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Mr~Cork:
and by the way, today is yo lucky day, I am single!

mtchweeee, u re not my type

Mr~Cork:
afribeauty, madam u look fat anyways, Come back and talk to me when you get to size 2, cheers!

u suck,cro cok. I am not interested in talking 2u,except to put u whre u belong.

Mr~Cork:
people still love big girls in 2010?

speak 4 urself, if u dont like big girls,does it mean nobody does. 2010 or not big girls re stil admired. One man's meat is anoda man's poison dey say. In asmuch as u re not d ugly,smelly,dirty,yokosunah big u av ur stand anyday anytime. Get a life cro-cro-crak cork

@poster it might look or sound funny,but if u re strong enough u ll get thre.

@poster faith is a gud tin,its not easy but it works wonder. Keep keeping d faith alive,dont pray 4 just a woman to stand at d alter o! Pray 4 a mother and a true friend and lover.

@seun and xandy84 thanks.

Y is it dat men treat single mothers like a forbidden fruits? Y re dey being stigmatized? Y ll a guy fall inlove wit a woman but reject her because of her s/parent status? Y are s/parent not often given a 2nd chance to love and life? Y do single fathers get a 2nd chance at love than d singlemothers? Is it rite for a woman to hide her true single parent status 4rm a guy at d beginning of their relatnshp? Guys: can u or cannot marry a single mother,even wit a clean past? Y d u tink dey re often being rejected,was it because of d child,was it because of d fear of d financial aspect? Why d u tink single mothers get rejected,stigmatized,denied d rite to love or abuse. Is dat once a woman has a child is automatically a badnews. Pls share ur views,answers,personal opinion and experience. Note: I am a single mother. Thanks.

REALITY101:
5 already but 1 chosen more 2 to go. Thanks

Nice work

I was d only virgin among my frnds,i was 20yrs,got tired of bein laffd at,i got disvirgin a mnth afta my 20th buffday and i got pregnant instanta. 1st sex 1st son,didnt knw i was pregnant until my 4mnth. Then i regret keeping d foetus,nw afta 10years ,i av no iota of regret,am a proud mama. Glad i didnt opt 4 abortion,though i paid 4it. Pls as dey say,if u re stil fortunate to b a virgin,use ur brain not ur body.

@mr cork a leopard neva changes its skin u ll neva change. U deserve no respect,but i ll leave u whre u belong,u know whre,i dont av 2tel u. But on 2nd tot,u belong in an asyllum.i tot u like peace,but u b kolomental,i dont av to give u d pleasure of setting me off, Catch ya.

@mr.cork *door reopens and afribeauty steps in* sory bro u reap wot u sow,u get wot u give. Most women on nairaland re respectable damsels in their own real word,we all re here 4fun and dat is wot we shuld get,i av read alot of thread and i must say most re quite uncall 4,pls no mata wot our differences,our upbringn,our individuality,let us love and respect ourselves. To my singles in d house,jokes can become reality,shit can happen togeda we can giv birth to d 1st eva nairaland real marriage not by living wit d mentality of blak women re dis or dat. U ll b amazed at wot one love and togethernes can bring. D married ones in d house please b ur broda's keeper. @mr cock am realy sory,but u shuldnt av bein like village woman,u indirectly cal me an illiterate,its uncal 4.

@mr cork dat makes d 2 of us dont u tink. If u re a real man y aint u fix? Y re u searchn 4 punny or woteva u re searchn 4. U want my candid advice huh! Go bak to ur village and get a dummy,then u ll b a 1quatre of real because u atleast get ur self a samtin samtin,she ll knw ow to manage u and ur talkn virus by keepn quiet even when u ask her to leak ur poo. Am out of here *door opens and gbahs! she slams d door on corks face**

@mr cork take a bus to ojuelegba,turn left and trekk down to tejuosho market take a bike to yaba apa osi,thre u ll get people wit verbal virus error like u,dey re always wit word error like u i assure u,u re compatible cos dat matas alot. If u love urself engrave afribeauty in ur brain and next u cros me or try to be a star tru me i ll direct my Ak49 at ur brain 4nt tinkin b4 ur type, cappish?

@mr cork afta u my foot, u got me by surprise,because i was just doin my own big T jeje b4 u rudely attak me and incase u av not notice u just earn d 1st position on my nl point and kil wit words- Ak49 asap!

