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Popular Nollywood actress, Mercy Johnson Okojie took to Instagram to celebrate her Husband, Prince Odi Okojie as he celebrates his birthday today.

Eventhough her marriage has been rocked with rumours of impending divorce, she douse this as she pours out her heart with the sweetest of words in an instagram post

She says :

Am teary and I do know why.{Today is Odi’s Birthday and I can’t think of the right msg hmmm but I do know that….} You are breath taking reflection of God’s Heart for me.
How he Love me,Even when I don’t love myself.
When I look at you,I know that there is a God ,who loves me so much that he took his time and created you just for me…


You always want me to be the best and be Happy.

I love you beyond my Heart,I love you from my soul and that’s the place where only you,the kids and God dwells…. I Love You Babes and Happy Birthday to @princeodiokojie (First and second line stolen from film,others na my own)
Hey Friends…..Please say a prayer for my sexy Boyfriend/Hubby….

Source:https://afonjaman.com/mercy-johnson-okojie-has-the-best-word-for-her-hubby-on-his-special-day/

Have you ever had it so good that  it seems she would never leave?!  Is she driving you crazy with incessant talks about wedding, 'aso ebi ' and/or meeting her parents?

I wonder why you are this lucky, so fortunate to have a lady that wants to settle with you. Let me guess, you have a bunch of them(girls) and you are looking for a way to offload some of them without hard feelings.

The simple truth is you should never date someone you could not marry but since you have put yourself in this shit, lets see how we can help you.

Even though some of the following principles are effective, they might only work on a lady that really does not love you.

More so, this principle apply more to traditional African romance where the man is gainfully employed while he spends lavishly on the said lady.

Here are some possible ways to offload her;



#1  Starvation technique
Even though the world has significantly change in the perception of the female gender and the opportunities availed them, some are still overly dependent on their boyfriends.This could be excusable for struggling women with no source of income or low socioeconomic background, how do you justify the dependence of women who are gainfully employed but still believes the man should take full responsibility.

Starvation typically involves  withdrawing all forms of gestures especially monetary from her.This also includes cessation of gift items either regular or occasional.

For a woman who only cares about you pocket, this would be a very big challenge and staying further in the relationship would be impossible.
Several women are in the relationship for the financial benefits or at least in exchange for what ever value they hope to bring in- mostly sex



#2  Status loss technique
This is a bit tricky but also effective.Several women claim to be in love but what they actually find alluring his the man's social status, Level of influence and personality. Should anything happen to any of the above, she is on her way out.....

Some women would tolerate any shit like Baby mama, cheating, use of illicit drugs as long as the man possesses are strong social presence.
This is why celebrities indulge in all sorts of vices and their girlfriends still remain in the relationship.

Try this out by feigning Job loss/ loss social status for a time period.

I once read the story of a lady that left her boyfriend after he told her he was sacked by his company(a company he actually owns)



#3  Inert Emotion Technique
Women naturally are emotional and they like to see the man folk follow them on this.

In this technique, you stop showing any form of emotions, don't act impressed or unimpressed, don't love and don't hate.Keep her guessing and wondering whether you are still in love.

It includes cessation of all forms of emotional expression in words, in writing, in actions
This definitely sounds cruel but  a lady that really loves you would rather open a communication channel rather than reciprocate.



#4  Coital Deprivation technique
It was thought to be a fact that most women would rather practice sexual abstinence before marriage but recently the trend has changed and the opposite is mostly true.

Women have become increasingly curious and adventurous, they want to know the sexual capabilities of their potential mates.This has led to several women frowning at celibate relationships.
In this techniques, all forms of sexual activity is discontinued till further notice... If she is able to control herself and in the absence of no evidence of cheating, she might really be in love




 

#5   Anti Feminist Technique
One of the most remarkable achievements of the 21st century is the advancement of the cause of women vis a viz education, job opportunities and overall quality of life.

All these were achieved by the promotion of FEMINIST perspective!esti

Even though the feminism could be confusing since most women only subscribe when it suits them, it is still obvious that most of the agitations are "against" African Value.
The most important achievement of the Feminism movement especially in Africa is De-domcation of women.

Most women now do not want to be associated with domestic duties and are constantly rivaling men even though Feminism is much more than that

In this technique, you could push some anti "fake feminism" mentality like insisting on good cooking skills as well as  domestic duties(not while dating oh).

You could also insist you would be the head of the home and not equals as preached by feminists.



Source:https://afonjaman.com/how-to-break-up-with-your-girlfriend-part-1/

Human sexuality is a topic Africans like to ignore, it seem like a very uncomfortable topic.Nobody wants to talk about it, schools, churches and social organisations alike.Those who manage to discuss it, do little or no justice



Now lets go!



Orgasm is the core of sexual activity, it is the peak of sexual excitement.Every married person, male and female alike deserves a burst of the feeling each time.Eventhough the man’s biology differs from a woman, nature as endowed both with the ability to maximise this intimate experience.

Since we have established that both sexes reserve the potential to climax, which of the sexes enjoy this more and why?

For many people, orgasm is an important part of sexual relationship.

The ability of a gender to have more orgasm than the other is known as orgasm gap.All groups of Men(Gay, bisexual, heterosexual) orgasm more than women.Eventhough Lesbian woman orgasm more frequently than heterosexual women, they still do less than men

Studies have shown that only 20% of woman climax, 75% dont and 5% never will .The reasons for orgasm gap could be biological, social or even cultural.

Here are a few reasons why Men are more likely to climax



1.Body dissatisfaction – women naturally have a higher incidence of this and this limits them from exploring the full potentials of their body. so the solutions is confidence in one’s appearance

2.Stigma against making the first move – In this part of the world, a woman that initiates it is seen as “loose”, this consequently affect their compliance, participation and contribution during love making.All these are very key to building the tempo to climax

3.Unequal sexual appetite(libido) Men naturally have a higher appetite in the absence of disease due to lower frequency of cyclical hormonal flunctuations.In essence, women who have lower appetite might hardly be in the mood but just play along to satisfy their spouse.This prevents sexual satisfaction

4.Biological wiring- A woman biological architecture is more complex.In men, the erectile organ is more accessible than in women

5.Medical conditions Considering the fact that female reproductive plumbing is high maintenance, it comes with higher risk of infection that might make intimacy unpleasurable or worse still painful.

Some cultural believes has further ignored the plight of women, since male orgasm helps facilitate reproduction while female organism has no known relationship.

I will end with this quote:

“Women who have better sexual relationship with their partners also have more satisfied relationships in general and it improves the quality of other relationships they have”

So in general, a better sex life leads to a better relationship, which also leads back to better sex life.

Source: https://afonjaman.com/do-men-have-oragasm-more-why/

Senator Shehu Sani is the best option for Nigeria

TonyeBarcanista:
Seriously, wetin I start? let's be objective about this.

Which aspirant will be the best for Nigeria among those that are aspiring aside Makarfi?

