Funminicrown:
My wife just graduated and wants to start her professional race and I'm supporting her on this.
But I'm not satisfied about the arrangement of names on her c.v because she wants to use the surname on her cert(her father's name) while I'm of the opinion she uses the name on her marriage cert(my name).
She opines that the name will contradict each other and that might slow down her race as the job market is saturated already, but I'm more concerned about how she's been addressed before, during and after the job hunting phase.
Please house, kindly suggest how her names should be arranged in a way that both end of the divide would be protected(professional and marital)


Mods, please help as this is urgent. She wants to start sending out her applications today but I've told her to wait till I'm back from my place of work today. So, i need to decide before 5pm today.
Thanks!

cionon:


Well, i made up my mind if he doesn't beg, then i ll leave. I was leaving when i was stopped by my neigbhour and she told she heard our argument and she asked me not to leave like that. That its just a young marriage. Our gate man is elderly and he told me to go back and stay put. I stil have the keys to my parents house and later i though about it and decided to stay.
My main concern is how to calm my husband and ask for forgivness because he hardly forgives

Siena:


You're comparing a mouth with a vagina. Besides, not every guy is a rug-muncher, myself included. Still, it's your choice. I see it as a disgusting practice. It's like sharing underwear, or needles. I don't know of any dentist who would encourage the sharing of a toothbrush.

As for research, some things I WILL research, some things the answers are obvious. I think YOU need to do some reading on the subject. Here are some links to start things off:

http://www.newvision.co.ug/new_vision/news/1323239/sharing-toothbrush-life-risk

http://oxyfresh.com/research/what-not-to-do-with-your-tooth-brush.asp

An extract:

No matter how close you are with your husband, boyfriend, or friend, never share your toothbrush. You can easily transfer germs and illnesses such as common cold, flu, or hepatitis through sharing. When storing several toothbrushes in one holder, make sure that the bristles are not touching each other to prevent the easy spreading of bacteria.

http://www.freysmiles.com/blog/view/is-it-ok-to-share-toothbrushes

[color=blue]Think of oral thrush, Hepatitis B/C. You're simply increasing the odds, which I find hard to comprehend. It's not like toothbrushes (which should be replaced every 3 months anyway) are expensive.[/color



Good for you, your oral hygien is your first priority. Well no one is encouraging the constant share Of toothbrush with others, plus op said his mum used it onces and he also used. I dont think op intends to cont using the brush. I made that reply for those who often endulge in MouthAction. They should not be talking Of oral hygeien.
So if your not in the group that do so, pls resist qouting me, My reply is not for you. Mr dentist

Siena:


It wouldn't hurt you you be civil.

As per the question, it's not a foolish question, it's pretty valid, and worth debating.

Siena:


It wouldn't hurt you you be civil.

As per the question, it's not a foolish question, it's pretty valid, and worth debating.

angiemartinez:

Yes 3 sections left, and she has lost her hair. If she wants the whole world to no d kind of sickness good for her. The way she is hear, no one will know the type of illness. To be frank, am fed up of her stay.

KissCODE:
Aforti

There is nothing i wont to for my father inlaw. Because he is going to be my “father“ inlaw not just another man in the street.

My Dad has 3 sons inlaw & the one who is a mobile police officer is the one my parents consider their best son inlaw. He is the poorest of all. But he is the one that knows some of the things we the children are strugling to find out from my father.
My dad doesent need his money, (i doubt if he has what he can give to my dad, but he takes good care of his children & wife). He is a superior officer yet he still goes closer to my dad than any other inlaw. He hears my father‘s breath. He is like my dad‘s first son. Even now he practically have a room in my father‘s house just like we his sons. All because of his closeness and service to my mom & dad. I wont be surprised (none of my parent‘s childrn) will be suprised if my dad dies and we see this guy‘s name in his will.
We all have even grown fonder of him. He is not from our state nor our region buy his down to earth“ness“ has broken all of us. We have no option than to love him as elder brother. He serves in another state far from where we live but he still comes around anytime he is on leave.
My other inlaws are & theirs wives are beginning to get jelous because of how this guys not only our company but also our comfort.