@mr cork and u re pleading to be respect. Get a life bro dont start ur verbal attack wit m,because when people re earnin respect u whre in d sickbay,so i c now dat u dont deserve one. Ow on earth av i insult u by wondaful pepples dat was type deliberatly u slowpoke.wot a "miserable cork"

@ostrology am kool and u? @poster 4real,virginity is great,its a pride of a woman. I believe evrywoman born of woman has it at one time,bt then no mata ow smart we re,we got to loose it somday,to a man,either to ur husband,boyfrnd,secretlova,d guy next door,a gigolo,1st love etc we stil wont want to die a virgin except 4 d nuns. So virgin or not,we re who we are. some men like virgin some dont,some dont care abt ur virginity,its who u re dey want. All we need to do is define our feminity.

W-a-nda-fuu-ll pepplesss

@poster yea rite try to loosen up a bit,girls like guys dat make dem laff,tel her funny tins,tel her she is beauty,u love her skin. Find out wot she likes to talk,even if it is intimacy she likes,play along make her miss u b4 ur next date. Shikenaa!

@kpakororo watsup?

Lol,cant stop yaffin.

@coolabbie u re definitely rite,4 beta or 4worse

Give men bush,dey ll stil ask 4 bush-sheat. dey always cheat,their nature dey say.

vviirgggiin! Hmmn,afta 1child can i stil claim a virgin? I culd. @mrs eve can u borrow me a superglue or effostik,i want to glue my hole. Wake up bro,a virgin is like gold and diamond,dey aint easy to find not even among teenager.

@poster no ow u take gbadun koboko na pikin go stil end am,so pikin sweet wel wel past jangulofa epo moto. If u like sex past ur life,thre ll b a time u ll get woried,anxiety steps in and then u loose interest in d so cal sex tin if in all d whole lifetime sex tin u cant produce a child 4rm it

@beync no be evry nigerian girl be liability. No be all dey beg for dis and dat,infact most stil clothes and fed some of u so cal nigerian men b4 u finally get a gud job and start acting "i av arrived" movie scene. Nigerian women sabi work 4love na nigerian men dey show us sense,nw we don wise up,una dey complain. We are nt lazy,stupid,greedy or heartless. We aint just working 4 love no more,now we live by love,so naija men,get use to it. Women dnt b lazy,dnt b a liability,dnt be selfish bt b wise,be bold,be calculative,be feminine,be a feminist.

av bein rejected,though painful, bt stil find d courage,learnt 4rm it and i moved on. Its one of those tins we face 4bein human,no mata ow gud or bad,ow beautiful or ugly we re,we tend to face rejection 1 way or anoda

Taking a child 4rm a tru moda is not easy all because u re settling down. Ow d u tink she feels,afta all dis while, d time she slept or nt,d time she was awake all nite,y didnt u take d girl when she is 6mnth,nw dat d worst period of bein a nursing moda is ova u nw want d child. Dat child is her best friend,her companion,as she might find it difficult to find a real man to love her,u and i knw bein a single moda is a stigma in our society,its easier 4a single fada to find a wife than d other way round. Am a single mother of a 10years old handsome guy and i knw ow it feels,to be rejectd,am not so lonely because my child is always around me,my only source of happiness is dat boy and nobody,i repeat nobody ll separate us,until he can decide 4 himself. Pls leave d child wit her moda,go marry ur wife atleast u av som1,d only tin she has is her baby. As she is it ll take God's intervention and tru love 4 her to find a man to accept her as she is,maybe then she ll give u d child,bt 4 now she wont,except praya.

@170 u neva disappoint me,since i don dey read ur sex,sex escapade. I bin dey 1onda if u knw b ghost,ow u go like sex past food,if u knw eat u go fit go 2round,nah! I tot thre is dis old saying dat says d way to a man's heart is thru his stomach but ur own nah d other way round. Sex is gud,4fun,pleasure,childbearing but food is 4 survival,gudhealth and woteva it is.

Pls,wot could be d lata reaction,to unstitch tear during child delivery. I av teer of 2to3stitch maybe,i refused to be stitch because i was scare,dat was 7years bak,now i was aving dis fear of wot might occur lata because of dat,it didnt affect my sexlife,but i felt open evrytime i want to clean up.wot can i do,is thre any lata reaction as a result of dat,though 4now am ok,is thre solution.