89% of marriages in the world would most definitely end in separation or divorce, there is nothing like forever. You see people who were married for over 40 yrs still one day end up separating due to differences they could not resolve after living together for 40whole yrs You see the primary purpose of man is not marriage, if you remember God created man long before he realised all the animals were not alone let man also have his kind. So God decided to create another male in a female body bcoz the master never repeats his work, thats the originality of creation. So op 15yrs is not too long to leave if you want to. Have you ever wondered why God gave you free will? So you can chose right from wrong, good and bad. You came alone on this earth and you will go back alone, not with your husband not even your beloved children. If you think I am wrong, have you ever seen a situation where a mother or father or child died and any of them volunteer to be berried with them?. Atlas you will be alone, chose your happiness now before you live your entire life pleasing your husband, children and society. Look for a greater purpose in life than marriage please. Marriage is part of life don't make life part of marriage. If this marriage is bringing the worse out of you it's time to let go before you feed the demons in you.

Op. I think it's coz of your body odour, they are not telling you the truth. It happened to a friend and when he finally realized something about his is putting off the girls and worked on it. It took him just two days to get lady. I think you need to reexamine yourself, your pocket and your attitude. Not insult just advice. Thank me later

SirShymexx:
Not trying to be sexist or a male chauvinist pig, but I still don't understand how a chic can single and happy. Unlike guys who can easily play around with willing chics freely while single - girls don't have that luxury. Else they'll be tagged "who.res" based on societal standards. And for guys, apart from missing dedicated chic who will be able to cook for you and look after you often, single life is always fun and less tasking - with the luxury of having ya free space to breathe often. However, chics always covet being around someone and being cuddled, hence single chics are always desperate when you show them some dedication.

I have had this discussion with a few chics. And I believe chics talking about being single and happy is an oxymoron. Most of these "single" and "happy" chics always have a chic on the side beating that arse/pum to smithereens, with no strings attached. So as a woman, you can't be "single" and "happy" when you're some guy's intimacy gadget.

That's just my humble opinion.

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So apart from turning this post into bashing women you have nothing to say about your singleness. Post said say something about you are single and Happy. Not how someone else is not happy being single. I wonder what makes you feel the only thing that brings happiness to a woman's life is a man, yet some are married and unhappy..let me inform you now that you are ignorantly wrong. Money gives everyone happiness more than a partner. Most ppl are happy without a man or woman, but no one I repeat no one is happy without money. So your see Mr a man is just a toy to a woman with money bcoz she derives pleasure in her wealth more than one man that will bring nothing but headaches at d long run. If you like don't go and make money and think one woman will be fulfilled by u in her life.

Sex is overrated, believe me you will regret allowing another person explore your body. Stick to masturbation, it's the most safest and shame free sex you will ever get. Plus you get to know yourself better. Better still think of money how to hustle and make money on your own. The kind of satisfaction I get when I see alert is more pleasurable and last longer than orgasm that last just few minutes..sex is overrated I tell you

This is what happens when a man turns sex to food

Their is no such thing as love between ppl. What you call love is just lust, infatuation. Trust is what keeps relationship at dats all. The only love you have btw humans is the unconditional love of a mother or father to a child. Period. Humans are too self centered to exhibit this kind of love to another human. So when you think of any relationship think trust even if that relationship is mere. Love is a mirage

All animals are polygamous in nature. Humans are social animals, the fact that you keep looking away from what you have it's not a because your genes of polygamy it's an acquired character. It's called selfishness....and believe me selfishness is a destructive disease. You might think you are well but by the time it eats deep in you you will end up losing more than gaining

What he did was noble, but the question is would he have done same if he saw the man texting another lady? Would he have seen him as a fake person?. The truth is no person runs away from wia they are being pampered. If the man was attending to his wife well. Giving her enough attention she won't have that vacuum to be filed by another man. Men learn please when your woman cheats it's not like when men cheat just for fun. Women cheat mostly cos they feel a certain level of emptiness, which they most have told you in bone way or the other but you never take it seriously, you either see it as nagging, women don't just cheat.

Humans are so so unapreciative. Feed them clothe them give the a roof to lay their head they will still find a way to stab you. You lived with this woman for a year sleeping in her house eating her food. Nysc is over she also helped you get a job and now suddenly she is a pain in the ass you need space. Aunty with wahala you said. Typical character of ingrates. And you even have the audacity to come to niara land to talk about her. Mr man the list hotel you will find in Abuja a night is 5K multiply it by 350days + 350days of 500naira let's say that is the list of her food you have eat. If you think running away now that you can aleast help buy Maggi in the house even for a little while while b4 leaving is a good way to pay her back then go. May God help your journey

Shame on Africa. This act can only happen in Africa where people will stand and watch one human killing another and they next day they will trip into different place of worship pretending to know God. Shame of africa. This is why we are still backwards in the world.

the biggest problem of nigerians is hypocracry. am man hold his wives body part and you all are ranting end time. you preferr him to slap her in public i guess. and who is the public by the way. they are suppose to learn and see how to show case your wife not ashamed of anyone especially side chicks. make una go sleep abeg, you have nothing to sniff about

It's so funny how Nigerian men spend so much time trying to perfect the art of having sex and getting a girl. I mean did God create you guys just for sex or is there no other creative center working in your brains?. The world is moving fast people are making world class difference the African man is busy worshipping his stick. Have you ever wondered why God kept it inbetween your legs and not on your foreheads? Because your supposed to worship you brains not your prick. Gosh this episode of junk of a trend could actually make a difference a child's live if the op could use his brain in organizing conference to educate children and not how you will crown your dig. Please Nigerian men your dig is not the most important organ in your body. Please and please crown your brains instead of your one muscle inbtw your legs. Gosh