We deserve the best

If you belong in the class of Nigerians who believes there is such a paucity of credible Presidential candidate in the coming 2019 polls, you might need to get in here
I have watched with disgust how many frantically insists that the ONLY available candidate for Nigeria is BUHARI.
How can this be so? Are we being intentionally ignorant, oblivious and mediocre?!

How is it possible that in a country that boasts of 200 million people, the only choice we have is a retired military general with a subpar Presidential credentials and mediocre economic achievement? Did i also mention that he is the 8th decade of life and battling a chronic illness.

I have met several people who seem to think President Buhari is our only choice, not because of performance in office but simply because there is

no viable option that possesses his “Anticorruption” credentials.Going by this flawed logic, then it safe to say no other person should rule Nigeria again until BUHARI kicks the bucket at age 100 or more……

Before we discuss our options at the 2019 polls here are a few questions we need to ask ourselves

# Is Muhammadu Buhari really our only choice?
??

# Is President Buhari really corruption-free?
He served under Abacha, He believes ABacha didnt steal, he reluctantly admitted Babachir lawal stole, His Silence on Aso Rock Clinic Financial misappropriation, request for 1 billion to fight ‘Boko Haram’ among others



# Must The President Come from the North again?


This is definitely a lie told to us by the former ruling party, PDP



# Can we have a Candidate That Has a clean slate?


If we want, we could!



#Do we really need a Leader that Profiles his citizens based on Tribe and religion?


We difinitely dont!

# Can a young person get into power as well?
This is hardly possible for now



With all the Above in mind, let us examine the list of 10 “astute” Nigerians that will do alot better than Buhari

1. Senator Shehu Sani

Shehu Sani, an author, playwright and a human rights activist. He is President of the Civil Rights Congress of Nigeria – (CRCN).[3] and the Chairman of Hand-in-Hand, Africa.
Senator representing Kaduna Central senatorial district is probably the most reasonable Nigerian Politician alive.He is the first Senator in Nigeria to declare his assets publicly(Sept 4, 2015)

He was elected into office in 2015 under the platform of APC but that has not detered him from saying the truth even when it hurts his own party.

He has been incredibly vocal about the failings of this governement, one he is part and parcel of.

He has been at logger heads with the chieftains of All Progressive COngress in kaduna as well as the incumbent Governor, Nasir El-Rufai for obvious reasons.

he has also been involved in several scandals most recently an allegation of complicity to murder but the Murder suspect has confessed to been coerced to implicating the Senator by the Army.

Senator Shehu Sani’s political experience, involvement in activism and his unbaised, humane stance sveral sociopolitcial issues makes him the most suitable candidate in Nigeria.



2. Rabiu Kwankwaso



Senator Rabiu Kwankwaso, representing kano in the National assembly has been called by many as the transformer of kano.He has served two times as the governor of Kano, between 1999-2003 and 2011-2015.

His tenure as the Governor of Kano State was very eventful because of several other groups who were opposed to his high handed governorship and his attempt at supporting president Obansanjo who hails from a

different tribal group which proves he has a national mind set and is not as prejudiced like an average northerner.
He however had a relatively successful second term in power when he transformed Kano infrastructurally but has been faulted for inscribing Kwankasiyya on those projects..

The only challenge the serving Senator may have is allegations of corruption hovering over his head but none has been proven by a competent court of Law.

he is clearly not a saint but he is witty, intelligent and most importantly not TRIBALISTIC.

3. Sanusi Lamido



Sanusi Lamido is the 14th Emir of Kano and the former Governor of central bank.He was a successful banker and he was one of the leading lights

that led the charge against the unprecedented level of corruption perpetrated by the former administration as the Central bank Governor who doubled as a WHISTLEBLOWER.
He was fired for claiming $20 Billion was missing from the federation account under the administration of Goodluck Jonathan.

He successfully stabilised the banking sector and helped rescue several commercial banks that was the verge of collapse.

The Proud islamic scholar has also been vocal critic of anti-western education beliefs and has consistently stood against the menace of child marriage that has plague the northern part of the country for centuries.
He is an intellectual per excellence.His understanding of economic is incredible as most of his economic predictions has come to pass.
The TIME magazine also listed Sanusi in its TIMES 100 list of Most Influential People of 2011

It is unlikely that the revered monarch will vy for Presidency but the thought of him occupying the coveted position is exciting.


4. Yemi Osinbajo



Professor Yemi Osinbajo the current Vice President of Nigeria, is a lawyer and a Senior advocate of Nigeria.He also served as the commissioner for Justice in Lagos for 8 years.

The Revered academician who doubles as a Clergy was responsible for designing the manifesto”Roadmap to a New Nigeria” of APC which led to a successful Presidential bid in 2015 leading to the defeat of an incumbent President for the first time in Nigeria.

Eventhough he has been a part of a hugely disappointing government, his limitations are understandable knowing the way Leadership works in Nigeria.

He however gave a good account of himself in May 2017 when the President proceeded on a
medical leave and he was responsible for steering the wheel of government.The economy
significantly grew under his watch and the value of Naira rose in the international market
He however has failed to indict and prosecute the looters of the last administration but it is tempting to believe a President Osinbajo might fair better.

5. Donald Duke


Donald Duke, the longest serving comptroller and general of Nigeria customs and two-term governor of Cross-River state from 1999 to 2007.He was praised for his contribution to Agriculture, Urban development and Tourism.

He has been dubbed as the genius of Tourism after leaving his state with Obudu Cattle Ranch, Tinapa Resort and Calabar Annual Carnival which have all improved the Economy of the coastal state.

Sadly the odds are not in his favour since we have been made to believe the next President must come from the North.
He pushed for Democracy under military rule and famously said

“What got the military out of power was not democracy but the dreadful state of the economy. If we, the democratic government, cannot deliver food for the mass of people we can forget about democracy.”


6. Raji Fashola


Babatunde Raji Fashola SAN is the current serving minister of Power, Works and Housing.He is a two-term Governor of the Economic capital of Lagos after rising through the ranks under the mentor ship of Bola Tinubu.

He has been dubbed the father of Modern Lagos following his policies that improved the infrastructural wealth of lagos as well as marked improvement in the security as well as the overall economy.

He literally steered lagos in the direction we all prayed for.Infact his performance as Governor was the template on which All Progressive Alliance campaign on.

“Minister of Darkness” as he is called now following his failure to deliver improve power supply in the country but it is clear the astute Lawyer would fair better when absolute power is left in his charge.

He has proven to the whole world that with the right policies you could transform anywhere with the magic he did with Lagos.

He may be rude and arrogant with his word but this man clearly knows what it means to run a government that works.



7. Peter Obi


Peter Obi, a former governor of anambra state and a retired banker who was the youngest Chairman of Fidelity bank PLC.

Eventhough his time in power was punctuated by unlawful impeachments as well as stolen mandate, he often sought redress in the court of law and he always got justice.

Peter Obi is a fighter and leader at heart, he chose not to give up his mandate even when it seemed completly lost.

