall subjective opinion on this case. Since U can't communicate in a public space without rubbing Ur self in d mud do not quote me again.
U re canvassing jail and I'm telling u the various factors why d woman may not have reported the incident but since U re too du.ll U could not comprehend it.
Being married and a father might be a reason the wife did not report the incident. Will u help the wife to cater for the children?But U re too daft to know what I'm talking about.
Are U more pained than d victim who went to report the incident to the pastor instead of the police. Is there no reason she made that judgement? If Ur IQ is too low for analytical reasoning pls do not quote me.
Are U more irritated than d wife? Why haven't she gone to the police?

.. lol……We dont have to agree….its okay to have different opinions…thats what argument a are meant for…
all these insults just shows your maturity level… and why the world is such a horrible place because u can entertain different views ….so u were expecting me to love and accept your view…. lol… this guy is a comedian

Dtruthspeaker:
Hence the success of her plot as every man has been drawn and has forgotten to keep their eyes on their enemy

lol……. Baba calm down ….it’s not that deep….…

Even if it’s that deep… it all ends on this cyberspace. Anyone mumu enough to used outside nairaland, was already a mumu from the start

Christistruth00:
Apostle Suleiman is not a man of God !!

It is like Judas Iscariot claiming to speak for Christ

Hes not speaking for God or Christ this time….

Wateva he is to you… hes speaking as a human being today…….. and we are first human before anything else n this cosmos

Dtruthspeaker:
See how long you guys have been fighting yourself. ".

It’s not fighting…. It’s what you do when are playing the devils advocate… u open an angle of thought based on a topic and keep provoking thoughts

…. Most times A devils advocate doesnt even believe or care about the point he’s arguing about but just be arguing based on another establish premise….e.g the law, the biblical principle, or ethics….

…as a devils advocate …..i was arguing about the safety of trans pple and how the biotechnology companies and cosmetic doctors use their gender confusion to take money from them…..but the truth is I don’t even care about trans pple….something else drives my argument

Dtruthspeaker:
I said it in the beginning, that it has many purposes and the word MANIPULATION sums them all

Eg it is meant to put men down and make us weak and give in to the will/demand of women.

2) Distraction.
Right now you all are arguing which means that you are not watching your enem.. (women) anymore. Where before we were all watching them and they were squirming. Now, she has distracted us to be thinking about justice and measuring it thereby not watching her and leaving her a lone to slip into the darkness.

As i said, look you would see that it is only men who have swallowed up the story hook, line, sinker and pole.

lol
Baba.. its not deep…
No topic online can make anyone give in to demand of any one unless the person is a mumu from time

Its just a story, weda its false or true... it makes no difference

Dtruthspeaker:
You are already a witness that I do it a lot however, the case must be real and bona fide.

But not when it is a clear set up and a fabrication created to achieve certain unseen eve ul purposes

Unseen evil?? So how does that affect you or me….

Dtruthspeaker:
That is because you think it is True if not you won't waste your time and energy.

See how all the men here (NOTE: ONLY MEN, No women, even the op too). It is only men who are making noise and yet no man has stopped to wonder why and what is going on.

Meanwhile, all of you have fallen for her distraction and sleight of hand.

There is something called playing the devils advocate
U should try it sometime…..

Pious101:
While I considered what d man has done to be a crime to humanity,

lol…. Funny guy….
U consider that the man’s action is crimes against humanity…. But u don’t think he should receive punishment for his action?? Baba, stay one place make thunder fire u appropriately..

Pious101:
I ever wonder if U re married with d way U re canvassing jail as if it is that easy.

What has being married got to do with someone being raped and physically assaulted….married pple commit crime all the time…they do the time…
its actually easy once we choose to do the right thing…. But we Nigerians dont like doing whats right.:::::and thats why we are used to injustice all around us

Pious101:
The man should be kept behind bars, I'm absolutely in support of this.

oga stay one place make thunder fire you….u Dey try pretend like u want justice but still expect the man to be forgiven like nothing happened….

Pious101:
However, d man is a father, a husband and a breadwinner.

lol…. U are sympathetic to the perpetuator but u dont have empathy and expect full justice for the victim??

Pious101:
These are the factors that would be at play in d mind of d woman that would make her to think twice before reporting the issue to the appropriate authority.

lol…so the only person that can ensure the man goes to jail is the wife?? Whats is this one saying??

Pious101:
Making these decisions is never easy, so it's not as easy d way U re canvassing it.

