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Marriage endures, that is, true marriage, not fake ones like...

Well, he can form big boy in jail. Nonsense!

pocohantas:
Tell them to stay in one place, they will say "Men are polygamous in nature"

Exposing their families to all sorts of evil. Just look at the nasty thing he went to date. Now an inmoceny child had to pay for the foolishness of two adults.

in the court of law, the man didn't commit any offence, however, can same be said for the woman? Well I guess as usual, that one flew right over your head.

Superman: Doomsday.

7/10.

I sometimes wonder how Superman will fare if he ever faced the joker. Heck, I don't wonder at all, I know Joker will Kill him. Dude is just so full of BS, no wonder joker likes referring to him as 'Stupidman'.

Ozkar:
if it hasn't worked yet, make more noise. Once upon a time Female Genital Mutilation was still a thing and it seemed the noise about it was useless, but it has been outlawed now.

[s]Women make more noise than men especially in the west, and that's why laws are tilting heavily in their favour now.[/s] Every revolution has started with seemingly inconsequential noise.

not in Africa, particularly nigeria. Don't compare the west with nigeria, that's the mistake many of you ldealist make.

Ozkar:
in the US, government holders have stepped down because of public outrage or noise (as you call it).

this isn't the US, bro.

Years ago, noise on social media stopped NCC from making service providers increase the cost of data.

that is because the noise was united, not divided, and the NCC wanted to score some points.

Recently, in Nigeria, Kemi Adeosun stepped down as minister of finance after Nigerians made noise over her NYSC cert scandal.

because election is around the corner. Even after the noise and corrupt allegation trailing Diezani, did GEJ do anything about it?

Noise works bro, especially when we have enough voices. Nigerians are just blissfully unaware.

noise works when the noise is united.

After all the noise about child marriage in nigeria, what have been achieved? Don't people still get married to underage girls?

cyrilamx:
Truth is our society is not only hypocritical but also very prejudicial towards plights of men. calling out a semi-nude dressed lady will warrant u instant rebuke from ur co guy and insults from the lady or ladies. You will hear sb saying "you no go comot eye" or "what i wear is my business". They flaunt their cleavages and what have them to gain men's attention and still go ahead to condemn such men for making passess. However, i am not unaware that their are depraved men who will still harrass a lady even if she crested in a NUN's apparel, but indecent dressings should be criminalized same way as male "touching" cos both are harrassment.

the lady might even tell you what's your business? And ask if you're the one who bought the clothes for her.

Ozkar:
bro, if we had enough Felas and Charly boys in Nigeria, things would have been a lot better.

When office holders aren't held accountable for their actions and promises, they feel like gods - untouchable. Similarly when the average Nigerian feel they can touch, insult or hit the next Nigerian anyhow, and the other person doesn't speak out, the perpetrator feels powerful, and continues harassing others.

We cannot all be Fela, but we can at least speak up against bad when we see it, even in faceless forums.

if, my bro, if. Now that's the word. The truth still remain, do we have enough Fela, Charly Boy and Gani in Nigeria?

Office holders will continue to feel like demi gods because they know one truth, which is, empty vessels make the loudest noise, particularly on social media. hope you know majority of nigerians who make noise on social media don't even have PVC, talkless of them seeing what a polling unit looks like? And the ones who have pvc don't mind selling their vote. So, what's the way forward.

So, if any nigerian is harassed, abuse, beaten, punched, assaulted (sexually or otherwise) speaking out won't do nothing, especially in faceless forum, but going to the police station or knowing the right person might.

If it was about making noise IBB won't have stepped down after he annulled June 12 election.

Ozkar:
This is the sort of reasoning that has made Nigeria (and arguably Africa) the shithole it is. If you think you can't stop evil, just stand back and let it flourish. So we tolerate nonsense either because it isn't happening to us or because we feel powerless to stop it. That has to change.

If it makes you feel bad, then it's a big deal, and that is regardless of your power to stop/change it.

dude, it is very easy to talk and scream on social media. In case you've forgotten, there is another world, the real world where your talk and scream might get you punched or even locked up.