He laid the foundation for modern anambra state with his conservative economic spending during which he reduced the cost of governance andhe increased governement savings.He handed over power to Willie Obiano without owing a single dime.

He is a stategist, an intellectual and economist.

He is definitely one of the best minds, if not the best, from Igbo land


8. Bukola Saraki



Senator Bukola Saraki is the current serving Senate president of the Federal republic of Nigeria.The ever ambitious medical Doctor steered the affairs of his home state, Kwara for 8 years.

While he was governor, he oversaw a not so impressive government eventhough he improved infrastructure.

Under Saraki, Kwara became the first state to complete the Nigeria Independent Power Project.

He also improved the rural electrification to 90% which is the national highest at the time.

He has the capacity to decide where the 2019 election swings depending on where his allegiance lies.
He was recently embroiled in a trial over his false asset declaration but he has since cleared his name.

9. Nasir El- Rufai



Nasir Ahmad El-Rufai, the former minister of Federal Capital Territory and current serving Governor of Kaduna state.

In his inaugural address, he announced that he and his deputy were taking a pay cut and donating 50 percent of their salaries and allowances pending an improvement in the state’s fiscal situation.
On 6 August 2015, El-Rufai in one of his first acts as governor announced that Kaduna State will adopt the Treasury Single Account policy by 1 September of the same year

Mallam El-Rufai has been describes as the “Builder of Abuja” following his strict policies that redirected the infrastructural landscape of Abuja

El-Rufai may be arrogant but he definitely informed about the nitty-gritty of government.Eventhough his loyalty to the present government betrays his morality, his track record is nothing short of impressive.

If the incumbent president changes his mind ab out 2019, El-Rufai might got his nod.



10.Atiku Abubakar



Atiku Abubakar, GCON, the former vice President of Nigeria is key contender at the 2019 polls.

The retired custom officer, Businessman, real estate expert would definitely be a force in the coming election.

Although he has a ‘corrupt’ reputation none has been proven by the court of law and he currently not under any investigation.

His misery began when he single-handedly trancated the bid for third term, which in itself is heroic but Nigerians could not careless.

He has gradually endeared himself to the youth as he is seen frequently defending the youths, most recently when President Buhari called Nigerian Youth lazy.

Eventhough he is generally not favoured, the power brokers of the country might rebrand, repackage him to suit their plans come 2019
Comment below who you think could win next year….

Source:https://afonjaman.com/ten-viable-presidential-candidates-for-2019-polls/

In Nigeria, its the third year of a constitutional four-year term which only means the next election is just around the bend.
Calculations have begun, permutations are emerging on Who the next president would be.

Politicians already forming allies both with the masses and other political bigwigs.

Thanks to APC, Nigerians have had to endure the harsh realities of voting based on religion, tribe or even utter desperation.

President Buhari rode in on the goodwill of the people!

The masses and the elite alike wanted him, they saw him as the last ray of hope to clean the mess of the old generation….

Little did they know they were totally wrong, at least to date!

The abysmal government led by the retired military general has moved from blaming the past government incessantly to denying political

promises , and then blaming ‘Monkey’ and ‘Snake’ for sudden disappearances of money.

When we thought we had seen it all, they released the names of alleged looters who have neither being charged to court nor facing criminal prosecution.

Not only have they failed to point a single clear-cut economic policy, they have made bogus claims about economic achievement while labelling anyone that dares to challenge them an opposition.

As it stands, the economy is on a stand still.

What better time to declare intention to run for second term?!

President Buhari declared his shocking interest in a second stint in Aso rock much to the surprise of Nigerians home and abroad.He then proceeded to the Uk for a “medical check up” leaving us all to ‘decimate’ each other online on who the right choice should be in 2019 polls.

I will state here categorically that i championed President Buhari’s first term bid and i supported him.But looking at the deplorable state of the economy, disunity in APC among others, the President might have to steal the mandate to stay in power.

Here are reason why Buhari may Never return:


#1 Failure To Rescue all Chibok Girls
This is definitely a negative strike against a government that verbally pelted its predecessor for failure to admit chibok girls were kidnapped

APC-led government promised to deliver the girls but 3 years down the line, they have only managed to rescue a handfull of them thanks to

millions of dollars paid in ransome to Boko Haram Terrorist which has further enriched and strengthened the group.

Most recently they asked for a billion dollar loan to help fight a technically defeated group.



#2 Eternal Dislike For PMB In South-East and South-South
They say politics is a game of numbers, nothing could be closer to the truth.The President could boast of the large number of voters from the

North but he is also constitutionally required to win at least 25% of votes in at least two-third of all states.

His battered reputation on the other side of the Niger would always hunt him at the polls seeing the way the 2015 polls went and 2019 polls

could be



#3 Marginalization of South-west
President Buhari enjoyed the goodwill of the Southwest in 2015 election as they all massively voted for him except Ekiti state.

As far as politicians are concerned political appointments are the rewards of a political partnership many of which were denied the southwest.

Most of the service chiefs, IG of police, SSG to federation, leadership of the legislature went to the North against all previous permutations



#4 Disunity within APC
It is crystal clear that the ruling party is divided against itself.The acting chairman of the party, Oyegun has been denied another tenure,

to which many have expressed displeasure.

Long before the recent internal democratic fracas, the acclaimed leader of the party, Bola Tinubu whom many hailed to have been

responsible for most of the success at the polls has had his influence significantly diminished.

The former governor of Lagos was seen as a threat by many and sought to cut him to size….and they succeeded.

It is however laughable to see the President calling the ‘wounded’ Lion to spear head the reconciliation of the party.

It is almost impossible to see him throwing his weight behind the President like he did in 2015






#5 Criminal onslaught of Fulani Herdmen In North Central
The Northcentral who voted massively for President Buhari in 2015 has been the most affected by the rampaging ‘Fulani herdmen’.

Benue state and plateau state are both APC state which should have enjoyed the backing of the federal government both in might and sight

but they have both been neglected to be slaughted by “foreigners” according to the Governor of Kaduna state- Nasil El-Rufai

The government declared IPOB a terrorist organisation within a blink of an eye but admonishes Nigerians to live peaceful with herdsmen or

or else risk their wrath…..

Its pretty hard seeing the President winning those states



#6 Emergence of a Northern Candidate


With the current power play in Nigeria, the Presidency is still expected to come from the North, though unconstitutional.

The former vice President, Atiku Abubakar and current Senate President , Bukola Saraki are political heavyweights who might vy for

the highest office in 2019.

This would definitely reduce Buhari’s odds as the political spoils would be shared.

Eventhough Atiku is not a favoured candidate by most Nigerians, Senator Saraki is a huge Threat who is looking to team up with Deputy

Senate President, Ekweremadu who is very popular in the South East and South south



#7 Lack of Tolerance for criticism
For a govt that rose to power on the back of a horse called Criticism, it is rather shocking why and how they would display such of a high

level of intolerance for criticism.

President Goodluck Jonathan was called all sort of name in the name of politics, then it was the right thing to do.