Its easy…: the victim that was rapped and battered till she fainted and threatened along side the pastor, can ensure the man faces the music… if someone raped the pstors children or the pstor’s wife.. will they make the same decision…. ??

Let’s always try and enter the victims shoes before we judge…. This is what we expect from our leaders who dont care pple die daily… yet we do the same everyday

Pious101:
U will never know how painful and difficult taking certain decisions until you are faced with circumstances beyond Ur control.

lol…There is nothing difficult about making a rapist pay for his crime if u are not a wicked and inconsiderate person.

if I have a wife and she rapes and physically assaults the boy I brought to the house to help….. baba…her mind no go touch ground..
.. i cant even sleep with such woman again …..: but alas! You are only putting yourself in the shoes of the perpetrator and thats why u think the woman should just forgive the man and live happily every after…..as in ….did u even try to imagine how the woman now sees the man??

Pious101:
In this scenario, Justice is required by one party, father, friend and husband is required by other parties.

Oga … stay one place make thunder for fire u …. U ar just talking from two sides of the mouth…… a crime has been committed… there is only one outcome unless the victim and those who heard of the issue decides not to reports….and that outcome is justice…

When govt started repentant bokoharam yall were screaming…. E reach Una turn to judge matter of a man that raped and nearly killed a girl….. Una come Dey talk father and husband factor….. baba …: thunder go fire you ajeh!!

correctyourself:
You want to copy the Western world! What does your law have for the family upkeep if the bread winner goes to J? Go and amend your construction first. Talk is cheap.

Copy western world…::?? So it’s only in western world pple pay for crimes like rape and battery??
Let’s assume for a minute the maid is ur sister….will u start considering the bread winner that raped ur sister
Talk is not cheap … there are many bread winners in jail because of crimes… and their family is living finding a way to survive

ReacherSaidNoth:
Every day you come to understand why men of old kept women locked up and subdued

Only women with evil characters need to be locked and subdued??

Evil is a human flaw…. But u can just confess subduing and locking women makes u feel funky.. nobody will beat you

talktouncleBen:
You have a very lovely dog but it’s not a Caucasian

So what is it??

blesdman:
Don't be hysterical about my observation. I will elucidate by saying it is how feelings develop and being in house. I do not excuse the behavior of the man but only trying to say that excessive closeness is potent trigger of sexual relations. Hence u hear of relationships between doctors and nurses, cases of office wives and office husbands, or choir relationships, pastors and female secretaries, as well as relationships between female secs and their male bosses even when they have wives, rev father's and nuns. I wonder how u are pretending that this is not the case. Self control is key but too much exposure to some environments is capable of destroying it

Hysterical….??
U are making examples of relationships between doctors and nurses, cases of office wives and office husbands, or choir relationships, pastors and female secretaries, as well as relationships between female secs and their male bosses… but this is not a relationship borne out of consent…. It is rape and physical assault….
Which was why I asked when u were blaming the wife for bringing an adult woman …. Has the man been raping all the women he has been in close dealings with??

If this relationship btw the maid and the man were consensual, I would agree with your point.. but it’s rape…. I dont see how u are blaming the woman for triggering her husband by bringing an adult female into their home… like it’s supposed to be a default thing for men to rape women they are in close existence with..

Babangidapikin:
Don't get me wrong I empathize with the families affected, truth is anyone could be a victim, I travelled today, and I was observing the security layout on that road, I was surprised that roads that police men use to use to collect Ajo is now been guided by soldiers who strategically positioned and camouflaged. They are not even on the road but they are positioned, despite that, the only thing on my mind is "I don't have ransom money if catch" unfortunately that is our reality. It's a different thing if I don't see effort, then I can criticise, even the roads I once criticize is been fixed. Truth is we as a people should change. On that Journey I started thinking of a Shadow Government, not as an opposing Government but a Government within a Government. I understood how people making the final decision are not necessarily the only one making the decision as they are always vested interest.

…Which effort did u see?? U saw soldiers significantly less equipped than the enemy… u said u saw effort
Since this Islamic insurgency started… it has been the same complain from the military, that they are significantly out-gunned.

