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Onchedu:
I know my family. if I was in coma for the rest of their lives they would take good care f me and keep faith that I'll get up one day. However, assuming they all died, everyone of them, and all I had left was my wife, I'd rather she let me die than to reduce herself, my treasured 'possession,' to such lows to keep me alive.

If she did the opposite of that I'd break up with her once I come out of that coma.

Damn! Damn!! Damn!!! So cold. . .

Onchedu:
I know my family. if I was in coma for the rest of their lives they would take good care f me and keep faith that I'll get up one day. However, assuming they all died, everyone of them, and all I had left was my wife, I'd rather she let me die than to reduce herself, my treasured 'possession,' to such lows to keep me alive.

If she did the opposite of that I'd break up with her once I come out of that coma.

Damn! Damn!! Damn!!! So cold. . .

yvyy:
@ african queen,fhemmmmy and dupsy, thanks y'll.u guys r right about d love thing.and afriqueen thanks for the encouragment. but u knw its not all abt damning wt other people say its also abt how they will relate it to the child when he/she is growing up.

also am not sure in my working place if i will be entitled to d 3 months maternity leave to takia of the baby if they knw its adopted baby.so wt do i do.my hubby doesnt want us to lie abt d kid so i also dnt knw hw his extended family will react to me and d baby on dat.

Just have a leap of faith. Explain things to ur boss, he's human he'll understand. As for family, they might be hostile but if they re civilised they'll understand but then they re not the ones nursin the child. Put in mind that whatever u do either good nor bad people will always talk. But then in time they'll run out of stuff to say. Prayer is the key to everythin. Put ur fears before God and take it a step at a time. U'll find out at the end that was nothing to worry about.

Outstrip:
Is it possible to go a whole year without sex hmm

Its possible dear. . . I know of someone who have stayed for 13yrs now without sex.

SA Goddess:
So what some of you are saying is those Nollywood movies are to be believed then? The way they potray Nigerian culture and belief system? Crazy to think some people actually believe any of that nonsense in this day and age!

Its not a nollyhood story. It has happened. . . I have witnessed it. . . U can try and see if its a nollyhood story. . .

na2day?:
i didn't expect u to have the brains to comprehend, that will be too much to ask. what is there in killing 10 ppl? well, since all u watch is your village NTA, u wouldn't know; and for your info, it is called "true tv" not real tv.

lol

spikedcylinder:
His name was Chibuzor and we used to live in the same estate. I was 11yrs old and in JSS2 when all of a sudden, Chibozor decided he I was now fair game. He musta been about 12 or 13 at the time.
Every evening after lesson, the yeye boy would trail me like a demon from the lesson center to my house. He didn't have the liver to talk to me so he'll just walk about 2 yards behind me with all his 45 teeth on display.
Eventually, before the end of the holiday and I was about to go back to boarding school, he asked me out and I beat him with my red lesson bag.
The end.

Lol. . . Na so!!!

yvyy:
@big-gy.thanks but i dnt wish to wait that long to mother a kid.while waiting for a miracle and smthing to happen ,we thot its an option to make d waiting comfortable.

There's nothing wrong in adoption. . . So long as ur husband have no qualms wit it. . . Adopting will may u less worried. Its a good thing dear. . . I know of many couples who adopt and they re all living happily. . . Each child brings its own blessing. . .

biggiedol:
Please my fellow NL,i have a little problem,after i broke up with my Ex-GirlFrnd,i decided to have flings with every girls that comes arround,now none of them want to go,they are after marriage,but i don't seems to like dem enough,please what do i do

You really don't know what to do? Hmmm. . . The way u talk them into bed wit u same way u talk dem out of bed. . . Out of marriage in this case. . . Lol. . .

Carolece:
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How on God's earth doing that keep me with him forever? Crap. People's beliefs are so different, World Apart is not even the right phrase to use.

Its the belief. . . Any partner who goes contrary to the oath will suffer grieve. . . The person may go mad and eventually die. Fear of this will tie u to him forever. . . Its an unbreakable oath. . .

no1madman:
Only wicked and unwise woman will punish a man by withholding sex.

That's some women for u. Shit happens u know

rhymz:
. . That is Nairaland for you, Weird guyz doing bizzare stuff to get noticed. . .by the way, the Super Chickens just lodged a goal. .