Now the President is infallible and must not be questioned.

IF you do, you are in the opposition.



#8 Threat Posed By COALITION FOR NIGERIA


Former President Olusegun Obasanjo may be ‘former’ but he still wields a lot of power in Nigeria’s sociopolitical terrain. President Goodluck

underrated him and he learnt it the hard way.

Having written series of open letters apart from private meets with President Buhari, Dr Obasanjo threw in the towel on PMB’s government.

He came up with the Coalition for Nigeria which he claims is not a political party but a platform to advocate for good governance.

Call it what you will, this organization is clearly not in support of PMB’s second term bid.

The group currently has over 3 million members



#9 Suspicious Kidnap of Dapchi girls
As in the recent Chibok school girls kidnapping, so too in the Dapchi kidnapping the Nigerian government took days to respond at all

Ibrahim Geidam, the governor of Yobe state, has complained about the withdrawal of army troops from Dapchi allegedly just hours before

the abduction, without informing either the local police or the state government in advance.

On 21st March, the Presidency announced that Boko Haram terrorists had returned 106 of the kidnapped children,

including 104 girls who went to school, one girl who did not and a boy….barely 30days after abduction(February 19, 2018)

Many have described this as an opportunity to justify the $1 billion loan request………….



#10 Sick President who ignored the Health Sector
President Buhari has been nursing an undisclosed ailment since the beginning of his tenure.He has made several trips to the United kingdom

including one that lasted more than a 100 days.

Recently he made another suspicious medical trip with no set day for his return.

Is it not surprising, someone who has had a fair share of health woes has not made a single move to improve the health sector?!

Most recently, the son of the president was involved in an accident but could not be treated in any government hospital, not even with the 1

billion allocated to Aso rock clinic annually.

If he pays little attention to the healthcare , that would directly benefit him, why are we surprised the economy is at a stand still?!




President Buhari was the choice of the people in 2015, however it hard to make a case for a second term following the recklessly abysmal second stint in power.

But what do i know?

Source:https://afonjaman.com/10-reasons-why-president-buhari-may-lose-in-2019-elections/

Moesha Boduong, a Ghanaian actress who recently features on CNN’s Sex and Love Around The World anchored by Christine Amanpour has been at the recieving end of criticism for remarks she made on the show.

The television series exploring just what the title suggests – how humans across the world navigate sex and love.



Boduong had discussed maintaining an affair with a married man who caters to her bills in exchange for sexual favours because of the “poor socioeconomic state” of Ghana

She has however apologised on instagram sharing a photo

"Dear gh this is Moesha. I have been humbled by all that is going on and I have also learnt a lot in the last few days since the CNN video came out. I have had a lot of time to think and reflect and I APOLOGIZE TO ALL, ESPECIALLY MY AFRICAN SISTERS. I pray u all find it in your hearts to forgive me. It was definitely not my intention to offend any of you. I respect all the hard working women of our beloved country and accept that some of my utterances were not a reflection of what happens in most homes. GOD works in mysterious ways and everything happens because he says so�� Thanks for the love, pieces of advice and criticisms. GOD bless us all! The full version of the interview drops this weekend and I hope you can appreciate what I said in its entirety. Thank you. God bless you all!"

The photo below

Source:https://afonjaman.com/ghanaian-actress-moesha-boduong-finally-apologies-for-distasteful-remarks-she-made-about-ghana-on-cnn/

Lolz...e no dey burst like dat oh

northvietnam:
yes na e fit burst wen chasing criminals

A 32 yr old woman who is only known as Chantal had initially applied to join the Police force in Berlin back in 2012 but was denied. Eventhough she paid all the necessary test needed for enrolment, she was denied for a reason she found not only amusing but unfair and debatable.

The german police force denied her because she had a boob job 2 years before her application.

According to police regulations, officers are not allowed breast implants because of the associated health risks and the possibility of them ripping during service.

Refusing to give up her dream of being a cop, Chantal took the case to court in Gelsenkirchen, in western Germany.



She finally got justice from a lawsuit that lasted up 6 years which allows her to be enlisted as she previously hoped.She excited shared the news on Instagram saying

‘Who’s the girl in the jogging outfit? Now she’s the girl in the combat uniform.

‘I applied to join the Berlin police in 2012 and despite passing all the tests I was rejected.

‘I told them I’d had implants in 2012 and was turned down for that reason. But you know me: I’m not letting that go.

‘My lawyer and I went to court to prove to the Berlin authorities that I was fit for service even with my boobs.’

After reading a report from the University of Bonn which showed that there was no substantial risk to the woman’s health, the judge ordered the police to review their regulations

Source:https://afonjaman.com/young-woman-blocked-from-police-force-because-of-fake-boobs-poses-risk/

No be beans bros! A programme that hosted global political and financial powers

lestat:
No one.cares

It is no longer news that Africa’s richest man Aliko Dangote gave out his daughter, Fatima Dangote to Captain Jamil Abubakar, the Son of a former Inspector General of Police, Mohammed Abubakar.

It lived up to be a rendevouz for the cream de la cream of the society with attendances from Microsoft founder, Bill gates, Vice President Yemi Osinbajo, Emir of Kano Sanusi lamido Sanusi, Governors as well as other foreign dignitaries.

Alibaba Nigeria acclaimed King of comedy who was the Master of Ceremony bears his experience during the ceremony in an Instagram post:



The Challenges of Being an MC at a state function, grand wedding, cooperate gathering and international event can be daunting. After dealing with protocol, then comes the issues of timing and duration.But the very intricate matter of crowd control can be the most daunting, even for most composed of all experienced MCees.

The #Dangotes and #Abubakar wedding was all of those challenges and more.There seems to be a long journey to achieving the seeming decorum; the type state functions in the West are known for.

I have been an MC 27 yrs of my 30yrs in entertainment.And learnt the hard way from @Bisiolatilo, #IkennaNdagobo, #RalphOkpara, #PatricDoyle, @IraborSoni and the other greats.



The truth is, being a comedian would give you the weaponry to mop up boredom but not enough to steer the programme at decorum defying guests.


The Job of an MC can be tasking at such events.How do you control VVVIP attention seekers who get high on photo opportunites?What do you say to make such a person who believes standing right in front of the table that has the Vice President, Senate President, 3 Visiting Presidents, First Lady, 2 Former Nigerian Presidents, 2 Former Vice Presidents, Emir of Kano…is totally unacceptable?

Where do you start from in making attention mongers know that carrying on a conversation right in front of a stage, or around the Premium Presidential table, while blocking the view of all other guests and Obstructing the line of sight of cameramen is a no no?

And the MC begged, repeated some announcements, SEVERALLY…Yet, as some people move away, new at’s of attention seekers position themselves again.The security aides are even worse.Who is coming into a hall with such a high profile guests to come and harm their principal Officers.These aides will stand like CRonaldo is taking a goal-bound free-kick.Thereby blocking everyone.

