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Jaqenhghar:
..and being angry and blaming the victim does right?

angry for what? Blaming the victim, for what?

noob03saibot:
was confused with the ending, was it all a dream? And are you into hiphop? Cause most people won't get the amazing lines spat through out that movie. Too many puns and punchlines.

nope it wasn't a dream. I'm not really into hip hop anymore but I'm a poet so most of the lines dropped hit home run.

Men it was sick. The disses, punchlines, metaphors and simile were all off the shizznizz.

I'm sure you know why Adam ghost Ben Grime, right? And what he did to Megaton was jaw dropping. Lawd!

Jaqenhghar:
People deal with grief in different ways. You should be angry at the system that makes it difficult for victims to speak out.

what does being angry at the system ever achieve aside giving yourself unnecessary headache?

Jaqenhghar:
Because the police reason like most people here. Blaming the victim

so what does she hope to achieve by coming on social media? It's not like social media can sentence the guy to prison or something like that, can it?

Is social media now the police station. I wonder why this victims of rape always like coming to social media to cry whenever they are rape. Whatever happened to going to the police station to file a report. Gosh!.

XxSabrinaxX:
Did I say it was bad?

you kinda implied into the spider verse is better than under the red hood because it was reviewed by more people. Ll

Ishilove:
You're in Lagos?

yep.

Ishilove:
Storyline?

come and meet me in Sisi Mama and I'll tell you.

Bodied.

A solid 10 over 10.

alexistaiwo:
Reign of Superman


7/10

where did you download it from?

Knock knock.

7/10.

Well there's nothing much to say about the movie. A sex starve husband who fcked two crazy bitches and got served, the hard way. Lmao.

Jayhazard:
Things he knows absolutely nothing of? Do you even know what you are saying?
Although there's no point blaming the devil for our wrongs, since we're all responsible for our actions, it doesn't excuse the fact that he seeks to have a huge impact in our decisions. This is why we need to arm ourselves with God's word and His truth, to avoid dwelling on the evil thoughts the devil and his cohorts place in our minds.

why am I not surprise. Lol.

Men I honestly feel sorry for the devil, seeing how he gets blamed for things he knows absolutely nothing of is sad.

Poor guy.

crackhaus:
Forgive her excesses.

Lol. Already did.

crackhaus:
Happy New Year, my brother.

thanks. Your earlier post was what I actually wanted to point out to that lass but she showed just how thick she is by saying if I was in America I'd lose my job for asking such 'idiotic' question. Would have insulted the living day light out of her but I've discovered some girls/women here need serious help and I'm in no position to help them, so why bother.

crackhaus:
Good admonition to parents whose influence cannot be over-emphasized. However, some of these girls did a lot of the things they did even when their parents tried to get them out.

I've been watching a lot of the video clips and interviews related to these alleged abuses, I'm still not done. If you are to form opinions based on just the docu-series on Lifetime, R.kelly seems guilty as hell but going back through different youtube clips from various sources, one begins to gain a broader perspective in the sense that some of these women knew and 100% consented to whatever transpired.
There was one clip where the girl's mother held a small protest against Kelly and insisting he should free her daughter from his brainwashing and let her go. Well guess what, the girl was in a next clip on camera with her face clearly showing replying her mother and saying she was not brainwashed (as a matter of fact, she didn't want to leave R.kelly's house anytime soon).

Now just imagine this same girl twenty years time posing for the camera claiming she was abused and was forced to do all she did when she was 16.
Like I noted before, gaining a broader perspective is important in situations like this.
These women who are now coming out are all in their 30's, most of them are getting paid for granting these interviews, one even wrote a book and during the interview (saw a clip of this too), she was promoting this book right after putting on a sad face detailing how R.kelly abused her. Like seriously?

There are so many elements to be taken into consideration when things like this come up - generalizations cannot be made, blames cannot be subjective. If you have an idea how most of these performers and artistes live, you'd realize that they never have a shortage of women. They go for a show and girls are either waiting for them in their hotel rooms or leaving the venue with them in groups, I tell you this from first-hand experience.
Ask yourself this question, do you think these artistes go around asking for the age and identity cards of these women before having group sex with them? Absolutely not.

The man R.kelly could very well be guilty of everything that he has been accused of, I truly don't care... This however doesn't mean one should take every word and accusation at face value. He has been taken to court before and a jury found him 'not guilty' just on the consensus that they couldn't verify the age of the girl shown in the video evidence. To be honest, if there was any case to be made against his person, I personally think the women ought to be using the courts instead of granting interviews.

Richard Quest asked the producers of Lifetime's "Surviving R.kelly", why are you using the media for something the courts should very well be taking care of?
They rambled...

Happy New Year, Crackhaus.

alexistaiwo:
Since January 2nd till date.


I haven't gotten past the first 15 minutes of the movie.

I hope to complete the movie before the end of the month so that I can download another set of movies.

the movie is boring if you ask me. So much for a horror movie. I tell you, the remake of evil dead is way better than Hereditary. Even the original is better sef. Na vex i take wash am o. Lol

thorpido:
Many of them were 13,14 and 15.That's below the age of consent.

thank you, wish I could say the same for someone who love making love to assumptions the way a whore_ loves making love to her money.

crackhaus:
It's actually 16 in most of the states.

she's oblivious to this but chose to flare her one sided opinions down and up.