SANDOSKI:
I'll wash it,... I'll ask her if there is still more. If I can wash for my mum then there is no big deal washing for her. My guys mum has to be my mum too........ I won't fall sick or my makeup won't clean if I do the washing.
There is nothing to form for........._______

My dream is to have a nice mother inlaw(to be), someone dat is down to earth, dat treat you just like her own daughter {remember that a daughter can anything for her mum just to make her happy }

KissCODE:

If you are yet single; i pray you get married before Dec 31st 2016... Amen.
But washing someone‘s clothe does not make one a maid. Remember that in Africa & Nigeria, marriage is not between a man & a woman but between two families.

OP, if your reason for bringing the girl to my mom is for her aproval then i will encourage her to wash the clothes with smile & happiness. After all as a would be mother-inlaw, she could have ordinarily asked to help her wash clothes, do the dishes and other house work.

So for me i will encourage my woman to wash the clothes and even do more.
I see nothing wrong in it.

RuuDie:


You don't have an argument... from HYPNOSIS and ABDUCTION you have jumped to FAMILY VALUE and RESPECT. So now, to marry, a man should go and make a POLICE REPORT or receive POLICE PERMISSION!? Guy, when you calm down later... try read all this things when you type here!

texazzpete:


I cannot believe an educated person is the one who typed this drivel.

My word, for someone who talks about honoring parents, you sure wasted the money invested in your education by your folks.

What a disgrace. You may have lost the ability to feel shame, but you'll be gratified to know I feel deeply ashamed for you.

RuuDie:


In other words, stay indoors and do not step a foot outside because if you do, there is a chance you can get hit by a car. I see your reasoning, it is PERFECT!
By the way are you supposed to DETAIN and JAIL someone on SUSPICION of HYPNOSIS or after actually proving that they did it...? and who is supposed to be providing this PROOF - the man that is already locked up in JAIL... the parents/police Or the fact that the girl is the one out there trying to bring this to news and social media attention doesn't count!?

Abso-fvcking-lutely PERFECT, LOGICAL reasoning!!!

texazzpete:


Look at you, quoting Bible and talking about Love in a case when Parents used police to illegally detain an innocent man for nothing.

With all the nonsense you posted, one would think that parental consent prevents infidelity and violence.

99% of the broken marriages in Nigeria were done with the blessings of the parents and religious bodies.

EVILFOREST:

Increasing Erectile Dysfunction is as a result of failure on the part of the women to deliver edible and quality dishes to their families.

Most ladies can't even switch on a gas cooker.
Few who may succeed, can't even fry just an egg.
Yet they envy and crave for most NOLLYWOOD'S kitchen cooking cabinets.

They only enroll themselves through cathering abattoirs learning how to cook a mere RUBBER BAND a.k.a INDOMIE..

WHY WON'T MEN fall flaccid. .. ?

EVILFOREST:

Increasing Erectile Dysfunction is as a result of failure on the part of the women to deliver edible and quality dishes to their families.

Most ladies can't even switch on a gas cooker.
Few who may succeed, can't even fry just an egg.
Yet they envy and crave for most NOLLYWOOD'S kitchen cooking cabinets.

They only enroll themselves through cathering abattoirs learning how to cook a mere RUBBER BAND a.k.a INDOMIE..

WHY WON'T MEN fall flaccid. .. ?

baby124:

Honestly I am all for adults doing what they like. But we keep getting stories of women in court, footing all the bills why these same men are cheating constantly and spreading disease. If you look closely the woman's parents were against the marriage. Similar case I read on a blog. A woman abandoned her family, and tried to brush up this guy. The guy ended up poinsoning her and marrying another woman as second wife. She was weeping and lamenting at what she did to her family. If you want to go against your family all well and good, but the man better be worth it. For a woman's family to reject a man at her age, tells me something is off about the guy. But if she insists she can go on. I prefer if it is a guy's parents that object and he is the breadwinner than the other way around. Cause women always have more to lose in a bad relationship.

EfemenaXY:


You don't get it.

Your definitions of the "virtuous" man lean towards the antics of a frenzied, religious fanatic - many of whom view sex as a necessary evil for strictly procreation purposes, hence my comments likening him to a having an inflexible (a.k.a headmaster like) approach to sex on an even stricter timetable.

Is virtue the exclusive preserve of the religious??

EfemenaXY:
This virtuous man sef - sounds like he'll be terribly boring in bed.

Strictly timetabled, headmaster-like, missionary sex. Experimentation = Cardinal sin.