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When peace like a river, attended your way; when sorrows like sea billows row;
Whatever your lot God just want you to know,
It is well, , It is Well, , with your soul.

Because they feel like big girls being at shoprite.

ayomifull:
Great! I wish you well and remember P.US.H (pray until something happen), prayer works wonder. God bless your home.

Lol!

Na wa for WAEC, this na serious matter o!

Enweremchi - I have a God

Chizitere - God sent

Ifunanya - Love

Iruoma - Favour

@Ayo & Lucabrasi,
I got what you said, you both have your points.
Thanks for making out time to advice/encourage me. God will also take care of you and your families.

My husband and i are living peacefully now, and i don't pray for any more havoc.
I promise to chill out, but on the other hand, be on the look-out for the outcome of the business.
lol.

I wasn't nagging, neither was i getting in between two friends, it's just that he was over using my husband. My husband on the other hand, neglected his family for this his friend. So try and get what i mean.How i wish he'll even come in contact with this forum, i think that will let him know the extent of my concern.

The intending car business is not primarily for the sake of my husband. If the friend wouldn't be making money from it, I'm very sure he wouldn't have even thought of it in the first place. So stop castigating me unduly. He's my husband and i know what I'm talking about. We do have misunderstandings, which we settle amicably afterall, but this one was getting beyond my control, that's why i seek for advice.

He's not a lazy man, he can make more than enough money from his business. So, the car business proposal cannot be a cause to tolerate nonsense. I'm very particular about the peace of my family.

The friend actually called last night and kept on stressing that my husband should make sure he gives him the actual prices at which he sells the cars. Infact, he said he'll be sending only a car at a time. I hope you understand what that means.

I'm really getting advise and encouragement from you guys, lots of love(lol).
Well, i talked over the issue with him last weekend, he initially tried putting up an argument ( telling me that he has the right to help his friend and his friends family), but when he saw how serious and bitter i was, he somehow came to his senses. He did apologised, especially for not being there for my parents.

I've forgiven him, but you know, the memories don't just die like that. We're now trying to recover and make up for the damage and vacuum that existed.

He told me that he and "his friend" are planning to go into car dealing, ie, the friend sends down cars, while he sells and gives account. I just pray he'll be wise this time around and behave like a business colleague instead of a messenger.

@ Ayo, I know i really need to talk seriously to him, But please, what words should i use this time around, because I've been cautioning him over this, but he always feels adamant. What actions should I take?

nalijah07:
I hope the friend does not have any "secrets" on your husband. That also, may be the case.

I really don't know my dear, but even if he knows my husband's secret, is that why he should be making a toy of him?
I wouldn't mind if my husband tells me whatever secret (if there's any) if that'll put a stop to all this bullshit.
Maybe I'll try and ask him.

Thank you all for your encouragement. It's nice having people like you on this forum.

@ Ayo, thanks for your concern. I wouldn't really say it's in his blood, because, when it comes to doing such things( such as picking up my parents from d airport) for my family members, he starts "raking sense". He gives excuses of how busy his schedule is. Maybe that's even the most annoying part. But then, anytime we need financial support, neither this his friend nor my hubby's family members shows up. It's only my people that renders such help to us.

The friend's mother eventually slept in our house last night, and this morning, around 5:30am, he took her to the embassy. It really baffles me how my husband leaves his business and stresses himself so much just to satisfy his friend and family. The woman's step daughter lives comfortably with her family here in Lagos, and she's even a house wife. They also have other relations here, but they all go about their normal business.

He's quite aware of how dissatisfied and sad i am with his actions, but cares not. As long as he satisfies those people and scores 100% mark, he feels great. The kids and I are only secondary issue. I really feel sad, and I've started losing my love and respect for him. I'll appreciate him more if he can be firm and more matured.

I've asked him, times without number, if he receives any payment for his efforts, but he said No, that he's just doing it for his "tight friend", that they've been like twins all through their sch years. During one of our misunderstandings as regards this issue, he warned me to stay clear of their friendship.

The only thing i know is that once in blue moon, he sends some clothings to him.That is nothing, compared to the stress and risk my hubby passes through because of him.I believe he's just too nice to a fault, and I've advised him several times to stop allowing his friend take him for granted, but he just wouldn't listen to me.

It's really very painful 'because this his so called friend wouldn't do one quarter of what my hubby does for him. I really don't know how else to go about this.

Fellow landers please i need your sincere advise on this issue, as I'm about losing my temper.

There's this male friend of my husband ( they've been friends since their secondary sch days) that resides in the US. Anytime he want something done for him here in Nig, he calls on my husband, and my hubby always run those errands with all his might, without asking  for anything in return. He buys foodstuffs and some other items and sends them through any available means, collects western union sent from the guy and distributes to the guy's family, etc etc etc.

When he wanted his wife to join him over there, it was my hubby who did all the 'running around', and made sure that all documents were complete. He picks her up as early as 5am to the embassy, drops her off, and so on. To cut the whole story short, this friend of his and his wife does not appreciate all my hubby's effort. They take him for granted as if he's their errand boy. This has caused a lot of problem between my hubby and I so many times.

