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Re: "Stop Touching Us" Campaigners Assaulted By Yaba Traders (Pics, Videos) by cyrilamx(m): 10:30am On Dec 16, 2018 |
Ozkar:Truth is our society is not only hypocritical but also very prejudicial towards plights of men. calling out a semi-nude dressed lady will warrant u instant rebuke from ur co guy and insults from the lady or ladies. You will hear sb saying "you no go comot eye" or "what i wear is my business". They flaunt their cleavages and what have them to gain men's attention and still go ahead to condemn such men for making passess. However, i am not unaware that their are depraved men who will still harrass a lady even if she crested in a NUN's apparel, but indecent dressings should be criminalized same way as male "touching" cos both are harrassment. 2 Likes |
Re: "Stop Touching Us" Campaigners Assaulted By Yaba Traders (Pics, Videos) by SmallmebigGod: 10:32am On Dec 16, 2018 |
Baddiezz:I am sure he has not 'touched you'. |
Re: "Stop Touching Us" Campaigners Assaulted By Yaba Traders (Pics, Videos) by misterh(m): 10:33am On Dec 16, 2018 |
Sotland:Quick question, Oga! So if a lady dresses in bikini in public, does that give a guy the right to touch her without her permission? It's even insulting to think that men are seen as monsters without brains who can't keep his hands to himself and always looking for ladies to prey on. But these traders have shown that they're monsters. |
Re: "Stop Touching Us" Campaigners Assaulted By Yaba Traders (Pics, Videos) by Yatahamal: 10:33am On Dec 16, 2018 |
Sunnymatey:Utmost respect kwa? You are using ur ideals to judge people up North, how many Hausa men publicly hold women not to talk of groping and indecent massaging in public. I don't know what u term as respect but the whole country got a problem with respecting women |
Re: "Stop Touching Us" Campaigners Assaulted By Yaba Traders (Pics, Videos) by kay29000(m): 10:34am On Dec 16, 2018 |
pocohantas: "Go to hostels and you see guys moving about with boxers and their penees will be swinging from left to right like pendulum..." LMAO! That one is inside hostel na... Not in public. "Or those trousers you guys wear that will pack all your crotch and I can totally outline your penees down to its cap..." Lol! Poco, but you know you actually have to look down to notice that. Unlike the case with girls where they practically expose 3/4 of their boobs.. And you know boobs is positioned at eye level. And you and I know that boobs are more sexually arrousing than diccks...even to girls. In closing, lol, you really can't compare a man's sex drive to that of a woman...sex drive in men is higher. Fact. Do your research on google. Abi have you ever seen a hen chasing a cocck for sex? Lol. But in all this, I in no way condone sexual harassment. 1 Like |
Re: "Stop Touching Us" Campaigners Assaulted By Yaba Traders (Pics, Videos) by Yatahamal: 10:34am On Dec 16, 2018 |
misterh:He is saying gibberish |
Re: "Stop Touching Us" Campaigners Assaulted By Yaba Traders (Pics, Videos) by AHCB: 10:35am On Dec 16, 2018 |
Ozkar:if, my bro, if. Now that's the word. The truth still remain, do we have enough Fela, Charly Boy and Gani in Nigeria? Office holders will continue to feel like demi gods because they know one truth, which is, empty vessels make the loudest noise, particularly on social media. hope you know majority of nigerians who make noise on social media don't even have PVC, talkless of them seeing what a polling unit looks like? And the ones who have pvc don't mind selling their vote. So, what's the way forward. So, if any nigerian is harassed, abuse, beaten, punched, assaulted (sexually or otherwise) speaking out won't do nothing, especially in faceless forum, but going to the police station or knowing the right person might. If it was about making noise IBB won't have stepped down after he annulled June 12 election. 1 Like |
Re: "Stop Touching Us" Campaigners Assaulted By Yaba Traders (Pics, Videos) by Arthurity1(m): 10:36am On Dec 16, 2018 |
I'm not surprised at the response. Nigeria is a cursed land full of uneducated rapists and misogynistic buttwipes! These are the type that give some women a bad view of men. |