See how she was throwing assumptions when I asked her how old were the girls R.Kelly had sex with.

safarigirl:
You have adopted the thought process of every paedophile apologist in the world, as expected. Sometimes, it is advisable to hold an element of surprise. I could easily tell where you were going with this and it is truly sad that you can be so predictable.


Sadly, you will possibly end up being the father of a little girl some day, because of her exposure in a modern world, she will know a lot of sexual matters. Would you be pleased if an ADULT in your neighbourhood, who should KNOW BETTER takes advantage of the fact that your 13-year old daughter knows of sex, to have sex with her? These days, 8-year old girls know of sex, should 25-year old men sleep with 8-year olds because they KNOW OF sex?


Let me advise you now, no court of law will care if a child "knows of sex", that a child knows something, does not mean an adult should take advantage and act on them. There are millions of adult women you can have sex with, without tainting what is left of a child's innocence.


Do you think a 30-year old woman should be having sex with a 14-year old boy? What if R-Kelly had sex with 13-year old boys, would your opinion differ?

If kids and adults were held on the same level of accountability, then there would be no need for the law to keep kids under the care of an adult. The entire point of being an adult, is to be accountable, be RESPONSIBLE, not to blame a child for your own inability to do an ADULT thing.


PS: Yes, he RAPED them. Sex with a minor is classified as RAPE. Do you know why? Because Rape is defined as penetration WITHOUT Consent, and according to the law, a minor is INCAPABLE of providing CONSENT.

darn! Such epistle. You should take comfort in the fact that i didn't read a damn of what you wrote up there.

Please know this, action speak louder than words, but with individuals like yourself, words speak louder than actions. What a shame.

You should know, last year, I would have enjoyed going back and forth with you, but not this year as I'm tired of people like you who are way too myopic to know people get sent to jail by their actions, not words.

Here you're even talking about a person losing his job just because he asked a question. Talk about someone being idiotic.

Perish the thought.

safarigirl:
according to the law in America, the age of consent is 18.

You know, America, where someone like you would have lost his day job for asking these idiotic questions on social media, but thank your God that you live in a shithole like Nigeria..... I would advise you don't attempt to travel to any lawful country anytime soon

yep the law in America. The land of milk and honey where individuals crave each others butthole, yea that america that suddenly is law or right anf wrong, please spare me.

But was your thread about America? Now please tell me, what's the age of consent in Nigeria? Just so you know, not everybody is raved about travelling abroad.

Skengman:
trust! Still traumatised from one of my experiences. What u see is not what u get.

you can say that again.

thorpido:
It's not about knowing more than we think.Were they underage?Yes

underage according to who or whom?

Saffi:
Well then I don’t understand how a woman’s natural body which comes with stretch marks, cellulite and saggy breast is disgusting. I don’t morafucking understand that crap

it ain't about stretch marks or saggy boobs, trust me, it ain't about that.

Most Nigerian girls, well I wouldn't know about that. What I do know is those asses that look sumptuous in jeans can be the greatest tool use in deceiving the men folk.

Lord knows I've had my own share of disgust when those jeans drop. Lord!.

safarigirl:
evem though I know where you're going with this, I will still indulge you.

They were 12 and older.... Mostly teenagers, some fourteen, fifteen.

What does their age matter? Does it negate the fact that they were molested?

molested? That's a strong word. But hey, I'll still ask if R. Kelly raped them.

Hope you know some of this so called teenagers know more about sexual matters than you'd think.

JeromeBlack:
The Nigerian education where-

1. People are not taught their history.

2. People believe that Abraham is a real person that existed (some Nigerians believe that they descended from father Abraham)

3. People do not understand racism

4. That focuses on cramming rather than reasoning

5 That only teaches philosophy as an graduate/undergraduate course in the university

6. That creates illiterate graduates.

hope you know western education doesn't really produce geniuses?

This same Nigeria education you're bad mouthing has produce people who go abroad to school and excel beyond imagination.

You should know, it is not the education that is the problem, but the individual.

JeromeBlack:
I weep for Nigerian education. This is what happens when history and philosophy are not taught at an early age.

I was clearly explaining the origins and nature of tribalism before explaining why it is problematic in Nigerias case.

But it seems that I am explaining things to aje pakos who have inferiority complex......


A moment of silence to Nigeria's failed educational system............


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Which Nigeria education do you weep for?

safarigirl:
the MeToo movement has put a microscope on activities of molesters, social media has made people far more aware and critical of these things as well. I suppose that's why he's facing this level of backlash.

Anyway, he hasn't had much of a career of recent. He just makes money from his music because he owns the masters.

how old were the girls R Kelly allegedly molested, if I may ask?.

KanwuliaExtra:
Not applicable. . . . You don’t need R. Kellys in Africa, only POVERTY! WE NOR GET CHOICE FOR AFRICA O!

With all the awon “olosho guguru and epa+opa” all over Africa?

R. Kelly na TALENTED, SADISTIC, ILLITERATE, MEGA-PORN-STAR with SERIOUS SWAG ke!

Im JUJU na helele! Na correct babes R. Kelly dey “magnet” o!

Please, don’t compare!

with this nonsense emanating from your fingers, let's hope one day one celebrity in the U.S doesn't use his/her swag to molest your kids.

Selah.

Until a law is enacted making the children of public office holder attend public schools, ASUU will always be going on strike. There's no two way about it.

Men. Mark Zuckerberg is actually very funny. Dude is clearly not wired with the show off mentality.