₦airaland Forum

stagger:
Marriage is based on love and commitment. These transactional stuff now being pushed out even from the pulpit is just ridiculous.

Love and commitment??

Baba dont get it twisted…Marriage is transactional to women……
when u meet a new lady.. while u are asking questions to know her values and temperament…
what shes interested in is where u work, how much u earn, will u spoil her, will u shoulder all responsibility or u split bill with her

rohangold:
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To me.
The essence of DNA testing(commonly) is to justify cheating.

Justify cheating?? How??

no man can be happy his wife denied him the chance of having his own child but deceptively made him raised another man’s ….. unless the man is impotent without cure….
So all these “he speaks true”
“the child ur wife born under ur roof is ur own” is just emotional blackmail and a coward’s compensation for being afraid to confront the truth

ManirBK:
Please, has anyone experienced stamp duty charges from their bank? This month, Access Bank debited me three times with three different amounts. I'm confused and need to understand why this happened.

U can be debited 10 times or even 100 times for stamp duty…. It is debited per transaction… so every time u send money to people from 10k and above u go collect…

If it bugs u that much….U can avoid it by splitting transaction if have free transfer allocation like all these fintech gives customers

U can also avoid it by sending 9999 instead of 10k… thats if you are sending money friends or family who will not be angry 1 naira is missing

judewrites:
His major need isn't sex but mental healing!

Who said anything about major needs?? I said part of his needs is sex as he’s a grown man…. He will likely not get mentally better than his…… pple like them just need what will make them feel more happier and socially healthier….
Weda autistic or normal, loneliness isnt cool…it messes up your mental health except you are natural loner

judewrites:
This offer for a wife for him looks hypocritical because which sane woman wants to marry an autistic man?

looks hypocritical?? Of course it’s hypocritical…. But guess what?? The average woman marries u for what u can provide…. Women marry dwarfs, slowpoke, 90 year old cargo…..etc
the nigga is just autistic….some are not as bad as u think…. Its a spectrum thing……some dont relate with pple, some have one go-to person they relate with, some relate well but go ballistic quickly….mayb u should use google, there are autistic pple with partners and family

judewrites:
The woman may even cheat on him and later abandon him because of the lack of love.

Like seriously ?? …. Women cheat on handsome men, leave the man that treats them good for the one that treats them awful….. so what…..?? Thats not a reason to avoid women or have a family

judewrites:
The boy doesn't need a wife, he needs adequate care and intense prayers for full recovery.

Last time I checked, with God nothing is impossible, abi?

Even now, I'm sure plenty of women are weighing the offer, not because of love but for the financial benefits.

Part of the care he needs is sexual…. Regardless of his condition he’s a grown man….. and research show that sex is significant contributor to psychological balance….

In the Netherlands the govt provides subsidy benefits for pple with disabilities. Registered sex therapist/workers provide sexual related service for them once a month…..
the result was that it improved their happiness level and social health as suicide rate among them reduced significantly

Women don suffer……
The sad reality is some pple will go and apply, looking for bills-free life

anytexy:
I have said these time without numbered. Odumeje just buttress my point. All those people condemning him are free to do DNA test. Nobody is holding you. But be ready to bear the consequences if it turns out to be negative. They no dey tell person ooo!

lol….. so because the truth is uncomfortable…. U will rather ignore it….no wonder they say cowards die a thousand death

Cmanforall:
And the child may grow to hate the man who raised him

Na normal way truth like show itself even when nobody is asking….
When bastard dey house …. Even without DNA test member of that house go shaa dey notice signs in behaviour and patterns …though they may not attribute it to paternity difference ….

pussyphilia:
That's why women need to be discreet in such situations. They must not tell the other man who got them pregnant when they want to pin the pregnancy on their husbands. If the impregnator is not aware, there won't be problem in the future.

So your discreetness will save u if embassy requirement of DNA test comes up ??
See , ehn …. The truth is very weird….. ive noticed over and again how it shows its face even when nobody is searching for it…. Its almost like the truth hates being hidden..

Imagine how person leave lagos go commit adultery for Oshogbo… na her neighbour son wey dey campus .. wey no even dey look for her jam her with another man for hotel, same hotel the student dey host their final year party…..

bukatyne:
The 11g of sugar is per 45g (which is the single use pack).

That's about 25% sugar. Then you have all the other unhealthy stuff in it.