Re: "Stop Touching Us" Campaigners Assaulted By Yaba Traders (Pics, Videos) by cyrilamx(m): 10:37am On Dec 16, 2018 |
Gggg102:Judging from what u wrote about if she is unclad. agreed the dude is wrong to touch her. but is the semi-nude lady right to flaunt her nudity in public knowing that she is harrassing men too? or are men not wired to react emotionally by sight? . Hey what those dudes did is absolutely reprehensible but you can close ur eyes to constant sexual harrassment men face daily from semi-nude ladies in our streets and societies. It abhorrent to culture of decency. 1 Like |
Re: "Stop Touching Us" Campaigners Assaulted By Yaba Traders (Pics, Videos) by AHCB: 10:37am On Dec 16, 2018 |
cyrilamx:the lady might even tell you what's your business? And ask if you're the one who bought the clothes for her. |
Re: "Stop Touching Us" Campaigners Assaulted By Yaba Traders (Pics, Videos) by Nobody: 10:39am On Dec 16, 2018 |
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Re: "Stop Touching Us" Campaigners Assaulted By Yaba Traders (Pics, Videos) by Nobody: 10:39am On Dec 16, 2018 |
pocohantas:The locations you mentioned are safe for them to put on such, but the female will put on what ordinarily they should wear inside their bedroom to the market. 1 Like |
Re: "Stop Touching Us" Campaigners Assaulted By Yaba Traders (Pics, Videos) by misano(m): 10:40am On Dec 16, 2018 |
MichaelBukamzy:His name is Michael.... Oh that's U. Now U know what U are: wasted..... |
Re: "Stop Touching Us" Campaigners Assaulted By Yaba Traders (Pics, Videos) by carter009(m): 10:42am On Dec 16, 2018 |
Very confused. Fash20: 2 Likes
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Re: "Stop Touching Us" Campaigners Assaulted By Yaba Traders (Pics, Videos) by ibkayee(f): 10:44am On Dec 16, 2018 |
cyrilamx: 1 Like
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Re: "Stop Touching Us" Campaigners Assaulted By Yaba Traders (Pics, Videos) by Ozkar: 10:45am On Dec 16, 2018 |
cyrilamx:I beg to differ. I don't think dressing provocatively is on the same level as touching others inappropriately. What's more, just like the ladies that try to make it seem like harassment is a male thing, that's how you are trying to make it seem indecent dressing is a female thing. Some guys walk about on the streets with the trousers/shorts halfway down their butts with their boxers saving the world from disgusting nonsense (sometimes). Do you think of that as harassment? If you don't, you are being hypocritical. If you do, why didn't you add it to your examples of indecent dressing that should be criminalized? |
Re: "Stop Touching Us" Campaigners Assaulted By Yaba Traders (Pics, Videos) by cyrilamx(m): 10:46am On Dec 16, 2018 |
Ozkar:But the female have the right to harrass men by their nude dressing. just reacting to what u typed above not that i condone men touching nor grooping women like POTUS. You guys are not looking at the biggar pictures. indecent dressings should also be tackled same way men's touching ladies. men's sense of sight is being bamboozled daily with nudity and all society is saying, "men should look the other way or just accept it." Except u are telling me both aint harrassment. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "Stop Touching Us" Campaigners Assaulted By Yaba Traders (Pics, Videos) by cyrilamx(m): 10:49am On Dec 16, 2018 |
[quote author=ibkayee post=73890544][/quote]what funny in my post? |
Re: "Stop Touching Us" Campaigners Assaulted By Yaba Traders (Pics, Videos) by pocohantas(f): 10:51am On Dec 16, 2018 |
kay29000: I look down, I look up...does it matter? I have this colleague that all his pants are like that. I will be sitting on my desk and he will come stand in front to gist. Pls, where would my eye level be? I also have a female colleague whose dress sense I find very distasteful. I have addressed it severally but she just won't change. But as far as that market is concerned, it has nothing to do with your dressing. It does get worse when you expose some body parts though. When you guys give this defense, it puts men in a very bad light. You portray men as animals who lack self-control, thus acting on instinct. Women buy into it, you start crying misandry and man hating. Like you guys are the only ones allowed to say shit about yourselves 3 Likes |