At last when his wife joined him last year, they stopped calling him. Even when i put to bed late last year, they never called until last month when the guy called him and told him that he's making arrangement to take his mum to US, and that he should help her to run around for the Visa stuff.

My hubby now leaves his business, accompanying this woman up and down. He just told me last night that she'll be spending the night at ours this night so that he'll take her to the embassy tomorrow morning. He even went to drop her off last night around 11pm and came back telling me that my car which he left with packed up on the road. He came back home around 12 mid night without apology. I really don't know why he prefers satisfying his friend at the detriment of his own family.

My hubby had a very serious show down in his business last 2 years, and he had to sell his car. Up till now, he hasn't replaced it. But this so called friend of his couldn't even assist him, rather he tells him stories of how he's the only one taking care of his family.

Honestly, I'm so upset, i don't know how to handle this.

100bars:
@ woodboi and UNLEASHED
Blackmailing is not uncommon but why would one want to blackmail an infamous artist like Blackfaze?
for what?
its not worth it.
blackmailing someone lot human would be more reasonable
Moreover, if I'm blackmailing him, he has d right to take legal actions. He has my contact add and my phone numbers so go screw yourself

SO you knew Blackface was infamous and worthless and you still went ahead and called him for a show?
Where was your mind then?
Since he's not "lot human" to be blackmailed, i think you shouldn't be wasting your time here talking about him.
And please stop disturbing this forum with trash, we're here to enhance our intelligence, not the other way round.
So, go and drink your panadol.

And next time, remember to call the FAMOUS ARTISTS and stop looking for cheape'.

May kelly:
@Afribiz watch your miserable    teeth here   lol

but still remain blessed.ok

Miserable teeth are meant for miserable things like you.
That explains why you're being attracted by octogenarians.

sagacious:
@ Afribiz
HT 26, im using it and its perfect on my skin

Thanx love.
Is it the lotion or the cup cream and does the HT 26 contain SPF 30?

Who is Chika Ike? I don't think i've heard such name before.

rotimy:
Chinaecheremobalulunamunaecereonwem= God have good thoughts for me , no need of worrying.
This is the longest Igbo name

Yeah! I love that name, but it doesn't have to be this long.
Chinecherem is just it.

May kelly:
Becareful the way you open that your silly mouth

You mean your cassava teeth and your decayed tongue?
Miserable goat.

Is Elizabeth Arden lotion good for fair skin?
Pls i need to know.

Just because you're seeking a man doesn't make everyone that makes a post here a male.
Incase you don't know the meaning of (f) and (m), i'm a SHE and not a HE.

May kelly:
ahha haaaaa, look at who is talking here.lol I told him the truth

You don't even know d truth in this case talkless of voicing it out.

xymigrator:
Landers,i have been thinking about this a long time now.What is it about the igbos that make them so proud and special about themselves.

Igbos have this believe and mentality that they are by far better than other tribes and that even the white man is less intelligent than they are.I have come across so many of them with this mindset.

What do u guys think of this;your response please.

You've been thinking about this for a long time? keep on thinking, Agadi Ewu, that shows the level of your mentality. You have no better things to think of than trash. You want to claim smartness by bringing up this topic to knock heads together?
TRIBAL slowpoke of the century.

Nigeria's National Anthem
(especially the line that says- " the labour of our heroes past, shall never be in vain"

TOPS - RED, BLACK, WHITE, ORANGE, YELLOW AND LIGHT GREEN

SKIRTS - BLACK, BROWN, WHITE

JEANS - BLACK, BLUE, CARTON COLOUR

SHOES - BLACK, RED/WINE,

Thanks so much oluomok, but meeeeen, that was tooooo long!
Quite enlightening though.

Chikaima (Kaima) - Na God we know

Nmachi - beauty of God

Kachisicho - As God wants/as it pleases God

Chizube - God's thought

Akudo - Peaceful wealth

Ezimdinma (ezim) - My family is good

Urunwa - gains of a child

Ifedioranma (Ifediora) - Something that is good for everyone

Ogugua - consoler

Nwabiachie - another child has come

It's this kind of woman that brings disgrace to womanhood.
She looks like a woman of moral laxity.
An old prostitute.

She looks beautiful and sexy

nifemi4u:
Please who no this hip-up cream this frined of mine any time she looks at me she ask me from where i got my hip from i always told her that is from baba GOD do am 4 me later she told me about this hipup cream but she is afraid of usein please d cream hav side effect thank 4 your help

Which cream?

May kelly:
@Afribiz, i guess your within the age bracket above and your afraid that someone has hit the point. please go and marry do not just say in nairaland i'm not single because I don't believe you.

Within what age bracket? You make me laugh.
Anyway, believe me or not, that's your cup of tea.
Does it even make sense when a pot calls a kettle black?

This is the opportunity for you to engage in a business as part time job.