I have tolerated these people shaaaaa. I could not hold back at the #DangoteAbubakar wedding reception.What nonsense.Those who even have aides were not as rich as @BillGates.Can you imagine if Bill were to have security, going by Bank balance, no one would have caught Glimpse of him….

Source: https://afonjaman.com/how-i-dealt-with-decorum-defying-guests-at-dangote-abubakar-wedding-as-mc-ali-baba/

It takes only a man of integrity to admit

IkpuNnegiEwu44:
Ali baba is tired of change too? Una just dey come out gradually from una cowardly shells. Ndi ara! No be change una want?

Nigerian King of Comedy Atunyota Alleluya Akpobome popularly called Alibaba penned down a thought-provoking instagram post about electioneering, voting, participation in politics among other issues.



In the Instagram post he also took a swipe at people who blames others for voting a failed government but would never participate in any elections themselves.

The instagram post was hidden under a Video of a Woman preacher who urged people to actively participate in politics

See full instagram post below:

PMB is not fit for the post.Gej was terrible.OBJ should shut up….but we do not take part in electioneering. we do not even have voters card.To join a party is a no no.To support or campaign for anyone is a taboo.But we are ready tag anyone that does not do weel.I campaigned for OBJ…I campaigned for GEj….I campaigned for PMB….and if the next election comes i will campaign for who i want to be there, based on what i want.
Sadly, like a lady had said, we do not participate in party politics, so when it is time to vote, the die is cast.And na die we dey.Lets not let that happen again.Help to shape opinion.Create awareness.

He also wrote:



Inform to influence choices.Educate the people you can reach.Let us galvanize our friends and family.Don’t be cowed.Don’t sweep things under the carpet.And don’t go under any umbrella that will not cover you when the rains reign.Consider what you want Nigeria to become.Don’t listen to all those clowns who who say, didn’t you vote for this person or that person.Listen.One of the people who accused me of voting for PMB and as such should not talk is divorced twice.Just as you expected the best before saying I DO, I did.And even before OBJ wrote a letter, the handwriting was on the wall.You don’t need a man of letters to be informed, just think of the later life of your children…then do the needful.Be involved in this politics.Get you PVC.You can not win a lottery you didn’t buy a ticket for.Period.What do i know sef? Shebi ia just a Comedian?

Source:https://afonjaman.com/pmb-is-not-fit-gej-was-terrible-obj-should-shut-up-ali-baba-opines/

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I remember a time when MouthAction was thought to be edgy or even a taboo.In fact many still find it repulsive and some religious folks have described it as sinful.



However studies show that the practice has significantly spiked in recent times.In America, Almost half of teens and almost 90% of adults aged 25-44 have ever had MouthAction with someone of the opposite sex, according to a CDC survey done between 2006 and 2008.

The art of sex, sexuality has undergone tremendous changes over the years.The cultural perception and the practice varies from culture to culture.

However, with globalization the thick line separating our views has been significantly thinned or even broken apart.

MouthAction is not a new sexual practice, infact it is featured in the oldest sex book in recorded history- KAMASUTRA.

As satisfying and pleasurable it is, it definitely comes with some peculiar risks.

Here are the disease that could be so acquired:

#1 MouthAction Is Linked To Throat Cancer
Cancer? Yes you read it right, says American Cancer Society

Well, it not the MouthAction that causes the cancer per se but a Virus transmitted via sex including MouthAction – Human Papilloma Virus.

Its not all individual with the virus that develops the cancer but advanced DNA testing has demonstrated the presence of it DNA is some cancers of the throat.

So if you must indulge, make sure your partner is clean

#2 Human Papilloma Virus(HPV)
Human papillomavirus (HPV) causes different types of warts on various parts of the body, including

genitals, hands, face, etc. Over a hundred types of HPV strains have been identified, out of which, about

40 strains cause genital warts. Certain strains of HPV can lead to cervical and anal cancers as well.

#3 Syphilis
This disease is less likely to spread through MouthAction. However, cases have been reported wherein the

disease was spread by kissing an affected person with active lesions

#4 Herpes
There are two types : Herpes Simplex Type I & II

Type I affect mainly oral infections while Type II causes Genital infection but there could be cross infection.

It causes painful lesions and inflamed vesicles in the genitals, mouth, hands, and fingers, that resemble

cold sores.

#5 Viral Hepatitis
Hepatitis Viruses are a group of viruses that primarily affects the Liver.They include Hepatits A, B, C and others but the only sexually transmitted is HEPATITS B.

It has been described to be 10 times more infectious than HIV infection.

It is present in most body secretions including SALIVA which makes it transmissible via MouthAction.

#6 Chlamydia
also referred to as “silent disease“, as it has mild, or no major symptoms. However, if left untreated, it can

cause irreversible damage to the female reproductive system, causing infertility.

#7 Gonorrhea
Gonorrhea is caused by a bacterium called, Neisseria gonorrhoea, and it affects both males and females.

This disease not only infects the genitals, but also other body parts like the eyes, throat, joints, etc.

READ MORE:https://afonjaman.com/seven-diseaes-acquired-via-oral-sex/

In the spirit of the season, instagram celebrity and flamboyant psychologist compiles a list of contradictions plaguing the social culture and norm of most relationships.



See them below

1.LADIES love a man who looks and acts like a “yoruba-demon” but takes a risk with him and expects him to have the heart of an Angel.



2.MEN criticise ladies who ask them for money, calls them Hungry/Destiny Chop chop/Materialistic but when they meet an independent lady who has her own money, their Ego is threatened



3.LADIES expects a man to pay everything and all dates without offering once to pay for anything (cab, nepa bill, makeup, shoe, clothes) yet expects a man to respect them 100%



4.A MAN insults a lady and calls her a hoe/Olosho yet leaves his wife at home who’s not a hoe to spend heavy money and dates with the so-called hoes and Oloshos



5.A LOT of women unhappy in their marriage treat their single friends like they are lacking purpose in life yet they’re sad in their homes and wish they were single and had chance for a fresh start…..

Source:https://afonjaman.com/the-irony-of-life-by-joromofin/

Every healthy woman gets to ovulate at least 300 times in her lifetime, thanks to about 300,000 eggs present in the ovaries at puberty.



So for 300 months a woman releases a viable egg ready to be fertilised by a viable sperm cell.

The process by which this occurs is called the Ovarian cycle.

Now let’s go through common concerns and questions people have about ovulation…..



What is the Difference between Menstrual Cycle and Ovarian Cycle?

Menstrual cycle is the cyclical maturation and shedding of the lining of the womb
Ovarian cycle is the cyclical maturation and release of the egg
Menstrual cycle occurs in the Uterus
Ovarian cycle occurs in the ovaries
However both cycles occur simultaneously



Is it Possible to Ovulate while Menstruating?

This is physiologically impossible!
In a healthy woman, ovulation occurs two weeks before the onset of menstruation.



Is Ovulation associated with Pain?

This may be associated with slight lower abdominal pain.This is due to the irritation of the lining of the abdominal cavity by the secretions from the ovary.