That's a lot per one meal daily.

Even if he’s taking the whole 11g sugar…. I mean 11 gram sugar is just around 2 cubes and some extra…

Have u taken garri or standard cup of tea with 2 and half cubes of sugar before…… e go be like say u nor put sugar at all.

Na this kind advice dem Dey like give other women’s son….. wait make e reach their own son….

You go hear…hiaaan!! “I will not use this my back to carry a bsatrad”.

Oya send am to Nigeria….
Panel beater do your work…:
Painter … Oya pour am paint

Car dealer be like … clean bill, never touched, 125 million last….

fineboynl:
I eat golden morn every night before i go to bed. The only thing that i add to it is sachet powder milk and enough water to drink it like garri.

I noticed my sugar is getting high. Until i check the back label sugar content and behold 11g.

Do you know what 11g sugar look like?

The picture demonstrates it better

Are u consuming the entire pack of golden morn in one nigh??Of course not….
. u eat only small portion from the golden morn… so u are not taking 11g of sugar every night because it’s the entire pack that contain 11g….

Go and audit your diet well, something else is spiking your sugar

See achievement
See desperation

Is this Stockholm syndrome or some Nigerians are just natural lovers bad leaders

Prophit:
Ok. Now move along

lol… no wonder dem run u street….

Sonnobax15:

Thief.

So na you fit to chop 720k while na only clothes money fit for Amaka abi?

I really love the way the banny outsmarted you.

Person wey don graduate from school but never get job yet. She mistakenly come across opportunity,you say make she throw am away because of say you get 419 blood for your DNA

Funny thing is that she may likely blow from here. I really love smart bannies. Maybe I'd consider being one in my next life

How is he a thief??
He sourced for business
Wrote the proposal but submitted it through the lady to increase the chance of success… but u Dey call am thief?? As in …how naaa…??

Baba no try this kind thing for street ooo…. I don see where them cancel person Christmas on top parole wey no reach 300$

nairalanda1:
Well, my dear madam, I am merely responding to those who quote me, and those whose comments I find interesting.

I'm sure you would agree with me, madam, that no one can control what one says on this site, so long as you keep to the rules.

Dont get me wrong….Im not trying to control you… its just that are making it look like u are desperate to sell a narrative here…: and it’s always this ur subsidy noise

nairalanda1:
Your comment is why Balablu is in charge, and why we never get better leaders.

Until you understand why your economy and country is bad, you are going to keep on getting tinubu in charge. And you will never be happy about it.

When you understand why, that's when tinubu will be removed from power by magic, and we would get decent leaders.

Why are u desperately jumping from one mention to another ??

mizGene:
How? Both parents are usually required to have ILR before the kids can apply.

ive seen pple apply for ILR with their kids when their spouse isnt ready….. even divorcees,
the good thing is it’s the main applicant thats ready so her kids can fly with her..

The dependent husband will just use FLR extention to complete his own 5years since his dependant status won’t work with the ILR status of the spouse

So what if the man leaves the uk and doesnt return.. are u saying the woman and her kids will just be in limbo??

Vavi:
Please has anyone been in this situation?

I am on a UK Skilled Worker visa, 3.5 years in and about to switch to a new employer. My children are dependants on my visa and have been living with me here the whole time. My husband is also a dependant but has exceeded 180 days outside the UK in two separate years so he won’t qualify for ILR when I should.

My children’s own absence record is clean. I want to apply for ILR for myself and my children at year 5 while my husband applies for an extension separately since he won’t qualify yet. My solicitor hasn’t given me a straight answer on whether this is possible and this is now affecting decisions around my job switch.

Has anyone done this successfully? Can dependant children apply for ILR independently of whether the second parent qualifies?

Any advice on how to navigate this is welcome

Apply…. U go Dey alright…

1..Scholastica

2..Idongesit….. I called the guy “I dont get it” till we left secondary school

3… England player …..Butt

Precious201010:
then go use am carry me and U.. if possible they should install solar panels on top the planes.. e go even charge faster since it's closer to the sun

lol……u be werey….u go let person laugh fall comot for chair…

The sun is actually not hot the higher you move into the sky…

Sonnobax15:
And you think those your male friends will open up and tell you everything about their lives over there?🤔

Shes just cruising
Women will never pay sex…..
because they always see sex as a favour they are doing for you

….
The story was on instagram two days back…the story was that young woman ddnt want the baby so she dumped it in the toilet….