Sweetie chickens can still get some canty job done. . . They re super worms. . .

Gpowered79:
PLS HOUSE, WHAT CAN I DO TO PREVENT MY WIFE FOR TAKING IN, because WILL JUST HAVE A BABY WHO IS JUST THREE MONTHS TWO WEEKS OLD AND I REALLY LIKE HIM TO REACH THE AGE OF 3 BEFORE HAVING ANOTHER BABY.
PLS I NEED YOUR ADVICE

Take her to the hospital or health centre. . . They'll test her hand know what preventive method will work for her. . . Main while u can use condoms or birth control pills

afrobaby:
Just sit her down and tell her she is hurting your feelings, need to talk to her in the best way and best mood, she is your wife u know, u know her best

yes. . . Communication is the key. . . Maybe ur friend had hurt her unknowingly and its her way of punishing him for that. . .you know women na. . . They act funny sometimes

afrobaby:
Just sit her down and tell her she is hurting your feelings, need to talk to her in the best way and best mood, she is your wife u know, u know her best

yes. . . Communication is the key. . . Maybe ur friend had hurt her unknowingly and its her way of punishing him for that. . .you know women na. . . They act funny sometimes

He no get Wey thing no dey happen for nigeria. . .

190:
african queses

wetin i do naw!

Nothing o. . .

He is wicked. . . He should rot in hell for the rest of his life wit men who would Bleep the hell out of his stupid ass. . . How can a 12yr old seduce her own father and he can't resist? Lies! Blatant lies!! He even have the guts to call the name of God. . . Damn!!! I'm so angry. . .

It is am oath taken by joining both his and ur blood together. Its a oath that lasts forever. . . Together forever. . . Only death can break the oath. . . Its not really advisiable

190! 190!! 190!!!

Strickly for ladies. . . It finally turns out to be a guys thread. . . Lol. . .

Onchedu:
He did not have his way. She wanted it. They had their way. She lied as a first response. that is too suspicious. I think a rea virgin wanting to be had by her guy would have handled the situation better.

how better? She's inexperience. . .

Onchedu:
True; however when your saying no and your attitude is saying maybe then it can be concluded that within U somewhere, there is a yes.

There is no law, written or unwritten that says a girl must be polite in turning down a guy. There is a time for everything. Unless the guy has psychological issues, we generally are known to go where we are welcome when it's good we seek.

Guys sha need to start taking no for no and girls have to start meaning no when they mean no, by mind body and soul. If the three of U agree there can be no wrong message communicated to the world outside.

True. . .

kamura:
U need to see the way he stares at her when she walks by, even in my presence,

He does not even know that i am aware of what he did,

Just this morning, when i was driving down to my office,  he made a comment, asking if my fiancee had complained to be about he bringing into the house, his business customers. That he notice my attitude has changed. That i go to bed early, with less conversation. ( I guess he is psyching me to open up, if i have been told)

For crying out loud, How could he be that silly, to think that i wld tell him what my fiancee told me.

I told him, 'we shall have a chat when i get back home today'.


I think its the right time, to straighten issues with him,

Tell him,

1.  That i have noticed the way he stares at my fiancee, and i don't like it.
2.  That i could kill him, or anybody that makes advances or try to come in between.
3.  That he should give her more respect that he ever accorded to me.
4.  That our friendship would end, anytime, any day, he goes contrary to all this, that nobody/nothing comes close to her, not even my mum

What do y'all think?

You've said it all. . .

You've had ur way now and you want to find fault so u can dump her? I just sorry for the girl. . .

190:
^^
And i guess that one would be you
amen

In ur dreams.

Onchedu:
So who taught men not to stop when a girl says no f not another girl that he listend to when he said no only to hear later that she expected him to persist cos she didnt want to feel cheap and wanted to know that he really wanted her. Let me tell U ehn, sometimes us guys don't do more than lip service, funny thing is it pays off cos the girl eventually puts ideas into your head and wont stop till she's gotten what she wants.

Not all girls are like that. . . Some No means No. . . But guys mistake it for playing hard. . . Atleast this girl proves that not all girls fall for a guys charm by telling her fiance. . . Keeping it a secret will make her look guilty when it finally blows. . .