Is it Possible to Release to Two Eggs at once?

In a healthy woman, every month about 20 to 30 eggs are released but only one(The Dominant Egg) reaches maturity.

However, in sometimes more than one reaches maturity –This is the Physiological Basis of Non-Identical Twinning



What Are the Physical Signs of Ovulation?

The symptoms and signs of ovulation vary from woman to woman as well as its timing.While some women have a clock-like specific pattern of ovulation, others have a fairly variable pattern.

Here are some physical signs of ovulation(Though not Accurate, but suggestive)

Egg-white Vaginal discharge from the Cervix
Rise in Basal body temperature
Light spotting
Slight Lower abdominal pain
Breast tenderness
Abdominal bloating
Increased sex drive
Heightened sense of smell, taste or vision(This is quite fascinating)


How Long does an Egg remain viable?

A typical egg(Oocyte) is viable for only 36 hours.

So a woman is only fertile for one and a half days every month…..Amazing!



How Do i accurate calculate my ovulation?

This can only be calculated in a woman with a fairly regular menstrual cycle.

Menstrual cycle varies from 21 to 35 days, averagely 28 days.

As a rule , ovulation occurs 14 days(2 weeks) BEFORE the first day of Menses.

For example, Onset of Menses – Day 1
ovulation – Day 14
End of Cycle – Day 28

You could use this formula

Day of Ovulation = Beginning of Menstruation Plus “X”, where

X= Number of days in a Cycle minus 14

Please note that the calculated “Day of ovulation” could 2 days earlier or later



Are Ovulation-Inducing Drugs safe?

They are safe when used under expert medical supervision and when they are medically indicated or necessary.



Can i Use Ovulation-Inducing Drug if i Want to have Twins?

This should be done under a Doctor’s(Gynaecologist) supervision.

It however worthy of note that you could have more than Twins, you could end up with Sextuplets



Is Failure to Ovulate A sign of Disease?

This is most definitely the case except in

prepubertal children
Postmenopausal
Contraception(Some forms)
Is it Possible To Ovulate while Pregnant?

This has happened in isolated cases though very rare.But it is very possible….

Source:https://afonjaman.com/frequently-asked-questions-about-ovulation/

Menstruation is a physiological process characterised by cyclical/monthly shedding of the lining of the Womb.This is a physiological sign of sexual maturity and it's absolutely necessary for natural conception.



However this may sometimes come with pain which is called Menstrual pain or Menstrual cramp or Dysmenorrhea.The pain is usually located in the lower parts of the abdomen or the pelvic region

This pain ranges from mild to moderate or even severe pain, leaving several women dreading the arrival of their menstrual periods.



Now let us go through common questions and misconceptions people have about menstrual pain...

s It Natural to experience Menstrual pain?

Most women experience certain degree of abdominal discomfort during their periods.This usually coincides with the onset of Menses and usually last for 3 days.However some women experience no pains at all.



Is it True That Regular Sex Reduces Menstrual Pain?

I heard this superstition while growing up.This is usually peddled by teenage boys trying to convince their girlfriends go give up their virginity.However, there is no scientific evidence for this, so this is not true.If at all regular unprotected sex could increase the risk of infection and this could worsen menstrual pain.



Does Conception/Childbirth Reduce Menstrual pain?

In women that  experience moderate to severe menstrual pain, child-birth has been found to significantly reduce the severity of the pain.Although, it does not have effect in some individuals.
Who is Likely To Have Menstrual Pain?

People with the following risk factors have been found to experience pain

First period at an early age(Less than 11 years)
Overweight or Obese
Heavy Menses
Use of Cigarette
Use of Alcohol


What are the Preventable/Treatable Causes of Menstrual Pain?

The causes of Menstrual pain could be primary(unknown) or secondary(known).Common causes of Menstrual pain is

Pelvic Inflammatory disease - Infection in the upper genital tract
Intrauterine contraceptive devices
Endometriosis
Fibroids
Ovarian Cyst


What are the Other Symptoms Associated With Menstrual Cramp?

This typically presents with Lower abdominal pain or pelvic pain.Other associated symptoms may be;

Nausea/Vomiting
Diarrhea
Headaches
Irritability
Weakness
Faintness/fainting spell

At what point does Menstrual pain require Treatment?

Not all forms of menstrual pain requires or are amenable to treatment.However, it must be treated in the following conditions

If  associated with Painful sexual intercourse
Infertility
Moderate to Severe pain affecting normal daily activities
Recurrent Vaginal discharge or evidence of genital infections
History of Pelvic infections


Are there definitive Treatments?

As earlier stated, this depends largely on the causes.If the cause could be identified, it could definitively treated.This is always the case of secondary.

However, in primary menstrual pain the focus of treatment is pain control.
What are the Medications for Menstrual pains?

The mainstay of pain control are non-steroidal anti-inflammatory drugs which has a dual effect of reducing the production of Prostaglandins that produce the pain in the womb as well as their analgesics properties it furnishes.

Hormonal contraceptive pills have also been found to be effective in reducing pain as well.



Are There Home Remedies For Menstrual Pains?

A heating pad to the pelvic area
Massage to the back and lower abdomen
Regular, especially prior to the start of a period
Thiamine (100 mg daily)
Low-fat Vegetarian diet
Calcium (1,200 mg daily)


Source:https://afonjaman.com/frequently-asked-questions-about-menstrual-pain/

Lassa Fever belongs to a group of viral illnesses called “Viral hemorrhagic fever” because of their tendency to cause fever and bleeding from various parts of the body.This usually creates a diagnostic dilemma for Doctors and other health professionals.
Did i also mention that they(Hemorrhagic fever) are most curable even though some a vaccine preventable.
Now lets address commonly asked questions about Lassa fever…



Why are Pictures of Rat Usually associated with Lassa?

Rats or rodents are the host of the Virus, Lassa Virus.They arbor the virus without developing the disease or suffering any negative health complication.In them(rats), it multiplies and its spread via their faeces and urine when humans come in contact with those.
In other words, rats are not the cause of Lassa Fever themselves but they spread the Virus through their droppings among others.



What are the Major Ways of Contracting the Infection?

The common means of infection is contact with droppings of rodents including urine and faeces.This usually occurs when food items or cooking utensils are contaminated.Other means of infection is consumption of these rats as it’s the practise in some west african countries like Nigeria, Sierra Leone, Guinea and Ghana.
It could also be contracted by contact with body fluids(blood, Faeces) of infected individuals as well as contact with dead bodies of infected persons.

Inhalation of tiny particles of infectious material (aerosol) is believed to be the most significant means of exposure.
It is possible to acquire the infection through broken skin or mucous membranes that are directly exposed to infectious material



What are the Chances of Death after and Infection?

This largely depends on the timing of the disease.In most cases, the chances of death is 1% but it could rise to as high as 50% during epidemics.


Is It Possible to have a Latent Infection of be a Carrier?