The doctor overreacted too much

Dancebreaker:
It still does not increase her fertility. Her body still gets old and her eggs have still been reducing monthly since first menses. First baby at older age also has it's many down sides.

The body goes through the first hormonal changes due to pregnancy which nature intended the body to go through at a younger age. It is well known now that having a baby later after having a baby at an earlier age makes the body more familiar with the process. Not too late though, because regular aging process still goes on.

Imagine first pregnancy at 39? Gestational diabetes could be a problem.

Growing up, I remember how many women who died around 40 to 47 due to pregnancy complications. I didn't know the science behind it back then as a kid. Because of more physical work and less fatty food, girls started having menses at an older age, at 14 or 15 in those days. So, they remained fertile for longer, into older age.

You need a certain level of body fat for the hormones for puberty to be made in the required quantity.

For example, some adult women with severe anorexia lose so much weight and body fat that their monthly period stops. Too little hormones.

U Dey waste your time…… women are expert when it comes to giving bad advice to other women’s son… but when it comes to their own son…..u go shock how their opinion will quickly change…

Juoflife1:
The quantity of a woman's eggs can reduce but the quality never reduces. It's the opposite for men. If you have more questions, feel free to ask.

Okay oooo… wateva makes u sleep well at night is totally fine by me ….

Diamond098454:
He's 50 and should marry a 40 to 35 years old lady

How that one take concern you….
If he's a billionaire now…. Yall will start talking differently…..

Juoflife1:
Many men are ignorant about how women's bodies work lol. There are 40+ years old women that ovulate well and are very fertile. I respect his choice as long as he's not choosing that age limit because of child bearing.
Again, it's his choice.

Stay one place naaaa …. Make we for know where to send thunder

Lithiumite:
How do you expect private companies to cover for incresed minimum wage,more monies in the hands of people will push prices up......we arent self sufficient in food in anyway thereby our output isn't meeting our demand despite shoring up with imports.....if 5 ship loads of rice comes into this country we will consume all within the shortest possible time despite our low wages but if you increase wages with same level of supply we will have higher demand for rice which is a Nigerian staple as many who couldn't afford higher quantities can an will demand more for immediate consumption and storage and the market will respond accordingly.

Private companies isnt covering any increase because the increase isnt significant… the few fractions of Nigerians who received increase from 70 to 140k are still poor as ever……
The fact is … their purchasing power ddnt improve significantly because 70k is nothing….. and thats why the last wage increase ddnt cause any increase in price of goods…
give any civil servant 70k extra today.. and he’ll tell u there is no significant change in his life
… because before he he could barely power his apartment, he was borrowing to keep up his children tuition, he was managing to take his car to work 2 times a week.. by 17th hes already borrowing to get to transport himself to work….
U are just quoting theory..70k increase wont lead to more money chasing fewer goods in a country of nearly 270million poor pple..

Druss:
Pays according to inflation level? What in the foolishness are you saying?

lol…

Lithiumite:
If govt doubles the minimum wage in Nigeria now without commensurate level of production expect inflation to go up too.....expect a 59kg bag of rice to go up from 53k to about 80k,house rent to increase etc......

Nigeria market is a beast on its own..
….Minimum wage already went from 33k to 70k … and ur prediction ddnt happen….. it never happens because the effect in real time isnt more money chasing fewer goods like economics teaches….

…because what yall dont get is… if govt increase minimum wage from 70k to 140k today….the increase isnt accross board all employers nation wide … only civil servant earn it and they are a small fraction…
Like I said the effect in real time isnt more money chasing fewer goods like economics teaches…. Nigerians are still as poor as hell and less money is chasing more goods in real time

there are millions earning 20k to 40k salary till today….. nothing concern private and the millions of informal sector with minimum wage…..More than 80% of Nigerians wont experience any increase in wage….

There are two major driving force of cost of goods in Nigeria.. its petrol cost but more the exchange rate because we are largely an import dependent nation….

Infact, Data showed recently that the jump of petrol price from 775 to 1400 has not dramatically increased price of all goods…
which proves the major driver is the exchange rate…. If exchange rate doubled today the way petrol did…. Cars, books,, sugar, cement, condoms, the cost of everything would have gone up times 4 in less than a week… even petrol will jump up than this because importers are and Dangote and buying crude in dollars