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Ruby_Pearl:
Why not? For a better Nigeria, right?

Ok, show me what you've learned

baoni?

Ibolonlo? awa oludumare. I hope you can speak yoruba

Yea very sure

Ruby_Pearl:
ROTFLMAO!!

You're not serious!
same thing you said before na

ooooh! is it?  lol 

I will try again later then

started long ago

Ruby_Pearl:
Yes, if you're also willing to learn yoruba

But why introduce a condition ? lol

Ruby_Pearl:
LMAO!! The loff part was a joke, darl.
Don't take me seriously in my joking moods

No, am not Igbo, but I can still learn, can't i?

Please you can by all means

That makes for a better and peaceful Nigeria

ibobabe:
eheee nu
abukwam obiakpo for reals

Naani ihe m nwere ike ihu n'obi gi bu uru anu

ahughi m obiakpo nne inugo

OK let me try again.  I said that

There is actually a thin line between being bold and being Cocky

Many will misinterpret your boldness as being cocky but it is not true. I have had problem with that when I was in Naija. Someone will say 'that guy is too pompous' and stuff like that.

Come to think of it,  if you do not have personal pride, you will be feeling inferior and will never be happy. This applies to both men and women

Over here in the UK they say Nigerians are cocky and loud, why they are bold and they go for the jaugler even if they are into evil.
When one is assertive, he comes accross in a resolute manner without being aggressive or cocky.

The cocky person will see him first as being cocky

Ruby_Pearl:
LOL! You're not serious.
Let's hope that's what you really meant.
IS that "I loff you" in Igbo?
I must say, you're moving a bit tooo fast, dnt you think?

I bu onye Igbo means, are you Igbo?

loff? someone I have not seen? Like may be,  love . . . . .

Uche na wa you . . . Ojikwa gi . . .O ji gi na Onu? lol

Ruby_Pearl:
Uchenna, when will we start our own Igbo lessons?

I bu onye Igbo? hehe

Ruby_Pearl:
see your yeye mind!
what do you think I was talking about?
Me, I was talking about sleeping oh!!

Mee tooo

Sometimes you don't have to sleep in the dark

A deemed light might do you some good esp if you are the claustrophobic type

Ruby_Pearl:
LOL! I guess you won't reply

why won't I reply. Just wanted to understand the tone

Was that a command or something?

Ruby_Pearl:
Not only craps occurs in the darkness, ya know

OK I agree but it does not have to be in darkness lol

some degree of light may be necessary at times

Uche2nna:
It aint that simple, mon ami.

Tell You what, No woman jokes with her comfort and security. After that , then comes compatibility. Love /romance is further down the ladder.

Uche may be we are saying the same thing in different ways

onyinye2:
I have experienced some real romantic things that didn't require money.

I suppose you read my post well. I remember I said that there are things money cannot get.

But those thing will not be very effective on a hungry woman, a woman with an empty wardrobe etc

onyinye2:
Truly Questionable!!!

Onyee how do you mean sis?

Ruby_Pearl:
LOL! Calm down.
It's not a problem.
Just surprised you're not as annoying/immature as the rest of them ^{maybe on this topic sha.}

Haha do not forget that the web affords some guys a measure of anonymity. In darkness loads of crap happen.

Ruby_Pearl:
I mind, infact, I mind a lot.
This is a test and I think you'll want to pass it.
So please explain it better this time Like righ tnow, please

Is that meant to be a command?

Ruby_Pearl:
No, this thread.
I asked you if you're a Naija man.

Chei see me see wahala

Proper naija no be by naturalization na by birth. Chei I don die ooo

Anyway I know you are pulling my . . . what I don't know.

Uche2nna:
Try telling that to your future wife  

Uche, tell you what, there is no romance without money but money alone cannot bring romance.

There are things money will do, but there are yearning in the heart which the money cannot satisfy
It is only the those seemingly little things that will satisfy them.
If you don't know them romance will not be complete trust me

Ruby_Pearl:
abegi, answer me jor.

prolly the wrong thread

Ruby_Pearl:
You make perfect sense, my friend.
Are you sure you're a Naija man?

There bshe goes . . .lol  Can anything good come out of Jerusalem?

onyinye2:
Ruby, come on now there are some good ones around.

not just some. There are many but you know that the empty can make the loudest noise.
Great things are not found in common path.

Ruby_Pearl:
Yes, will you please explain once more. please


@Sisikill
Hehehhe, I rem. that thread jare

OK may be tomorrow I will Hope you won't mind

Ruby_Pearl:
I don't understand this part https://l.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/emoticons7/5.gif

That means you did not understand anything I said. Do you mean that ?

Ruby_Pearl:
Hmmm, now you are
Abeg, explain jor

Haha tell me what you do not understand and we will explain that

Ruby_Pearl:
Be "confident" and "bold" na. But don't be too "cocky" while explaining it to me

As if I was not confident and bold while I explained to you. I know I was not cocky girl. Tonight is different though

Ruby_Pearl:
Hmmmmmm, I think am getting you.
But you might have to make yourself a little clearer

Thanks but do not know how to do that again

ghettochyk:
, tnx? but congrats on what?

I was told by a reliable source that it has happened for good.

There is actually a thin line between being bold and being Cocky

Many will misinterpret your boldness as being cocky but it is not true. I have had problem with that when I was in Naija. Someone will say 'that guy is too pompous' and stuff like that.

Come to think of it,  if you do not have personal pride, you will be feeling inferior and will never be happy. This applies to both men and women

Over here in the UK they say Nigerians are cocky and loud, why they are bold and they go for the jaugler even if they are into evil.
When one is assertive, he comes accross in a resolute manner without being aggressive or cocky.

The cocky person will see him first as being cocky

Ruby_Pearl:
LOL! An embrace and a kiss or two is not too much na.

Ok, you got me there. So not all naija men are bushmen, but most of them are.
Do you even read the replies here? Majority of them are so heartless. kai!!!

Trust me most of those guys are only trying to be 'hard' or hard-man in local parlance. In th real sense most of them cannot do what they are saying and even if they do, they are not being true to themselves just ego and society stuff.

So i think for sure what is considered romance in Africa is how much money you can give to your wife.

That makes nonsense, little things and statements mean more than a million bucks . . .appreciation letting the person know he or she is appreciated

Ruby_Pearl:
hmmmmmm.

What is that suppose to mean? Hope it is an answer?

Ruby_Pearl:
Naija men are good romantically? Who dash them romance?
So you telling me that those bushmen knows romance but just don't display it? even to their wife?

In [i]My [/i]case? 

That is why I said not all but you cannot say most. Do mean all naija men are bush men?

What of a woman who told the husband that coming to welcome him with an embrace and a kiss when he is back from work and she happens to be at home is doing too much for him? The last time I checked, I was told the woman is nigerian. Appreciating the mans effort was letting herself down but she would want the same from the man?

Ruby_Pearl:
LOL! Then answer na.

which one of the 3 you previously mentioned do you belong?

everything but cocky

Ruby_Pearl:
Maybe, but I might be wrong.
But am very sure you're willing to answer my question

Yea I am willing to answer if you really need another answer