Re: "Stop Touching Us" Campaigners Assaulted By Yaba Traders (Pics, Videos) by Ozkar: 10:51am On Dec 16, 2018 |
AHCB:in the US, government holders have stepped down because of public outrage or noise (as you call it). Years ago, noise on social media stopped NCC from making service providers increase the cost of data. Recently, in Nigeria, Kemi Adeosun stepped down as minister of finance after Nigerians made noise over her NYSC cert scandal. Noise works bro, especially when we have enough voices. Nigerians are just blissfully unaware. |
Re: "Stop Touching Us" Campaigners Assaulted By Yaba Traders (Pics, Videos) by RealityShot: 10:52am On Dec 16, 2018 |
pocohantas:this NIGERIA! NO GAY MARRIAGE! NO ILLICIT DRESSING IN PUBLIC! How many of those traders who go abroad to buy their goods monthly have you heard went to jail abroad for that reason? THIS IS NIGERIA. 1 Like |
Re: "Stop Touching Us" Campaigners Assaulted By Yaba Traders (Pics, Videos) by RealityShot: 10:55am On Dec 16, 2018 |
Gggg102:Keep touting "common sense" Your "common sense" flag bearer has been booted from Senate by his constituency for not using "common sense" in his position. those girls should use "common sense" when going to the market and dress properly! |
Re: "Stop Touching Us" Campaigners Assaulted By Yaba Traders (Pics, Videos) by cyrilamx(m): 10:56am On Dec 16, 2018 |
Ozkar:Guy let look at it from a ratio base perspective. Those "predatory" yaba guys re just handful compared to decent dudes that really know where to draw the line. Agreed some guys dress shabishly or indecently. But can u in all truth compare these to ladies who see semi-nude dressing as normal? Take this for example an indecently dressed dude is easily condemned even by guys in society, but not so with a lady. instead she is termed "hot" or even garned 1k plus likes in social media. However thanks for drawing my attention to those "hawkish" type of guys. In all we all agreed that harrassment whether against men or women should be totally denounced. 1 Like |
Re: "Stop Touching Us" Campaigners Assaulted By Yaba Traders (Pics, Videos) by AHCB: 10:58am On Dec 16, 2018 |
Ozkar:this isn't the US, bro. Years ago, noise on social media stopped NCC from making service providers increase the cost of data.that is because the noise was united, not divided, and the NCC wanted to score some points. Recently, in Nigeria, Kemi Adeosun stepped down as minister of finance after Nigerians made noise over her NYSC cert scandal.because election is around the corner. Even after the noise and corrupt allegation trailing Diezani, did GEJ do anything about it? Noise works bro, especially when we have enough voices. Nigerians are just blissfully unaware.noise works when the noise is united. After all the noise about child marriage in nigeria, what have been achieved? Don't people still get married to underage girls? 1 Like |
Re: "Stop Touching Us" Campaigners Assaulted By Yaba Traders (Pics, Videos) by Ozkar: 11:01am On Dec 16, 2018 |
cyrilamx:tell me truthfully... What have you personally done about this 'nudity' harassment by women? Many men simply call them whores to their faces and behind everyone's backs, they go about making sexual moves. For me it's not even nearly the same level of harassment. If a person walks about near-naked, I am not forced to look. Even when I do choose to look, I get to decide when to stop looking. However, if a person grabs me (even if by the arm), I am forced to have body contact with them, and deciding when the body contact should end isn't even up to me. |
Re: "Stop Touching Us" Campaigners Assaulted By Yaba Traders (Pics, Videos) by RealityShot: 11:01am On Dec 16, 2018 |
Ozkar:when those Alimajeri boys/girls/women on the road grab you and seek help, do these ladies think its about "S3X"? Why is that always on their mind? the guys just want to get their attention... and if they are really badly dressed, then, whatever they see is their making. IMAGINE CARRYING PLACARDS to the market or that reason, when numerous issues are left undiscussed (especially by those ladies)... Mtchewww! 1 Like |