Latency has yet to be scientifically proven and its not possible to be a carrier of the disease.In fact, only 20% of individuals infected come down with the disease, the remaining 80% never develop the illness.

How long Does it Take To come down with Symptoms after exposure?

The incubation period is between 6 and 21 days.

What are the peculiar symptoms?

This may cause fever, loss of appetite, tiredness, stooling, vomiting and bleeding from various body parts.Unfortunately, none of these symptoms are peculiar to Lassa.These may also be found in Malaria fever, Yellow fever, Ebola infection among others.

How can these be Effectively and definitively Prevented?

Control of the rodent population is impractical, so measures focus on keeping rodents out of homes and food supplies, encouraging effective personal hygiene, storing grain and other foodstuffs in rodent-proof containers, and disposing of garbage far from the home to help sustain clean households.
Avoid contact with body fluid of infected persons and direct contact with dead bodies.



Are there available Vaccines?

There are None yet!

Can it Be Sexually Transmitted?

It has be found in seminal fluid, even for as long as 3 months after infection.It has also been found in Vaginal secretions.

How is it Diagnosed?

This ALWAYS requires laboratory test but first, a high index of clinical suspicion since Malaria fever could present similarly.



I WANT TO USE THIS MEDIUM TO CONDOLE WITH FAMILIES OF HEALTH WORKERS THAT HAVE LOST THEIR LIVES TO THIS MENACE

Source:https://afonjaman.com/frequently-asked-questions-about-lassa-fever/

A group of Suspected herdsmen have allegedly attacked Orin community in Ekiti.
The attacked on the community took place in the early hours of Thursday killing a pregnant woman.
It was gathered that the eight months pregnant woman was a Tiv from Benue State.
According to a source, several other people sustained injuries in the attack.She has
reportedly been taken to Federal Teaching Hospital Ido-Ekiti where her remains lie.
It is still unclear what the circumstance that led to her death was but a source in ekiti
says her community Orin was invaded by this hoodlums and she happen to be the only
mortality.
An indigene of the town who is a former Chairman of Ido/Osi Local Government, Prince Sanmi Olubummo, confirmed the attack. He disclosed that another victim of the attack was receiving treatment at a hospital.
Olubummo said policemen from Ido-Ekiti Divisional Headquarters visited the scene of the killing saying the situation was calm.
He said, “The incident happened inside the Orin Farm Settlement. Nobody knows what led to the crisis in the early hours of Thursday but our people said the Bororo herdsmen killed the pregnant woman.”
But the Regent and the Olorin-in-Council has said the referendum would on Saturday as slated to resolve controversies surrounding the royal stool.
A statement signed by Fasuyi, urged the ruling houses to make their representatives available to witness the referendum.
“The referendum is aimed at the community’s populace who are the stakeholders on the issue of who rules them to publicly express their candid opinions on the matter of who is entitled to rule over them.
“This referendum is in the interest of the whole Orin-Ekiti community,” the statement said

Read more:https://afonjaman.com/suspected-fulani-herdsmen-kill-pregnant-benue-woman-in-ekiti-state/

Harry Kane, 24, the sublime English forward is having the year of his career, which has seen him set, shatter and re-write old english football records.

The Tottenham forward chose 2017 christmas boxing day to break series of records in an outstanding masterclass against Southampton which saw him score a hat trick in a 5-2 thriller.

Before the match he was on level terms with English football legend, Alan Shearer with 36 goals as the most goals in a calendar year since 1995, which he now owns with 39 goals.

The sensational Spur is also the first player in the history of premier league to score 6 hat-tricks in a calendar year as well as the 6th player to score a hat-trick on boxing day premier league fixture.The last time was in 2012 when Gareth Bale scored a hat-trick.

More so he also outpaced Lionel messi’s 54 goals for the most goals in Europe with 56 goals in 2017 calendar year.

England's Harry Kane Writes His Name In Gold As He Shatters & Sets series of Records

English legend and former record holder, Alan Shearer took to twitter to congratulate his compatriot on his historic achievement saying

“You’ve had a magnificent 2017 @HKane. You deserve to hold the record of most

@premierleague goals in a calendar year.Well done and keep the good work.”

If 24-year-old Kane can maintain his current pace and avoid injury that record is well within his range. He has shown progress each season since scoring 3 Premier League goals in 2013/14. He hit 21 the following season then followed that with 25 goals and 29 goals in 2016/17.

Source:https://afonjaman.com/englands-harry-kane-writes-his-name-in-gold-as-he-shatters-sets-records/

It has been a long held view that women should urinate before sexual intercourse for several unfounded reasons. However a American urologist has a contrary opinion and he goes on to explain the medical rationale for such an advice.

Urologist David Kaufman explained the idea females should pee before intercourse is one of the biggest misconceptions he has to address with patients in his clinic.

He stresses that urinating after sex is important, but warns going to the bathroom beforehand is not advisable.



Why shouldn’t you wee before sex?

During intercourse, bacteria from the vagina can get pushed into the urethra.



Waiting to pee, and consequently having enough urine stored up to create a strong stream, increases the odds of pushing that bacteria back out.

Dr Kaufman said that holding on will ensure your bladder is full enough to produce a stream strong enough to help clear any bacteria in the urethra. Without any urine in your bladder, the bacteria can cause an infection.

If you don’t go to the toilet after sex, the bacteria can make its way into the bladder and develop into an infection.



Wowen are generally more susceptible to UTI because of their peculiar Anatomy.

Read more:https://afonjaman.com/doctor-warns-women-not-to-urinate-before-sex-see-why/

Everything in life has a time.Time to sleep, time to eat, time wake and even time to work and even time to have sex, yes sex.

Sexologist through years of rigorous research and studies have found out that the best time for married couples to have sex is the morning.

The natural questions would be why? There are several biological, social, psychological reasons

#Biological
1.The Level of stress hormone(cortisol) is least in the morning.Since sex is an intensely physical encounter, low levels of this hormone allows better sexual experience vis a viz huge, duration and pleasurability

2.The Basal Metabolic Rate is least in the morning.It could be assumed that the body has rested and recovered from the stress of the previous day.All the energy can be channeled into the sexual encounter creating better overall experience

3.Exercise Tolerance is Best in the morning.Sex itself is a form of physical activity, so when done in the morning, the experience is not only better but reduces the chance of early physical exhaustion

4.Blood pressure is Lower in the Morning.Sex has the tendency to increase the blood pressure briefly, no matter how small.This is particularly important in individual with heart disease or diagnosed high blood pressure.

