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Op, how much is your bride price? And please also send your dad's account number for me to pay it.

I hope they bring Ebola cure on their way back.

Werey lele yi o. Make dem inject am with Ebola make we hear word.

FG should "ban" Boko Haram first. If not, it all ends the same way.

Money answereth all things. party tins loading of course

For real??

Security clearance to access Jumia.

Well, I'm certain you've read lots of advice and there's a good chance you are getting more confused on what to do. From the tone of your writing, you desperately need to salvage this marriage. VERY IMPORTANT TIPS THAT CAN HELP.

- Were you ever close to any of his family members?? That alone is like having a man's spare-key in your purse. It helps a lot mor if that's the parent or siblings.

If you are, VERY GOOD. Call them and explain to them (passionately like you did to us) your fears and what you are going through and how much you love him and don't want to lose him.

- If you are not close to any of the family members, you can start by sending something for xmas (don't make this a habit though else it'll turn to a rite) then call them twice before breaking the story to them....IN TEARS.

- You must also learn to start operating calculatively and smartly with him rather than all this cry cry baby parole wey you dey.

If at the end of the day you couldn't get any of his family to support you, then you've lost the war. Start preparing for the after-effect. Make sure you RUTHLESSLY get ALL the investment you can from him.

Enigmatic icon: The world is changing fast..Celebrities are turning to something else..
What are your comments on this?

Please post the video for those saying it's not D'banj.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FrOAyyMk4tc

See the Video


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FrOAyyMk4tc

Are you kidding?? We can't even live peacefully with each other. We are racist even within our own race, religion and family. We are not matured enough for that at all.

By the way, where will they work?

cumpaddre: Ah dun lyk it.
OMG I shud've read the reviews on app world b4 rushing to download dat trash, its hanging my damn fone, I'm using a 9800, does any1 have an idea where I can download my old version back

DAMN, same thing is happening to me right now

otokx: They wang to reduce tarrif on a good that we produce and flood the market with foreign rice yet they want to increase tarrif on cars that we do not produce.

Goodluck is surrounded by very bad economic advisers.

Warn yasef, You just talk wetin dey my mind.....

4tunebest: Guess the sugar is replaced with sweetners like aspartame or acesulfame-K which is about 200 times sweeter than sugar, and of course, carcinogenic

Are you saying these sweeteners contains zero calories?

Also, I just Googled "carcinogenic" and all I could see is "Cancer Causing". Earlier, I had read an article on Reuters about Venezuela banning Coke Zero citing its danger to health

http://www.reuters.com/article/2009/06/11/us-venezuela-coke-idUSTRE5597K620090611

I want to find out about this cos I take coke zero a LOT.

Front Page pls - We need more insight on this.

Well, that's what Coke said but I'm not so sure. What do you think?

Watch Terry G go crazy on "Fire of Zamani" stage like you've never seen him before with a sick guitar performance.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oF09Xd3hhds

lol

ichommy: Am not Surprise, Prof of English #Yinmu Patrick, no dey carry last.

Abi o. Honorable is going commercial. As a sharp guy

In between performances, Ice Prince brought Jamal on stage and formally introduced him to everyone.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gYwjbIubzww

Watch lawmaker thrill Ice Prince fans by introducing Ice Prince at ‘Fire of Zamani’ concert in his usual fashion


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZR_2iRmPfBE

Thanks guys

I registered a business name while I was in Abuja early 2011, I moved to Lagos later that year and I haven't been using it for any transaction....now I want to. I need a TIN number from FIRS to open an account for the business name.

I was told that I will have to go get the TIN from FIRS in Abuja in order to do so.

Any ideas?

Thanks.

Google Nexus 4 had launched sometimes in November 2012, I preordered the sleek phone from US Playstore through a procurer (O & O Gadgets). The phone came sometimes Mid January (Shipping + purchase = 71,000 NGN) and I was just taking my time to move slowly from my yeye BB to this Android machine.....UNTIL

One unfaithful morning of Jan 2013.....

As the hustlers at CMS would have it, I had decided to leave home very early that morning (office is in VI), got to CMS and found out that there were no buses and you would have to fight your way into one. To cut the story short, my phone was moved from my pocket to an unknown destination while I was struggling to get into a bus. I still can't explain what I felt for the next 2 hours.

I got to the office and started Googling orisirishi , my hope lasted for about 3 days. I later swore to myself that I wouldn't buy a good phone until I bought a car.

IF CURSES WERE WISHES THAT WERE HORSES, THE GUY WHO TOOK IT WOULD BE DEAD BY NOW.

P.S Got the car 7 months after, still no new smartphone.....I'm still using my yeye BB

Two people meet, they get to know each other, become a couple, and one day somebody comes up with the bright idea of moving in together. It sounds great to them and they figure why not. They get to be with each other more, get a better idea if this is a person they may want to marry, and many times it can be helpful financially. So what’s all the fuss about? Why does question still seem to be a big issue? Well I think there are two ways to look at this. There is the non-spiritual perspective and the spiritual perspective. Those two perspectives won’t completely line up but here is my take on if you should live together before getting married with both perspectives in mind.