Re: "Stop Touching Us" Campaigners Assaulted By Yaba Traders (Pics, Videos) by cyrilamx(m): 11:04am On Dec 16, 2018 |
pocohantas:Just for fun sake. why will u pay a dude to act as ur chaperone or guard? aint u ladies the one claiming equality with men? "what a man can do a woman can do better"��� oh i have forgotten, it not applicable here....I tot ladies same way with men feminists love to rub shoulders with would have been able to marshal her way through the market unaided by a dude. so all these equality na for mouth. However harrassment against both gender is condemnable. |
Re: "Stop Touching Us" Campaigners Assaulted By Yaba Traders (Pics, Videos) by Ozkar: 11:06am On Dec 16, 2018 |
cyrilamx:yes, harassment should be denounced, regardless of who perpetrates it or who is victimized. We shouldn't condemn others for denouncing harassment either. PS: I dunno where you got your example from, but women are judged for their dressing everywhere in the world more than men ever will. 1 Like |
Re: "Stop Touching Us" Campaigners Assaulted By Yaba Traders (Pics, Videos) by pocohantas(f): 11:08am On Dec 16, 2018 |
chisco82: There is nothing home in coming out of your room with an underwear (boxers). That I am familiar doesn't mean I want to see your manhood swinging. The most dangerous predators are those we are familiar with. chisco82: You may be needing to go back and read the posts that started that argument. 3 Likes |
Re: "Stop Touching Us" Campaigners Assaulted By Yaba Traders (Pics, Videos) by Ozkar: 11:12am On Dec 16, 2018 |
AHCB:if it hasn't worked yet, make more noise. Once upon a time Female Genital Mutilation was still a thing and it seemed the noise about it was useless, but it has been outlawed now. Women make more noise than men especially in the west, and that's why laws are tilting heavily in their favour now. Every revolution has started with seemingly inconsequential noise. |
Re: "Stop Touching Us" Campaigners Assaulted By Yaba Traders (Pics, Videos) by cyrilamx(m): 11:14am On Dec 16, 2018 |
Ozkar:so u telling me that the constant saying that men re moved by sight ans and women by touch is wrong?��� i know it not logical. but u all know that decent dressings is about morality and charity for ur brother who is weak by faith. it true some men can endure semi/nude ladies beside them, but no so for alot of guys who are weak. We all know man act later on what they see in some cases. Agreed it is their right to wear whatever they like but it is wrong when people feel offended by ur right. If indecent dressings wasnt wrong, why are universities and public offices having dress codes or enacting laws against indecency. Even in western world where people can dress anyhow, i am yet to see any government functionary or office ladies half dressed to work .That why i think this human right of a thing dont always coincide with TRUTH. 1 Like |
Re: "Stop Touching Us" Campaigners Assaulted By Yaba Traders (Pics, Videos) by Babacele: 11:14am On Dec 16, 2018 |
Any society where women are not safe is a dangerous society. Nobody has the right to touch or grope at any woman without her consent no matter how provocative she may appear. It should irritate any sane mind that guys on our streets, at bus stops or market places touch our women unsolicited and even abuse, or beat them, when such women express their displeasure at being touched by these dirty folks. Haba! Won't such rogues rape if they have the opportunity? Many of these touts even join gangster organizations labelled 'cults ' and flaunt their credentials to intimidate some girls from talking when they forcefully sleep with them. I advise the leadership of the Market women to meet plan and report these ' yaba lefts' to the security agencies, the government, Driver Union leaders, the Human Right Commission , the UN and sister agencies, the ' area fathers' , the clergy , royal fathers and the press to warn them from harassing women henceforth . Some of us are ready to join them in subsequent protests mentally, legal wise, physically and materially to protect our mothers,gfs,wifes,sisters, friends and daughters from these bastards. Haha naa by force? 1 Like |
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