5.It helps to Lose weight.

since sex is a form of exercise, all the extra calories accumulated from the meals of the previous day can be burnt off during early morning sex

6.It is Hygienic. Most couples will go on to have their birth after coitus which helps to reduce the chances of urogenital infections

#Social

1.It is not affected by the stress of the previous day.For many married couples, having sex after a busy day could so difficult and sometimes impossible especially for women.So

having sex firstly in the morning is the best way to navigate the impact of stress from the previous day
2.It creates a more predictable and stable sexual culture among couples

3.It is more acceptable to women.This particularly important in couples with children

#Psychological

1.It is more spontaneous.The woman does not feel coerced or forced

2.It helps the couple to bond better than sex at any other time of the day

3.It creates better mutual respect admiration because both couples are lease attractive at that time of the day

4.It helps to settles conflict that might have occurred before the night sleep



5.It helps to create a positive mental attitude for the day’s work i.e



Couples that have early morning sex are more like to have a productive day

Read more:https://afonjaman.com/fifteen-benefits-of-early-morning-sex/

There is has been a new wave of resurgence in the incidence of a parasitic infection with Zoonotic

potentials.The particularly vulnerable are individuals that keep dogs and cat as pets and even more, those

that love to cuddle these animals.

The Transmission requires close bodily contact with Dogs hosting the parasite.

Doctors believe the tapeworm is coming from cats and dogs, rather than the usual suspects which are coyotes and foxes

Here, Canadian veterinary professor Emily J Jenkins explains why there is an uptick and why the tapeworm is more dangerous in humans than animals

The tapeworm, Echinococcus multilocularis, is normally found in rodents and other wild animals, including coyotes and foxes, but can spill over into cats and dogs — and even humans though rarely.

Unlike in these animals where the parasite colonises the intestinal from where it could affect the animal, it usually colonises the LIVER in humans and from there spreads to other parts of the body like a Tumour.

If not detected early and treated(Surgical excision and antiparasitic drugs), it has a mortality rate of about 50-70% especially in immunocompromised individuals.

Read more:https://afonjaman.com/if-you-like-to-cuddle-dogs-you-might-have-this-disease/

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Many couples have asked questions about the details of a sexual encounter that increases the chances of pregnancy.In the quest to answer this question, a study was carried out by using MRI scan to analyse couples while having sex, and the findings were amazing

First it important to note that this is only possible with penetrative vaginal sex, not with anal or MouthAction

The Two Best Sex Positions That Guarantees Pregnancy

Your chances of conception are maximised by deeper penetration, this is common sense since it brings the Penis closer to the cervix

Researchers used MRI scanners to analyse missionary and doggy style

They confirmed the tip of the penis reaches the cervix in both of these positions

The rear entry(doggy) position reaches even deeper to the area at the back of the cervix

However, a doctor has advised women not to worry too much about positions

But he says gravity-defying ones discourage sperm from travelling upstream

He says it’s good advice to lay in bed for 10 to 15 minutes after intercourse
The Two Best Sex Positions That Guarantees Pregnancy

Your chances of conception are maximised by deeper penetration

Researchers used MRI scanners to analyse missionary and doggy style

They confirmed the tip of the penis reaches the cervix in both of these positions

The rear entry position reaches even deeper to the area at the back of the cervix

HoweverHowever, Dr James Goldfarb, director of the infertility service at the Cleveland Clinic in Cleveland, Ohio, said

” women not to worry too much about positions”

But he says gravity-defying ones discourage sperm from travelling upstream

He says it’s good advice to lay in bed for 10 to 15 minutes after intercourse

They also advice women not to go to the bathroom immediately after both

positions.Some have also advised raising the legs in the air but Dr Goldfarb thinks its



unnecessary but would not recommend jumping out of bed either but lying in bed

for some minutes as previously stated

Read more:https://afonjaman.com/the-two-best-sex-positions-that-guarantees-pregnancy/

In the early 2000s, Africa was taken by storm by a singing duo who happened to be blood bothers.We watched

them with delight and shook our bodies to the wave of their divers rhythm of music using their native Igbo

language, and pidgin language with artistic mastery, like we were yet to see.


Until they came, they had never been such amalgam of talent, skill and charisma.They remain the greatest singing duo(twins) Africa had seen.

They were PETER and PAUL OKOYE but they call themselves P SQUARE, a name that perfectly suits and describes all

they embodied.

They seem like two blood brothers that have become so much alike, they seem like one person.
For more than 10 years they dominated the African music scene releasing hit singles and bagging awards around the world.

“They were incredibly successful, they achieved so much more than they asked for.”
PETER was the FACE of the Group, PAUL was the VOICE of the group while older bother, JUDE was the SUPPORT.

It all went fine until peter got tired of just being the face, and Paul got tired of just being the voice.

Screenshot-725-300x188 OPINION: The Anatomy Of P-SQUARE's Break Up

Paul wrote all the songs, but Peter took all the attraction.Its not surprising why Peter is the more charismatic and likeable of the group.

Paul “passively” pushed the narrative that Peter was just a dancer and nothing, but this got Peter all the more

uncomfortable and he sort expression in “Dance with Peter”, even this wont quench his longing for complete nomenclature of a musician.

This struggle for identity got worse when brother Jude took side with Paul, who he backed to be the “Brain of the group”.

Peter repeatedly refuted their claims saying they never took any of the songs he wrote……

All these weakened the bond that once tied the greatest contemporary African singing duo

PeterPsquare broke off to become ‘Mr P‘ while PaulPsquare remained as ‘Rudeboy‘.

Its safe to say Peter and Paul are to blame for the messy fall of the once beloved group…

Screenshot-725-300x188 OPINION: The Anatomy Of P-SQUARE's Break Up

Peter wanted to be Paul, Paul wanted to be Peter.

Paul wanted just as much or more attention than Peter since he sang ALL the songs while Peter wanted to be “Heard’ too.

A quick analysis of both their careers now shows one clear thing

PETER is trying to prove he can SING and so far he has made a statement, while PAUL is trying to prove he can be as CHARISMATIC and so far his ink is flowing well

But is it really worth it?

firstly their fan base has fallen drastically, if you doubt, check up their You Tube views

Secondly their beloved fans are fighting over them when they should just enjoy their craft

Thirdly, they can’t boast of endorsement deals like they used to

Fourthly, Their public image has been soiled seeing what they have said about themselves



So far they have both proven that they can both do well without each but its even clearer none of them will reach the FEAT Psquare reached

If they want to preserve their legacy, they should swallow their prides, crawl back to each other arms and delight the world like they once did….this time with much love, respect and mutual admiration.


More: https://afonjaman.com/2017/12/01/opinion-anatomy-p-squares-break/

For men who can’t keep their third legs in their pants, this might be good news.The british company has released a ‘smart condom’ that has the

potential of detecting sexually transmitted infections and also giving a report on sexual performance.

The device is called i.Con and has been described as “revolutionary wearable tech for the bedroom”.It has the capacity to send the result of the

smart phone of anyone brave enough to wear it.

The condom firm said its invention would help men see how they

‘stack up to other people from around the world.’

Adam Leverson, lead engineer for the i.Con Smart Condom, said:

“It’s here and it’s beautiful. We wanted the i.Con to look refined, non-intrusive and lightweight – the finished article is nothing short of any of those

things.

The company went further to say

Read more:https://afonjaman.com/2017/11/30/con-smart-condom-detects-sti-reports-sexual-performance/