Not everyone can be Fela. I'm sure you know what happened to Charly boy with his ourmumudondo abi?

Then again, feeling bad about something and it being a big deal is just what it is, feeling bad about a thing and it being a big deal.

I leave you with this: "God grant us the serenity to accept the things we cannot change, the courage to change the things we can, and the wisdom to know the difference".

Ozkar:
would you still think it isn't a big deal if you were the one it happened to? Be sincere with yourself.

it wouldn't be a big deal my guy because I damn well know I can't do anything about it.

It's that simple.

pocohantas:
Very lost, kudos to his parents.
Watch your post fly over his head...

just like it will pass between your legs.

You're the one who is lost. You think Nigeria is Europe or America? Please, lemme be the first to welcome you to the real world.

Cheers.

Gggg102:
It's obvious you are lost.

The march was about sexual harassment like groping in market places.

And even the pure water throwing is assault.
The woman was assaulted for complaining about harassment. That it is not a big deal to you shows how much you've normalized abuse.

nope, i'm not lost, you're the one who is lost.

Of course, I know what the march is about, but heck, groping in the market place is done by both men and women, that woman made it seem like the men are the ones doing it. I'm sure the women who sell tomatoes in yaba market can give her a crash course.

So according to you, she was assaulted and the best place to report the case is on the pages of social media, oh yes, she's creating awareness I forgot.

Speaking about me 'normalising' the abuse. Tell me, what hope is there in finding a stolen car without cracking device in Nigeria?

Nonsense.

pocohantas:
It brought a caveman like you to the fore.

Of course it might not change much. You know yourselves too well to know that a few lamentations cannot change the heart of a serial sexual offender...

It will take more than lamentations, we need a total overhaul and it will start from ensuring we don't bring up sons and daughters who will reason the way you do.

just like it brought a man hating nagging nitwit like you, right?

Well, still the same, just like we men know nothing can change the mind of an attention seeking nagging lonesome woman. Yep, that's why we don't complain about it because we know it's a fool's errand.

Overhaul my ass. You're deluded in thinking your docile lamentation will change anything. I believe you, who is ashamed of yourself, will be the one to raise the sons and daughters of nigerians, lord! Talk about serious acute symptoms of delusion.

Gggg102:
Sexual harassment.

Not just touched, harassed.

Did you not read the tweets?

harassed how? because a pure water was thrown at the woman and all kinds of words were hauled at her, big deal.

Gggg102:
Raised awareness.

what has the so called awareness achieved? Did it stop what they were nagging about?

AwAreness kor, blindness nii.

Gggg102:
So people should not complain where the problem lies.

complain about what exactly, being touched in a market? Seriously, are you high?

Gggg102:
Dumb. Because you don't want to complain doesn't mean others won't.

twerp, what has their complaint achieved? Bunch of nosy noise makers.

pocohantas:
Of course it will change a lot, that is why you all are so worked up and trying to shut people up. Silly sexual abusers and apologists.

so what has it changed actually? What has your lamentation actually achieved?

attention deficit women trying by all means to be noticed.

Nonsense.

RealityShot:
if they dress like they are inside a club house... Then i see no qualms with anyone applying clubhouse rules to them.

go and ask if deeper life girls experience such at same market.

agberos know the difference.

actually no. This is very wrong, the fact that a girl dresses like a prostitute doesn't give you the right to touch or harass her. Even prostitutes too have the right to reject a person's sexual advances.

My bone of contention here is the market place as posited by that attention seeking woman. A place where it's a jungle and everybody is trying to get a customer to buy from them.

pocohantas:
If you decide to be a man about sexual abuse, harassment your choice. Do not tell women to tolerate abuse from your kind to please you.

Women and men to have the right to speak up (nag as you put it) about sexual abuse and harassment. Your toxic masculinity wouldn't change that.

neither will your unholy nagging change anything.

Berra get with the programme. Lmao!