Non-Spiritual Perspective – HELL YES! Plain and simple it only makes sense to get a better idea of the person you may consider spending your life with. We all know very well that you can learn a lot more living together than you can when your significant other just spends a weekend at your place. People have discovered some disgusting habits and unbearable behavior after they started living with their boyfriend/girlfriend. Unfortunately people aren’t always keeping it real, and it takes living together to get the reality check you will need before you walk down that aisle. With that said, please understand that I do believe there are some risks involved. If you move in together too soon than people can get too comfortable in the relationship. If a woman is living with a man and providing wife benefits then realize you are taking the chance of decreasing his willingness to take it a step further. He already has all he wants without the higher level of commitment so he may feel it isn’t necessary to worry about marriage even though it is what you are truly hoping and waiting for. Also there is the risk of getting tied to somebody financially that you no longer want to be with. I have seen countless couples who came to recognize this was not the relationship for them but they found themselves stuck due to lease agreements, shared accounts, or simply the financial dependency they created by living together. That is not a situation you want to be in and should make you take pause when moving too quickly to live together.

Spiritual Perspective – Well according to many churches and believers in the Bible the answer is you should not live together. You should not be shacking up and it is wrong spiritually. The thing is I can’t seem to find that Bible verse. I have done my research and I have yet to find anything that specifically says living together is a sin or wrong before GOD. I looked around the internet and I can only find examples such as I found on this Christian site that still doesn’t provide scripture that specifically speaks against living together. What the church has done is made the assumption (a very fair one) that sexual relations will be involved in living together. So for those that are concerned with living in sin, the issue is not really your residence it’s that you are having sex before being married. Many times you find people who are engaged in sex relations because they have accepted it as part of the program. Yet they are torn on whether they should live together. Do you see how this is a little off? I am not here to condemn anybody I just want to help show that the positions of the Bible on certain issues are not always being accurately presented. So if doing wrong in the eyes of GOD is your concern, and you somehow can pull off living together without having any sex, then the case could be made that you are not doing anything wrong. On the flip side the case can be made why it is not best to take this step spiritually. You can read some valid arguments for that on “Living Together Without Sex”. You have to be honest with yourself about your situation. You know what boundaries you and your significant other can handle and will struggle with. In my opinion, just understand that worrying about living together in regards to sin when you are already having sex is defeating the purpose in not living together for spiritual reasons.

Personally I wouldn’t suggest living together unless you are already engaged. That decreases the chances of getting stuck with somebody you no longer want to be with, or a person getting too comfortable in the relationship. If you have a spiritual base and you are confused about if this is right before GOD then don’t simply rely on what I or your church has to say. Take the time to talk to GOD yourself and find out what he has to say. Read the bible for yourself, do some praying, and learn to trust your spirit. I can give you my input for days, but who knows better than me or you what you can truly handle and is best for you…GOD. Regardless of if you are non-spiritual or spiritual you have to learn to not follow what everyone else thinks is right or wrong. Many times we know what’s best even when we don’t want to fully embrace it. The choice of living together will come down to your personal beliefs. Just be aware of the good and bad associated with whichever choice you make.

Written By - Stephan Labossiere

Source => http://liveofofo.com/49678/cohabitation-living-married-wise/

I kept imagining how I would have reacted, I wouldn't lay my hands on her cos that's the fastest way for a lady to disrespect you (You must kill me today kinda drama) and it will never stop. I would have taken the yeye pot and flung it on a wall or break the window with it, go to my room, pack a few thing and get out. She won't see me in a month.

And she must apologize (sincerely) with all she can before everything can come back to normal.

Guy, you gats chop better liver and make sure your wife knows who is in charge. If you indulge her like this, soon you will be telling us how she slapped you for not washing her undies on time.

NA DIEEEE. I have never experienced electricity so poor, I've been spending 2k on generator at home in 3 days for the past 2 weeks.

ABEG MAKE DEM RETURN AM TO HOW E DEY BEFORE. Ishhhh

See video;


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cWBRXVwgTQw

1. To the non-believers who read this... There is a lot of hypocrisy in religion and some religious people but please do not let this trick of the devil to be used to drive you away from God.

2. The complexity of the universe is plain evidence to those open to see it that God exists. Science and faith are not contradictory but rather complimentary.

3. During the time we spend on earth all of us do wrong things, or sin to varying degrees, but no person is sinless

4. We will not be compared to one another to determine our salvation; in other words you might not be as bad as Hitler or a murderer but you are still a sinner who is not perfectly righteous in the sight of God which means we deserve hell

5. God doesn't want to send us to hell but his ultra perfect holiness demands payment for sins against his majesty.

6. God,in the form of Jesus Christ, being God, is able to take upon himself an infinite amount of sin and die for it all at once and the provision
is there for your forgiveness but you must choose it

7. This is called GRACE. You have until death to choose grace. Otherwise you get his fair eternal punishment on your sin and trust me you don't want that. God Bless