They took our subsidy and gave the money to governors, legislators and judiciary to live fat…. Yet Military has no tactical/precision air support, no drone advantage, no digital control of our airspace, and land, to offer ground assault team superior advantage m, so Terrorist are moving freely like they own the entire place…

No investment of digital tech to track conversation and other digital foot print, so these devils freely freely use the internet to post their devilish activities, yet no one can get them… but if u tackle the president on twitter, D$$ can fish u out in less than 48hrs…

Gumi and other religious and traditional rulers snap pictures with these pple…they know where they are when they want to pay them them, they call them their brothers, freedom fighters and jihadist, but every week u hear that they ambush our soldiers and kill many of them…

.. so which effort are u talking about sir?? We have a government from executives to the military and religious heads full of jihad apologist.. and we claim we are fighting war against jihadist without an over hauling of the force… okay oooo… yet u see all their wonderful effort

…see ehn…..i dont know if u are speaking innocently by saying you see great effort or u are just one of those sycophants who pat the govt in the back and shift the blame on the pple…
. because i see your comment clearly, saying pple should change….. so I ask you chnage from what to what….?? From complaining about being killed??

Pple are becoming orphans, widows, whole family destroyed, whole villages displaced… u are here telling pple to change…… see ehn.. baba.. ur mind nor go touch ground…..Ajeh!! …

one day, e go touch you,…e go reach your side……. Dont get me wrong, i dont mean it in a bad way… I’m just being logical because with the rate this thing is going, e go reach your side ajeh!! …....then u wont come here claiming u see effort from an incompetent govt…

Dtruthspeaker:
Another beautiful scripted store ree created to put men down!!

When will you guys real eyes that women lie too much as they need you to be weak?

That is one of the only ways they can manipulate and control you.
, all these Fighting and attack of your fellow man is exactly what she is looking for.

For when/whilst you all are fighting your fellow man about these shi..s you are distracted and no longer watching women and her moves.

Which is why men always say "i don't know when she did this or that".

As you can see, men have been watching women's every moves so they need to do something that will make you avert your eyes from them so that they can hide and do a change you won't see because of distraction.

This story is not True. I bet you 5k

Baba u know nor just get any chill when it comes to women matter …lol

Who cares weda the story is try or not….we address from the sides its was look it it from because there are always many angles to a story

Babangidapikin:
It's easy to insult Mr President because you are wearing an emotional coat not a rational coat. Rather I advise you focus your madness to the people committing this atrocious acts ... What is pitching them that has not pitch anyone before, rather they choose to go the wrong way. Those are the people you should pour your lamentations on.The President is only human, he has his own personal security issues he is dealing with as well as the collective. Give him a breathing space..he will definitely attend to this issues Security issues involves life, you don't receive the list of body counts so you can rant ... Please the Nigeria Army 🪖 is still recruiting, if you are gallant join ..

E never reach your side bah?? ….and u are certainly not driven with empathy for those that are victims of this killings…
thats why u are accusing someone of being emotional.. … are these horrific every day killings not supposed to make people emotional??

He is the commander in cheif…. He demanded for the resignation of Jonathan because of this same security issue, called him incompetent and all manager of names
…. e reach his turn now, Una Dey ask for patience when pple are dying…. Shame on u pple…

blesdman:
it is what is. Right from the beginning, male and female do not stay close together otherwise sexual feelings will develop. Denying this fact is hypocrisy.

U dodged my question…so I’ll ask again…. is that how he rapes the female in the office, their neighbour, and other women he happens to be close to? This isnt about hypocrisy, because it is not a sexual relationship of consent…it is rape and physical assault ….
yet somehow u are trying to justify and equate the man’s behaviour with innate animalistic sexual response triggered by just being close to a female…. Humans are not beasts in the wild, so saying his wicked behaviour is normal trigger because hes in close proximity to a female is the weirdest shlt i will hear this week.. and the week is still very young

immortalcrown:
You are yet to explain how telling a woman to continue with her marriage means denying her husband's crimes. You are just unleashing your sentiments.

Baba…..If u nor see my explantion.. I nor know how to explain any further oooo

blesdman:
Both of them to be blamed. U don't keep an adult female near a man when they are not related by blood. It is a clear temptation. I will not say further. But she should find the heart to forgive the man; after separating for some days

U are probably one of those pple that will say using minor as maid is a wrong… now that this maid is an adult, u still blame the woman……. The werey husband wey the nor get self control…. Is that how he’s sleeping with all the women in his office and the street?? Let’s call a spade what it is and not blame the women for the husband’s lack of discipline

immortalcrown:
How does advising her to continue with the marriage mean supporting the man's crime? Explain.

because there should be no other scenario where the woman should continue like u suggested….u even made the man look not so bad since hes not assaulting the wife…..
I mean….the only scenario should be prison for rape, aggravated assault, battery …. Thats like 20 years at least